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what is the most humiliating thing(s) you have done?
ronnydesm
10-30-2005, 11:43 AM
what is the most humiliating thing(s) you have done?
Some years ago, we were on holiday in France, on a campingsite near a rather large wood. One day I talked my wife into getting naked while we were taking a walk. I ordered her to stay in the bushes, while I took her clothes and hid them in an other part of that wood. I told her she could come after me some 20 minutes later and after showing her the direction in which she should go, I left her.
Of course I followed her discretely with the camera in hand ! Once we passed a little lake, two boys and a girl, somewhat 18 yrs, saw her. Although Nicole ran as fast as she could, the youngsters caught up with her and started asking questions about her being naked.
Nici had to admit it was a game and then the boys started taking more and more intrest in my wife’s features. She had to permit them to fondle her; her tits and pussy were groped, but she refused having sex with them.
Once they left her, she resumed walking in the direction of the pond, where we met and made love like two teenagers !
The day after, we met these youngsters back at the swimming pool of the camping. Of course they recognised Nici and came sitting close to us. As the oldest of the boys started ‘remebering’ what happened the previous day, we had to take them back to our place ….
:rolleyes: :p
ronnydesm
11-06-2005, 08:08 AM
Perhaps I'm wrong, but isn't there anyone who will react to this ?
learningtopleez
11-06-2005, 11:54 AM
Hi ronnydesm!
Somwhow I had completely missed this!! And oh yes...how humiliating, yet exciting that must have been for your wife! She is quite beautiful too btw! :) I really can't imagine what I would have done if it had been me ordered to do that by my Dom! :eek:
The most humiliating thing I have had to do in public is touch myself in a bookstore! And then of course the time he lifted my skirt to show my ass to the entire shopping area and parking lot...anyone walking or driving by could have seen....but I was too busy getting lost in his kiss...so I was oblivious until it was over. :o
In private...he gave me my first enema...now that was humiliating! But what it lead to was quite wonderful! ;)
slo18
11-06-2005, 07:01 PM
I have to admit doing things isnt nearly as humilating for me as admiting things. while i can walk in a mall with my skirt tucked into my panty hose rather easaly admiting that i care for someone is increadably embarssing and humilating for me.
charlestudor
11-07-2005, 06:22 PM
Perhaps I'm wrong, but isn't there anyone who will react to this ?
Like i said before, beautiful!! :) Have you ever considered piercing those nipples--they look perfect for it. :eek:
ct
Katmandu
11-08-2005, 08:20 AM
My most humiliating adventure to date, has been the once or twice when my Dom has me remove my bra, and he unbottons my blouse to just below the boobs, and has me bending over and reaching in stores, so anyone nearby can get a glimpse of my breasts.
Actually, it's humiliating because I only have mosquito-sized breasts, and am in my 40's, so to me, it's like: who the hell WANTS to see my little bumps???
ronnydesm
11-09-2005, 06:02 AM
My story continues !
Once they were in the caravan, they started talking about nici’s body. How they had loved to feel her up. Reluctantly Nici let the two boys touch her up again. Very soon she’s topless and one of the boys suggests that she starts cleaning the tent in front in the nude. Afraid, but very aroused, she gets naked and starts to clean up the table just outside the caravan. As it’s very hot, the tent is completely open, and Nici would be seen by any passerby…
Once cleaned, she is ordered to make some coffee for the three youngsters. To get water, she has to run quickly behind the caravan, where we have a little container.
While she was cleaning, the girl asked me if I liked what I saw. She asked me where my camera was and started taking pictures. She asked me if I was excited. All I could do was nod. She suggested that I would get naked too ! My wife looked at me and told me that it would be fair for both of us to be in the same condition. I undressed and had to go outside for a smoke (!). Never I smoked a cigarette that tasted as awful as that one…. Every second I looked around. Once I had to hide behind the caravan, because some people passed by. Luckily for me they never noticed.
When they had their coffee, Nici had to stand outside, so they could admire her predicament. I was taken inside by, anny (the girl), so she could play with my dick. Immediately I got hard, but when she wanted to fuck, I refused, telling her that she couldn’t ask for unprotected sex with someone she didn’t know. I had to finger her to orgasm, while she slapped my cock as hard as she could. My grunting got her so hot that she shortly came very hard !
Nici was taken inside, and she too was ordered to bring both boys off. While she was jacking number one off, she had to let number two take advantage of molesting her tits, pulling on her nipples till she started crying. When the boy came all over her, she was ordered outside again to wash off all semen. Number two came a lot quicker, but still Nici had to endure a lot of pain when the other one, on his turn, ‘played’ with her nipples.
Finished, they left, not before telling us they would come back in the following days for more adventures.
We closed the door of the caravan and made love like animals….
By the way, my wife wouldn't want her nipples pierced - although I would love it - her job doesn't permit her to do things like that : they might notice them .....
usedHil25
11-09-2005, 11:35 PM
I have found that I dont get easily humiliated anymore.
But, probably the one that made me most uneasy was giving my brothers soccer team sexual rewards for each goal & assist they got in the year while he had to sit there & watch.
It was his birthday & the guys decided to get him a "birthday gift", what he didnt know whas in order to get his "gift" he was gonna have to sit thru an entire session of watching ME have sex with his teammates.
So they lined up, had their fun with me. At the end of the night the guys got together & bribed a cheerleader from his college that he liked with $620 to have sex with him. But he had to sit thru several hours of watching me get done first.
I was a little redfaced about that for awhile.
MrJerseyGuy
11-10-2005, 07:28 PM
A couple weeks ago my g/f and sub were at an impromptu party. It was supposed to be a canoe trip with a bunch of friends but we made the mistake of meeting at a bar. We wound up crashing another friends house in the area because he had a pool. Anyway, at some point I followed my g/f into the bathroom and we started going at it. We had a blast for about half an hour until we opened the door and saw the line of our friends that had formed waiting for the bathroom. They were all out there "listening". I still get comments about it.
ronnydesm
11-16-2005, 04:08 PM
What worried us most was that they took our camera with…. We started looking for the three the next day, but we couldn’t find them.
Two days later we saw them at the swimming pool of the camping. The girl immediately came to our spot and started some small talk. One of the two boys came by and told us that, if we wanted our camera back, we’d better be at the children’s playground sharply at six next morning. ‘By the way’ he said : ‘Better only wear shoes”… That night we could hardly sleep!
The next day we were up at five and half an hour later we sneaked out the caravan and carefully looking around if nobody saw us, went to the children’s playground. Before leaving I hid the key of the caravan by putting it on top of one of the wheels.
Nobody was at the playground, so we huddled together behind some bushes until we heard voices coming nearer. My heart skipped more than one beat when I looked up! Not only the three were coming toward us, but two more boys and another girl were joining them….
Once they entered the playground the other girl, Francine, gasped in disbelief: the things her friend anny told her were true! The two other boys started grinning and got closer to Nici, who tried to cover her breasts and pussy with her arms. I was too surprised to cover my privates at first and once anny took themin her hands, it was too late.
Playfully she took a string and wrapped it around my dick and balls and started to tie a nice knot around it. The other girl was very interested and examined my package very thoroughly!
Meanwhile the two boys told us that we looked a little out of shape. We had to do some exercises and they would take pictures of our workout. Both newcomers were fondling Nici’s tits and one of the boys even started putting a finger in her.
For the next half an hour we had to do sit-ups, climbing bars, using the swing…. When we were hanging on the bars they took every possible liberty they could get by pawing at our bodies. Finally the oldest one told us he was getting horny, so Nici had to masturbate them again. On her knees one by one stood before her and she had to jack them off, facing them. She was told to open her mouth, but she refused: she only kissed their cocks and liked their balls a bit. On the verge of Cumming, they ordered her to sit upright so they could aim their cum directly on her tits. With four loads of cum on her she looked messy.
The two girls didn’t leave me unoccupied. I had to eat both pussies. When I was serving one girl, the other one slapped my cock or pinched my balls so hard I couldn’t stop moaning. Francine was the meanest of the two: she tried to get her four fingers in my ass while biting down on my cock! I was so desperate I nearly started crying…
Once finished the two boys we met earlier, examined Nici’s pussy and saw she was very wet. They ordered her to sit down with her legs widely spread and pushed me between them to start licking her. They made me touch her tits, still wet with their semen. I even had to take her nipples in my mouth. The camera kept taking pictures! When Nici came, she could not hold her voice down, so the six of them looked around, worried if someone would have been in the neighbourhood. As a reward they made Nici give me a blowjob, but she also had to aim my cum on her tits. I nearly fell when I had my orgasm.
One of the girls looked at her watch and said it was already half past seven in the morning. Both Nici and I froze: No way we could get back at our caravan unseen!!
The two newcomers looked at us with a wicked grin: they were already looking forward to another humiliation. Luckily the two other boys told us we’d better hide in the woods next to the camping site until evening. Miserably we left the playground and fled into the woods. We had to stay there all day, without a drop of water or something to eat. Cuddled together we tried to sleep a bit, but the hours ticked by ever so slowly.
Finally it started getting dark but as it was a lovely evening, a lot of people stayed outside by the barbecue and we thought they would never go to bed! Once we couldn’t hear any voices outside we started to go back to our caravan. The outside lamp was shining when we arrived so I crawled to the wheel where my keys would be: they were gone! On the table outside lay a note and my cell phone. On the note was a phone number. When I called it, I heard anny on the other side: she asked us if we had a good time today. She took our keys and would come to us in half an hour. Those thirty minutes were the longest of my life.
When she came by, we quickly entered our caravan. There she told us she and her friends were leaving the day after. She brought back our camera and affirmed us that all the pictures taken were still on it. They had enjoyed the tricks they did to us, but were not planning to use this evidence or any other thing against us. She thanked us for a wonderful adventure and wished us all the luck in the world.
This adventure really changed our lives: now we go more than once a year to a naturist camping site. We love to walk around naked in nature, together with many people who share our preferences. We still get horny and we still have sex outside, but never with other people as spectators. However, you never know what the future might bring!?:D :D :D
ronnydesm
11-16-2005, 04:11 PM
I posted the third part some minutes ago, but it appears not to have reached the forum ?
Nikita
11-16-2005, 06:28 PM
My most humiliating adventure to date, has been the once or twice when my Dom has me remove my bra, and he unbottons my blouse to just below the boobs, and has me bending over and reaching in stores, so anyone nearby can get a glimpse of my breasts.
Actually, it's humiliating because I only have mosquito-sized breasts, and am in my 40's, so to me, it's like: who the hell WANTS to see my little bumps???
Kat, at least your tits won't sag...mosquito-sized breasts look great with rings on the nipples...ever entertained that thought?:D I dream about having rings. It would be easy for some to tug my heart. (did I say that?):eek:
Nik
learningtopleez
11-16-2005, 09:21 PM
Whew! *wipes drool from lips* Part three got here ronnydesm! Boy oh boy did it get here! What an awesome ending to your tale of humiliation! If I haven't said it before....you and your wife rock!! :)
ronnydesm
11-16-2005, 10:15 PM
I got horny all over again, remembering it all and writing it down.:D :D :D :D
Katmandu
11-17-2005, 06:14 PM
Question....if you both enjoy it so much, and truly aren't overly shy about it, is it really considered "humiliation"?
Yes, nikita, I've thought of the nipple ring idea, just afraid, with my infernal bad luck, that I would get a massive infection that would send blood poisoning to my heart and kill me. Hmmm, maybe the 'clip-on' kind? :-[
ronnydesm
11-18-2005, 09:44 AM
Well Kat,
We used to play sometimes naked in our backyard. Nobody could see us, so it spiced up our lovelife feeling the wind caress your body and we still felt safe.
This time I made Nici do something we never did before : being naked outside in a strange place and with practically no safeway out - except me being present (although she didn't know that at the moment).
Her clothes were not in my possession : and at the moment we were caught there was no possibility to cover up....
The mere fact of being seen totally nude for the first time was very humiliating at first - the things they made us do were also debasing us. It was only afterwards we realized it made us so horny.
The happy ending also made us more receptible for more outdoor play, but this time we chose to go to places where one wouldn't be noticed as being a pervert, only because he or she has no stitch of clothing on.
btw I can recommend naturism !!!!!! :p :p
Katmandu
11-20-2005, 06:39 AM
WHEW! Thanks a million, ronnydesm! I was afraid that you would take my question as sarcastic (it wasn't!). So many times we write something down in here, and it is interpreted the wrong way, since we aren't actually talking face to face and and can't see/hear/feel the actual intent of the other person.
Alright, that said, I see how it could be humiliating. What an excellent adventure you 2 had! I am a tad jealous. Very delicious! :D PLease keep us updated on your lives!
For those who get dismayed by threads like this not being answered, never fear, they are being read. Just watch the number of views rise. :-) A big thanks to everyone who's been brave enough to answer the question posed by Sirb. Who posted, then didn't spill the beans on any of his own life. Naughty, sir! Very naughty.
Kats of the beautiful body, you amaze me. Really. We've seen your pictures in the pictures thread and you don't give yourself enough credit. Your breasts are the perfect size and shape for so many delicious things. Who wouldn't want to take a look if your flashing?
* nods head and grins *
ronnydesm, that's quite an adventure you had with our lovely wife. Wow!
The one experience I'll share? Hmmmm...
That would be the time my partner pressed me up against our hotel room window to have his way we me and a couple of cars pulled over in the parking lot. The occupants got out to watch. Even though we were up about 10 floors, you could see the men angling for a better view. I wanted to close the curtain, but my partner just shook his had and said something clever to make me feel beautiful and sexy.
I can laugh about it now. At the time, I was mortified, turned on, but mortified!
Barton
11-20-2005, 07:02 PM
Thank you for your comments Ruby. I always tell Kats that any man would like to get a peek at her breasts as they are very nice.
And I do like to show my slave off !!
learningtopleez
11-21-2005, 12:45 PM
Gorgeous as always Barton!! That Kat of yours does have very suckable breasts! Yep...very suckable indeed!:p
charlestudor
11-21-2005, 06:59 PM
Barton--
they are very nice indeed! they make me want to exercise my sucking reflex and take myself back a time when it was appropriate to nurse such breasts.
ct
Thank you for your comments Ruby. I always tell Kats that any man would like to get a peek at her breasts as they are very nice.
And I do like to show my slave off !!
And such a lucky master you are.
Thanks for sharing more of the lovely Kats with us.
ronnydesm
11-22-2005, 01:19 AM
Dear mr Barton sir,
May I as well compliment you on the wonderful breasts your Kat has ?
It must be heaven to play with these !
I'm sure you know very many ways to please your slave ;) ;) ;) ;)
Katmandu
11-22-2005, 08:27 AM
*chuckles* Thanks folks, for the compliments. Actually ronnydesm, He complains because He wishes they were more like your wife's, inasmuch as we love bondage, but mine won't agree to that. A bit too small. Your wife, on the other hand, could be tied quite nicely! :D
ronnydesm
11-23-2005, 04:20 AM
But, dearest Kat, I do think that your master has a lot of things he still can do with your titties !
What kind of play makes you the hottest ?
:D :D :D
orchidsoul
11-23-2005, 04:41 PM
Oh Kats-
Those breasts surely can be bound... I'm always willing to help should you ever need :)
Chuckdom19
11-30-2005, 05:38 PM
First of all,
Kat, those breasts are gorgeous, and not at all 'mosquito sized'. I'd love a chance to play with and bind those beautiful breasts.
ronnydesm, you and your wife are very courageous, and lucky to have found those sneaky kids to play with! What a wonderful fantasy to have lived out... not to mention the chance to play with the youngsters!! You and your lovely wife had a wonderful adventure; I admire you both.
hawkwood_64
04-08-2006, 01:23 PM
Probably the most humiliating thing my Mistress ever made me do was making me lick up my own cum if I was allowed to have an orgasm. She made me lick it off the table, her shoes, out of her hand. Eventually she made me buy a little bowl at an antique shop especially for this use.
I would be required to do this at home in private with her, or even at the play parties with her group.
Later on, She even told some of our chat friends about this, and required me to do it on camera for them.
sexslave007
04-21-2006, 06:37 AM
my most humiliating adventure was when my lover piss in my ass in private[
Nikita
04-21-2006, 11:53 AM
my most humiliating adventure was when my lover piss in my ass in private[
Would you describe the feelings of humiliation when he did that? Also, how did it feel when he pissed in your ass?
I'm curious as I've read that others have done this, but they never explained or shed light on it further. Thanks in advance.
kamuishima
05-17-2006, 09:42 AM
The most humiliating thing my boyfriend ever forced me to do was to striptease in front of his friends. But what made it even worse was the fact that I still had the butt plug and dildo inserted in me from the day before and I was wet. I don't like to striptease in front of strangers since my physical attributes are very different from normal individuals (I am a hermaphrodite). Some of the guys freaked while the other guys started to grope me. I felt a like a common cheap whore. In the end my boyfriend patted me on the head and left me with his friends to do what they like with me. It was one of the worst humiliating experiences of my life.
Mistress M
05-17-2006, 09:28 PM
The most humiliating thing my boyfriend ever forced me to do was to striptease in front of his friends. But what made it even worse was the fact that I still had the butt plug and dildo inserted in me from the day before and I was wet. I don't like to striptease in front of strangers since my physical attributes are very different from normal individuals (I am a hermaphrodite). Some of the guys freaked while the other guys started to grope me. I felt a like a common cheap whore. In the end my boyfriend patted me on the head and left me with his friends to do what they like with me. It was one of the worst humiliating experiences of my life.
But was it also the most satisfying?
servent_o
05-18-2006, 11:30 AM
My most Humiliating thing was wen my Weife (Mistress} took me to the Tattoo Shop and told the Femal Tattoo Ladie tat i am Her slave and She wants my SRN Number tattoode an my Ass and Private property above my Shaved Dick in Red. Then the most Humiliation was ,she wans her initials Tattoot on the head of my Dick.My Weife wet outside with the Artist wen the came back the artist told me to stripe my Weife Handcufs me and the Laught the hole time.
Nikita
05-18-2006, 08:38 PM
My most Humiliating thing was wen my Weife (Mistress} took me to the Tattoo Shop and told the Femal Tattoo Ladie tat i am Her slave and She wants my SRN Number tattoode an my Ass and Private property above my Shaved Dick in Red. Then the most Humiliation was ,she wans her initials Tattoot on the head of my Dick.My Weife wet outside with the Artist wen the came back the artist told me to stripe my Weife Handcufs me and the Laught the hole time.
That sounds like a hot humiliation experience. Did it hurt when you got tatooed on the head of your dick?
servent_o
05-19-2006, 11:46 AM
Nikita yes it hurt, the moore it hurt the moore the laught.Next She wants Nippel Rings on Me and a Prinze Albert instahlt just cant wait Ha.
Nikita
05-19-2006, 02:21 PM
Nikita yes it hurt, the moore it hurt the moore the laught.Next She wants Nippel Rings on Me and a Prinze Albert instahlt just cant wait Ha.
I had some trouble with the last 5 words. Did you say 'installed just can't wait. Ha?'
Does that mean you want to be pierced? It sounds like you enjoy pleasing your mistress and will do whatever she tells you. Is that correct? :whip2:
If that is correct, you are a lucky sub and your mistress is having a grand old time with you.
servent_o
05-20-2006, 05:07 AM
Yes Nikita She is my Wife(Mistress) and she has my Signature an Her Slave Contract.I am her to serve in al forms.My Mistress told me to tell you,wen she is don with the Pierceing She sends you a Picture from Me.Her Slogan Males ar her to serve Females.
kamuishima
05-20-2006, 08:27 PM
But was it also the most satisfying?
No. At the time it was not satisfying. It was painful and humiliating.
Mistress M
05-20-2006, 09:14 PM
No. At the time it was not satisfying. It was painful and humiliating.
That is unfortunate. It was beyond what you were willing to submit to. I assume that now you know how to handle potential situations like that.
Humiliation in D/s and it's connection to self-esteem is difficult to dissect because of the very fine line that connects the two. The objective of responsible D/s is to be aware that the humiliation in play does not spill over into real life self-esteem.
jennyfer
05-21-2006, 01:51 AM
The most humiliating thing I ever did was fall down a manhole. I'm guessing that's not what you're looking for though. I wasnt even naked, or being groped by teenagers or anything.
disturbed
05-21-2006, 07:19 AM
The most humiliating time was when a cousin sister of mine made me masturbate in front of her friends. As i came they started clapping.
Coming to think of it now, it was also very pleasurable
Cor, I like this thread. I've nothing to add, except to respond to an earlier post wondering whether these threads are ignored - they're not if they're this good. Grins.
Well, I would like to do one thing - laugh heartily at jennyfer's comment!
Q x
Blue_Monday
05-21-2006, 07:38 PM
Someone mentioned earlier having a lover piss on their ass. I've done this in private and really enjoy it--I've been both the pisser and the pissee. :-) It's always been in the shower, so it's not really humiliating or dirty for us. It just feels warm and very intimate, and playful, like kids who aren't shy about using the toilet in front of each other.
My favorite little humiliation is having my bf come on my breasts. We did this just today in the shower--I knelt down and jacked him off onto my soapy chest. It's not genuinely humiliating, it just feels like kind of a dirty, slutty thing to do. Right up my alley!
katie_21
05-21-2006, 11:34 PM
hmm...well I've never really considered this part. I guess cause it's almost impossible to humiliate me lol.
(I do that enough by myself!!)
hmm...well I've never really considered this part. I guess cause it's almost impossible to humiliate me lol.
(I do that enough by myself!!)
Shows how little you know missy.:)
Tojo
Nikita
05-22-2006, 06:28 AM
Cor, I like this thread. I've nothing to add, except to respond to an earlier post wondering whether these threads are ignored - they're not if they're this good. Grins.
Well, I would like to do one thing - laugh heartily at jennyfer's comment!
Q x
Pardon my question Qmog, but does "Cor" mean?
Mistress Florence
05-22-2006, 09:55 AM
Cor is an English exclaimation like 'gosh' or 'golly'.. like 'cor blimey, that was a really good session Mistress' :o for an example
Thanks Florence! Yes, that was the context in which I used the word. Gadzooks, I do like using words like that.
Q xx
Warbaby1943
06-01-2006, 10:32 AM
My most humiliating and embarrassing experience was when I came while being spanked bent over the knee of a beautiful Mistress with my cock between her legs. She ordered me to lay this way. It just absolutely took me by surprise. It happened like as involuntary reflex, sort of like having a wet dream, I had no control. Maybe she knew this would happen but I had no idea it would. I had a lot of new experiences that day but cumming like that was very humiliating.
playme
06-13-2006, 10:44 PM
Not even going to get into what all the ex use to require me to do so excluding all that ----
after those days I'd say the one instance that stands out as more humilitating was one guy I served for a time had a thing about making me show myself to any one he wanted me to. His place was on one of the back holes of a private country club golf course. He'd put these hook thingies into the woodwork around back deck sliding window and oe of his kicks was to make me take off all my clothes and be tied spread edge to edge while he'd leave and run off to the store or what. When he'd get back he'd sit and have a drink or eat a snack and just sit and make me wait and squirm for a while before he'd eventually come over behind me where he couldn't be seen and take his sweet time having fun playing with my butt.
The house was a ways away from the green so I doubt the older players had good enough vision to truely know what they were seeing but a once in awhile the ball would overshoot the hole and more than one fellow who came after the ball get quite an eyeful and then some.
playme
06-13-2006, 10:45 PM
oops accident double posted
orchid
06-14-2006, 05:21 PM
i used to find it really humiliating when my Master would have me fellate him infront of His friends but now i quite enjoy it! ;)
gagged_Louise
06-17-2006, 04:33 PM
My most humiliating and embarrassing experience was when I came while being spanked bent over the knee of a beautiful Mistress with my cock between her legs. She ordered me to lay this way. It just absolutely took me by surprise. It happened like as involuntary reflex, sort of like having a wet dream, I had no control.
Warbaby 1943: Yes, I see how messy and humiliating that could be - just like that in this schoolboy position.
Being into crossdressing myself and letting that help my submissive side, in a wide sense, one of the more humiliating things I could think of (and not humiliating in a sweet way, nothing I'd want to see happen) would be if I were playing around, dressed en femme with panties, skirt, filled-in bra, lipstick etc with two or three others - guys or ladies. And then, as I'm getting stiff and erect - I try to avoid that happening all of a sudden - one of them would sort of break the rules and say in a cold, nasty tone "Yeah, look at that slaveboy, how you turned him on" and seizing my crotch. It's part of the game then that you want to be seen as a woman, you want no reference to anything else, you want to be fucked and caressed, made to surrender and treated as a woman, vene if it's harsh. "Dirty little whore" would be no problem , but never "slave boy" in that state.
Scorpio'sWill2Power
06-17-2006, 05:11 PM
Not even going to get into what all the ex use to require me to do so excluding all that ----
after those days I'd say the one instance that stands out as more humilitating was one guy I served for a time had a thing about making me show myself to any one he wanted me to. His place was on one of the back holes of a private country club golf course. He'd put these hook thingies into the woodwork around back deck sliding window and oe of his kicks was to make me take off all my clothes and be tied spread edge to edge while he'd leave and run off to the store or what. When he'd get back he'd sit and have a drink or eat a snack and just sit and make me wait and squirm for a while before he'd eventually come over behind me where he couldn't be seen and take his sweet time having fun playing with my butt.
The house was a ways away from the green so I doubt the older players had good enough vision to truely know what they were seeing but a once in awhile the ball would overshoot the hole and more than one fellow who came after the ball get quite an eyeful and then some.
Now in my view something like this is not what I'd think would be
the focus or lynch pin that secures the bond between
D/s-Master/slave.
This sounds more like a one way situation to boost
the master's ego and possibly reaffirm his own image
in his mind and not really doing much justice in the true sense
of a D/s relationship.
I'm not saying you're anywhere at fault in this Playme, I just happen
to think your master was off the mark in what his overall aim was.
It doesn't sound like he was giving you much to feel good about
yourself in serving him and that has to be a part of things as well.
I believe there has to be a sense that although someone assumes
the sub role they also need to gain something in return and not be
there solely to validate a master's role in his mind or those who
might view his actions.
I stress this again that I'm not faulting Playme in this in anyway,
just an opinion that I think she didn't get what she sounded to
be worthy of receiving in a D/s-slave realtionship.
I'll even go so far as to say that this type of activity has its
merits and can be enjoyed by both provided both are receiving
some benefit from it and it's not done with solely the master
in mind.
playme
06-18-2006, 02:12 AM
Sir, I am humbled by the kindness shown in your thoughts.
I'm no longer in service to the man, partially due to the reasons you pointed at, partially due to him finding a new "toy" to get his kicks from. But surly I digress... sorry
I've moved well beyond serving myself up to those who delights have only risen to a height that is easily derived by use of such hmmmm "childish" games.
It was a far greater decesive moment which formed the bond that will forever hold me and keep me deeply committed and endeared to remain with the One I am in service to today.
As maybe you've picked up if you've read any couple of my previous posts -- I feel I am mose keenly aware than some of what diferences there are between good and evil, right and wrong, being under respectable control and subjected to forceful inflictions of abuse.
The irony is that it took going through the bad experiences to gain the depth of understanding how good the good really is.
It makes for a complete new mindset and a more comfortable willingness to give myself freely and willingly up to the One I know without doubt I can trust not to do me wrong in prcess of doing His things.
It's not about games and power and being held reign AT ALL. .
Point blank, bottom line it's about respect and trust and that is all.
The rest is left to what ever I am required to give of mysef to see His pure pleasures be taken as ever as He may so desires to have me take them.
I thank you again Sir. I hope those under your control understand the significance of having found themelve held by in hands with such good grace and heartfelt compassion as yours.
Scorpio'sWill2Power
06-18-2006, 03:11 AM
Sir, I am humbled by the kindness shown in your thoughts.
I'm no longer in service to the man, partially due to the reasons you pointed at, partially due to him finding a new "toy" to get his kicks from.
I thank you again Sir. I hope those under your control understand the significance of having found themelve held by in hands with such good grace and heartfelt compassion as yours.
Thank you as well Playme for sharing a part of what's inside your
heart through your posts here.
For being brave enough to see through clear eyes and know even
in D/s that caring and compassion go hand in hand with
honor and obedience. :exellent1
Misato36
06-21-2006, 10:40 AM
The most humiliating thing that my master did to me included his best friend. My master had told me to get myself ready in his room which I did by stripping myself and then starting to fondle myself. My master always liked me prepared for him. Several minutes later he came and told me to blinfold myself. I complied and allowed him to cuff me to the bed post. He then told me that he would return in five minutes and would fuck me but that I would not be allowed to talk to him. I agreed and five minutes he returned and fucked me senseless. I was surprised because he was very rough and harsh. He would usually arouse and play with me but he did no such thing this time. After he finished he took off my blind fold to reveal not my master but his best friend. My true master smirked and explained that I truly belonged to him and that he could do whatever he wished with me. I was humiliated because I felt violated.
Silke
06-21-2006, 06:00 PM
...yet again my question - did you enjoy the humiliation or did you feel violated as you said? The scenes you describe are really hot...I'm just wondering whether you got anything out of them. Somehow it doesn't sound like that to me from what you say, but I might be waaay off on that. I'd love to know more - thanks for sharing yet again.
sarahgetswet
06-22-2006, 02:14 AM
My most humiliating adventure to date, has been the once or twice when my Dom has me remove my bra, and he unbottons my blouse to just below the boobs, and has me bending over and reaching in stores, so anyone nearby can get a glimpse of my breasts.
Actually, it's humiliating because I only have mosquito-sized breasts, and am in my 40's, so to me, it's like: who the hell WANTS to see my little bumps???
me me me - i love small breasts
Misato36
06-26-2006, 09:54 AM
...yet again my question - did you enjoy the humiliation or did you feel violated as you said? The scenes you describe are really hot...I'm just wondering whether you got anything out of them. Somehow it doesn't sound like that to me from what you say, but I might be waaay off on that. I'd love to know more - thanks for sharing yet again.
At first I was extremely angry with him. I argued with him about it but he later punished me for my behavior. I told him that I would have felt better if he had warned me or consulted it with me. He merely laughed at me and then fucked me. I learned to get over it since I was a sub and he was master. I learned that he complete control over me and didn't question him again.
Silke
06-26-2006, 10:07 AM
Phew, I guess my idea of being a sub is just at the other end of the spectrum...I'd have kicked his balls if he had treated me like that. I'm not even talking about the scene but how he treated you afterwards. Aftercare probably wasn't in his vocabulary, neither was respect, huh? How long did you stay with him?
heycarrieanne
06-26-2006, 04:30 PM
Humiliation can be a terrific turn-on while also being the worst thing ever!!! The first time Master Joseph (my ex-Master) shared me I was horrified and yet so wet his friends' cocks had problems staying in my cunt. I also lost count of the orgasms I was allowed to have. (grin) Being called bad names is also a turn on...but he only did it during sex or punishment sessions because, as we all know, if you are called a cunt or slut or whore ALL the time it can be bad on your self-esteem.
Dominantdog
07-03-2006, 04:30 PM
The most humiliating thing I ever did was fall down a manhole. I'm guessing that's not what you're looking for though. I wasnt even naked, or being groped by teenagers or anything.
PWORE IT GETS MY VOTE