mistakes and judgements

[stevomarino]

It seems that people here who might say that they are openminded are rather judgemental. I posted that i had found a good domme who might run a seemingly money grubbing site. But i thought that there was more to her. turns out i was wrong, but alot of people attacked me accusing me of being a fake schill for her i wasnt. i was serious about finding a true domme to help control my life. People here jumped to conclusions and were wrong also. If ther is a true domme out there ready to control me please send a message.To the others who assumed the worst get lost.

[anon_artist]

You weren't attacked, you were warned.

I'm guessing you were burned by your god in the end?

[Adamoverjules]

I remember reading your post, and looking at her website and stuff, and I think that posters here were just trying to be a supportive community, which is pretty much what this is. I'm not saying that all Dom/mes are like that, but there are many that are, and, as a Dom, I feel almost responsible for submissives that are getting into something with Dom/mes that are fake.
I think you need to relax just a bit, and not try to bite back towards people that were just trying to help you out, thats what you're here for...support in a life that you are just learning about.

[Ruby]

Steve,

Can a group be open minded and judgemental at the same time? I say yes.

For example,
I can be opened minded to your kink, even though it's not mine.

Simultaneously, I can be very harsh and judgemental about anything that would put anyone in danger of permanent harm whether that harm be mental or physical.

To repeat anon_artist:
You were not attacked, you were warned.

I was rather brutal towards the actions your domme was asking you to take and I stand by my statements.

So, let's get back to you.

If you've come here to learn, teach and/or meet up with such a person, fantastic. Welcome!

If you haven't already done so, please introduce yourself in the personals section with the type of domme your seeking.

If was I seeking a new sub, I would want to know more about you than your former domme.

To your success, health and happiness,

Ruby