fisting consequences

[trenchmeat]

I'm into some serious ass play (fisting , large objects, etc.) and of course my ass is loose now, and sometimes I get an "ass sweat" sensation which is just moisture or mucous escaping. I know this from medical research. Every once in a while I overhear people at work or school make comments about a stink or how I walk like a "fag". (I'm actually straight.) I think the walking thing is just because I'm bowlegged but I'm concerned about a possible body odor, especially after I work out. I like ass play but I'm wondering if I should see a protologist and get a "tightening operation" performed. I'm sure the things people say are true and not in my head, but it's never quite loud enough for me to be positive. I wonder if I'm going schizo like my Aunt. Are there any people here who are into fisting, or know anything about this condition? I feel like I'm loosing my mind, and I hate that people in the world are not open minded and accepting of others. It would comfort me to talk to others in this scene, I feel so alone in the world......

[Ruby]

Welcome to the forums!

Are there people here into fisting? Yes. They just haven't come out to introduce themselves. Search on fisting or anal sex and you'll find more threads scattered in this forum.

You may want to invite private messages for the shy-er members of this community who would be willing to share common concerns.

Hoping you find a few friends here,

Ruby

[jiggy]

Trenchmeat fisting is NOT healthy for u or your body...........try something else

[subdude05]

Now now Jiggy, be a little more constructive than that

[Ozme52]

Got to agree with that dude... cuz neither is cigarettes, alcohol, waxing, piercing, needleplay, etc., etc., ad infinitum.

So if it floats your boat and it's concensual, then what you choose to do or have done to your own body is fine by me.

[Misato36]

My master used to enjoy anally fisting me but I never suffered from this problem. The worst problem I had was the bleeding.

[Ozme52]

Well, bleeding implies tearing and that's not good because of potential infection.

Tread lightly, go gently into the dark....

[Tae'lyn]

A few things I found in journals for you.


Anal sex encompasses a variety of commonly practised sexual activities. Although there is nothing remarkable about them in practical terms, there are taboos surrounding them that may arouse strong feelings of moral indignation and anxiety. It is important to remember that while some people find these activities repugnant, others may find them stimulating, exciting, and a normal part of their sexual intimacy.

Anal sex may include the following activities:

anal intercourse - penetration of the anus with the penis or, possibly, with a dildo or vibrator.
fisting - insertion of the fingers, hand, or even the forearm, into the anus.
rimming - oral contact with the anus for sexual stimulation.

Who does it?
There is a common misconception that anal sex is practised almost exclusively by gay men. This is certainly not the case. An estimated one third of gay couples do not include anal intercourse in their lovemaking with about one third of heterosexual couples doing so from time to time. About 10 per cent of heterosexual couples have anal intercourse as a regular feature of their lovemaking. In absolute numbers, more heterosexual couples have anal sex than homosexual couples.

Fisting

This involves the insertion of the whole hand or forearm into the anus or vagina for sexual stimulation. With adequate relaxation it is physically possible and may be acceptable and enjoyable for some couples. But the diameter of the hand or forearm is so much greater than that of the penis there is an increased risk of anal injury. Good anal relaxation in the receptive partner and care by the insertive partner are essential.

I really did look all over in medical journals; I could only find one that stated that because of the increased ability to relax the sphincter muscles may increase the chances of leakage only because of the relaxed state. Almost all said the anus was resilient enough to bounce back from any stretching.

I did find some more ignorant type stories. Mainly from ultra conservative types that would look down on anything we see as acceptable. I also found a few stories from people who have participated in fisting for 15 years and have never had any long term issues.

Maybe you are thinking people are speaking about you because you know the activities you participate in, and wonder if they suspect, especially because anal activities are often associated with homosexuality. Seeing as you are a straight male, it would be natural to be confused about your pleasure gained from fisting. I assure you though, that many men enjoy anal stimulation from male or female partners.

I am sure many of us wonder if people know what we are into just by looking at us. Be yourself, be safe. And if it makes you feel better, clean often so you know for yourself you aren't having any odors.

Any other questions and I could send you some of the information I was able to find.

Tae'lyn

[Warbaby1943]

I am sure many of us wonder if people know what we are into just by looking at us.
Tae'lyn
Hi trenchmeat and :welcomebo to the forums. As you're finding out, people here are very helpful. Enjoy and I hope you get your answers.

Tea'lyn,
It appears not if response to a thread I once posted asking that very question is any indication. I think it was "Can you be identified."

[Silke]

I am sure many of us wonder if people know what we are into just by looking at us.


It appears not if response to a thread I once posted asking that very question is any indication. I think it was "Can you be identified."

To me it's also a bit of a mind game...when I'm doing a task in public and get into this kind of thinking (do they KNOW I'm doing X??) it adds to the excitement. :D

[Tae'lyn]

Tae'lyn,
It appears not if response to a thread I once posted asking that very question is any indication. I think it was "Can you be identified.

I just went back and read the thread. There was some interesting points, but it really just came down to "people may suspect, but would never know unless you told them, or they see you in the act" I think in this case it is probably just Trenchmeat feeling different than others at work and school, making it harder with the coworkers and peers commenting on whether or not he walks different.


To me it's also a bit of a mind game...when I'm doing a task in public and get into this kind of thinking (do they KNOW I'm doing X??) it adds to the excitement.

Trenchmeat, don't feel like you are the only person out there that enjoys a more sexually diverse behaviour, you are far from alone out there.

Silke, great way to think of it.

Tae'lyn

[Haelix]

Trenchmeat, I think it pretty much goes without saying that with the massive collection of interesting, very open-minded people on this board... you're far from alone. Welcome to the forums.


And Ozme...

Well, bleeding implies tearing and that's not good because of potential infection.

Tread lightly, go gently into the dark....

That is the best quote I've heard in a LONG time hahaha I want a shirt that says that... "Tread lightly, go gently into the dark" thats right up there with my idea for a "Cougar Bait" shirt... We'll make bazillions!


Yarrrrr!
<3Haelix

[Widget]

That is the best quote I've heard in a LONG time hahaha I want a shirt that says that... "Tread lightly, go gently into the dark" thats right up there with my idea for a "Cougar Bait" shirt... We'll make bazillions!


Yarrrrr!
<3Haelix[/QUOTE]

Cougar Bait... hahaha nice

[Ozme52]

Trenchmeat, I think it pretty much goes without saying that with the massive collection of interesting, very open-minded people on this board... you're far from alone. Welcome to the forums.


And Ozme...


That is the best quote I've heard in a LONG time hahaha I want a shirt that says that... "Tread lightly, go gently into the dark" thats right up there with my idea for a "Cougar Bait" shirt... We'll make bazillions!


Yarrrrr!
<3Haelix


Thank-you, thank-you very much...