Mariko's Training & Development

[manshimajin]

Quite a number of years ago now I was living in Tokyo and like many westerners had a Japanese girlfriend.

At the time Mariko was in her 30s and had made that decision common amongst Japanese women that she was better off not forming a long term attachment to a local male. As I got to know her more it turned out that she had many of the prejudices that seem to prevail in Japan (and still do) - particularly when it came to the idea of sex with non-Japanese, non-caucasian men who she looked down on. I gathered that these attitudes had been instilled in her during her childhood by a disciplinarioan and nationalistic father - who had spent much of WWII with the Japanese military in China. Perhaps you can get the drift... but it was not unusual to find this view just under the surface.

I decided that it would be both challenging and enjoyable for me to gradually change her viewpoints by exposing her to the types of experiences that she saw as beneath her.

The first photo from that time was one I took in our apartment. One of her most enticing features was her beautifully shaped rear. I began my scheme for training her by working on this, developing a sense of her buttocks as a sensual and erotic zone - preparing for the day when I would deflower her anus. it was rather like waiting for the right time to drink a good wine - much of the pleasure is in the anticipation. Whilst she continued to refuse this form of sex the concept was being built in her mind. I had also been working on a more traditional Japanese sexual activity, bondage.

One day when the time was right I used the situation of having Mariko bound face down and buttocks raised to take advantage of this offered. Despite her protests and growing panic I worked my erection hard in her crack knowing it was now or never. After some minutes of working on her and trying to gain entry into her tight passage against the resistance she was attempting, I managed to line up OK, pushed hard and felt the clenched muscle of her sphincter suddenly yielding to my pressure. I tried to make it as comfortable for her as possible but Mariko's groans made it clear that she did not enjoy the loss of her anal virginity. That evening I left her tied and sated my previous frustrations by taking her several more times in her rear.

The next stage of her training was to be introduced to sex with other men which we worked on slowly. The photo of her spreadeagled was taken at the start of a Friday night session with four friends. That particular session went on sporadically until the next morning. On some occasions I would remind her of the humiliation people like her father had visited on the Chinese and tell her to imagine herself being serviced in the same situation. It was always interesting to see and hear her reaction to being taken this way by a number of men. Her responses were that classic BDSM mix - the panic at not being in control mixed with the thrill of being forced into accepting what others wanted to do to her.

Group sex inevitable also moved to exposure to men of other raical backgrounds - something else that she resisted at first but gradually learned to accept. The first few times that she was taken by coloured guys can best be described as fearful submission on her part.However the miv of group sex, bondage and anal experience got to the point of her being able to accommodate, with some difficulty, anal sex with Afro-American guys from the Yokosuka naval base. It was also quite an experience for them as they normally found themselves being rejected by Japanese women.

At about this time, given her previous haughtiness, she was also introduced to double penetration as a way of demonstrating her submission and humility. In the end she had plenty of experience this way - never entirely willingly but accepting the training.

All of this eventually turned Mariko into a person with much broader sexuality and taught her to show respect and servitude to people she had looked down on in her past.

In our older years we still enjoy a varied sexual life based on these experiences - though even now she tries to avoid offering her still shapely behind for me to pleasure!

[wingsofanangel]

BEAUTIFUL pictures. They are not.. at all.. porn like. They really look like art. You have captured something wonderful here. She indeed is VERY VERY lovely... her body is beautiful. Kudos to you for expanding her horizons... and those lovely ass cheeks!!!

I LOVE these pictures!

Anya

[manshimajin]

Thank you Wingsofanangel for your thoughtful messsage.

You are kind to say that the photographs do not seem pornographic to you and to admire her body - which was and still is, in my eyes at least, beautiful.

Mariko's training obviously involved elements of bondage and submission for her to experience forms of sexuality that she was culturally nervous or negative about. At the same time I was not trying to use violence to force for example anal or interracial sex on her. After working on different new sexual ideas we often used bondage as the final step in breaching the barriers that she had from her upbringing and to overcome any final nervousness at yielding. In a funny way it really did combine East and West - with the various forms of ropework being very Japanese and widening sexual expriences and experimentation very much a Western approach.

When she had learned to accept and enjoy new forms of sexual activity BDSM then became, and still is, part of our mutual ways of yielding and pleasuring each other. I think it is a way that Mariko can stay true to her roots whilst allowing things to happen that she would never do in her Japanese mind.

[Ruby]

She is stunning.

The photos capture her emotions as well as her beauty.

Thank you for sharing these wonderfully erotic images.

[manshimajin]

I thought that you both may like this photograph of Mariko overcoming her prjudices.

[wingsofanangel]

again beautiful...

I'd love ot see as many as you can share..... whose the white gentleman in the first set of pictures? He is riding her from behind...

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

He was a European guy who was working in Tokyo at the time - we got to know both him and the other man quite well as they lived in the same district and we'd see them at restaurants and bars. They jumped at the idea of sessions with Mariko. This one was in a hotel room we rented for an evening.

Others may find it a bit strange but I found it exciting and erotic to see her yielding to other men (and bringing them to unstoppable fever pitch)- particularly knowing her cultural background and having a fair idea of what was going through her mind as they entered her body, worked it frantically and finally climaxed in her.

[wingsofanangel]

Interesting.. its really a neat story...

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

Some more photos of Mariko that I hope you enjoy seeing.

As mentioned we sometimes practiced bondage as a way of trying out new activities or overcoming the final barriers that she felt.

Naturally I am biased but I reckon in many ways her femininity was emphasised when she was in these types of submissive positions.

Let me know if you would like me to post any more of her.

[Sir_G]

Very nice Manshimajin, beautiful photography, a beautiful sub what more can you ask for except more pics please.

Also can you enlighten me as to the translation for your handle. Many thanks.

Greg

[wingsofanangel]

Once again incredible.

she has lovely nipples BTW.

Keep em comin!

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

Gregsta and Wingsofanangel thanks for your messages. That is one of the great things with a forum - reading how others react to situations you have experienced.

Gregsta you say 'what more could you ask' - to be honest not much! I am very lucky. As I said to Wings ofanangel before, others may think it odd of me, but it has been a fantastic experience for me to have had Mariko as a partner and to have watched her learn new things and to have seen her yielding to others in ways I could never have anticipated when I first met her. I know others will object, but seeing Mariko held tight and penetrated between two rutting men for their pleasure and often with a touch of ambivalence about her own responses and feelings, was always a real turn on. Her submission to this and other things was in some ways sacrificial – her hesitant gift to my pleasure. Lucky!

Thanks wings for your kind comments - please excuse my lack of knowledge but what is the meaning of BTW?

I'll see if I can attach some more pictures which show aspects of Mariko in different feeding situations - hope that you like them. I am not sure if the clip will attach - I use a viewer called VLC media player that seems to be handy for most things like this. (It didn't attach - sorry for that). I have attached another photo of Mariko in the early days of our relationship when she was quite innocent and I had not had the chance to train her into some of the more western sexual activities (hope you like it anyway).

PS manshimajin is part Japanese, part European - like my relationship - shima is island, jin is person and man is the name of an island where I once lived .

[wingsofanangel]

btw- by the way.

Sorry, hehe. I try not to use PC talk, but it slips in sometimes.

I REALLY love the picture of your girl eating... that little come hither smirk she has it too PRECIOUS! She appears to be a real gem. You must be quite a Dominant to be able to mold her in such a way.. yet not break her. Kudos to you both.... a wonderful example!

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

Thanks for the explanation - I am a bit behind the times with computer terminology!

I am really glad you liked that photo - sometimes an "ordinary" situation can be very erotic - when I return to that photo of Mariko I keep remembering that it was not always cake that she ate!

I am not sure how dominant I really am - I do not know other peoples experience but I always wondered if it was a mix of dominant and masochistic?

It was great to get Mariko to do the things she eventually ended up doing and to feel I could move her down that path. It was also an enormous stimulation to see other men climaxing in her and to be able to watch her mixed reaction to this.

But sometimes I wonder if I also was controlled by the situation. Watching other men (please pardon the expression but I think it may be appropriate in context) fucking my partner had a sensation at times of "rape fantasy" and me being a "victim" about it - the "forced to watch" syndrome. I wonder what others think.

Still somehow it worked out for us and we are still together.

I thought you might like these photos - one getting her prepared for a session and another when we were in the Phillipines on holiday. Mariko did not have much say whether or not Maybe one dominant and one a bit ambivalent?

[wingsofanangel]

I love these too... Guess I love all the pictures you took!

so how long have you been together?

are you husband and wife now? or D/s or.. ??? something else? Anyway congrats to lasting so long and really sticking together.

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

I just happened to open the file and saw your message - many thanks.

We have been together now for over 20 years as married partners in crime! It seems to have gone by too quickly!

I hope that these photos are ones that you will also like. You mentioned Mariko's come hither look which I think shows up here. Being Japanese I am not sure that she thinks of herself as a 'come hither' person but both I and the men with whom we have had sessions over the years would agree with you.

I included the one of her in the onsen as its a favourite place for us but also I simply think that she is very erotic from the rear with or without company - biased!

Looking at other topics in the forum is this thread OK to pursue - I was wondering if it is suficiently in line with what members normally prefer?

Regards

Manshimajin

[wingsofanangel]

Oh of course! Its a lovely thread! A lot of people here either prefer not to look at pictures... some prefer more.. hardcore.. and some maybe don't like... antiqued looking pictures? i dunno..

I think they are awesome either way. You two have been together as long as I have been alive hehe.

And yes, she has a wonderful come-hither stare.. its beautiful and charming!

to be honest... usually asian women don't really... appeal to my eyes... ( i am not a lesbain either.. just like to look at women :) )

like i see asian porn and stuff and its like... eh... but she has something about her... very very captivating. Perhaps her spark and fire come through in the photos? She seems to have a real zest about her. Be proud of her...

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

Thanks - I am proud of Mariko and the way she has done things really for me.

Attraction is a strange thing - too deep for a short message! Mariko has a great personality and is not a typical Japanese woman - her attitudes have become more and more open. I am no psychologist but the inner workings of the mind often seem to become visible in the external person... getting philosophical in my old age.

Please don't take this the wrong way - but I am amazed at what you say about your age - you think in a very interesting, experienced and sophisticated way - and, yes, I know that is not just the realm of the over-40s and 50s!!!!

[Silke]

Oh my God, just found this thread! Please, please, PLEASE keep your stories and pictures coming! They are wonderful and truely an inspiration. :)

[wingsofanangel]

Its good that you cherish Mariko. Even though she does not act like a typical japanese woman now.. I am willing to bet she's always had a fire a bout her. You can see it in her eyes, a glimmer... even when submitting she has this look of " i will not be broken" i love it.

and thank you for the comment about my age. To be honest.. sometimes around here I feel so un-intellectual... and like a lil kid playing in an adult world. I understand the D/s scene quite well I think... I am just naive sometimes and unexperienced in certain aspected of life... but in others I am well beyond my years. Its hard to feel... "adult" or like I blend in though.. sometimes... but I am trying. So thank you for your comment.. it means a lot :)

Sera (anya)

[wingsofanangel]

Pix just got approved...

#2.. is AMAZING... that is realllllllly a beautiful picture. I love the water reflecting on her bum. Her body has a wonderful.... profile? Is that the word?

and again... in Pic 3... there is that smirk... I would love to know what was going through her head. She is captured wonderfully in pictures.

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

Thanks to both of you for your messages - Wingsofanangel and Silke.

I should be replying seperately but am not technical enough to do that! Can you advise?

WOA you sound to be a fascinating combination of youth and experienced. I think most of us looking back wish we had the vitality and spirit of youth and the experience of years...just think, you may be achieving what the rest of us would have liked to have been.

Silke, your comments are appreciated - it would be great to hear more of your thoughts. As you can probably tell from the messages between WOA and me I was a bit concerned that our experiences were perhaps not deep enough into BDSM for group members.

Neither Mariko nor I are into hard pain type activity (I learned to back off quickly when we tried nipple clamps!) but our relationship has evolved along a more physicallyy sexual route.

To pick up and comment a little on what you said WOA - I think that I have tried in some ways to break Mariko in to sexual acceptance and experimentation beyond the rather straight-laced and 'superior attitudes' of her Japanese upbringing and Japanese peers. But I think a sort of balance occurred over time. As she became more accustomed to submitting to new types of sexual activity she took on a changed role towards me. On the one hand she was yielding to my will, accepting my 'dominant'.

On the other hand I think she saw that by taking enjoyment from the sexual activities I arranged for her she was also in a way a bit 'dominant' - she was not only being made to service other men in all sorts of ways but was also being letting me know that she in turn was being pleasured by them - trying to make me a bit jealous and envious in return.

I think that this has kept a sort of balance in the relationship which has been stimulating for us and kept us together - not a one sided approach.

This was what I was not sure quite fitted in with BDSM.

I will try to attach two more photos. The first is another one of Mariko experiencing a light but constraining form of bondage. the other is a bit blurred but I like it as it brings back memories. This was taken just after a group session had finished. Whenever I look at this I can remember how Mariko lying exhausted in the hot spring had shortly before been actively engaged in sex in most ways with a number of us. It still makes me feel excited despite the 'iffy' quality to think of how her mouth, breasts and thighs had been working and now looked tired and in need of rest!

Then sometimes recollections are great treasures. Hope you like a bit

[darknightwood]

Graciuos man, this is unique! What a sub you 've got. Don't worry if it fits BDSM or not - you and your lady are into something different and way out. The last picture may be a bit out of focus but I'd love to drag her well-fucked, drained, dripping body out of the water with a couple of friends and force her into a rape-style workout. Those nipples look just ready for chewing as does her thatch.

Imagine what it would be like for her to be lying on those boards, her legs held spread open having to accept impregnation by another group of horny men just after finishing another group session. Awsome. Could she last the pace? Might just get rid of her come hither look though.

People should know about this thread!!!!

[Silke]

Silke, your comments are appreciated - it would be great to hear more of your thoughts. As you can probably tell from the messages between WOA and me I was a bit concerned that our experiences were perhaps not deep enough into BDSM for group members.

If I've learned one thing through my journey into the lifestyle it's that there are no fixed categories in this. Every couple plays differently and enjoys different forms of any combination of the letters BDS&M. So, no - I'm not worried at all whether or not your photos, thoughts and experiences fit with people here or not - I simply sit back in awe and enjoy. ;)

What makes this thread so fascinating to me personally? The meeting of cultures and how both of you found your challenge and love in this, the amazing beauty of Mariko and how well it's captured in the photos...so much emotion there, it blows my mind! And it's amazing to be able to read your story and be taken along by the pictures - the fact that you share what happened at the time and what feelings were involved makes this thread a gem to me. There are not that many people here who share as freely as you have done so far. Thank you. :)

I don't usually check the picture threads daily and don't know whether I can comment regularly here, but please know that I'll always come back and hope for new posts, even if I don't comment every time.

Silke

[Silke]

Oh, just one more thought...


I think that this has kept a sort of balance in the relationship which has been stimulating for us and kept us together - not a one sided approach.

This was what I was not sure quite fitted in with BDSM.

I don't think BDSM relationships are ever one sided - to me it's always a give and take. ;)

[wingsofanangel]

I agree with everything Silke said....

Again wonderful pix.

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

Silke and Wingsofanangel as always thanks for your messages which encourage me to keep up the posts. I am glad that the world of BDSM can include the experiences that Mariko and I have shared.

I am delighted that you find the photos arousing Darknightwood - I am not at all sure how Mariko would have reacted to your fantasy though. On occasion she found bondage sex and its implicit inability to stop whatever was being planned for her very exciting.

Hope you all like the attached - they represent two sides of her character.

DNW dream on!

[latina69]

Thanks for sharing your story with us and the pics are beautiful.... I really enjoyed them, you really captured the momment... Do you have any more pics that you can share with us?

I also would like to know more about your relationship... Husb/wife or D/s!!:rose:

[manshimajin]

Hi and thank you very much for your messages.

I’ll try and focus most of all on the last message from Latina but I very much appreciate all your comments and kind support.

Latina, you asked about the relationship that Mariko and I have. In a way it has been a mix of husband and wife, partners and D/S. Sometimes who has been D and who S has not always been that clear. To start with in our relationship I was the D but over time things evolved into a more complex relationship.

As our relationship developed the main thing was to try and make it erotic not just physical. We found that a lot of our pleasure came from what was going on in our minds not just to our bodies. I think the best way of explaining this to you is to explain a situation I still remember as one of the more erotic ones.

In the 90s we were living in central Tokyo and had built up a good number of gaijin friends. One weekend Mariko and I were going to a ryokan in the mountains. Some of you may know this type of inn – very Japanese-style rooms, great food and hot springs to relax in and tons of Japanese tradition. What Mariko did not know was that I had arranged for some of our friends to also come along.

When we got there Mariko and I went down to the hot springs to relax after the journey. This was one of the ryokan with separate male and female bathing so I was able to get back quickly to our room and make some preparations. An important feature of the inn was that the rooms had the ability to be divided into two sections with what is called shoji in Japanese – these are room dividers made with lightweight wooden frames filled in with thin translucent Japanese washi paper inserts. They are purely dividers not for soundproofing etc…

By the time Mariko got back I had laid a futon down in the far end of the room and persuaded her to take off her yukata. Telling her I fancied a bondage session with her I laid her down on her back on the futon, tied her arms at the wrists stretched out behind her head and her legs up towards her chest and spreadeagled to give deep and optional penetration.

It was dark by now and I switched on two strongish lamps on the far side of Mariko so they shone towards the screen. I closed off the screens to hide her behind. The delightful and really erotic thing was that her body was silhouetted on the screen in a dark outline of its shape. Our five friends then came to the room as aroused as me by the sight on the screen. We were in no hurry as Mariko was held firmly in place. I went back and turned of the lamps so that our meal could be delivered to the room without exposing Mariko’s predicament.

We sat around drinking and eating. At this time Mariko was probably going through a range of intense and mixed feelings anticipating what her role would require and wondering how many of us there were. We did the normal of drawing lots to have an order to the night’s activities. When the meal was removed I slipped back and switched the lamps on again. Mariko had a glazed expression on her face. Then came for me the most incredibly erotic experience.

As we chatted one of the guys got up and went across the room, opened the screen, stepped inside and closed it behind him. We could see his shadow on the screen standing over the prone silhouette of Mariko. Watching the shadow play was far more erotic than an open display. Off came his yukata, dropping onto the floor. His shadow shape knelt between Mariko’s legs. Even if her gasps had not indicated what was happening the shadow movements clearly indicated that he was enjoying her orally. The inevitable then followed. His shadow rose up to form the shape of a male body and moved forward and down onto its knees, partially obscured by the dark outline of Mariko’s raised legs.

Perhaps there should be a study on the noises a woman makes when her body is entered. There are the quiet ones, the noisy ones and the ones like Mariko who make sort of animal cry.

As the friend’s shadow merged with hers the rest of us heard that animal cry escape her lips into the room confirming to us that just on the other side of the screen Mariko and the friend were now coupling. For me this was that mixed feeling that is so exciting. Domination on the one hand, arranging for Mariko to have sex this way - and on the other that sensation of watching my wife being taken by someone else incapable of resisting his thrusting erection. The movements in shadow on the screen added to this ambivalent sense and to the awe and envy of the scene.

The guy worked away and we could hear the mixed cries coming from the other side of the room. When he started to come it was like being alongside watching but having to imagine what it must actually look like just over there. The grunting and groans told us that his climax was a great one. For me the sound indicated that as I listened my partner was being impregnated deep inside by another man as she lay helpless on the futon. It fed very much into my forced to watch sex fantasies. When he emerged he looked pretty satisfied.

There was no hurry from the rest of us to get to Mariko – we drew out the experience for her. Over and again the shadows playing on the shoji screen provided a two dimensional vision of the sexual actions being played out on the other side as Mariko was made to accomodate each of our lusts. Whilst the shadows did not show it, once or twice the more drawn out entry cries indicated that one of the guys was using her outstretched position to probe her anally rather than vaginally. When it came to my turn I have to confess that I had the most fabulous sex with her.

Some of the guys went back for ‘second-helpings’ before we untied her. She was exhausted and just clung onto us. We got the other futons out of the wall cupboards and spread them on the floor. For the rest of the evening we lay around kissing and fondling Mariko and then fell asleep. Occasionally I woke up to find someone having another session with Mariko and a few time to see her being DP’d.

For the next couple of weeks I had a very submissive wife and she had a very hungry husband as I worked through all those amazing mixed emotions that the session had created.

I hope that this kind of explains an aspect of our non-standard D/S type of relationship for you. I’ll try and add a few more photos - hope that these two are good to look at - I always like views of Mariko's rear - I thonk she is very special from behind (and from in front) but as always I am a bit biased - just a little.

[latina69]

She has a beautiful ass and you should be very proud of it....

The more you tell of your story I begin to understand the connection the two of you have... But I have a few questions... Is your fantasy only to see her with men? And sorry for asking but are you bi and are you getting an additional thrill to all of this? Also do you guys switch because you stated that you have struggled with the rolls of the relationship... Are you now here in the states ( I think you said you were) if so how is are things different here from there pertaining to the lifestyle....

The pics are aesome you really have a good eye...:camera2:

Again thank you for sharing your story of love, passion and kink... You have a beautiful story and I think we can all learn from it....:jerry:


Raven (latina)

[wingsofanangel]

The new pics are really beautiful. I love her ass. And again as I said.. I am not at all attracted to women.. but these are such beautiful pictures and she has such a lovely form. I can only imgaine what she must look like crawling across the room on her hands and knees, ass in the air... :X

You have such a passion between you two... it just permeates (spelling) your writing. Whether or not you view it as D/s or .. think its not crude enough.. etc... I think its a beautiful thing you have. The pictures of her in the stockings are both exceptional! You are a great photographer.. you manage to capture not just a picture.. but a feeling. Will we ever get to meet Mariko? It would be lovely to have her grace the forums with her presence. Do you two still enjoy much of a D/s relationship? Do you still do these group sex things? How does she act now?

I'd love to see more and hear more. The stories are awesome!!!

Sera (anya)

[Ruby]

manshimajin,

Thank you so much for sharing your erotic adventures with Mariko.



I hope that this kind of explains an aspect of our non-standard D/S type of relationship for you.

I'm wondering what aspect is "non-standard", as there is no standard of D/S except what works for the two of you. Clearly, you are the dom in these scenes and she the willing submissive.

It's absolutely delightful, that while you are the dom, you are also playing out your fantasies of being forced to watch your partner with other men. Both of you are having your needs met and it sounds like a good time was had by all the participants.

This thread:http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4529 may be of interest to you. I agree with Aesop, that "that BDSM is whatever you need it to be."


I’ll try and add a few more photos - hope that these two are good to look at - I always like views of Mariko's rear - I thonk she is very special from behind (and from in front) but as always I am a bit biased - just a little.

Yes, please do.
I think Mariko is beautiful from the many views your presented. The way she looks into the camera with that mischevious smile is more than charming.

You've presented a relationship of loving, giving, taking and receiving, that many couples strive to achieve.

Best wishes and good blessings to Mariko and you,

Ruby

[manshimajin]

Latina, thank you for your message and your questions that I'll try to reply to.

I think my big thrill is to see Mariko being taken by other men - or to hear her as this is a real imagination stimulator. Seeing someone else moving in and out of my partner and reaching a climax in her is a real turn on for me - with her 'willing' or 'unwilling'. It isn't the only thing but is my favourite because of its mix of power and submission.

A few times Mariko has had sex with women both to fulfill her own curiosity and because we both thought it a natural step in her sexuality (and mine). She has also, on a few occasions, wanted to give me a sensation of what she experiences - by using a strap-on. I think that this was a real need for her to show me her submission.

Sorry if I created impression we are in USA - we are living at present in Europe. The scene we get get involved with here is not quite the same as it was in Japan - I think because Japan has a big 'on the loose' expat community which does not really exist here.

Look forward to you comments and will try to keep on posting. WoA has also asked me if I can Mariko to give her thoughts

[manshimajin]

Wingsofan angel just replying to your message - and many thanks for sparing time to mail. I think that it would be great to ask Mariko to contribute (she is shy about her English - which I think is lovely and expressive). Is it OK for her to use the same handle?

Glad you liked the photos - I have a great subject to work with!

As mentioned to Latina it is a bit different to Japan here so not quite so easy plus we are not quite as young as before alas! But occasionally we still manage something that turns us on.

[manshimajin]

Ruby, thanks for your message - and that was a great place you sent me to. Made a lot of sense for us. We are definitely into our own style of relatioship that is not heavily pain oriented - for us at least that is not a pleasure but I can fully understand that each of u has our own preferences. To someone else what Mariko and I have had may seem extreme too. It is not everyone who gets pleasure from seeing others making their wife submit - its just that the two of us find a staged experience like this to be a great outlet to inner fantasy.

Thanks also for your kind comments on our relationship - we have been, and still are, very lucky that we have experienced amazing sessions without destroying our personal feelings for each other. Far from it - I think it has been a great help in keeping together.

[wingsofanangel]

Of course she can use your name!!!

And tell her not to be shy at all.. I was raised speaking english and can hardly do it properly. lol... Kidding. We have people here from all over the world. I'd love to hear her expressions on things as best as she can tell them! Like what was going through her head at the time of these photos and how she feels of them now.

Please bring her on by! Any chance we can see a recent hapy couple pic? It would be cool to see how you guys have changed together.. if thats not to personal.. I understand if so!

XOX!

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

Hi, thanks for the lasy message - Mariko says that she will write something and send it. I hope she does as her side of things may be will balance mine a bit!

Thought attached photos might be good to post - two are not great quality. However they were taken at the same time and show Mariko being taken by two different guys. What may be a bit interesting, I don't know, is that the first one shows her in a position a bit similar to when she was at the ryokan behind the shoji screen. Only then her legs were bound wide apart and her arms tied together and behind her above her head to allow us to take her more in a forced-fantasy way. Still it has a generalf feeling of what happened. She likes to unwind in the onsen so thought a photo of that might be appropriate.

I better post this and let her get to the PC.

[manshimajin]

Hello I am Mariko whose is wife to manshimajin. He told me you write complement to me in messages and ask I write also. It very kind for you to write nicely of me. I am first bit shock be remind some thing happen me and people read also of them and see photo me and perhap they also get feeling when see photo. but it part of much experience and big change occur me when get know and live with M and it is not so shy perhap on computer..

First please excuse my English which OK but not good. It is interest for me see messages nearly most come from ladies not men. And you very kind in comment and very interst in feeling which is nice. Do men like look and not comment? whereas woman interest in emotion? perhap men not comfortable what our relationship is but for women it is OK. Think woman rule by heart and head but man more by penis (smile) and urge of control. so perhap men like look women and think what like do but not make comment.

I just do short write now but please tell me what you want hear of me so I give more interest to you in my reply.

I lucky still have intersting relationship and life of much kinds experience. but it is very different what I expect when young woman in Japan before meet M.

[Silke]

:wel Mariko...it's such a pleasure to finally meet you. :)

I would love to hear about how your relationship evolved over time. Manshimajin has told us his observations...that you were hesitant at first about this sort of lifestyle, even about being intimate with someone from a different culture...and then something changed. How did you feel and how has this feeling changed? Oh, there are so many more questions...I'm sure I'll never run out of them. :)

Interesting question you raised about more women than men responding to this thread...I don't know why this is the case, really. Maybe it is like you said, that women are more drawn to the deep emotions captured in your stories and pictures? It certainly is true for me - I get goosebumps when I sign on and find a new post here. I'm looking forward to get to know you better, Mariko. Thank you and Manshimajin for sharing your story and thoughts so freely. :)

[Ruby]

Welcome Mariko!

It's a pleasure to meet you on the net.

The photos of you are beautiful.

We have lots of shy men and women in the forums. Often, they feel if someone has posted what they wanted to say, then they won't repeat by posting again.

As of writing this, manshimajin's thread has had over 848 views...so we know that people are stopping by to see what's been posted, most probably anxiously waiting to see more of you!

What you and manshimajin share is a fantasy to many.
It's a gift that you are both sharing yourselves with us.

Thank you.

Ruby

[manshimajin]

This mariko. Thank you very much for so kind comments you both Silke san and Ruby san make. I am busy in day but try write more in evening. It is bit shy me thinking so many look me even if i have be seen by men in life. It is I hope nice them see me and sometime I wonder what they think but ladies are very kind in what say. Think maybe when write it is good I go through abit chronology of my life? ffrom young to now. Please accept poor English which hope is able to be undestand by you.

[Silke]

I understand you just fine mariko, and I'm looking forward to hearing your story, chronological or any other way you feel like is fine by me. :)

Hey, about being shy what other people might think when looking at your photos? Probably that you're beautiful, brave and sexy. And I bet a few of us are just a little bit jealous...;)

[JackBNimble]

Wow...Mariko is a lovely lady and these pictures are wonderful! Thanks very much for sharing them!!

[manshimajin]

Thought I would just write briefly before Mariko. It is great that she has written and I will try to encourage her to continue as I am sure that her views will be different to mine and give a wider perspective on our relationship.

Just posting a couple of pictures that I hope you like. WoA you commented that it would be great to see her crawling across a room ass in air. I am sorry that they are not quite that but your comment focuses on one of the really attractive parts of Mariko's anatomy.

Men (and ladies) always seem to have been aroused by her behind. For me at first it was just the attraction of her shape but more and more I did find myself aroused and sexually tempted by the sight of the lovely rear cleavage and the thought of what lay between her buttocks waiting to be explored. I simply had to penetrate her there. Then when we got into group sex I found that other men were like me and were often eager to make love to her there - something which when I watched I found possibly more exciting than anything else. I'll finish before I get to carried away remembering.

[Warbaby1943]

WOW I can't believe I just found this amazing thread. I read it in its entirety and thoroughly enjoyed following the training of your wife. The story was great and so were the pictures. I will be looking forward to more of the story and, of course, many more pictures.

[manshimajin]

Hello it is Mariko to thank you for your messages and M suggest me that write perhaps of feeling for situation he written about as this may be interest for you. I will write also future my chronology but maybe he right I start about this.

My husband he has already describe how he see situation and it is excite for him see reflection of shadow in screen of man having sex me. He say it very excite him like if he be forced watch for see by shadows image his wife be made sex to by other men and perhaps also he be forced but also stimulate his thinking if believing I am be forced also. Perhap like watching partner be rape.

Often together we discussed what will be happen but this day we not discuss as he plan for surprise to me. So after onsen bathing and return room he tie me I think it is for him and me to do bondage which sometime we do and I find it excite. So I am very surprise hear noise men come room and talking. I am nervous they come in and I am open like that even though presently hidden. I not sur4 other womans but it is strange feeling always to me when I have at first sex with man not partner. I not sure how they behave me and what way make sex. After time it OK but always seem nervous at start.

What is surprise me is noone come into area but hear sound them dining. But I am still nervous feel as hear discuss all for do sex with me and I am tied waiting them. It is wait perhaps very plan of husband for make my emotion stronger. This right. I have lie there wait so get both mix nervous and excite. In bondage I get damp easily as be thinking of idea not able resist. But time mention I also made worry not precisely tell how man them but noise sound quite few. Also I brought up Japanese way which is must do obey of husband so he keep face (though I not 100% perfect wife of this).

It very tense feel when hear screen start slide and almost scream see man enter as I extra nervous after long wait. He is wear yukata which is cotton Japanese dressing gown. I remember lustful way he look me and then I see he yukata fall from him and see he have strong erection. As husband say he first do oral me which help relax bit. Think he find me damp and so perhaps he feel I want sex but actually I not sure I want but have been damp from being tied and left wait and think. Do not know for other woman in bondage but moment man head appear in vision above me and sense him close is very mix emotion. Husband say I make animal cry when be enter by man but I think this particular so when man is strange to me. I think that time I may cry lot when he enter me as feeling unstop invasion. He take much time get excite and I hear shout encourage him from other men. How you feel when man come in you? he good and give me orgasm and this situation this often very intense for me. It always still even I feel excite man come but those day little worry also on consequence despite pill.I not sure others experience similar me but when in this type situation sometime man say me as comes he plan make me pregnant. Always wonder this he excited very much or is domination game. Think maybe last.

As husband say other also do same me and I get bit sore as some do twice me. Sme also want do sex my anus which they able. Husband say men get excite by look my bottom. I not know why but maybe also way anal is other way man he show domination by forcing sex in way not as pleasant me? It was always much difficult that way as not easy enter and depend men can be quite painful if not patient but get impatient enter even I do many time over years.

It big relief be untie and look after by men. What good they very gentle kind when I join properly in room. Despite I exhaust in night occasional times they most want make with me again. Even I be bit sore this different feel before. Before I am like be taken by gang sex. In night much more gentle. They tired and I tired so bit dream style not quite conscious sex which very much nice than before for me but not as excite for group men as see what was before happening,

I think for all men whilst sex excite it is also watch that make them excite like very primitive sensation. For woman like me it different in this like times as I not watching but being continuous taken. I try explain husband that his excite very different than experience of woman and would like make him experience as woman.

I not sure this interest of you but please say if not or if is. My apolgise if i am confuse you by my writing.

[Warbaby1943]

Hi Mariko,

Thanks so much for writing about your experience. It must have been, as you said, both frightening and exciting at the same time. Please continue to write more about your training and please find more pictures for your husband to post. You are a beautiful lady.

[Silke]

Oh wow, this is going to be mind blowing to have both your husband and you talk about these experiences!! I've never been in this kind of situation, to be shared with other men, not being able to do anything about this because of the bondage...but it sure is a wild fantasy of mine. And I can relate to your feelings of fear and excitement, even if it's all in the mind for me. I'm not even sure I could follow this through like you did...well, I guess the bondage would take care of that. *laughing*

You talked about your Japanese upbringing and the tradition of a wife having to obey her husband totally...this is a concept so alien to me with my background of being raised in Germany. Even in a BDSM context I have the 'escape' of a safeword, of all of this being consensual, of me surrendering willfully to my Master...how different it must be when in your mind the husband already has all the power, literally have it. I know from what your husband wrote earlier that this was not easy for you at the beginning...that you didn't want to be anally penetrated, that you were scared (?) or opposed to even having sex with men from a different cultural background. How did you come from this to enjoying sex with different men, being taken by them without having a say in this? Was it the Japanese upbringing as a woman/wife that made you agree to this or was it something that made you hot from the beginning somehow?

Another thing...just how do you cope with having so many men penetrate you over and over? Damn, that must hurt like hell! Any tips on how to survive? *laughing*

*smiles* and yes...I can see why the men were so taken with your ass. ;) I myself prefer your eyes...

Thank you so much for sharing, Mariko...you're very special, but I'm sure you know that anyway. *hugs*

Silke

[wingsofanangel]

Incredible!

Mariko it is both a joy and honor to meet you.You seem like such a wonderful example of a submissive women/lover/friend. I loved reading your account of what was going on behind that screen. Indeed I can imagine your mixed emotions. Welcome to the forums and I hope you continue to post and talk with us. Your english is not bad at all.. I understand perfectly! although, I work at a company owned by people from China ( i know different place, but good example).... and they have VERY thick accents...so understanding you is NO problem, you do much better than them!

Anyway, I love this thread and you both are wonderful!!!!

Mariko... I am interested to know what attracted you to your husband in the first place? What were your first reactions and thoughts when he talked to you about Domination and submission?

Sera (anya)

[manshimajin]

It is very interesting read your messages and see different question which I hope can answer bit at time.

I start at background. I brought up in Japan and have normal Japanese type upbring. My parent quite strict and traditional. This include my father he have spent time in war in army in China. He did nor speak much of experience. In Japan our history view is differ from maybe history as written in other country. I think now I live in west that perhap his experience not one he want to speak about but he remain very proud Japan and very strong in view of nationalism. This maybe something you not appreciate and please excuse I not wish sound racist but traditional Japanese view is not favorable for mix race. We suppose stay within our own race. Also Silke comment on differ attitude Gemany and Japan for role woman and man. This connected with our tradition.

Many century past Japan is woman dominated country I think call matriarchy. but after much war and violence it become male dominate through bushi and samurai tradition. Women expect by man to be and require be below men and attitude still exist particular older generation.

For much history there many civil wars in Japan and woman are often treat badly by man. Some our tradition rope bondage from this era and is way men try dominate and humiliate woman. This particular use break spirit defeat leader and their noble womens. If leader capture before able do seppaku or suicide then winner use bondage and rape for means humiliate loser. It tradition for this be to secure loser and for wife and sometime daughter be tied and given for much repeat sex use by common soldiers before husband eye. Often make husband mad but also often be so much sexed woman die. say this because this is type thinking that Japan men were educated in so they see woman as lower class and even way for humiliate husband in extreme circumstance. It change now but in my childhood this very much way think. Girls nice but boy is strong and must be leader.

I go university in Tokyo and do degree in economy. At university it is time I very mix with other woman similar level. Some they want simply get degree and be eligible get good prospect husband. Other tthey talk about tradition and make me also think this. Perhap this is time I start become more bit rebel and decide I not like idea marry Japanese husband.

Excuse I get quite exhaust write in English. I try write about relationship with husban soon and next.

Think for wingsofanangel question about when first he talk domination and submission it not really so like that but is evolutionary relationship and for Silke I also wonder if there are thing in Japanese tradition which not in favour multi racial but has tradition make woman take sex from many men if ordered.

i like hear from you and differ opinion.

[Millie]

Hi there,
This is my first post, but the pictures of all the adventures you have had are quite beautiful and I have enjoyed reading about them all as well. I hope you will both feel able to continue sharing with us.
Thank you
Millie

[manshimajin]

I thought I would try and get a few more photos posted to accompany Mariko's messages. She is enjoying writing and hearing from you. Despite knowing Mariko for many years even I am finding it extremely interesting - both her thoughts and also very much the reaction and questions from you all. In many ways we probably have always felt that what we have in our relationship is great for ourselves but not something others would have opinions about. So it has been very surprising and supportive to get your views.

The first of the attached photos is Mariko modelling 'submissive wife' Japanese style - I don't get to see this too often. The other two are submissive (???) wife in western style... I have often thought that whilst it has been in her character to submit physically her mental attitude is something a bit different. This may be the reason we have had an enduring relationship.

In the oral photo do you find the way her back bends epitomises a submissive role - but her mouth looks far from being like that. The guys thought she was submissive in the session in the other photo. They used that belief to work her very hard sexually for their own pleasure. I agree with them to the point that she was yielding to things outside her cultural bounds but again I am not sure whether for her the position was in or out of control.

:wave:

[redEva]

Honourable manshimajin and beautiful Mariko,

I am sorry I have not found and responded to your thread before. In the whole library forums this thread definitely fits into top 5 if not the Best one yet!

As many have noted, before me, BDSM has numerous flavours, and your relationship just happen to be The favourite flavour of mine. The ever so subtle power exchange, the sexual domination and such intensity of feelings, both of you describe, is absolute turn-on.

You are both lucky to have met each other, as well as obviously wonderfully strong and determined people to work things through while staying true to yourself, you made your life into a beautiful story of living it to its fullest.

manshimajin : your recollection of the encounters, and such an open and truthful answers make this thread jewel on this board. Pictures add the fine polish to it. Your lady is breathtaking, and all the pictures are work of art! Personally, I think the black and white and “yellowish” (forgive me I do not know the technical term for this) technique just enhance the beauty and add to its appeal.

Mariko : we, here, are lucky beyond expectation, to be able to take a peak into your account of the events. It is wonderful to be able to see it through your eyes and to get a taste of the emotions and your reasoning of why certain things happened.

Thank you both for sharing this with us, and please, do continue. For the relationship like this to survive and flourish, takes a couple of very strong and confident individual. Kudos to you both!

red

[manshimajin]

Millie and RedEva my thank for your post. I try for answer tomorrow as now watching soccer world cup so please excuse me. Mariko

[Silke]

and for Silke I also wonder if there are thing in Japanese tradition which not in favour multi racial but has tradition make woman take sex from many men if ordered.

Growing up with the background you described, Mariko, it might very well be the case. If not physically, it could be a psychological mindset that makes you endure this longer just because you think it's 'your place' and what is expected of you being a woman. I think with growing up in Europe and Germany specifically, I'm a lot more 'selfish' (I also have my problems expressing myself in English, but I hope you get the message :)). For me it's a huge step to embrace my submissiveness and to go out of my way for my Master...to me it makes it an even bigger gift as it goes contrary to common beliefs and sometimes - even against my own. Hmm...food for thought. :)

It's so very interesting to get a little background in Japanese history and thinking. I must admit, I don't know a lot of it - for example that Japan used to have a system based on matriarchy was completely new to me. I'm looking forward to picking up more of the subtle and not-so-subtle differences in thinking as you continue to share your journey.

Can't wait to see the next set of photos (they haven't been approved yet *sighs*)...I'll comment some more then. Thanks again for sharing, Mariko and Manshimajin. :)

Silke

PS: Just been watching the soccer world cup, too.....congrats to all you Italians out there and what the hell got Zidane so pissed off?? *confused and shocked* Not a nice way to end a career...

[VixeyandPhoenix]

This is by far the best post on this board. I thought that it was so during the first couple of posts, when it was just a little background and some pictures. I sometimes forget that the motivation behind someone posting their most inner secrets is that they want to share and hear approval. I sometimes feel that it is wrong to let my true feelings out when sharing, as though I may be looked at as a pervert.

I am not going to let that stop me with this post. Manshimajin, you have a very lovely wife and sub. I am not going to even venture a guess at your age, but it is my hope that when Vixey and I reach that point we are as happy as the two of you. She has such a lovely form, and her eyes tell a thousand tales of passion and grace. The more detailed you have become with the backstory the more my interest has grown. I cannot say that this is my flavor of a D/S relationship, but it is quite an exciting read. Women doing sexual things "unwillingly" is always exciting, for example the first time you deflower your Lovely's ass is incredibly erotic, because you know that if she had her choice she would not be doing so. The photography skills are also quite impressive. The nice sepia tones really set a nice mood and the forms and postitions that you have captured speak tomes.

Mariko you have impressed me greatly. Your strength is amazing. To accept your role regardless of what society has told you is one of the most admirable traits that a person can have in my opinion. Your body is just amazing, manshimajin is very lucky to have found a woman such as yourself. Did you lose all of your reluctance and begin to fully enjoy the lifestyle the two of you share, or do you simply comply to please your husband?

Thank you both for sharing with us. I look forward to many more posts from the two of you.

[manshimajin]

Hello from Mariko - I have to keep make sure you know it me not my husband but then he has good English so perhap easy to tell. It remain lovely get your comment and lot question I try answer but if maybe I forget some please forgive me. It is very nice hear such kind comment and support of our relationship. I know for some you this seem strange relation but I am glad you so tolerant. To be tolerant is great power as is able to accept difference of people. This world too much not accept difference I think. I try talk each you a bit.

RedEva thank you for thoughts. I find interest you understand what we perhap both experience. That is that in some way as you say power shift - M think he dominant but sometime I think he also submissive my will but not always he realise this! We not had idea of dominate and submit in relationship but this is perhap one way classify roles. Not sure alway it simple like that.

Silke - hope you find soccer OK but like you I have wonder what make Xidane so bad - but maybe bad provoke? Yes I think culture of west and japan quite differ even we take western idea and sometime west take japanese one. It has been very much culturre of japan for woman be submit husband will. Even have in past walk behind husband. And recently 30+ woman not marry so much so birth go down and men have made word from english in japanese describe woman who not marry husband but orefer be alone which is 'parasite singulu' which really terrible insult woman. So some way I interested ypu say you have to brak with culture for be submissive. In some way i maybe submissive also but I try break also Japan view submissive and do not want japanese life which one reason I have husband not japanese.

Vixey and phoenix thank you for very kind comment M and me. I not think this really best but has good message exchange between us and very much appreciate. I think let out true feeling good and not important who judge pervert or not pervert because decision made inside relationship not outside it. If you and partner think it OK it is OK. Thus I hope people not think M and i we pervert but if do it still not what M and I think so we personally feel OK. You say unwilling not your preference. sometime I do thing because M like even I not like but this not alway and sometime he not like what I do willing but this also stimulate for him. maybe this sound perverted?

You mention deflower anus as erotic. I think before he do this . i notice M take big interest there in me. and gradually he do thing stimulate interest there and make me feel anus sexual area. this not done him in hurry but introduce into my mind idea maybe something he want do. Whilst i not like idea he do deflower me in there gradually it become inevitable as he really want me so much there. so on one hand he take me by bondage there first time but i also feel willing to accept him do this as kind of sacrifice by me because know he want so much have me that way. I sometime think because I not virgin when meet him this is way he still can have me his virgin woman but in anus not vagina? first time do in bondage give him feel control. I think also he right if not in bond then it hurt so I will really try stop him which I was not able do but had to accept. as it was he able do few times me first night as he remain very excited and then I accept and know I have give him something most wanted by him. Perhap this submissive.

Please excuse my poor writing and little sense but so very nice hear from you all.

[wingsofanangel]

Mariko you said - "M think he dominant but sometime I think he also submissive my will but not always he realise this! "

I LOVE that statement. It is so true. I find that even as Dominant my Master is of me... at times it almost seems as though he is submissive to my will and wants.

I've come to realize that more than anything this is concern and understanding. Its seems that our Masters understand us so well that they are willing to give as much of themselves as we are to them. I think this makes for an amazing Dom. Do I make sense? It does in my head, haha.

Anyway, I love hearing your stories and your thoughts on your relationship, it is always so interesting to hear.

What kind of things do you and you -M- do now? Is group sex still a large part of it? How much of a submissive role do you take? Do you wear a collar? I'd like to know more about this.. if it is okay. Do you find the longer you are submissive, does it become harder or easier? Does it ever become boring for you or .... just like a machine? ... or... whats the world something you do but means little? Or has pleasing -M- and being submissive to you kept you happy all these years? Does it feed something inside of you that needs to be taken care of?

i hope this all makes sense, if not, maybe -M- can help you?

Sera

[manshimajin]

This evening I have managed to get to the PC ahead of Mariko and thought I might try to post a few more photographs including one specifically for you WOA. It may answer one of your questions.

It has been fascinating to read Mariko's comments - we have a good idea how each other feels but sometimes you get insights that had not been there before. One such was last night in what she said about the time I first had anal sex with her. When I look back to that time I have always seen it through my own eyes.

Mariko's buttocks were always so erotic to me. Even though it took a little time to consumate her in anal sex, from the moment I got to know her I must confess that I dreamt of finding out what it would be like to have sex with her that way. Possibly a fair percentage of red-blooded males in the same situation would have thought the same. Add to that the frisson of introducing her to something outside her norms and it became a very strong driving feeling.

What I found out last night was that despite not enjoying her initiation she had understood my urges and had seen yielding to me as a gift and a form of sacrifice to our relationship. She also seems to have rationalised my feelings as being the chance for me to take her as a virgin. The first part is fascinating. I never realised her thoughts until she wrote them down here. I am not so sure about the second part - I was attracted by her lovely body and her personality and by the chance to introduce her to something she had not experienced - but I think that was the 'virgin' attraction not the fact that she had had other men before me.

WOA on occasions Mariko did wear a collar. This was not at my request as I like her as she is. But some of our friends seemed to enjoy the sight - funnily enogh particularly the Japanese men. Maybe that is to be expected given Mariko's comments to Silke about the attempts of Japanese men to be dominant. I don't have any photos to hand but at one stage she was given a collar by a Japanes friend that allowed her wrists to be tied close to her neck. I must confess that it did look sexy. Do you wear collars WOA? How do find it if you do?

The other photos relate to the top of the post. one was taken when Mariko was trying the shaved pubes look. I actually think she looks nicer with hair. The first photo reminds me over agin why I felt the urges I did!

In answer to the other question we have occasionally had the chance of group sessions in Europe but not like it was in Japan - although when we have, Mariko's nationality seems to have been a cause of considerable stimulation to the 'alpha males'. I may have said this, but having a large 'on the loose' expat community concentrated primarily in Tokyo does lead to this type of activity being relatively common. Thank goodness our relationship has remained stimulating - if not quite as physically active as 20 years ago. Mariko has had great variety, and me, the stimulation of being married to someone who has been willing to please me by accommodating my peculiarities!

Thanks to evreyone who has commented in such a kind and deep way to us. Like Mariko I remain fascinated by the number of ladies compared with men - but we both think it may show the difference in emotional drives in females and males.

[Warbaby1943]

I sometime think because I not virgin when meet him this is way he still can have me his virgin woman but in anus not vagina? first time do in bondage give him feel control. I think also he right if not in bond then it hurt so I will really try stop him which I was not able do but had to accept. as it was he able do few times me first night as he remain very excited and then I accept and know I have give him something most wanted by him. Perhap this submissive.

Please excuse my poor writing and little sense but so very nice hear from you all.
Hello Mariko I have read your husband's and your thread and find it very fascinating. I do believe it takes a special bond to be able to see your wife being used sexually by others and for you to be able to give of yourself in that manner. Since it is OK with the two of you no one else's opinion needs to matter and I know you already said that.

What I quoted from your last post I think is a sign of true love just in the fact that you wanted to give your husband your virginity even if it weren't in the conventional manner. I do believe you gave him something most wanted but I wonder if it were an act of love more than an act of submission. In either case it is something the two of you will always share together. Thanks for the great story of your lives together. Also many thanks for the great pictures. You truly are a lovely person and I can easily see why men would want to be with you. If you have more pictures, I'm sure we would all love to see them.

I too was wondering about how your life is taking shape today. Are you still into all the activities you were when your submissive sexual bondage was at its height? Or has it not reached it peak yet? Are you still getting surprises and many long nights of sexual bondage? Again, thanks for sharing your lives with us.

[Warbaby1943]

manshimajin we must have been posting at the same time. I think you answered my question about today's activities in part.

[manshimajin]

Warbaby many thanks for your message. As you say we overlapped a bit. On the last point you raised we have not got into such a frequent scene here as in the old days. But it is interesting to see how the guys still respond to Mariko when they have had a session with her. And some have been quite long and testing for her and still as exciting for me to participate in. Keeps us young in mind, if not in body (although Mariko has matured more gracefully than her partner).

Hope you like the photos posted today - they are kind of 'on message'.

[redEva]

i just have to ask: Are you professional photographer manshimajin

[manshimajin]

Warbaby it Mariko. I glad see you make message about quote from me. I really concern in writing of this that people not understand what I say but you make much better clarification so hope people will be able understand. It not important thing which type sex or activity. Important thing for me is know M desperate wanted particular activity that I was able give him and make him having special feeling that he is initiator of me in something.

When first met him I not realise men interest in woman behind or it be able use for sex (maybe I naive or maybe not so much focus in Japan or both) so really very much something new for me in culture. Now know men really want this even Japanese man and become more accustom it as part scene (bit difficult part still) but M always know he first.

Redeve for answer you some photo by M but other by other men give us. M not professional but sometime he take nice photo. I think he photo usually more focus on me while other men focus what THEY do as interst them more perhap. Is it OK these include into what he send?

[wingsofanangel]

Only a few minutes here... but wanted to tell -M- that I adore my collar and my ring. I wear a collar and leash when playing with Master and at other requested times. At all time I wear a puzzle ring on my ring finger on the hand I use to masterbate with... its sort of symbolic in that I am constantly aware of who give me my pleasure. I adore both of them. I have no quims about wearing my collar out... though its probably because for me...the way I dress is sort of in the heavy metal music scene... so its not as shocking to those who see it. .they assume its for something else.

Sera

[VixeyandPhoenix]

Redeve for answer you some photo by M but other by other men give us. M not professional but sometime he take nice photo. I think he photo usually more focus on me while other men focus what THEY do as interst them more perhap. Is it OK these include into what he send?

Please do!

I also thought that M was a professional photographer. Or at least there was a very good camera at hand.

Again, I must say that this is the best posting on this entire board. I just love the active conversation between both participants and the eagerness with which you share your knowledge and memories. Thank you to both of you!

[Warbaby1943]

Manshimajin and Mariko thanks for the answers and Mariko you said everything just fine. It is a joy reading about your lives.

Manshimajin yes I did enjoy the new pictures especially the one where Mariko is tied to the bed. I agree with one of your earlier statements that she looks great with a little hair around her pussy. I believe I read that from you somewhere in this thread. In any event the pictures are all very nice. Please keep them coming.

I also know very well what you mean by being young in mind if not in body. Aging ain't for sissies, is it?

[Nikita]

M & M,

I am addicted to this thread. Thank you for the many pleasures you give to us. :11_2_102:


I am partial or perhaps addicted to receiving anal. It is a most profound and submissive act. But, now, I enjoy it so much, that if it is taken away from me, I would consider it a punishment. :bondage:

[manshimajin]

Thank you again for your messages. I seem to have got to the PC again tonight. It is a great thrill for both of us to see that messages have been posted and then we have the anticipation of opening them.

WOA your collar sounds great. You say that you wear it together with a leash for your Master - does he then use it to 'control' you or does he like it as a sign of 'submission' almost like jewellery?

Warbaby - liked what you said about ageing - it isn't for sissies and if we can have a say in it we'll try and keep our mental age down. I think being Mariko's partner is one big step on that road! Glad you liked the photos. To see Mariko stretched out and tied arms and legs akimbo on a bed has always been a thrill - ideally with her unable to move much but just enough to pull a bit against the ties. A sort of medieval fantasy of the woman spreadeagled by her inquisitors jerking against her bonds but incapable of saving herself from whatever was going to happen. She becomes very moist in this position as I suspect it plays into her fantasies too.

V&P we are enjoying the sharing and hearing everyone's comments. many thanks.

Nikita you and Mariko seem to share something when you describe anal sex as a profound and submissive act - I now understand much better from Mariko's comments how she saw this act. It is interesting to think of submission as something that is given not taken. We had a read of some of your stories to and enjoyed them a lot.

It made Mariko think that it would be nice to have a fantasy story about her to hear what other people would do if she was in their power. Intersting thought.

Hope you like the photos.

[manshimajin]

hello this tonight is mariko. have read messages and alway feel excite see.

warbaby san feel like see hair more than be shave. I think also this nicer as feel mor modest. many japan man like woman be shave and sometime i try understand why is like this. i sometime think maybe it is man may like idea it make woman more visible but also maybe make woman look less old more like young girl. whatever reason seem some men get very excite but for me feel much better have hair. can be most embarrass feel if go to onsen and is mixed bath and see me no hair. very expose feeling.

nikita san say you are almost addicted anal sex. I am do anal sex sometime for pleasing man who do seem like this type sex very much. but still even now find quite difficult and bit pain when men try enter me. how do you manage make so you feel more comfortable so be addict for it?

also warbaby san you and M talk me tied on bed. M say i get excite this way and he right perhap. over time perhap i developed rape fantasy bit for myself. if i prepare like this and tied open i start get fantasy scene in mind as i am waiting sex. in past usual was Japan scene in mind. caught or capture woman or wife noble who lose battle. and fate is be rape by enemies. by time man enter me i be very excite thinking and M say I make much sound on be penetrated. sometime i also think like I am japanese woman overseaes caught by local men who not made sex oriental woman before and plan do so with me. I not sure other woman have similar fantasy. sometime in past few men have taken me to room and strip me and tie me which in right time is also excite feel. other time m does this before he make sex me. often leave me for time to think and wait not do sex immediately, this also very interest and sexy for me.

M say i say him like idea have people on board who like write stories do fantasy story about what they do with me. I find idea a bit excite but do not know if possible but very intrest see how differnt ideas would be - perhap this my fantasy this time.

thak to you all.

[Warbaby1943]

Thank you mariko. I think a lot of people both men and women have thoughts or fantasies about being raped. You have gotten to partially live out those fantasies and thanks for sharing them with us with the stories and all the great pictures. I look forward to seeing more of you. I have for sometime now been very partial to oriental women being bound with ropes. I think it is very skillful and sexy the way they are pictured all over the Internet and your pictures match any of them as far as viewing pleasure goes. Until the next time.

[Nikita]

Nikita you and Mariko seem to share something when you describe anal sex as a profound and submissive act - I now understand much better from Mariko's comments how she saw this act. It is interesting to think of submission as something that is given not taken. We had a read of some of your stories to and enjoyed them a lot.

The submissive act of acquiesing to anal sex, being used orally, or to take pain, is voluntary. The fact that we hand over the use of ourselves to our dominant makes it more profound than the act itself.

Thank you for the compliment of enjoying my stories. :)



nikita san say you are almost addicted anal sex. I am do anal sex sometime for pleasing man who do seem like this type sex very much. but still even now find quite difficult and bit pain when men try enter me. how do you manage make so you feel more comfortable so be addict for it?

I believe this was your question for me, Mariko. Nikita san...I love it! *gg*:11_2_102:

I prepare, mentally and physically for anal sex. Mental preparation is basically foreplay in the mind, thinking about being opened, helpless to stop it, and being denied orgasm...etc. Sometimes I do this absentmindedly. whew! is it hot in here?

Physical preparation involves the use of a plug before hand, perhaps as part of the scene, combined with giving oral service, whipping, flogging, breast torture or whatever is on the menu.

There may be times when preparation with a plug is impossible, so, trust in your partner and lots of lube are necessary. For example, in your case, Manshimajin san can prepare you before you submit to other men, as part of his mastery over you.

If I am bondaged, my husband prepares me, using his fingers to apply lube or saliva with his tongue or fingers, or buttplug. Lube is a must for entry.

Once you have associated arousal/orgasm with anal play, and do it often, your rectal muscles should be able relax for entry.

Jeez, this sounds so clinical, but it is really hot.

For me, anal sex is the best, most explosive, multi-orgasmic experience, even more so when combined with BDSM. Once I'm in sub-space, my body responds automatically with obedience and passion. I can go on and on, even if it's on mental orgasms alone and not physically.

Butt, that's another story. :cool:

[manshimajin]

Nikita san thank your advice. I envy that you able get such very obvious pleasure from anal sex. I have done many year from start but not reach level you reach. M or friends they do have used lube to prepare me but not plug or other things. also sometime man have did tongue there which feel a bit funny. Perhap my japanese upbring made me not able to do this relax way but always bit tense when try enter particular if I know man has large penis. It is perhap that beforehand I assume it will be difficult and do not relax muscle and despite doing often I still tighten at back. it is good to hear that it can be really pleasure not just submit feel. I do not mind do but not pleasure you feel. you sound very sexy woman.

[manshimajin]

The thread between Nikita and Mariko encouraged me to post the photo below.

A Canadian business associate in Tokyo was one of our regular friends. The three of us would sometimes get together for a meal and, if the mood was right and led in that direction, a session together afterwards.

I am not sure precisely about this occasion. Nikita's comments on preparation reminded of it. He very much enjoyed getting Marikok ready. I think she always found this a bit strange - both the sensation of what was being done and probably the thoughts about what was to come next.

Personally, I loved the feeling of her pressed against me, holding onto me, and her responses and sounds as she yielded to penetration by the second man. Making love together, just the two of us, we could always feel that we were helping and building each others feelings togther. With a third person it changed that balance exponentially. One was part of the love-making but the way Mariko responded was now in part to me, in part to the other man but also in part to the combined sensations. You were always sensing that the sources of stimulation were moving around. Trying to keep up with Mariko's feelings in these circumstances was quite a high.

Thank goodness this is a free-thinking board with some open minded members as we all have seem to find our stimulation in different ways.

[Nikita]

The thread between Nikita and Mariko encouraged me to post the photo below.

A Canadian business associate in Tokyo was one of our regular friends. The three of us would sometimes get together for a meal and, if the mood was right and led in that direction, a session together afterwards.

I am not sure precisely about this occasion. Nikita's comments on preparation reminded of it. He very much enjoyed getting Marikok ready. I think she always found this a bit strange - both the sensation of what was being done and probably the thoughts about what was to come next.

Personally, I loved the feeling of her pressed against me, holding onto me, and her responses and sounds as she yielded to penetration by the second man. Making love together, just the two of us, we could always feel that we were helping and building each others feelings togther. With a third person it changed that balance exponentially. One was part of the love-making but the way Mariko responded was now in part to me, in part to the other man but also in part to the combined sensations. You were always sensing that the sources of stimulation were moving around. Trying to keep up with Mariko's feelings in these circumstances was quite a high.

Thank goodness this is a free-thinking board with some open minded members as we all have seem to find our stimulation in different ways.

M-san,

Is that Mariko? Whether it is or isn't, her face expresses pleasure and the anticipation of pain that will come with the pleasure...very, very hot.

*walks away wet and dazed...

[manshimajin]

Apologies for delay in replying - had to find a quiet internet café. We are on our way driving up to northern Norway for a few weeks - with a target of getting to the Lofoten Islands. Maybe we'll meet a few Vikings!

Yes the photo is of Mariko but the angle and expression may have made it look a bit different, I don't know.

Was looking at some past photos of Mariko - whilst she has changed a little over the years (and who hasn't) I reckon she is still as attractive as she was and has kept that figure - unlike her husband alas...

[Nikita]

unlike her husband alas...

Can we be the judge of that? :)

[MsUther]

[QUOTE=manshimajin]Apologies for delay in replying - had to find a quiet internet café. We are on our way driving up to northern Norway for a few weeks - with a target of getting to the Lofoten Islands. Maybe we'll meet a few Vikings!QUOTE=manshimajin]


Oh my, me having just left that part of Norway.
Sorry for just jumping in here with that comment, just felt like a missed out oportunity, maybe.
I hope you will find some neat people there.

[manshimajin]

Thanks Ms Uther. Sorry to have missed you - we are hoping to catch the ferry from Bodo and to then find a nice robur in the A i Lofoten (excuse me my computer does not have the Norwegian accent for the A) district. If we meet the right people it could be fun.

[Warbaby1943]

Thanks Ms Uther. Sorry to have missed you - we are hoping to catch the ferry from Bodo and to then find a nice robur in the A i Lofoten (excuse me my computer does not have the Norwegian accent for the A) district. If we meet the right people it could be fun.
I hope you have your camera with you to take more pictures of your lovely wife.

[MsUther]

You will find the scenery at Å amazing, i sure hope. Lofoten beeing a place with few inhabitants, maybe about 15 000 people, it might be hard bumping accross the right ones for some fun times. I too hope you will take lots of pictures of your lovely wife up there. Another side of the few people buissniss; its easy to find outdoors places with noone else around.
I hope you will enjoy your stay in Lofoten, and have lots of fun!

[Sir_Russell]

manshimajin,
I just had to say that not all Dominants are sadists, I for one find that the trust and willingness that a sub shows her Dom is the most important part of the life. Your lovely lady shows that to you.

Be the Dom that feels right to you and her, and never apologize for it.

I myself after 35 years as a Dom learned how to use a flogger to please my morgan, for me I never needed to use one or wanted too.

Russell

[darknightwood]

First that photo looks like Mariko to me so don't get put off from posting more here by what Nikita is going on about.

God I wish I was the guy reeming her - and getting it in her butt. You guys have an incredible thing going. Mariko gets me hot every time I look at her photos and think of your relationship. I plan to write that story you asked about - well at least I'll try - you deserve it.

Hope you are getting her tied and stretched for sex where you are.

[manshimajin]

Thanks to you all for your messages. Å is amazing - I never thought to see so much salted cod in my life - an alternative to a flogger? But seriously it is beautiful and as you say very remote.

Sir Russell thankds for the encouraging words. It is a grea thing with this Board that everyone seems to have different and very personal tastes and are at the same time so supportive of each other. A true community.

Darknightwood - please do have a go at a story. Mariko and I would love to read your thoughts on how you see a scene developing - always interesting to view the world through other's eyes. I think that in fairness to Nikita and me you may have misinterpreted her message. Suggest you go back and re-read and see if I'm right or not. Certainly I am hoping to post more photos when I get back home.

[Warbaby1943]

Certainly I am hoping to post more photos when I get back home.
Can't wait for that.

[Nikita]

First that photo looks like Mariko to me so don't get put off from posting more here by what Nikita is going on about.

Sorry? What am I going on about? Perhaps you can explain.

I think my posts have been complimentary and sincere. If M & M and others thought otherwise, they would have posted so.

If I sound pissed off at your comment, you have read this post correctly. I am.

[darknightwood]

Nikita, sorry if you are pissed off - I entirely misread what you wrote so please accept my apologies. Manshimajin pointed this out in his message too. I'll read slower next time.

But this is just one great thread and one interesting couple. Mariko really turns me on as does her partners attitude.

[Nikita]

Nikita, sorry if you are pissed off - I entirely misread what you wrote so please accept my apologies. Manshimajin pointed this out in his message too. I'll read slower next time.

But this is just one great thread and one interesting couple. Mariko really turns me on as does her partners attitude.


Apology accepted. It takes a real man to own up and you have my respect for that.

[Gr1m'sGirl]

I've just found this thread, and I love it. Mariko, you are a beautiful woman, and I adore the fire in your eyes. Manshimajin, you are a very lucky man! Take good care of her. :)

<3Fae

[manshimajin]

Lady Fae, thank you for your message. Your kind comments are much appreciated and we are glad you like the thread. It has been very interesting for us to hear peoples' views. We have been 'on the road' this summer - one of the luxuries of a bit of gray hair - we hope to be home soon so that we can start posting properly again.

[darknightwood]

manshimajin - you asked if anyone would write a story - I have had a go. It is posted in the BDSM Library Stories section, I've called its "Mariko Raped & Trained In front of Husband" Its at:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.php?storyid=4806

Hope you like it - maybe a bit extreme but I guess if a group of guys got hold of that sexy wife of yours without her consent (or yours) this is what might happen!

Have faked a couple of pictures with Mariko's face from your photos to give the idea of what it would be like. You need permission from the owner of the original photo to post their picture/part of a picture. Check your Inbox for more detail. Silke

DNW

[darknightwood]

I have had a message from Silke about the images. Thanks manshimajin for giving the OK.

These were a little idea to accompany the story. They are mods on existing photos/art. Hope you like them.

A few people in the Stories section would like a sequel - any ideas on what should happen next?

DNW.

[Sir_Russell]

I hope you soon will return to sharing both photos and experiences with your lovely lady

Russell

[star_catcher77]

As do I. Where have you gone, Manshimajin and Mariko? We eagerly await your return. This is my favorite thread on the forum. Regrettably, I've stumbled upon it after you seem to have dissapeared. Hope you'll log back on soon.

-star