Quick, Simple Question

[deadlyteabag]

My gf and I are really into cumplay and humiliation, and we would like to try one new idea we've been thinking of for a while.

Essentially, I want to cum in her panties and them make her wear them out in public afterwards. This is going to sound amusing paranoid, but she's on the pill and I'm concerned about pregnancy. The reason is that she's on the pill but her period isn't regulated. So, there are two questions, really. I'm no doctor, but it seems that the pill not regulating her period might mean its not working. Does anyone know anything about that?

Also, even if it isn't working, what are the odds of sperm managing to travel into her vagina and all the way to the egg from inside her panties.

Thanks in advance!

[Ruby]

Essentially, I want to cum in her panties and them make her wear them out in public afterwards. This is going to sound amusing paranoid, but she's on the pill and I'm concerned about pregnancy.

TeenHealthFX says:
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Sperm are alive and active as long as they are wet. If your partners' hands are still wet or damp, you could get pregnant. Sperm are very determined little creatures. Active sperm placed near the vagina can find their way into the body to fertilize the ovum. Pregnancy can and does happen this way.

Semen dries up when it is exposed to air. As it does, the sperm will be neutralized and die. Washing your hands with soap and water will also get rid of the active sperm. This would be a good practice to get into if you and your partner are going to engage in digital stimulation (fingering). Hand washing also helps prevent the spread of bacteria and other germs.

My advice, get out the trusty hair dryer and dry those panties before you make her wear them.

Now about the pill and pregnancy, those are excellent concerns. If you want to up the "safe sex" quotient and minimize the pregnancy chances, you may want to add a condom to your playtime.

[deadlyteabag]

Well, we're usually pretty safe. I guess I was looking to know if anyone knew if not regulating a woman's period indicated that the pill wasn't working. She plans on going to the doctor again to try and ask, but they usually tell her just to be 'more regular' with taking it, even though she takes it within a 5 minute window every day.

[phragmites]

Is she on the 28 or the 21-day kind of pill? Really they're the same except the 28-day packs have 7 dummy pills for the days when you have your period... some have lower doses of the hormones in the dummy pills, too. Maybe she should change pills -- there are several forumulations out there. Some people react better to some than others. If she's really taking them as directed there should be no irregularity of more than a day either way: after stopping taking the active pills, in a few days bleeding should start.

The way the pill works, it doesn't let you ovulate. So really, the bleeding that occurs on the dummy-pill days (or the days without pills for the 21-day packs) isn't a "real" period: there's no egg to flush out. Pharmaceutical companies really just have those off days to a) let you know you're not pregnant and b) make you feel like a normal woman. Technically one could take the active pills every day and not have a period: I've done it once (for my honeymoon) though, of course, don't do this without consulting your doctor.

Hope that helps? She should talk to her physician if you're worried, and see about changing to a new brand of pill.

[deadlyteabag]

Yeah, I think she's going to have to talk to her doctor about changing it again. It's not the first time this has happened and she's changed the pill. Sometimes her period will come the second week into her period, even. It'll be anywhere between two and one week before it should, even considering the dummy pills.

[Rabbit1]

Well any dr will tell you that the pill like other forms of birth control is not 100%----Ruby seems to have a good answer---hair dryer on the sperm---live sperm has a way of doing unpredictible things---

[georgia_smith_writer]

if she's on the pill it should be safe. but if her periods are all over the place she should get it checked out.

[mali]

It really does depend on the kind of pill she's on; the best thing to do would be to do what Ruby said, use a hair-dryer, and see your doctor to be certain.

[Lavender]

dont go on dinanett i was on that and it messed my period up even more than it was, i like the idea of cumplay though i will try with my bf !!!!

[Mistress Florence]

I suppose the whole fun of wearing come soaked panties would be the wet stickiness, so a hairdryer would take that all away. Come-play sounds awfully fun, but in my opinion and case, it's not worth the risk. Whatever you decide, have fun. If I ever decide to have children and get pregnant I am going to make the most of my time, with lots of sticky fun.

[Rhiannon]

Could you not have some "pre-prepared" panties for her to wear? ...what I mean is do the whole ejaculation into her panties, then out of sight swap them for an identical pair with something like KY in them?... same feeling, right down to it all getting very sticky!

Rhiannon

[Hime]

If the pill is not working for her, and her ob-gyn assumes it's her fault and won't look into switching to a different pill, I would suggest that she SWITCH DOCTORS. In retrospect, that was a big warning sign that my previous ob-gyn did not know what she was doing, and if I'd realized at the time that that was not a good sign, I would have spared myself a serious infection that eventually led to a week-long cancer scare.

Women are often brought up to assume that everything's their fault and not to question authority figures, for fear of being labeled neurotic, bitchy, or a Munchausen's patient (in medical situations). I enjoy being submissive in my sexual life, but allowing that attitude to be taken advantage of in a medical case can lead to serious consequences. If her pill isn't regulating her periods, it isn't working properly, and it is her doctor's job to find one that does.

/rant off

[kitten529]

Have her go on the patch. No pill to remember to take, and she only hcanges it once a week and it's fantastic.

[whippedcream]

Hi. I'm on Ortho Lo, which is one of the ones with a week of dummy pills. I find my period routinely comes earlier than it should - sometimes up to a week earlier. My doc said to be sure I was taking all my pills at the same time of day instead of whenever I felt like it, and that helped. Time also helped. In the first year or so on the pill the irregularity is more common.

My doc said that as long as I'm up to date with my pill, I can't get preggers no matter how much I start bleeding. You could call a doctor, or possibly even the pill company, and ask about it.

I can see how the hair dryer would eliminate some of the oozy goodness... what about spermicide gel?