Female ejaculate

[Curious George]

Open question to the forum Q: how many woman can actually achieve ejaculation orgasms?

I used to read about it in porn stories but thought it was just pornographic licence, until I met my fiancee! I love to have her in a 69, one finger up her anus and one hunting for the G-spot (I'm fairly sure I've got that off pat now) while I tongue her clit. I know it's on it's way when I feel an internal muscular swelling in her vagina, in the area which I believe is known as the paraurethral glands. Shortly afterwards she will experience one or several (I think five is the most so far) ejaculations/orgasms, which I will swallow. Sometimes it's just a spoonful or two, other times I have had two or three mouthfuls and had to swallow quickly for fear of drowning! I find this an intensely erotic experience, not least of all because it is not something which has ever occured before in my relationships. Afterwards my fiancee is very lightheaded and tends to virtually collapse on the bed, especially those times when she wants to pull away but I force her to stay in position and manage to squeeze one more orgasm out of her. Just one of the many reasons why I love her so much :)

[wingsofanangel]

I do.. I do!.

I used to think it was a curse.. I would avoid a full blown orgasm at all costs b/c they were/are soooo intense! I've learned to cope and also can usually decide when I want one or not.

For me ... I don't do it all the time just b/c it takes soooo much out of me to let my orgasm go that far.. I get completley exhausted... and don't want to be touched.. just want to sleep... and well sometimes.. i'd rather stay up for more fun.

hehe... glad someone else knows about this.... i felt like a freak for a long time before I discovered what this is.

Sera(anya)

[Widget]

I have had that happen for me as well, I can not always predict when it does but those are some of my best orgasms ever. All I want to do is to do it over and over and over, hehe, one of these days I will find someone that can keep up to me.

The first time it happened to me it really grossed my ex husband out because it left a huge and I do mean huge wet spot on the bed. I didn't even know I had done it and he was not trying to either. It just happened that we had hit on a magic combination of my body position to where he had his fingers. He made me feel pretty embarassed about it. Luckly for me I was with someone after that who thought it was the coolest thing ever.

So ladies if you have it happen for you enjoy it because it is such a awesome feeling and guys make sure if it is the first time to happen for her to tell her how cool you find it. Tell her that any way every single time she does it with you !

[Silke]

*lightbulb* is that what happens? Damn, you learn something new every day, lol. I've been wondering why I flood my bed or sofa from time to time. It's never happened to me while having sex with anybody other than myself - honestly, the sex I've had was rarely all that great, and orgasms were few *sighs*. But I've noticed my orgasms getting stronger, wilder and...erm *blushes*...wetter. ;) It really shocked me and annoyed me a bit when I had to remember putting towels under me or wash my sheets/covers a LOT...but hey, if the feeling is that good. *big grin* I can live with the consequences.

It's not something I can control so far...any ideas how you do this? And I'm not interested in how you stop them, lol...more in how you get there more often. :D

[wingsofanangel]

-giggles- So cute! lol.. Its totally norm. for some women... I felt just like you though.. I wouldn't play without towels lol..

Bascially... I got to the point where I would do kegels.. to strength my muscles... and I would stop RIGHT before it would happen.. when I feel the rush go through my body and the shaking begin... I would stop.... calm down a bit.. and restart.. or stop.. depending how flushed I was...

Just concentrate on learning how it will "feel" .. the things your body goes through right before it happens... then you will learn when to squeeze to "shut it off" or to pull away... this is how I learned...if I just completley let my muscles be over taken.. I am squirting everywhere.

Hope that helps.

Sera (anya)

[Widget]

I have always done kegels ever since I was a teenager because I discovered by accident that it made sex better for me..hahah. I didn't even know that was what I was doing was an exercise or had a name. I have still never really been able to control it from happening. I can sit on the edge of an orgasm forever sometimes until I can not stand it any more but I can't predict if I will squirt or not. I have had it happen sometimes too after I have had my first orgasm and am going in for seconds, but not at the same time as the actual orgasm happens.

I just enjoy the hell out of it and don't worry about it at all any more. I remember reading a personal ad one time from a guy that wanted to find a woman to give oral sex too. He claimed to be an expert at it. Then he blew his cover by stating that all women please make sure they had gone to the washroom first as he had some one "pee" in his face and it was not his thing.

I laughed so hard when I read that. Buddy if she did that then you were doing very well indeed.

[wingsofanangel]

I must admit... there are times I do not do it.. and there are times I can't stop it... but a lot of times.. I try not to... like when I am sleeping over at someones house.. and sneak a good rub! mmmmm

Sera (anya)

[Silke]

Kegels, eh? Seems I'm doing something right...;) Thank you so much for sharing, Sera and Widget - you rock! *grins*

Just concentrate on learning how it will "feel" .. the things your body goes through right before it happens... then you will learn when to squeeze to "shut it off" or to pull away... this is how I learned...if I just completley let my muscles be over taken.. I am squirting everywhere.

Oh hell, I'm going to have fun with this. *grins* Practice makes perfect, so I'll better get to it. :D

I remember reading a personal ad one time from a guy that wanted to find a woman to give oral sex too. He claimed to be an expert at it. Then he blew his cover by stating that all women please make sure they had gone to the washroom first as he had some one "pee" in his face and it was not his thing.

LMAO, now that's funny!! And actually...the first time this happened I thought I must have accidentally peed as well and got really apprehensive about it...lol, not something you want to have happen when having sex with someone. I watched myself closely after that and I'll be damned if I can't tell the difference between peeing and cumming *giggles*, so I knew it wasn't that - but it never occured to me that there was a term for this. I just thought I was, well, wet. ;)

[maddie]

I've heard about it. I think it's happened to me only once, though.

Naturally, wikipedia has an entry on it:

In 2002, Emmanuele Jannini of L'Aquila University in Italy showed one explanation for this phenomenon as well as for the frequent denials of its existence. Skene's gland openings are usually the size of pinholes, and vary in size from one woman to another, to the point where they appear to be missing entirely in some women. If Skene's glands are the cause of female ejaculation, this may explain the observed absence of this phenomenon in many women. Retrograde ejaculation, where the fluid travels up the urethra towards the bladder (observed in 75% of test subjects) could also account for the observed absence.

Ejaculation in women seems to be aided or caused by stimulation of the area of the vagina known as the Gräfenberg spot (often simply known as the G-spot). The content of the ejaculated fluid is either all urine, all glandular secretion, or a combination of both.

Studies of the fluid ejaculated through the urethra have shown a different chemical composition than urine although urine may also be present. Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase, and prostate specific antigen appear in female ejaculate along with lower levels of urea and creatine than found in urine. In some cases, ejaculate was differentiated from urine by the absence of an asparagus smell (after eating asparagus) or a dye.

[Blue_Monday]

I think--although I could be wrong!--that it's wildly exaggerated in porn, as most things are. I know a lot of fluid can be produced, but I don't think anyone squirts halfway up the wall.

My experience is a lot like your fiancee's, George. If my BF works my g-spot with one or two fingers, my backside with one finger, and my clit with his tongue, he'll occasionally get a mouthful. It's so intense that I naturally try to squirm away, so he has to really hold on to me. Yum!

[Widget]

not *gasp* exagerration in porn, those bastards they will stop at nothing !!

I think that Blue_Monday and George have one of the magic tricks to making it happen, it works for me too. Its not the only way but a very good one. I have never had it happen when I am masturbating.

I don't think any one ever squirts up a wall either.. I would not want to have to wash the walls every time..heh

[arwcuw]

I've actually been thinking of this, and it's interesting because I have no idea if I do it or not. I know that I orgasm, and I know that there's lots of wet afterwords, but I have no idea if it's ejaculate or just my body self-lubricating- in other words, I don't know if it came out before, durring, or after.

The reason this is hard to test is my method of masturbation, which probably resulted from early experiments with bondage: I squeeze my thighs together. I've read that the woman who prefers this method, and can reliably orgasm by it, is rare. Anyway, during the entire process, the area is completely closed off- no access allowed. So I can't know if the "humidity levels" suddenly increase at any time.

If anyone can think of a way I can test this, let me know.

[Ozme52]

The first time a woman drenched my thighs... exquisite!!

[Curious George]

Erm... what is a kegel? That's a new one on me.

As for the "squirting up a wall" I've seen a couple of porn vids starring a girl called (something like) Cyntherea who can do just that, fascinating stuff but she really would drown you if you were underneath and unable to move.

[Warbaby1943]

Erm... what is a kegel? That's a new one on me.



Arnold Kegel is a world-renowned gynecologist famous for his namesakes Kegel Perineometer (used for measuring vaginal air pressure) and Kegel exercises (squeezes of the muscles of the pelvic floor).

[Widget]

Kegel, or pelvic floor muscle exercises are done to strengthen the muscles which support the urethra, bladder, uterus and rectum. They enhance enjoyment of sex and women also do them after having babies to help retone the muscle's there and avoid problems later in life that are associated with child birth.

As for squirting up a wall..again exaggeration in porn..never...

Porn is a caricature of everything that is associated with sex. A gross exaggeration. A fantasy. All women are not Barbie dolls with more silicone than my computer chips. All men are not 12 inches of viewing pleasure and able to fuck for hours without cumming. There is all kinds of little tricks they use to make it look like the man is cumming buckets or that the women is squirting up a wall. I think the more common experience is what the women who have commented here have had.

[Usurper]

I know I've never posted on the forums before, but reading this thread I just had to let you know what a great turn-on squirting is for me.

Unfortunately, I've yet to meet a girl who's able to do it. Do people reckon that it can be taught/learnt?

[Widget]

I believe I can be learnt, if you do a search online regarding female ejaculation you will find a great deal of information. You have to be able to locate and stimulate the g-spot in order to cause it to happen and also a great deal is going to depend on you and your partners communication skills.

For me the first time was a surprise as I had said earlier and while I can not control if it will happen, I do know how to increase the chances of it happening. I also believe it is something that is easier for women to do as they grow older due to the fact the the vaginal walls thin as we age and thus making it easier to locate the g-spot to begin with.

Have some fun and do some research. I will include this Link (http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm) because it has a good diagram of how to find the g-spot if you didn't know how to. If nothing else you and your partner will have fun with that. The biggest thing is for you both to relax and have fun without any pressure to have it happen to begin with. Don't make it a mission. It will suck all the fun out of sex for you both.

Have fun,

[Curious George]

I agree, I think the two crucial elements must surely be: i) the woman being comfortable with the partner - there must be plenty of guys who would freak out thereby causing inhibition in the future, and ii) the guy (or partner to be more balanced, they could just as easily be female) needs to be sensible and sensitive enough to locate the correct area.

Like riding a bike though, once you get the knack it seems to follow very naturally. I make sure to tell my SO just how much I like it, how much it turns me on and how close to her I feel because we can do this. Personally, we find that gently massaging her bottom (using aromatic massage oils) as part of the foreplay and during the stimulation, adds an extra level of "oomph" to the proceedings.

[Usurper]

Fantastic comments guys - thank you! Many thanks for the site too widget, very good read...

[Misato36]

I have experienced such orgasms in the past. They are strong and wet and always leave me gasping for air. The first time is wonderful but after around the third time it can become painful for me. I haven't been introduced to kegels but thank you for the information.

[Timberwolf]

"Porn is a caricature of everything that is associated with sex. A gross exaggeration. A fantasy."

Off topic but: I think my generation (I'm almost 25) and younger have totally lost sight of this. The internet has opened a door where anyone who wants it has access to virtually infinite amounts of pornography. And a lot of people are getting very silly ideas.

On squirting: I've never seen it in person, but I have to say, I find it a bit of a gross out. Don't get me wrong if it feels incridible for the female I'm willing to get over it... but I can't say I'd be overly pleased if she squirted buckets all over my face. But again, if it feels great... I'll work on getting over it. ;)

[Timberwolf]

To just expand on my grossed out but I'll get over it comment:

As a switch I've developed a mantra for myself that I should demand nothing of a sub that I myself wouldn't be willing to do if the situation was reversed. "Demand nothing more of others than you are willing to demand of yourself." I admit, I like a girl to swallow for me. This seems a more or less comparable opposite, and if the situation arose she would deserve the same standard that I'd asked to be applied to her.

[Silke]

On squirting: I've never seen it in person, but I have to say, I find it a bit of a gross out. Don't get me wrong if it feels incridible for the female I'm willing to get over it... but I can't say I'd be overly pleased if she squirted buckets all over my face. But again, if it feels great... I'll work on getting over it.

*grins* a bit like I used to feel about a guy cumming all over me ;)...and while I've yet to experience this I must admit the thought of it makes me incredibly hot now. *blushes* I guess tastes really do change...

And I like your mantra by the way. :)

[Widget]

To just expand on my grossed out but I'll get over it comment:

As a switch I've developed a mantra for myself that I should demand nothing of a sub that I myself wouldn't be willing to do if the situation was reversed. "Demand nothing more of others than you are willing to demand of yourself." I admit, I like a girl to swallow for me. This seems a more or less comparable opposite, and if the situation arose she would deserve the same standard that I'd asked to be applied to her.

I have always felt that was more than fair. Besides how rude is that if you gross out over your lovers cum.

[Timberwolf]

"Besides how rude is that if you gross out over your lovers cum."

Yeah... that's a very good point.

Geez, now I feel bad lol.

[Widget]

"Besides how rude is that if you gross out over your lovers cum."

Yeah... that's a very good point.

Geez, now I feel bad lol.

HAHA sorry I didn't mean you, I just meant that is how I felt about it.

[YourThrone]

Seriously, if you're grossed out over your lovers cum, There's a problem somewhere. My girlfriend used to literally squirt buckets all over my face. One time it was so intense thought I was going to drown, also called 911. lol

But then again, I'm a believer in giving as well as recieving.

[Timberwolf]

"Seriously, if you're grossed out over your lovers cum, There's a problem somewhere."

That covers a lot of people, you know.

How many women would say to a guy "don't unload on my face" (for lack of a more polite way to put it)? Never really occured to me to think of that as a problem.

"But then again, I'm a believer in giving as well as recieving."

So am I, it doesn't mean I want to half drown to death over a bit of the lovely tongue flicking.

[MsUther]

Its a time and place for all things, its not always i want cum in my face, and there is a big difference between swallowing and not. But most of the time i love the juices on me, wherever it would please.

I didnt know i was squirting, and it made me a little stressed when i did. I have never acheived that on my own, only with my partner. And i always thought somehow i had managed to pee... and that annoys me a little.. How did i miss out on that info? I dont know why i didnt understand what it was.
And i really liked it. A lot :264:

[Widget]

Its a time and place for all things, its not always i want cum in my face, and there is a big difference between swallowing and not. But most of the time i love the juices on me, wherever it would please.

I didnt know i was squirting, and it made me a little stressed when i did. I have never acheived that on my own, only with my partner. And i always thought somehow i had managed to pee... and that annoys me a little.. How did i miss out on that info? I dont know why i didnt understand what it was.
And i really liked it. A lot :264:

agreed :)

[Asia]

The first time it happened to me, I was with my TV remote control and about 9 years old. I thought I had pee-ed too *smiles* but at that age, I thought it was something 'new' to show my friends but rather wisely decided against it! I love it when my cum stream jets - I love watching it happen and how it feels and how good it looks on my man or womans face, hands and groin. I love being a woman *grins*
Asia
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[learningtopleez]

Interesting question CG! It seems that most of the women who have answered here can! Now you can add one more to the list!;)

I remember the first time I ever squirted! My vanilla b/f at the time was working me over with a new vibrator! Unfortunately he was grossed out and thought I had peed on him! He told me I had better not pee on him again!:dont: So I just started practicing on my own!:rolleyes: When ever I had time to myself, I would use that new vibrator, and like Widget, I could never tell when I would or wouldn't, but it did start happening more frequently! He was never able to cause it to happen though! Too close minded I guess! Finally, a few years after that my ex Dom Max was able to get me to squirt with out a vibrator! Just excellent oral sex on his part!:blurp_ani Course he got me to do lots of things!:cool:

I am still able to squirt now when I masturbate with my friendly vibrator! It does tend to make me very shaky afterwards though! I guess it's cause it so intense! Okay, just wanted to add my .02 cents!:)

[Ozme52]

Interesting question CG! It seems that most of the women who have answered here can! Now you can add one more to the list!;)

I remember the first time I ever squirted! My vanilla b/f at the time was working me over with a new vibrator! Unfortunately he was grossed out and thought I had peed on him! He told me I had better not pee on him again!:dont: So I just started practicing on my own!:rolleyes: When ever I had time to myself, I would use that new vibrator, and like Widget, I could never tell when I would or wouldn't, but it did start happening more frequently! He was never able to cause it to happen though! Too close minded I guess! Finally, a few years after that my ex Dom Max was able to get me to squirt with out a vibrator! Just excellent oral sex on his part!:blurp_ani Course he got me to do lots of things!:cool:

I am still able to squirt now when I masturbate with my friendly vibrator! It does tend to make me very shaky afterwards though! I guess it's cause it so intense! Okay, just wanted to add my .02 cents!:)


Heh heh... That's why we guys tend to be a bit lethargic after cumming... That's how we do it everytime...

[kaelyn]

It has never happened to me, but after reading everyone’s responses about how great it is I am hoping it does one day. If not though I will be Ok, don’t worry. All of my guy friends that have told me about being with women that do have said the first time they had a women do that they did think she peed on them. It always makes me laugh when they get confused like that, I can’t imagine thinking that and not knowing what really is going on. If I was a guy I would be damn proud of it, the ego would go into overdrive (even if it is just the way the women usually cums hehe).

but at that age, I thought it was something 'new' to show my friends but rather wisely decided against it!
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HAHA, that is really funny because one of my friends when we were younger had me watch her masturbate because she squirted when she had an orgasm and thought there was something wrong with her. Not the same as why you wanted to show your friends:) , but it reminded me of her situation.

[Lillypad]

I can ejaculate when I orgasm. I usually don't because it takes some more work then just the average orgasm. My girlfriend however can't help herself from squirting a little.

[Ozme52]

???average orgasms???

Not only do you girls get singles and multiples, you get to choose the intensity...

Damned unfair if you ask me.... :rolleyes:

[Lillypad]

By average I mean without ejac. It's less intense and cuts down on any cean up.

[t.shirt]

This is my 1st post so i hope im doing the right thing but i saw the title and my ex gf was so focused on jet cumming because her friend had told her about it, she ended up not cumming. I stopped going out with her a few days after that!
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[t.shirt]

The first time it happened to me, I was with my TV remote control and about 9 years old. I thought I had pee-ed too *smiles* but at that age, I thought it was something 'new' to show my friends but rather wisely decided against it! I love it when my cum stream jets - I love watching it happen and how it feels and how good it looks on my man or womans face, hands and groin. I love being a woman *grins*
Asia
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You were doing that at aged 9?! I was too busy watching TV. :cool:
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[Ozme52]

By average I mean without ejac. It's less intense and cuts down on any cean up.

Yeah. Like I said, you get to pick and choose how you orgasm. Unfair!! :rolleyes:

[Ozme52]

Is that why we love exerting control through O-denial?



*evil grin*

[Psynymph]

nice Ozme.....lol

i've never done the squirting thing but my Trainer is into it.......it sounds really hot though....i wanna try it......i guess i'll be doing some research...:D

ooo and again if any of you ladies would like to umm *ahem* volunteer to show me this process.....please let me know ;)

*giggles*

[Charlie Brown 169]

agreed :)
:icon176: :icon176: :icon176: :icon176: It hasn't happened very often but four different women that I have been with each ejaculated when I was licking and sucking their clit and cunt. The first time it happened was huge surprise and I was then somewhat surprised because she never mentioned it after. She really came all over my face. It didn't bother me all all, nor did the others. It actually was exciting. I have tried to get my current girl friend to do it but she is too inhibited.

[Silke]

*grins* I want some of that tongue...:D

Good luck with helping your girlfriend over her inhibitions...it'll be a revelation for her, I'm sure. Just keep in mind that some girls are not wired that way, Charlie...it's not all psychological obviously from what I've learned in this thread. :)

[Uzukasai]

Ah yes...I remember the first time I had sex with Caitling *second girl I ever did it with* she did that, and being the young clueless kid I was extremely cofused.

Of course, now it seems awesome to me, god knows that if I get a girl to do that again, I would make sure to clean it afterwards. :)

[scabrat]

Ooooh! this just makes me Hungry all over. :icon176:


Open question to the forum Q: how many woman can actually achieve ejaculation orgasms?

I used to read about it in porn stories but thought it was just pornographic licence, until I met my fiancee! I love to have her in a 69, one finger up her anus and one hunting for the G-spot (I'm fairly sure I've got that off pat now) while I tongue her clit. I know it's on it's way when I feel an internal muscular swelling in her vagina, in the area which I believe is known as the paraurethral glands. Shortly afterwards she will experience one or several (I think five is the most so far) ejaculations/orgasms, which I will swallow. Sometimes it's just a spoonful or two, other times I have had two or three mouthfuls and had to swallow quickly for fear of drowning! I find this an intensely erotic experience, not least of all because it is not something which has ever occured before in my relationships. Afterwards my fiancee is very lightheaded and tends to virtually collapse on the bed, especially those times when she wants to pull away but I force her to stay in position and manage to squeeze one more orgasm out of her. Just one of the many reasons why I love her so much :)

[vistana]

I did that today!
Startled the hell out of me. HAs never happened before, but today, I had a fairly intense scene where I spent an hour or so tied to a chair with earplugs blndfold and gag getting whacked in a totally unpredictable pattern.
I had a whole string of mind-blowing orgasms, totally lost it, spasming all as much as I could, considering I was very firmly tied down, and then all of a sudden, liquid.

They were very intense orgasms, but I'm not sure I'd say the squirt added anything to it, except a bit of a puddle on the chair. Do most women find that the squirting just goes along with more intense orgasms? I've gotten the impression before that ejaculation itself is pleasurable, and I didn't find it to be. It actually distracted me. although I guess I can blame that on this being the first time it's ever happened.

The guy was quite pleased with himself.

[Ozme52]

I can't say about the intensity... not being female... but the ladies I've been with all seem to get more and more comfortable with the idea of an ejaculation and as they do... they find them all the more exciting.

And yes, we tend to be quite pleased with ourselves when we help you discover a new trick. weg*

[moptop]

Well, Vistana, I certainly hope you're going to be posting to your other thread!

I have only consciously ejaculated once, just recently, during an Academy task, as it happens. I don't know if I have done so before and just not noticed - I felt it to be a reaction to the intensity of the orgasm I was having, rather than it making the orgasm more intense, and I think I only noticed because this time it happened when it was just me playing. I think, if I'm cumming through a partner's ministrations, I'm just too damn busy to notice whether I squirt or not. But that recent one certainly was extremely intense - can't say I noticed getting weak afterwards though.

But now I am aware of it, I want to make sure I don't prevent myself from doing it (through embarrasement etc.) when with a partner, because certainly I would then be stopping myself from reaching that real high.

[DrkRvn]

when I first started masterbating i would ejaculate, but i got so embarassed by it I trained my body not to. Now I wish I hadn't. I had it happen once with outwarning the first time I was take doggie style, and I have been trying to get myself to be able to do it again for a few years now, but it hasn't happened again...

[kizzie]

I can only if the guy is hunting for my g-spot with his finger.

[lily27]

Ooooh, I forgot about this thread.

I always figured ejaculation only occured with G-Spot stimulation. However, my recent, first, and only experience was clitoral only.

After a few multiple orgasms with my vibe (as in bam bam bam...pause...bam bam bam.....pause.....bam bam bam....) it just happened. The orgasm was extremely intense, but the ejaculation itself didn't feel like anything special. I did feel it, but it was the orgasm that felt amazing...not the ejaculate.

It was a huge surprise....certainly wasn't expecting it to happen. But I am certainly glad it did.

[ObeyMe]

Well, not being the squirter, but the lucky receipient of one, I can truly say it adds many incredibly satisfiing explosive moments to Oour Dungeon time.

As a Dom, it gives Me incredible fulfillment coaxing handfuls, mouthfuls, upper body showers, and many many bedclothes sent to the washer amounts of cum from Mine.

And I assure you with some practice, shots 4-6 feet away occur regularly.

I was soo surprised the first time it happened, but fell love with that feeling of flooding, over the years, its only gotten more intense.

[Echoes]

so it is not really peeing then? The only way I have been able to stop is to not orgasm at all. I was told I was not experiencing a true orgasm (she said clittoral orgasm) and that it was only pee and anyone can do this? Going to sites do not really clear this up. How would one know the difference between peeing and squirting?

[Ozme52]

so it is not really peeing then? The only way I have been able to stop is to not orgasm at all. I was told I was not experiencing a true orgasm (she said clittoral orgasm) and that it was only pee and anyone can do this? Going to sites do not really clear this up. How would one know the difference between peeing and squirting?

Empty your bladder before hand. Then you'll know.

...or taste it. :icon176:

And if you can cam it... notice that it comes from within the vagina and not from the urethra. The so-called G-spot is on the vaginal wall and presumably becomes engorged when stimulated. The ejaculation occurs because of intense muscle spasms in the vaginal walls... especially the kegal muscles...

You use the kegals to cut off urine flow, so it is unlikely that you are peeing during an actual orgasm....

[ObeyMe]

Definitely not urinating.

And it doesnt always need to be a direct stimulation of the G-Spot. Although, imo, it does need the G-Spot to be stimulated when just learning, or discovering the ability to squirt.

These contractions, that promote the forceful cums, are from deeper within the body, as you feel your O building, try and resist cumming, then bear down from your abdominal muscles, push out from within the vagina, and use your abdominal muscles to generate the force behind the squirting.

Some are happy with flooding, some find the whole thing gross, although I cant imagine why, Me I love the absolute force that shoots the fluid out, it is a type of high, so girls, practice this, and make someone in your life wet and happy...:D

[Talia]

make someone in your life wet and happy...:D

ohhhhhh! I wanna learn! Reading all this I've been torn between being grossed out and wanting to try. But seeing how most men seem to find this a turn on and Master telling me he likes it...welll....I gotta try it! Damn, I can't wait until he's done with all these hours at so we can play. :rolleyes:

[Widget]

ohhhhhh! I wanna learn! Reading all this I've been torn between being grossed out and wanting to try. But seeing how most men seem to find this a turn on and Master telling me he likes it...welll....I gotta try it! Damn, I can't wait until he's done with all these hours at so we can play. :rolleyes:

Oh and you should, trust me its awesome. I bet your master makes you feel so hot about doing it that your gonna get even more turned on. The first time i was able to see myself squirt and hit my partner in the chest was ....wow...hot.

The right person can keep you gushing and squirting for a shocking amount of time. Tip; drink a lot of water the day of and before. After all the ejuaculate is made mostly of water and if you are dehydrated you're not goona do it.

[taintedlove]

I agree that this is something that can be "learned" or "taught." It's a matter of becoming comfortable with your body and learning to read its signs...and of letting go, both mentally and physically. The first time I did this it really freaked me out; I was being coached while I masturbated, so I really had to concentrate and feel what was going on with my body. I agree that it feels like peeing at first, but OMG it's so freaking hott. And water intake does have a lot to do with it, not just the intensity of the orgasm.

[ObeyMe]

MMMMMMMMMMM...agreed tainted, and how wonderful to have shared this, and that with someOne......;)

[vampyres{ID}]

I think--although I could be wrong!--that it's wildly exaggerated in porn, as most things are. I know a lot of fluid can be produced, but I don't think anyone squirts halfway up the wall.

My experience is a lot like your fiancee's, George. If my BF works my g-spot with one or two fingers, my backside with one finger, and my clit with his tongue, he'll occasionally get a mouthful. It's so intense that I naturally try to squirm away, so he has to really hold on to me. Yum!

There are a few who really do have that much pressure, and that much liquid, and can squirt that far, that high, and that much, and it is really really really messy and embarrassing some of the time, even worse when filming for comparrision (Afterwards because I never much think about it while doing) the funniest part is when it happens durring any vaginal because it comes out with enough pressure to expel most anything (Which is one of the main reasons I avoid standard penitrations, that is the real embarrassing part for me and the guy)

[Echoes]

ok, thank you everyone...and hesitatingly adding another question.

There is another kind of squirting or gushing from deep inside and this too is copious amounts, not stimulated by the g spot or clitorus but from somewhere by the cervix I think...what is this?

This has happened to me only once but whatever it was oozed out of me. It was a completely different orgasm than any other I had felt.

[Widget]

There is supposed to be another spot simalar to the g spot near the area you have described. I have felt that before too. Hell anything that makes me feel that good is ok with me hahaha.

[Talia]

There is another kind of squirting or gushing from deep inside and this too is copious amounts, not stimulated by the g spot or clitorus but from somewhere by the cervix I think...what is this?



The area you discribed is the A spot

[Echoes]

The area you discribed is the A spot

Thank you Talia, I will go look this up and read on it.

[buzzy]

I love orally pleasing a woman. When she's squirts and fills my mouth full of her, I know oh ya you did it right!! Then you get to clean her up and have more fun hearing her giggle.

[slave327-834-200]

I remember reading this thread with interest when I first joined the site as I was initially a non-believer, thinking that female ejaculation was urinating as I had only seen it in pornos when it had either seemed over exaggerated or fake but reading through everyones posts I was very interested to find so many people who had experienced it and some who believed that you could train yourself to do it... can you see where this is leading yet?

So, as I share everything with my beloved Master I had told him of my interest in wanting to experience this and as I had guessed he would he took the challenge upon himself whole heartedly! We started will manual stimulation of my g-spot, god has given this man extremely gifted fingers, and before long I was experiencing multiple orgasms unlike anything I have ever had before. I am lucky that I know he delights in holding me firmly in place, to stop me squirming away, as he pulls yet another orgasm from me!

The last couple of times, before today, that we had these wonderfully prolonged cumming sessions I had started to truly ejaculate. I have become relaxed enough to allow it to happen, to allow my body to react naturally to the sensations its feeling and gush with my cum. Master was delighted that he could feel the flooding against his fingers and loved to show me the wet spot I had made, telling me what a clever girl I was, but the challenge was only partly fulfilled for him... you see, he wanted to make me squirt and to do so he enlisted some help.

Our box of new toys arrived on Monday and in it, amongst other things, was a g-spot vibe, perfectly contoured to stimulate that hidden area. I knew what todays goal was and I didn't want to disappoint him in anyway so I made sure I was mentally prepared and relaxed enough to let what may happen happen. He lay me down on the bed and spread me wide before slipping the blindfold on and plugging my ears. We had already had a warm up session by now, with some clitoral orgasms so i was ready and receptive and when he started to work me with the vibe I knew it wouldn't take long before I would be gushing and flooding for him. I'm not sure exactly how long it lasted for, it seemed like an age but I came over and over and over again, crying out and squirming against the vibe, feeling my cum pour from me, feeling the wet patch underneath me growing as he kept on pulling me back towards him and working me hard, until eventually I had to admit defeat.

He quickly pulled me to him and removed my blindfold, kissing me and asking if I was ok, I giggled that I was amazing but to give me a sec. As I looked down at the bed I was amazed at the size of the puddle and asked him "Did I do that?" and he told me yes I had and not only that but out of the numerous times I had come I had squirted 3 times. I could see for myself that it was the truth from the spray pattern on the sheets. I was delighted as I had hoped I would as at the times I had felt myself cumming I had pushed, hoping to force it from myself but unfortunately as I was blindfolded I never saw it happen or even knew at the time that I had managed it.

So there we go, thats our story from another wonderful Wednesday session and I have to say that it was even more special as we were having a day of pre-birthday celebration for Master as we cant be together on the day next week. I am so happy that I gave him this as an extra special gift, though you might have been mistaken to think it was my special day after the pleasure he gave me, but to me every day I have known him has been special.

:pray:Master, did the squirting beat Lego Batman to your favourite gift spot?

[Rhabbi]

The last couple of times, before today, that we had these wonderfully prolonged cumming sessions I had started to truly ejaculate. I have become relaxed enough to allow it to happen, to allow my body to react naturally to the sensations its feeling and gush with my cum. Master was delighted that he could feel the flooding against his fingers and loved to show me the wet spot I had made, telling me what a clever girl I was, but the challenge was only partly fulfilled for him... you see, he wanted to make me squirt and to do so he enlisted some help.

Let me get this straight, he trained you to ejaculate?

The reason I am asking is I once had a girlfriend who ejaculated all the time, and I mean intensly. She warned me about it the first time, and I thought she meant that there would be a little bit, as I had experienced that before.

If I had a cup to catch her ejaculation, I swear there would have been at least 3 ounces, and that was a small one. If she had made porno mivies she would have been world famous, let me tell you. We always used a towel, other wise that infamous wet spot would have made us both sleep somewhere else.

Anyway, I go so I enjoyed the sensation, and I would like to experience it again. If your master would not mind posting some pointers, I for one, would appreciate it.

[His_blizzard]

I've actually been thinking of this, and it's interesting because I have no idea if I do it or not. I know that I orgasm, and I know that there's lots of wet afterwords, but I have no idea if it's ejaculate or just my body self-lubricating- in other words, I don't know if it came out before, durring, or after.

I can't answer for anyone but myself, but I see a profound difference between getting very wet after great sex and what happens when I "squirt". When I actually ejaculate, it is just like that. I am stimulated to a point were fluid literally gushes from me, and not the calmer oozing of lubricating fluids. Had Master (who was the first to ever find the right way to make this occur, TY Master <weg>) not explained to me what could happen, I would have just assumed I had urinated or broken something! It is the most amazing sexual experience I have ever had.
FYI: For the most part, I "squirt" best and hardest when I am kneeling upright and Master is pleasuring me with his hand. That works best for us, and he doesn't have to worry about drowning. :-) "Peace" ~blizz~

[frankee]

I remember reading this thread with interest when I first joined the site as I was initially a non-believer, thinking that female ejaculation was urinating as I had only seen it in pornos when it had either seemed over exaggerated or fake but reading through everyones posts I was very interested to find so many people who had experienced it and some who believed that you could train yourself to do it... can you see where this is leading yet?

So, as I share everything with my beloved Master I had told him of my interest in wanting to experience this and as I had guessed he would he took the challenge upon himself whole heartedly! We started will manual stimulation of my g-spot, god has given this man extremely gifted fingers, and before long I was experiencing multiple orgasms unlike anything I have ever had before. I am lucky that I know he delights in holding me firmly in place, to stop me squirming away, as he pulls yet another orgasm from me!

The last couple of times, before today, that we had these wonderfully prolonged cumming sessions I had started to truly ejaculate. I have become relaxed enough to allow it to happen, to allow my body to react naturally to the sensations its feeling and gush with my cum. Master was delighted that he could feel the flooding against his fingers and loved to show me the wet spot I had made, telling me what a clever girl I was, but the challenge was only partly fulfilled for him... you see, he wanted to make me squirt and to do so he enlisted some help.

Our box of new toys arrived on Monday and in it, amongst other things, was a g-spot vibe, perfectly contoured to stimulate that hidden area. I knew what todays goal was and I didn't want to disappoint him in anyway so I made sure I was mentally prepared and relaxed enough to let what may happen happen. He lay me down on the bed and spread me wide before slipping the blindfold on and plugging my ears. We had already had a warm up session by now, with some clitoral orgasms so i was ready and receptive and when he started to work me with the vibe I knew it wouldn't take long before I would be gushing and flooding for him. I'm not sure exactly how long it lasted for, it seemed like an age but I came over and over and over again, crying out and squirming against the vibe, feeling my cum pour from me, feeling the wet patch underneath me growing as he kept on pulling me back towards him and working me hard, until eventually I had to admit defeat.

He quickly pulled me to him and removed my blindfold, kissing me and asking if I was ok, I giggled that I was amazing but to give me a sec. As I looked down at the bed I was amazed at the size of the puddle and asked him "Did I do that?" and he told me yes I had and not only that but out of the numerous times I had come I had squirted 3 times. I could see for myself that it was the truth from the spray pattern on the sheets. I was delighted as I had hoped I would as at the times I had felt myself cumming I had pushed, hoping to force it from myself but unfortunately as I was blindfolded I never saw it happen or even knew at the time that I had managed it.

So there we go, thats our story from another wonderful Wednesday session and I have to say that it was even more special as we were having a day of pre-birthday celebration for Master as we cant be together on the day next week. I am so happy that I gave him this as an extra special gift, though you might have been mistaken to think it was my special day after the pleasure he gave me, but to me every day I have known him has been special.

:pray:Master, did the squirting beat Lego Batman to your favourite gift spot?

Good god!! i got exhausted reading that (among other things).

*goes in search of a cold shower*

[slave327-834-200]

Let me get this straight, he trained you to ejaculate?

The reason I am asking is I once had a girlfriend who ejaculated all the time, and I mean intensly. She warned me about it the first time, and I thought she meant that there would be a little bit, as I had experienced that before.

If I had a cup to catch her ejaculation, I swear there would have been at least 3 ounces, and that was a small one. If she had made porno mivies she would have been world famous, let me tell you. We always used a towel, other wise that infamous wet spot would have made us both sleep somewhere else.

Anyway, I go so I enjoyed the sensation, and I would like to experience it again. If your master would not mind posting some pointers, I for one, would appreciate it.

I suppose that I am saying that he trained me to ejaculate. I had never experienced it before and it took quite a long time to get to the point we are now at.

I'm not sure what words of wisdom Master would impart to you about being able to do this but I will put in what my thoughts on it are.

The most important thing that we share, apart from unfaltering love, is trust and with that we are 100% comfortable with one another and this goes a long way to being able to experiment.

Like a lot of women I had a tendency to pull away when I orgasmed but to achieve the level of heightened arousal I needed to ejaculate I had to stop doing this and to allow Master to push me further and further. Initially he would have to hold me in place to stop me squirming away but now I know I can achieve mind-blowing climaxes if i breath deeply, relax and let him persevere, that is a key factor here - perseverence!

We have only achieved these ejaculatory orgasms through stimulation of the g-spot either from his fingers or our new favourite toy (smiling just think about it) and as I said in my previous post I wasn't sure I had squirted until he told me but when I felt myself cumming I pushed it from me in the hope that I would.

I'm not sure if I'm just lucky to be able to experience these types of orgasms or if all women have the potential and with some it is locked away further than in others but with a lot of care and attention we managed to unleash it.

[master 327-834-200]

I can't answer for anyone but myself, but I see a profound difference between getting very wet after great sex and what happens when I "squirt". When I actually ejaculate, it is just like that. I am stimulated to a point were fluid literally gushes from me, and not the calmer oozing of lubricating fluids. Had Master (who was the first to ever find the right way to make this occur, TY Master <weg>) not explained to me what could happen, I would have just assumed I had urinated or broken something! It is the most amazing sexual experience I have ever had.
FYI: For the most part, I "squirt" best and hardest when I am kneeling upright and Master is pleasuring me with his hand. That works best for us, and he doesn't have to worry about drowning. :-) "Peace" ~blizz~

Yes Blizzard, there is a great deal of difference between the two. There is no chance of confusing them either.

What slave and I experienced yesterday was the culmination of much loving play over many weeks and a very memorable day for many reasons. I have always known this was possible with my darling slave but I am not sure that it will be possible for every woman to achieve, but heck it will be great fun trying even if you don't succeed though it takes a lot of patience and you will need a very giving lover.

[master 327-834-200]

I remember reading this thread with interest when I first joined the site as I was initially a non-believer, thinking that female ejaculation was urinating as I had only seen it in pornos when it had either seemed over exaggerated or fake but reading through everyones posts I was very.............................................. .................................................. .....
.................................................. ..special gift, though you might have been mistaken to think it was my special day after the pleasure he gave me, but to me every day I have known him has been special.

:pray:Master, did the squirting beat Lego Batman to your favourite gift spot?

What can I say except you are a very special girl and I love you dearly.

For you darling

[tessa]

I am sure it's different in many ways for all, but here is my experience with female ejaculation.

The first time it happened, I was by myself, playing. I thought I had tinkled. So for a few years after that, I'd tense up during orgasm, holding my muscles in tight so I wouldn't "wet the bed" as I thought I was doing. It really did bother me quite a bit. Then along came the magic of the internet. I found out that there is such a thing as female ejaculation. I was pretty damn happy, let me say. Nice to find out you aren't a bed-wetter!

So I started utilizing this new information. Initially, it was all from clitoral stimulation. I found out that if I just let go and pushed out with my muscles at the onset of orgasm, I would squirt. The amount depended on how hydrated I was. Then, one fantabulous day, I discovered my g-spot. Orgasms without clitoral stimulation?!? But YAY!! And I found out at that point that I would gush even more fluids if my g-spot was stimulated for a time before orgasm. A win-win for me, to be sure!

Since then, I have learned more about how all this works for me. I can't gush with a toy or cock filling my cunt. BUT, if I have a couple clitoral orgasms while filled, then when I have that next g-spot or clitoral Oh, I will gush like a geyser! My husband has the towels ready to cover in case it's a sky-high one. It can be a serious mess to clean up, but well worth the effort in my opinion. ~laughs~ I just heard the choruses of "well, duh!!" from around the Forums after making that last comment.

Hope that helps you out some, Rhabbi. :)

[wingsofanangel]

After actually having sex now... I know that I can do it without just clitoral stimulation.

Being on top and kind of laying forward and grinding back and forth does it... yes there is some clit stim there... but the motion of his cock feeling likes its going to break through me.. is great. I came after moving back and forth just 5 times.... it was literally about 20 seconds.. I was spent! He kept going.. wouldn't let me stop... and then flipped me and got on top.. I came 3 times that night and was sobbing at the end it was soooooo intense...

I looooove ejac! But yes.. for me I have to be mentally prepared for it because it is sooo intense for me.

Also . I'd like to point out... to those who are scared of being EJacked on. Its pretty much clear, odorless, tasteless..... unlike cum which has a ... thicker texture... more color.. and can have odor or taste.. ( not always bad, but some)

[naughtylittleme]

I can't do this :( Hubby would love it if I could. I do get that sensation like I am going to wet myself but nothing ever comes of it just a regular orgasm. I want to be able to do this but I think it is a mixture of a few things 1 I can't let go yet and just let it happen and 2 I NEVER drink water ever lol that could be an issue. I figure I am lucky with the orgasm alone. I do not orgasm easily at all. We can play for hours and I will orgasm only one or two times no matter what he does to me. He knows exactly where my g spot is knows how to stimulate it I just don't orgasm. The other thing I've noticed is I am only able to orgasm from either oral or when I'm on top no other position we've found does it for me either. I don't get it I feel like we are doing something wrong??

[Isabelle90]

Is this some kind of a sign? This just happened to me for the first time, TODAY!!! Fortunately, I had read this thread before along with a few other resources. However, I honestly believed that women were just "fooling" themselves. Really they were only "wetting the bed", I thought, as did Tessa. I stand corrected!

When it happened, I felt the warm gush over my hand and was surprised because I had a dildo in. After I recovered, I looked on the bed and saw that I had squirted almost 12 inches away from where I was seated. It was clear and odorless, but a bit thicker than water. I was so shaky that I couldn't stand for a few minutes.

I've been doing more intense Kegel exercises, and I'm inclined to believe that helped to not only achieve this, but in the distance I ejaculated as well. I'm thinking this might be an Olympic event! LOL Guess I'll just have to practice, practice, practice!! Yay!

[thrall]

LOL..........as it have said it the past..*wink*

It gives a whole new meaning to the the words "wet spot"........

[newby]

i've done it once, by myself using a vibe. i just happened to have a mirror positioned so i could watch, having no idea i was gonna squirt, so that was kinda a bonus. my Man wants me to do it so bad & he gets me right there but i've never been able to get all the way. But i'm kinda like naughtylittleme. i have trouble having an orgasm at all. i can w/ a vibe on my clit almost any time but hardly ever w/ any other stimulation. He gives the best oral i've ever had & He works magic on my g-spot. He & i have the most open communication & i'm not embarassed or anything so i dunno why "it" eludes me. i'm mid 40's & have been around in my day so you woulda thought i'd figured out how it works by now.

[naughtylittleme]

Hey at least I don't feel so alone now lol. Now while our play session was rather blah last night cuz I was so not in the mood I did climax once. I noticed something because I was really paying attention to what I was doing with my body. I was actually trying to hmmm I guess push out like you do when you are having a child. I couldn't do it I mean I could for a few seconds but then it was like I would tense all up again and I would be for lack of a better term sucking in clenching the muscles you tighten to do kegels basically. I think this could be part of my problem I am sucking when I should blow lmao!

[newby]

I think this could be part of my problem I am sucking when I should blow lmao!

ha ha ha that cracks me up

[good_girl]

Hey at least I don't feel so alone now lol. Now while our play session was rather blah last night cuz I was so not in the mood I did climax once. I noticed something because I was really paying attention to what I was doing with my body. I was actually trying to hmmm I guess push out like you do when you are having a child. I couldn't do it I mean I could for a few seconds but then it was like I would tense all up again and I would be for lack of a better term sucking in clenching the muscles you tighten to do kegels basically. I think this could be part of my problem I am sucking when I should blow lmao!

Puts a whole new spin on the term "blow job" lmao but you are exactly right.

I had no idea I was so lucky, this has always come naturally for me :d

[naughtylittleme]

Well you know what they say if at first you fail try try again lol. I may never be a squirter but I'm gonna have a lot of fun practicing lol.

B

[sub84]

though it doesnt happen often i have had them too. they are the most intense orgasms and i can usually only have one where i actually ejaculate and then after that i become so sensitive i cant stand to be touched for at least an hour or so. they are very unpredictable for me but i can feel them coming on.

[fetishdj]

I read somewhere online many many years ago (a reasonably reputable source, I have to say) that the sensation of a female about to ejaculate is often like being desperate to go to the toilet - that feeling fit to burst - and that many women find this sensation offputting which is why they rarely ejaculate. Many times they mistake the ejaculation sensation for actually needing the toilet and so 'clamp down' so as not to indulge in unexpected water sports thereby killing the ejaculation.

Different women have different sensitivities. Some take a lot of effort even to get a normal orgasm (yes, even when doing it themselves) while others explode almost as soon as touched. Others find the sensation of clitoral stimulation actually painful - even a light touch can hurt - but can easily orgasm with a vaginal or even labial stimulus. So, female ejaculation is equally rare for some and common for others depending on an individual's sensitivities and willingness to 'let go' during sex. Many women will never have one (just as many have never had an orgasm) while some will have them all the time. Just a symptom of natural variation.

[icey]

my clit is very sensitive i cant bear it touching unless its rough and/or painful.

i have them very often the 'gushy' orgasms,more often than not and they feel totally different to the other kind...what i call the creamy ones.

they make one hell of a mess and if we've been outdoors and are for some reason wearing knickers then i come home feeling and looking like ive had an accident.

Icehawk had me do it on a packed out club dancefloor one time and there was a puddle some drunk girl slipped lol luckily she didnt hit the floor and she found it amusing although im not sure that she realised what it was :eek:

i find they are very tiring afterwards maybe its dehydration or something i lose quite a lot especially if you have multiple ones and for some reason they tend to leave me with mild period type pains,both stomach and back.

[Isabella King]

I've never experienced female ejaculation but this thread reminded me of a time when he refused to allow me to pee. He kept it up for hours and hours - even forcing me to sit in a cafe and drink a glass of iced water.

I got to the stage where my muscles just couldn't hold on anymore and I let just a tiny trickle out, in the hope that it might ease the excruiating pain. instead, it triggered an orgasm and in the throws of that I lost control of my bladder and pee'd all over the seat. It was both horrifying and glorious at the same time.

[fetishdj]

Period type pains are probably exactly that - period pains, in that they are caused by the constant contraction and relaxation of the uterine wall which you need to do in order to expel a lot of liquid (be it blood or ejaculate) from the body.

A 'normal' orgasm is pretty tiring as it is (if you do it right :) ) so one of these must be even more tiring than that. The dehydration probably doesn't help. You could try drinking water before or after sex to prevent this feeling. I know I always feel thirsty afterwards and I don't lose all that much fluid during and am usually fairly efficient at water control in that I rarely get dehydrated.

[Widget]

If you ever get that kind of orgasm and you get a partner that thinks you just did THE HOTTEST THING EVER! To hell with the mess, then you always love that level of orgasm more than anything else does after words. If you never did it before it’s hard to explain because most people only ever see one on porn and it just looks fake and messy.

If you do it with a person who fucking goes nuts seeing you squirt all over then you just keep on going until one of you gets too tired to go on. I have ruined more than one pillow that way and I never in my life yelled during an orgasm until I squirted. The wet pillows were slept on time to time by my partner who said they loved the idea of sleeping on all that cum and smelling it all night long. The level of release is fantastic. It seems like the g spot orgasm with the squirting just taps into some primal sexual level you never knew you had. For some reason it’s all female sexuality felt %100 while you’re doing it.

sides it also gives a person that Mona Lisa smile when they think about all that cum soaking the sheets later on.....and when they get asked what the smile is for well.....


a few things to consider, if your trying to have your partner stimulate your g spot and your not getting any luck with it, I found that a firmer more strong stroking with the fingers got the action going on, where more gentle or stroking across instead of pushing more directly on the g spot does not work as well. Drinking lots of water is important because you have no idea how much fluid you can squirt until you see it with your own eyes. If you are just finding out the g spot orgasm and you and your partner are doing it for long periods of time and often you may find you get a bit irritated and may feel a urge to pee allot after. Just give it a break for a bit let things settle down after all that stimulation.

If you feel an urge to pee while the g spot is stimulated that is normal because the G-spot is on the front wall so your bladder is being pushed not necessarily because you need to pee. You are not likely to pee yourself no matter how intense the feeling may get. That feeling passes once orgasm approaches most of the time, and if you do need to urinate women rarely can pee with anything in their vagina no matter how hard they try to do so. Just go to the washroom first and then go for it.

You must learn to completely relax as well. You cannot tense up your pc muscles and get a g spot orgasm to happen for you. You cannot worry about how tight you feel to your partner or worry about accidentally peeing yourself if you just relax totally. Besides most men find it exciting to feel how much muscle control your vagina has when you can either complete open or tighten yourself during sex. The deepest orgasms happen when your pelvic floor is open and relaxed during stimulation. Try to feel how much you may be tightening your self during any penetration without really realizing what you’re doing and then consciously completely relax and allow your partner to just touch you. It’s a huge difference in how your body responds.

[fetishdj]

BTW, just FYI... all the G spots and A spots and so on are really just the clitoris which extends back into your vaginal area in a loop. Where the flesh is thinner, this clitoral tissue is closer to the surface and this is where you can feel a more intense stimulation.