What is your fetish?

[_ID_]

With the knife play thread going on here, and its unexpeted popularity, as well as other threads about what people enjoy within the lifestyle. I searched the site to se if there was one about favorite fetishes. I couldn't find one. So I thought I would start a thread asking about it.

I know everyone has a fetish, and there are a zillion ways to enjoy bdsm, and even more fetishes that don't nessicarily involve BDSM. So if you feel bold enough to tell people what your fetish is. Please post it, I enjoy hearing about the obsure, learning more about people than I already knew.

To drive my point home about there being fetishes for all kinds. I thought I would add this picture. If it doesnt meet the picture requirements, mods please remove it.

So onto the point of the thread

My fetish is asphyxia. I enjoy the exchange of power when the submissive gives herself over to allowing you to control such a basic thing in her life. Her air. Huge turn on for me.

What is your fetish?

V/R
ID

[maddie]

I know this won't come as much of a shock to some (waves to Qmoq and Woogsbie), but I'd have to say shoes. The right pair of shoes can really put me in the proper mood for a few hours of play.

It's not especially kinky or anything, but there you have it.

[Dundee]

Overpowering and dominating mentally strong, powerful and beautiful woman and ordering them to do a variety dirty, slutty things for BOTH our pleasure.

Knowing that you have the ability to make such a woman willing to submit her body and mind using your voice and command, even when she might be a switch, is the most arousing feeling and its been that way since I first had the pleasure of meeting such a woman. Now, all others have to meet that standard. Bloody hard work. lol!
DM

[Radiance]

Hard ,anal loving ,sexy men that are truthful and honest thats my fetish

[nothing and nowhere]

i have a few fetishes, but the strongest one i'd have to say is probably for restrictive clothing - corsets in particular. it might be a bit of a strange one for a guy to enjoy and generally involves cross dressing, unless you have money to spend on specialist clothing such as arm-binders. the restriction that comes with being laced into clothing that might otherwise be perfectly normal to wear in public just totally gets me going.

[submissivewife]

HAIR...pull my hair and WOW! Knife play is right up there too.

[_ID_]

i have a few fetishes, but the strongest one i'd have to say is probably for restrictive clothing - corsets in particular. it might be a bit of a strange one for a guy to enjoy and generally involves cross dressing, unless you have money to spend on specialist clothing such as arm-binders. the restriction that comes with being laced into clothing that might otherwise be perfectly normal to wear in public just totally gets me going.

Do not feel strange by this. I personally know a fellow who enjoys this particular fetish a great deal. He is in no way feminine, just enjoyes the restrictive feel of a corset. I inteded this thread to introduce new fetishes others haven't heard of. Thanks for your addition.

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ID

[MsUther]

Uniforms, me and/or him. Food play, not very advanced, but watching someone i fancy while they eat, preferably by using only their hands.... ooooh thats so nice. Having someone eat chocolate or fudge off me...lick, bite and suck me clean.
Watching men kiss or have sex. And shoes!

[Asia]

ID, submissivewife and MsUther
We seem to have a lot in common it seems... *winks*
ID: Your knife and weapon play thread has been great and it's good to know that it's something that quite a few of us enjoy *smiles*.

Apart from the usual (e.g. collars, cuffs, spanking, photos, Dom/sub uniform role-play, harsh, sexy voices, latex, exhibitionism, outdoors, etc) my biggest fetish is erotic asphyxiation, being held up against a wall with a firm hand around my neck (the favourite part of my body) while being man-handled and slapped, etc is such a sensational feeling. Also, being choked and strangled so I can hardly breath while I'll being fucked and/or being finger-fucked at the same time is too sublime to describe. I have passed out when reaching climax a few times as I was enjoying it so much I forget to use our 'get out' sign. My poor Man freaked out and refused to play for about erm.. a week *phew*

Also being slapped repeatedly and sharply on my facing when He is forcing his cock into my mouth when I'm on my knees, using my long hair as a leash to drag me back in.

And I apologise as this has become a shopping list but being spat at on my face before and during 'forced' sex and on my pussy and then watching Him rub it into my cunt and then fucking me.

And finally - I promise! - being fucked with a large icicle (easy to make, condom+water+freezer+running hot water on it before otherwise it sticks *ouch*). It's deliciously yummy. Multiple Orgasm City.

PS: Dundee *smiles*

[MsUther]

Oh that post of yours, Asia. Its so hot to read.

[Dundee]

Oh that post of yours, Asia. Its so hot to read.

Isn't it just. :hubba: Like both of your photos ;)

[animanota]

mine has to be bondage and assplay. There is just something about having someone bound and helpless as you explore their most secret of places.

[Timberwolf]

"Having someone eat chocolate or fudge off me...lick, bite and suck me clean."

Come on over sometime. ;)

[Timberwolf]

A lot of good fun stuff already mentioned, so I'll try not to go over ground that's already covered. Some other stuff I enjoy:

Leashes/collars: Very basic for most of us. It was the first "BDSM symbol" I really identified with and they do make me hot.

Pet play: Get down on all fours, crawl around, bark, eat out of a dish, give sexual favours. That's the ticket. I wouldn't want do do it absolutely full time but in doses it is great stuff.

Beastiality: Related though also quite different from the above. Not everyone's cup of tea and I'd enver pressure someone to get into it if it grossed them out. But since we've got knife play, fire play, and rape play all floating around, this is hardly a step any further into the extreme.

Subs who take their orders with a little bit of atitude once in a while.

A lot of different outfits/costumes.

Tons of other stuff too lol... some of it already mentioned some I just haven't thought of right now. If it feels good to you, do it!

[ChurchofVirus]

All my fetishes are on/recieved my partner. Goth/Punk grrls are my number one fetish. Gotta love them(I'm sort of one myself), boots and sexy shoes, corsets, fishnet, lingerie, stockings/knee socks, leather, latex, sexy clothes, assplay, collars and chains, dirty talking, piercings.. I think that covers most.

[M@ster{sg}]

mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....

second place, body harnesses, gotta love it ^o^

[dzire2pleeze]

[QUOTE=M@ster]mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....QUOTE]

Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.

[Nikita]

mine has to be bondage and assplay. There is just something about having someone bound and helpless as you explore their most secret of places.
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[SheepishJaina]

Figging has got to be my top fetish. I first learned of it here (bows to whomever started a thread on it a long while ago). Nothing gets me wetter than a good enema too. Perform an enema and then some figging play. mmmmmm :hubbahubb :cheerlead You'll have a made a very turned on willing sub outta me.

While it may not be a fetish persay, being called a slut is something I crave whenever playing.




Oh... and I have a sheep fetish... in a purely innocent, childlike goofy way... but I'm sure some of you chat room folks have figured that out by now...

[Tojo]

Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.[/QUOTE]


Oh my. ;pant;

And hair- which will come as no surprise.
Wet hair, long hair, touching & smelling- & of course a handful of hair is just the thing to hold her head gently but firmly for a nice kiss.

Tojo

[katie_21]

light spanking, hair pulling, and of course bondage lol

I'm not extremely kinky but I do have my moments :)

[Scorpio'sWill2Power]

I've always enjoyed a combination of things such as
hair pulling and twisting, deep anal, and little Erotic
asphyxiation.

Nothing excessive on the last part, just enough to
give a bit of a rush and always keeping things safe.

For myself I'm big into the aspect of tearing clothes
off, ripping pantys, stockings, pantyhose, blouses,
whatever happend to be in the way at the moment.

It's kinda like those animal urges take over and you
need it right then an there and you can't or won't stop
yourself.

Probably the best thing is making a hookup with your
signficant other in their work environment if that's
possible to do.

My thing was making a trip now and again to her job and
locking the door to her office, ripping her panties right the fuck
off and doing her ass while she's bent over the desk with her
skirt around her ankles.

Pulling that hair and having my arm just snug under her throat
till she gets a bit woozy, both of us going full tilt till we cum
off and I feel the wetness just ooze between her folds as
I'm unloading hot and heavy up her ass.

Even doing it regular style is a total rush when things
get like this and you both let the beastial side slip out.

Even better if she's wearing her cum fuck me pumps or some
hot boots.

Whewwwwwwww, shit, just thinking about it get's me
stoked!!!

I guess there's a bunch of other stuff as well that will
get my blood to boiling but hell, I gotta keep some things
private, Ha Ha Ha Ha.

[_ID_]

Figging has got to be my top fetish.

This one is a new one on me. I must say, I will have to do some reading. Thanks for the introduction to it. Learning of fetishes I haven't heard of before is the very reason I started this thread. Thanks!

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[Nikita]

I've always enjoyed a combination of things such as
hair pulling and twisting, deep anal, and little Erotic
asphyxiation.

Nothing excessive on the last part, just enough to
give a bit of a rush and always keeping things safe.

For myself I'm big into the aspect of tearing clothes
off, ripping pantys, stockings, pantyhose, blouses,
whatever happend to be in the way at the moment.

It's kinda like those animal urges take over and you
need it right then an there and you can't or won't stop
yourself.

Probably the best thing is making a hookup with your
signficant other in their work environment if that's
possible to do.

My thing was making a trip now and again to her job and
locking the door to her office, ripping her panties right the fuck
off and doing her ass while she's bent over the desk with her
skirt around her ankles.

Pulling that hair and having my arm just snug under her throat
till she gets a bit woozy, both of us going full tilt till we cum
off and I feel the wetness just ooze between her folds as
I'm unloading hot and heavy up her ass.

Even doing it regular style is a total rush when things
get like this and you both let the beastial side slip out.

Even better if she's wearing her cum fuck me pumps or some
hot boots.

Whewwwwwwww, shit, just thinking about it get's me
stoked!!!

I guess there's a bunch of other stuff as well that will
get my blood to boiling but hell, I gotta keep some things
private, Ha Ha Ha Ha.




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[TheKnothead]

Hmmm...
just reading down this far, I've about gone into sensory overload...
but I love to see a pouty pair of lips perfectly formed around a nice fat ball gag, the straps nice and snug....hmm hmm hmmm
also love hoods, and everything else everyone else mentioned so far, including the tight lacing...I have a single sleeve...
oh...women in high heels...boots, shoes, sandals...

[BeautifulOblivion]

My fetish is hair pulling and being pinned down/against something. I love being restrained =) Also, when the boy and I engage in rough sex of any kind, I crave being scratched.

[His_pita]

Hmm let's see. I love erotic asphyxiation very much. Just having his hand around my throat drives me wild.

I also totally get off on watching a man masturbate. It's the hand all slicked up with lube as it does what it knows best that is the fetish for me.

[michelle~]

Whether this is a fetish or not, who cares, but I offer you this:

I so adore my partner's voice behind me, low and rumbling, then hearing a soft growl as he puts his palm up against my neck and holds me still. It is at that precise moment I know he has taken control.....of me and everything that is to follow.

That is our ritual and it's purpose is to signal that the world now stops except for what is to occur between the two of us, that the next couple of hours will be only the world we create.

Sigh....

[Tojo]

:cayvvotg: :ty


Tojo

[MsUther]

Whether this is a fetish or not, who cares, but I offer you this:

I so adore my partner's voice behind me, low and rumbling, then hearing a soft growl as he puts his palm up against my neck and holds me still. It is at that precise moment I know he has taken control.....of me and everything that is to follow.

That is our ritual and it's purpose is to signal that the world now stops except for what is to occur between the two of us, that the next couple of hours will be only the world we create.

Sigh....

Ill second that sigh of yours.

The woice is so powerfull.

And what His_Pita said, watching a man masturbate, thats on the top of my list. Ooh... and me on my back, him across my chest masturbating and using my mouth for his pleasure, letting the full load go in my face and mouth.... well,
a small digression there, somehow i got a little carried away after reading.
I love this thread, thanks all:wave:

[her_Joe]

The smell of leather. Its sound as it meets skin. The pink that rises to the surface of her flesh.

Oh yes, and the taste of pussy juice. They say that some women don't taste good -- I haven't had the good fortune to taste all women, but I've never run into a pussy that wasn't pretty high carbohydrates.

hJ

[YourThrone]

With the knife play thread going on here, and its unexpeted popularity, as well as other threads about what people enjoy within the lifestyle. I searched the site to se if there was one about favorite fetishes. I couldn't find one. So I thought I would start a thread asking about it.

I know everyone has a fetish, and there are a zillion ways to enjoy bdsm, and even more fetishes that don't nessicarily involve BDSM. So if you feel bold enough to tell people what your fetish is. Please post it, I enjoy hearing about the obsure, learning more about people than I already knew.

To drive my point home about there being fetishes for all kinds. I thought I would add this picture. If it doesnt meet the picture requirements, mods please remove it.

So onto the point of the thread

My fetish is asphyxia. I enjoy the exchange of power when the submissive gives herself over to allowing you to control such a basic thing in her life. Her air. Huge turn on for me.

What is your fetish?

V/R
ID


Nice, was wondering when someone start an "what's your fetish" thread. My fetish is Asphyxia as well, just different form "Queening"

[cariad]

mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....


Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.


Could not agree with you more d2p, and indeed without having that; the rest is irrelevant.

[Dundee]

Sexy moderators who are good to listen to and talk to especially in uniforms :)

[dzire2pleeze]

Could not agree with you more d2p, and indeed without having that; the rest is irrelevant.

~smiles~ thank you kind lady.

[shins]

Hmmm, I have so many ;). I guess what tops the list are watersports and anal play. Both have a taboo attachment with a kinky/dirty appeal that are a sign of complete submission to me. When she submits to them, it's instant arousal for me. I suppose that thought leads to a more general fetish for me... dirty defilement of my subbie. Don't get me wrong, I want my subbie as clean and frilly smelling as she can be most of the time. That makes it all the more intoxicating when the session starts. Knowing that her 'normal' desire is to be clean, yet she is turned on greatly by yielding, becoming dirty, becoming my dirty girl.. she cums harder at these times than any other...mmmm, i like when she cums that hard. :)

[pleaseyoux]

I particularly like the idea of fetishes that can be incorporated into play from everyday scenarios or objects (i posted a thread for ideas of these). Like boot worship where an everyday object can be used to highten your sexual feeling through submission/or submission is strengthened by a heightened sexual arousal (whichever's applicable).

I have a strong smoking fetish, for something that is an everyday pleasure for smokers can become an intense tool of control.

Fetishes along these lines make me go weak at the knees!

[she_screams]

at the minute, to be a domme to a beautiful sub woman, dark and sexy with long hair and sexy eyes. too many to mention but thats what id love right now. lol

[pttwyn]

I guess my most intense fetish would be forced public nudity. Taking my slavegirl for a walk with a collar and leash, and a pair of Maddie's heels. Or anything that Asia says or does.

[Uzukasai]

Hold on, I gotta drink more saki before I can answer this... *glub* *glub* *swallow* *choke* *hiccup*

Anyway, I pretty much have a laundry list of turns on, whether some count as fetish's, I have no idea. A noticable one would definetly be the collar, although this is common in the BDSM community. I actually wear one as a normal part of my dress and as part of my Jackal/Jakkaru gimmick. Its such a feeling of submission to wear a collar and feel like property, feel owned as I am sure that the dominants feel the same way to see someone wear a collar. Although I don't have a master/misstress, I still wear one to symboloiuze I own myself, its the same way with my character Jackal/Jakkaru who wears it to symboloize only he loves himself and owns himself, since he is a loner like character...plus it gives me an excuse to wear one, haha, and with the way I normally dress it actually doesn't look to out of place.

I also have a thing for pantyhose, stockings, I don't have a foot fetish or anything inf act I find that kinda nasty but if a girl is wear stockings or pantyhose, I could worship those feet and legs all day. *embarrased blush* Anways those are mine. *Waves Goodbye*

[MajesticFae]

Hold on, I gotta drink more saki before I can answer this... *glub* *glub* *swallow* *choke* *hiccup*

I beg pardon... but isn't it sake?

I'm not really sure if I have one defined fetish, I like a healthy sphere of almost anything. I know I do enjoy hairpulling and being scratched... but I'm not sure I'd call those a fetish.

[Nikita]

Hmmm, I have so many ;). I guess what tops the list are watersports and anal play. Both have a taboo attachment with a kinky/dirty appeal that are a sign of complete submission to me. When she submits to them, it's instant arousal for me. I suppose that thought leads to a more general fetish for me... dirty defilement of my subbie. Don't get me wrong, I want my subbie as clean and frilly smelling as she can be most of the time. That makes it all the more intoxicating when the session starts. Knowing that her 'normal' desire is to be clean, yet she is turned on greatly by yielding, becoming dirty, becoming my dirty girl.. she cums harder at these times than any other...mmmm, i like when she cums that hard. :)

This is very hot.

[Violenteer]

Hmmmmm....Let me see.

In no order of importance.

Collar, Spanking (Hard), Pulling Hair, Rough Oral, Tieing Down, Asphyxiation, Name Calling, Pinching, Humiliation, Play Rape, Biting, Nipple Torture, Pussy Torture, Extended periods of dildo play, Orgasm control, Gagging, Long anal session where vaginal stimulation is denied, Kneading of the thighs and ass, sexy lingerie. gagging by placing my fingers in her mouth, butt plugs.

After play bruises and marks! My sub looks at these as though they are trophies the next day. That gives me a sense of pride.

I would like to add though that none of this is a turn if i can sense that my partner is not in the mood to "give".

I guess the ulitmate turn on for me is seeing the boundaries to which I can push my sub, knowing she wants those boundaries pushed.

I digress.

[Uzukasai]

I beg pardon... but isn't it sake?

I'm not really sure if I have one defined fetish, I like a healthy sphere of almost anything. I know I do enjoy hairpulling and being scratched... but I'm not sure I'd call those a fetish.

Yes it is, haha. Japanese doe's not have an actual alphabet so I often write words as they sound when romanizing them. I will just stick with 酒 next time. =P Anyway, continue with the sharing.

[Satan]

I have a fair few, but le sang is at the top of the list.

[darknight666]

My fetish is pain.

I am probably the worst pain-slut in the world. Although forced public nudity is a close second.

[Violenteer]

i think i acuatally forgot my two VERY favourite fetishes, being knife play and clothes pegs.

[mina]

I have a fair few, but le sang is at the top of the list.

I'd say so =)

[mina]

I am probably the worst pain-slut in the world.

And I'm the best ;) haha jk.

But seriously.

Yeah.

[Confessor_Ed]

I have a strong smoking fetish, for something that is an everyday pleasure for smokers can become an intense tool of control.Fetishes along these lines make me go weak at the knees!


I'm glad I found this post and someone else who has a smoking fetish, I love watching a woman place her lips on a cigarette, sucking and blowing out, the movement of her hands and lips. Very sexual, very oral. I've just made a request for one in Asia's photo thread. Here's hoping! Erotic asphyxiation is another, to be able to control someone by their neck as it pleases them and pleasures me. Knife play is another, I've only experienced this once and it is something I'd want to explore again for it would definitely become a fetish. I haven't found a post on this yet in here.

And long hair, to hold on to, to restrain by, to watch draped over a woman's breasts. And small breasts are a sure fetish, to spank them, the way they move and feel. Also jeans. This might sound funny but a woman who looks good in jeans, showing her rounded peachy bottom when she walks always gets me going.
Enough by me. This is a great site by the way. So much to explore, sadly so little time.
Ed

[frankee]

ID, submissivewife and MsUther
We seem to have a lot in common it seems... *winks*
ID: Your knife and weapon play thread has been great and it's good to know that it's something that quite a few of us enjoy *smiles*.

Apart from the usual (e.g. collars, cuffs, spanking, photos, Dom/sub uniform role-play, harsh, sexy voices, latex, exhibitionism, outdoors, etc) my biggest fetish is erotic asphyxiation, being held up against a wall with a firm hand around my neck (the favourite part of my body) while being man-handled and slapped, etc is such a sensational feeling. Also, being choked and strangled so I can hardly breath while I'll being fucked and/or being finger-fucked at the same time is too sublime to describe. I have passed out when reaching climax a few times as I was enjoying it so much I forget to use our 'get out' sign. My poor Man freaked out and refused to play for about erm.. a week *phew*

Also being slapped repeatedly and sharply on my facing when He is forcing his cock into my mouth when I'm on my knees, using my long hair as a leash to drag me back in.

And I apologise as this has become a shopping list but being spat at on my face before and during 'forced' sex and on my pussy and then watching Him rub it into my cunt and then fucking me.

And finally - I promise! - being fucked with a large icicle (easy to make, condom+water+freezer+running hot water on it before otherwise it sticks *ouch*). It's deliciously yummy. Multiple Orgasm City.

PS: Dundee *smiles*

umm...as usual, your post has left me a little breathless;) btw, nice avatar!

i'd have to say i've discovered by fetish for knife and blood play. Quite an unexpected turn on lol.
As for erotic asphyxiation... when my Mistress was kissing me, i felt Her hand around my neck pressing down a little and to my surprise i found it a real turn on. (getting wet just thinking about it) *blushing* So, i'm guessing it might be something i might enjoy :)
i love when Mistress has a handful of my hair when She's kissing me.


PS Great thread ID!

[Walace]

Watersports, enemas, leather, vinil, latex, corseting, cross dressing... But no turn on is more powerful to me than boots... I do not foot worship, but to see, to touch, to smell, to even think of my girl wearing boots, specially thigh high boots, high heel boots (ballet, ooooooooo :icon176:)... That make's me go nuts, completely. Specially to be bondaged while using, or to wrap my love as she's wearing her's (that's yet to be done, tee he :bondage:). When I buy a new pair of boots for my girl, usually I buy them for me too. Las I've bought a thigh high, stretch pattern boots for her, but that one I've bought to myself a long time ago, and just to be sure, I've bought another pair when I got her's, ehheheheh.

But, to think of, another great fetish is to mix things up... Like, receiving an enema while being gaged and corseted, and while wearing boots, and then being wraped up... Smoke bring in some flavor to it... It's all sooooo good when you can just feel the insane pleasure of mixing everything, just like there was no tomorrow! hahahaha
Will yet find a more powerfull orgasm than the ones I've had while in such situation.

Nice thread!!!:bump:

[~hellish one~]

The smell of leather. Its sound as it meets skin. The pink that rises to the surface of her flesh.

i soooooo have to agree with you here. leather is my all time #1 fetish. i know it's simple and widely accepted in BDSM but it is still awesome. :pray:

the smell of leather just about kills me. i made the mistake of walking through a tack room once and thought i was going to have an orgasm right there on the spot. the smell...the feel...it's just heavenly.

[Gr1m'sGirl]

This entire thread is making me lose my mind.. Oh, god. v_v
But, my thing.. Anything that resembles Vampirism in the least.
The sight of blood gets me throbbing in all the right places. >_<

Also, erotic asphyxiation, being hurt, and being on display.

[frankee]

This entire thread is making me lose my mind.. Oh, god. v_v
But, my thing.. Anything that resembles Vampirism in the least.
The sight of blood gets me throbbing in all the right places. >_<



i'm right there with you!!!! Throbbing as i type lol!

[Gr1m'sGirl]

i'm right there with you!!!! Throbbing as i type lol!

Ditto. And damn, we have a lot in common as far as I've seen. :D

[frankee]

...like i said...great minds think alike :bdsmsmile

[mina]

But, my thing.. Anything that resembles Vampirism in the least.
The sight of blood gets me throbbing in all the right places. >_<

Join the club! We have ripped bloody t-shirts =)

[Satina Silky]

for me it's ladies clothes and lingerie made from satin, silk and nylon.

[Silke]

wonderful materials...*smiles* Mysterious, sexy and smooth. :)

Hmm, not really sure about my fetishes - at this point there's so friggin much that makes me hot. But I do love the feel and smell of leather (need a better paying job to go shopping, lol) and I seem to have a fetish for anything anal *blushes*...seems to be one of my hot spots, lol.

The biggest fetish for me is D/s in general, though...a domly attitude is enough to melt me to the floor immediately.

[nudist]

My fetish is definitely being nude and experiencing everything with the stark naked body. Wherever possible I will try to be nude and I enjoy to be among other naked people feeling comfortable the way they are, even for just vsting friends having a drink. I cannot image having sex not being completely undressed...

[Ozme52]

..

[Ozme52]

The biggest fetish for me is D/s in general, though...a domly attitude ...


MELT for me silky!

[Silke]

Will do when you get my name right...:p *can I get a domly look as well? pretty please?*

[groundhog]

I love to worship my Wife's feet! An it is a THRILL when she makes me drink her piss. Once she shit on me in the bathtub....that was very unexpected! I also like to masturbate on her feet and then lick it off. Cleaning her pussy with me mouth after fucking her is now performance she requires of me.

[Uncle_Ed]

Time for me to add my bit here.

No-before maddie,cari and minx can draw breath, I'm not refering to rhubarb.

My fetish is for shiny materials, particularly latex and most rubber derivatives.

I love the way it moulds to the body and accentutes a woman's curves. It also makes the body just that little bit inaccessible-a great tease. Mainly I love the way in which the wearer gets hot and wet! No woman I know who has tried it has failed to become aroused, especially if wering latex panties...

But here's the problem. So few women seem to tolerate it, let alone actually enjoy wearing it. I'm very fortunate in r/l having a wife who simply adores the stuff.

I have noticed recently that latex is becoming increasingly used in BDSM representation-take a look at the banners in here, for example.

Now, about rhubarb...

[Ozme52]

Will do when you get my name right...:p *can I get a domly look as well? pretty please?*


Wrong? Did I? :dont: Or was I using an affectation of affection. How presumptuous of you to correct me... (domly enough :rolleyes: )

:tongue1: Now do as I say girl. :hubba: melt...

[Silke]

*purrrrrrrs and melts* now if that wasn't topping from the bottom at its best ;)

Sorry 'bout that...*ducks and runs*

[LadyK]

My fetish is so basic.....really going back to vanilla but I L-O-V-E sucking cock....just until my sub is ready to cum then I stop and make him whimper....eventually....after about an hour of denying him an orgasm I let him fuck me doggie style in an animalistic way, biting the back of my neck and growling.

[ljd]

I guess mine would be deep thoating the feeling of cock right at the back of my throat and having to control my breathing to stop myself from gagging wow that works wonders for me. plus the feeling that it makes my partner really turned on when i do it.

[buzzy]

mini skirts and hose, if I could I would all the time, lol. then I like my nipples played with and anal play. OH heck what don't I like??????????electric that's what I don't like ss&c to all take care

[Havensov]

calf and thigh high boots, but right up there is fishnets and corsets... there is just something sinful about slowly tightening a corset around my Pet, but i will admit, there is an art to it... That and uniting it with your teeth when they have nothing on underneath... drives her up the wall.

[poetic_justice]

My fetish is so basic.....really going back to vanilla but I L-O-V-E sucking cock.

I have to agree with you completely, I love to be on my knees with a cock down my throat. It feels amazing, his hands at the back of your head, pulling your hair as your nails dig into his arse... *shivers*

What can I say? I love to please.

Where the hell is Master when you need him?!?!?! *giggle*

[ElectricBadger]

I would have to post a shopping list like Asia's, I think: anything wicked and naughty. Corsets and other clothing that're designed to please via discomfort are a huge turn on; the whole sacrificing for another's pleasure thing. I especially love items that lock into place (collars etc). One day my sub is so getting a chastity belt and she'll be very surprised *evil grin*. Force is always fun as well...a bit of pain, some screams, dragging and pushing a slave into place.

Oh, and recently I've discovered the sublime joy of having one's feet licked and kissed. The combination of erotic and sensual pleasure is amazing.

[moptop]

Oh, I'm into all the usual/same - adore to be constricted, corsets, bonds, love giving head, feeling his hands in my hair forcing himself into my mouth and throat... very much agree with Asia about strangulation, wow, God, yes -excuse me, got sidetracked a moment there - :D

But I think my little extra pleasure is being reminded of it during non-play, public time. Just little things, in public - maybe in a shop, he'll look at a belt, touch it and ask me if I like it, with a lifted eyebrow... knowing I get a rush from imagining him using it, and another extra rush from fear of people around us guessing... that sort of thing. Asking me questions which might sound innocent, but have such overtones - when we're at my parents for example, I don't know, maybe just saying 'Would you like to lay the table, sweetie?' could do it: just the right tone of voice, and using my pet name: I know he's making me think about clearing the table and getting my cuffs out for him to attach me to it. Oooh. :span: Wonderful.

[tazzinnc]

All of the above :)
and usually giving as well as receiving..
Being a switch can be fun :)

[_ID_]

Ok, underscoring my thought that there is a fetish out there for everyone. I came across the following website

http://balloonbuddies.com/

I thought the idea of balloon play was rather unique, I just proved myself to be wrong on that thought.

ID

[enchanter]

Oh Lord.

Anyone who has read this far and has NOT spontaneously combusted deserves a medal. All of this sexspeak has me red of face and hard of pants... It's so refreshing that you are all so honest about your kinks and turn-ons. I'm really enjoying reading about them. I am a complete NOVICE to BDSM. I've never done it. Maybe I never will. But I love fantasizing about certain aspects of it - probably more of the lighter stuff. I love reading porn literature as much as pics/vids? When it's in your mind it can often be 'more' real (if that makes any sense)...

I'd love to find a girl here that could show me the ropes (no pun intended) and strike up a regular correspondence with. Oscar Wilde once said that men love with their eyes and women with their ears. What women 'hear' is so so important. That's why I'd love to exchange ideas with some girl here as it would be a real mindfuck (for the girl, that is)...Oh well, all in good time...

Here are some of my fetishes. Or maybe they aren't technically fetishes but more little kinks/turn-ons (or maybe it's all the one). Anyway, enough rambling. Here are some of them. Some are very pedestrian, some are not:

1. GIRL TEASING MY EARS: Stroking the lobes, fingers lightly slipping into my ear. Kissing my ear and giggling, laughing, whispering, breathing on my ear, teasing it with her tongue. All warm and slippy. I fuck her. She tongue-fucks me. Oh Lord...even writing about this. After my cock this is my most erogenous zone.

2. LEGS/FEET/SOCKS: Bare feet but not toes. I love the round, ball-like softness of the foot. They must be very small, shapely and pretty (which is not too common, I think). I love ankles also and the naked, smooth instep of a girls foot. Sexy, girly socks make me harder than I can say. Teasing my legs/cock with bare/sock foot gets sends me into the stratosphere. Especially if girl licks her lips, bites her bottom lip or sucks her fingers and generally acts the naughtly little coquette...

3. SPOKEN WORDS: I'm sure a lot of you can relate to this. I simply love a girl who talks dirty. Finding a cute little (black-haired, full-lipped, petite) honey who rolls profanities off her tongue would be my dream come true. Someone who whispers into my ear during a formal social gathering words to the effects of "Why don't you take me into the bathroom and fuck me like the good little girl I am?...this little fuckhole is all yours" (...and with an offer like that WHO could refuse?). Generally incongruous unexpected words of abuse are so thrilling. Pretending to be a good little girl when she really is a bad little girl will always merit special treatment.

4. FULL, RED LIPS: With just the right amount of lipstick.

5. NICE SMILE: Especially the smile of a girl who loves to tease.

5. ICE: Teasing a girl's nipples with ice. Dragging it along her bare sides and along her bum so that rivulets of icy water drip into her sex and anus and make her moan.

6. NICE HANDS: With light nail polish.

7. NICE EYES: Brown or blue and doe-eyed, all naieve and innocent.

8. SCHOOLGIRLS: Need I say more?

9. ICE CREAM: Girls eating ice creams. Alll lips and tongue and eager little mouth movements...oh to be an ice cream...

10. FIGHTING: Nothing like making up after a storm. Nothing like the release of that fuck. And isn't it great to thrust really hard so that it 'nearly' hurts her but it's all within limits...it's like YOU are controlling HER pleasure.

Well FOLKS, that's all for now. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Guess all this is farily common to you all, is it?

Cheers
enchanter

[Uncle_Ed]

8. SCHOOLGIRLS: Need I say more?

enchanter

Yes.

[enchanter]

SCHOOLGIRLS - or more accurately the IDEA of schoolgirls - is an enduring fascination with many men (for the record I mean girls of LEGAL age...don't know if I need to qualify this comment by actually saying this but just want to be clear. I am - as the French say - 'un homme moyen sensual'...well, apart from all the perversions I've listed in previous posts...)

I think it's probably because most guys' sexuality develops (mentally or actually) during the school years and it's probably only natural to look at those who are our peers or equivalents: GIRLS. I went to an all-boys school though and was quite shy: the girls school up the road was a terrifying prospect to me...in the sense that I was so shy...

Anyway, that's my two cents worth.

Cheers
enchanter

[MasterC]

BLOOD!!!
I love the site, texture, taste and smell of it. To see My slave with blood smeared all over her is the greatest thing on earth. It is the ultimate aphrodisiac. no, I'm no psycho.I just love blood.

Master C

[Timberwolf]

"3. SPOKEN WORDS: I'm sure a lot of you can relate to this. I simply love a girl who talks dirty."

To me, the best rush is when it comes from someone you might not expect. To hear Miss Prim and Proper suddenly let out something... nasty... um...

*fades away*

[vampyres{ID}]

Knife play (Glad to know there is a term for it I have been involved in that for a while, I like a little more cutting though)
Bondage with ducktape, or polydac other cheap rope that gives rope burns (I know bondage tape exists I tried it and its not as fun) Blindfolds (Even more so when I don't know who all is going to be around) Public humilation (Love a guy who will yell across a crowded bar at me saying get over here whore or something equally insulting, or make me flash truckers and other passers by on the road, or being used as furniture or home decor in states of undress) Love roleplaying rapes or kidnappings (I like being the victim) And Anal or Oral (Prefer both to normal) And of course a bit of a blood fetish (I like seeing blood on myself, and watching someone drink it, I am obsessed with Vampires, don't want to be one, just want one to use me)

[mina]

Knife play (Glad to know there is a term for it I have been involved in that for a while, I like a little more cutting though)
Bondage with ducktape, or polydac other cheap rope that gives rope burns (I know bondage tape exists I tried it and its not as fun)
.....
or being used as furniture or home decor in states of undress) Love roleplaying rapes or kidnappings (I like being the victim) And Anal or Oral

*smiles* Seems we have a lot in common!

Ohh and I forgot about being used as furniture, I like that too!! It sounds boring but it's actually fun... I liked my back being used as a footrest while he was reading. It was definitely a bit of a struggle to stay in that position for so long, but there was visible evidence that I was enjoying it :)

[mina]

BLOOD!!!
I love the site, texture, taste and smell of it. To see My slave with blood smeared all over her is the greatest thing on earth. It is the ultimate aphrodisiac. no, I'm no psycho.I just love blood.

Hmm, if I remember correctly, we may have another member or two here who also likes blood... *smiles sweetly*

[Polish_girl]

[QUOTE=M@ster]mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....QUOTE]

Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.

absolutely but that is a given so I guess you like strong intelligent men or maybe a man who is motivated enough to dedicate the time and effort it takes to take complete contrl

[Timberwolf]

Kidnapping fantasies can be a hell of a turn on. I used to have them before my lifestyle days, and I felt guily as hell about them.

These days, not so much. :)

[_ID_]

I seem to find a new fetish to learn about every few days.

This time I found a fetish about women in casts... yea, the kind worn when you break a bone.
http://www.gipsdreams.com/


Anyway... Heres to a new fetish!

Anyone else hear of this one?

V/R
ID

[slave327-834-200]

I seem to find a new fetish to learn about every few days.

This time I found a fetish about women in casts... yea, the kind worn when you break a bone.
http://www.gipsdreams.com/


Anyway... Heres to a new fetish!

Anyone else hear of this one?

V/R
ID


The thought of this has never crossed my mind and to see a site dedicated to it I find refreshing if unusual!

I can see the attraction to being in a full torso and arm cast or full leg cast, up to the hips with a spreader bar and totally helpless to my Masters demands.......

[DrkRvn]

My fetishes are blood and corsets. even better when combined...being tightly laced in to a corset, my breasts a millimeter away from spilling out the top, then having a small sharp blade dragged over one cutting the skin and causing dark red blood to trickle out over my pale milky skin....

[vampyres{ID}]

Ok now I better Add breath play, tried it and love it!!!

[violetgem]

hmm to think of some off the top of my head.... enemas, figging, watersports, puppy play

[_ID_]

So in my quest to learn about fetishes, I went to wikipedia, and did a search for them. I came up with better results than I was expecting.

Perhaps our mods could do something similar as the a - z bdsm thread, but focused on fetishes...

Anyway, heres the link, and my question. Is your fetish NOT listed? If it's not, please teach us, help us expand our knowledge of the world around us.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism

V/R
ID

[DrkRvn]

Anyway, heres the link, and my question. Is your fetish NOT listed? If it's not, please teach us, help us expand our knowledge of the world around us.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism

V/R
ID

I was surprise there was no blood fetish listed in the fluids section. but what surprised me even more was that there was a suit and tie fetish which i now have to add to my list. I have always been extra attracted to men in suits and tie. There have been guys that i thought were annoying pricks until i saw them in a suit and tie and couldn't stop fantasizing about them. I never thought of it as a fetish until now.

[mina]

Anyway, heres the link, and my question. Is your fetish NOT listed? If it's not, please teach us, help us expand our knowledge of the world around us.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism


I was surprise there was no blood fetish listed in the fluids section.

Me too! How dare they, lol jk. Oh and they left out necrophilia too... tsk tsk.

Whoa, never heard of gynophagia... but it sounds like cannibalism, so I like it *smiles*

Hm, they listed a body piercing fetish but not a tattoo fetish. I think I have a tattoo fetish... I love looking at muscular tattooed arms, mmm. It feels really good getting one too.

[TheDeSade]

WAIT.. . we gotta pick just one?

[_ID_]

Whoa, never heard of gynophagia... but it sounds like cannibalism, so I like it *smiles*


google Dolcett

V/R
ID

[_ID_]

Ok, doing a little surfing, came across a site that had a pretty specialized take on demonic/religious area of fetishes. This site is dedicated to a fetish for Nuns. A new one on me, but it was interesting to read about.

checkout nunsploitation.net Pretty interesting.

V/R
ID

[briansmine]

Hmmm, him as TOP or just our vanilla sex(which is pretty kinky) would be being choked, strangled, covered in plastic sheeting so it gets hot, steamy, I can't breathe...

We're done some dumb stuff like where we're strangling each other(two nooses together) and I passed out and wanged my head before he realized I was out. :dont:

As domme I love the smell of leather(ok, even goofing around the house, I have some leather hoods I'll just wear to smell the smell of animal hide).

And I love watersports. Messy as hell, but we've gotten a system down of keeping the bed clean and don't usually even have to change the sheets. Nothing like claiming your sub in the most animal of manner.

For him, it's rubber all the way. Hot, sweaty, tight, in the dark, constrained, hugging every inch of him. We have some lovely rubber hoods and a rubber sleep sack. Only bummer is he's so damned big(6'7"300 #) that we have to do custom to get anything that fits his body, which is $$$.

Then, of course, me taking my pleasure regardless of his discomfort and pain.

E

[_ID_]

Hmmm, him as TOP or just our vanilla sex(which is pretty kinky) would be being choked, strangled, covered in plastic sheeting so it gets hot, steamy, I can't breathe...

We're done some dumb stuff like where we're strangling each other(two nooses together) and I passed out and wanged my head before he realized I was out. :dont:

As domme I love the smell of leather(ok, even goofing around the house, I have some leather hoods I'll just wear to smell the smell of animal hide).

And I love watersports. Messy as hell, but we've gotten a system down of keeping the bed clean and don't usually even have to change the sheets. Nothing like claiming your sub in the most animal of manner.

For him, it's rubber all the way. Hot, sweaty, tight, in the dark, constrained, hugging every inch of him. We have some lovely rubber hoods and a rubber sleep sack. Only bummer is he's so damned big(6'7"300 #) that we have to do custom to get anything that fits his body, which is $$$.

Then, of course, me taking my pleasure regardless of his discomfort and pain.

E

sounds like alot of fun!!

[mina]

google Dolcett

Thanks :) I guess I have heard of gynophagia before, cus I remember that necrobabes website...

[mina]

Ok, doing a little surfing, came across a site that had a pretty specialized take on demonic/religious area of fetishes. This site is dedicated to a fetish for Nuns. A new one on me, but it was interesting to read about.

I don't really like the nun thing, but "demonic/religious area of fetishes" sounds interesting... and familiar *smiles*

[kizzie]

I love to breastfeed two people at the same time. I am also interested in forced lactation. I am fortunate enough to have a boyfriend willing to share my milk, but it's hard to find the right partners to participate in my fetish.

[_ID_]

I love to breastfeed two people at the same time. I am also interested in forced lactation. I am fortunate enough to have a boyfriend willing to share my milk, but it's hard to find the right partners to participate in my fetish.

out of curiosity, do you view your forced lactation as harvesting (people harvest milk from dairy cows), or is it something else entirely to you?


V/R
ID

[Jadetiger]

I have many fetishes. I think my favorite is power exchange mated with the pleasure of inflecting pain. I find it makes my adernaline rush and everything else wet.

[kizzie]

out of curiosity, do you view your forced lactation as harvesting (people harvest milk from dairy cows), or is it something else entirely to you?


V/R
ID

No, I don't view it as harvesting. I do it because it feels good and I can orgasm while I'm being suckled.

[_ID_]

No, I don't view it as harvesting. I do it because it feels good and I can orgasm while I'm being suckled.

Oh ok! thanks for giving us more info!

ID

[kizzie]

Ok, underscoring my thought that there is a fetish out there for everyone. I came across the following website

http://balloonbuddies.com/

I thought the idea of balloon play was rather unique, I just proved myself to be wrong on that thought.

ID

I have a friend who is into that. He gets off to watching women blow up balloons. The women don't even have to be undressed. He is also obsessed with huge breasts and breastfeeding.

[_ID_]

I have a friend who is into that. He gets off to watching women blow up balloons. The women don't even have to be undressed. He is also obsessed with huge breasts and breastfeeding.

Thats outstanding kizzie! I suppose those are your milk bags in the av?

V/R
ID

[kizzie]

Thats outstanding kizzie! I suppose those are your milk bags in the av?

V/R
ID

Nope, they aren't mine. Too chicken to take nudie pics!

[_ID_]

ah ok, well if you feel like sharing some sometime, Im sure we here at the library would enjoy them.

V/R
ID

[The Master]

My fetishes are rather similar to what many here have already spoken of or described.

I find there is nothing better than having a woman whom you can control with a mere look or word, to have her breathless as you gaze down upon her form making her wet thinking of what you are about to do to her however you wish.

With a single word she will strip, masturbate or humilate herself. With a single command she will obey dutifully and with deep passion and zeal knowing I have her best Interest in mind.

To tie her up, to bound her so tight, with every inch of her being available for me to exploit and explore at my whim. I love the sounds she can make like that, the way her body may shake or stiffen as I trace a single finger up and down her back.

Yes I enjoy having her in the nude wearing nothing but a collar, to have her as a pet and decide what should she wear when she goes out in public. To give her task to do, to explore her boundries and exceed them. It all provides a euphoria unlike any other, one that is indescribeable. One that once you feel it you will do anything and everything to get that sensation again and again.

[babygirlblue]

I was directed to this thread by the started of the thread. I enjoy d/s, b/d, and ab/dl.

I live in a 24/7 d/s relationship and eventual marriage early next year. :) As for the whole ab/dl, I'm more in the whole Adult Baby than Diaper lovin'. I've always been a child at heart and love baby stuff. I just never realize that is what it was until my Dom introduced me to it. It's been his fetish for a long time. I thought it was odd at first than tried it and it was really fun. I would liek to one day be able to drive and not have to stop for a pit stop ever. :) Diapers are so much fun. Why do the elderly complain about it so much or at least those I know of..? [shrugs]

I mainly urinate in the diapers but have tried pooing in them too. I don't do it that often since 1.) have no real idea when I need to go until like 5 - 10 minutes before 2.) have to be in the mood and 3.) Really hate the smell. :-P

We have not incorporated the two fetishes yet or not to the point that it's like bondage and me wearing a diaper or anything like that. I want to first keep them separate so that I can figure out what I like and don't like.

Well, ab/dl is an optional part of play and mainly his. I tend to act like a child a lot which is why it can be very fun.

Yes, I have several binkies and am in need of chew toys. Ooo, we could go buy them tomorrow. Hmm, I think I'll mention that to Daddy. Yes, I call him Daddy. It's something else I'm still getting used to at the moment.

Questions? Comments? Concerns? Feel free to ask, but I do reserve the right to not answer. Illl tell you why I don't want to but I'm just warning ya now. ;)

[babygirlblue]

Ooo, fetishes! Has anyone posted about Equestrianism? I don't know what it's called. Horse play.

It's like D/S meets Furry. I saw this whole thing one night about it. It's mainly the chicks in this ep that would get a saddle on, "put on" their tail (anal plug), and their footing thingies. Their owners/Doms would ride 'em.

It was really cool and weird. Not or me, but interesting.

[babygirlblue]

sorry that I keep posting like nonstop, but I'm reading through it all and personally hate really freakin' long posts anyway.

What is the definition of "fetish?" Does it have to be sexually oriented?

I mean I have this thing that everyone calls a fetish but it's not sexual at all. I call it an obsession since it's totally non-sexual.

I luuurve Office supplies. I look at it and it makes extremely happy and feel like a child inside. My Daddy dom won't let me go there because I buy lots of stuff that I don't need. I just like looking at it having it around. It makes me smile and warm around my heart. :D

I'm gonna shut up now and leave the forum before I have 10 posts in a row. Sorry.

[DrkRvn]

Ok, doing a little surfing, came across a site that had a pretty specialized take on demonic/religious area of fetishes. This site is dedicated to a fetish for Nuns. A new one on me, but it was interesting to read about.

checkout nunsploitation.net Pretty interesting.

V/R
ID

The nun part not so much, but if you run across any other sites with rituals or ideas for demonic scenes or anything in that vain let me know... I have been looking for stuff like that to try. "Human sacrifices", witch inquisitions, binding to demons, etc.... What can I say I am a geek and like to role play even during sex.... hey could that be a fetish.... Wanting to have sex as you roleplay characters... might be one of mine, i usually play habitual nymphos that almost always end up sleeping wiht my Masters characters....

[IWearThongs]

well as you can see by my name i like to wear womens panties, mostly thongs and g-strings.

also im into tying girls up. nothing too extreme just tie them to the bed and spank them. i mostly like to spank their ass.

i also like to be punished/tortured/dominated in many different ways. i like to be tied up and spanked or whipped... hard. im into cock and ball torture (particularly this nasty lil device called the humbler although ive never actually tried it). i like to have buttplugs and dildos inserted into my ass as a punishment. i would also like to be fucked by a man or a girl with a strap on. i would love to be forced to suck a mans dick. basically im up for pretty much anything except scat or pissing.

another thing i would like is to be forced to wear a chastity device for extended periods of time. weeks. months. maybe even years.

at this point in my life much of the afforementioned is just fantasy becuz i havent yet found someone who shares alot of these same fetishes. which is why im also into self bondage and i like to whip myself and torture myself in anyway i can.

[Ali]

Well to start with i'm a total newbie with no real experience so i'm sure i have yet to discover a fetish or 2.
One of my fantasies that i completely know that i want to try is for a mistress/master to pick out female clothes for me and teach me to be as pretty and feminine as i can be (makeup, shaving,wigs etc) then have me dress up for him/her and be treated like a pretty girl for the day (at least).

i never thought i'd share that with anyone...i'm glad i did though:)

[ces3]

Is it a fetish to be completely turned on just by the complete devotion of your slave? When my little whore gives herself to me, devoting every movement, every breath to me. Obeying even the most outrageous command. That is what gets me going. The two of us pleasuring each other to no end. Pleasing my slave is sometimes even more enjoyable than being pleased myself!!! Hows that for a fetish?

[sipgirl]

The slave thinks its a wonderful fetish Master!!Smiles wickedly and slinks away.

[Shaded]

Just figured I'd throw something here. Because I have a few fetishes, and while I'm not about to list all of them.. I do have a primary one. I'm a very mental person. (Call me crazy, its been done) but I enjoy the mental aspects of dominance, being able to own somebody mentally, the challenge of making them doubt themselves, and place their faith in me.. its probably one of the more intoxicating things for me.

That said, mentality of it all aside, I have and always will be an ass man, and the art of spanking will always be a huge turn on for me. As for the rest.. well, a couple have played with me here already, and know what makes me tick. To quote. "I Mindfuck people"

[babygirlblue]

You would get along with my Daddy. We're more of the mental part than anything else when it comes to d/s.


Ooo, [wiggles and squirms] finally got diapers. Yay! I r very 'appy. :D

[_ID_]

The fetish map

[cariad]

That is fascinating ID.

cariad

[TomOfSweden]

The fetish map

We where wondering. How do people physically have sex with dolphins? And what about the "moldy oldies". Don't they fall apart when being fondled or fucked? So many questions, so few answers.

[floffe]

I think that the biggest turn on for me is rope. Just tying someone up. To me it's kind of an artform, and a huge turn on.

[Beswitchingly Positive]

I am not sure this is a fetish, I like mysterious men, not cheaters or criminals, but men who do not talk to much, it takes a long time to get to know them, they talk about intersting (life philosophy, compassion, health) or important things (his kids, his business, life in general and dreams and goals) , but mind you not too much...saving some details as a suprise...especially sexual ones, then to hear his sexy voice confidently giving a command...or the carefully placed comment out of context mentioned earlier that does not reveal the nature of our relations to everyone but that makes us smile as a private joke.

I this sort of the mental opposite of voyerism? Not wanting to know too much, for example I was pleased when during play I asked my lover to kiss me on the neck and he spontaneously bit me, when I responded he got nice and rough...just one small example, we both know we are kinky but have not revealed all the details...he is a switch and I have been mostly sub with switch tendencies...I think I am going to have lots of fun with him.

I have never had a switch for a sweetie, and he seems to like my timing, for example the second time we played he mentioned something that he would like in an offhand way and I waited until the next time I was with him to try it on him, he said he wanted his cock pulled on and maybe tied and I let him go home and stew a little before I tried it, it seems more effective to space out the slow exploring of each others likes...yummy.

Not to mention I have a definate fetish for dirty talk in a foriegn language I do not speak, well he could be saying anything, but there is something super sexy about trying to read tone and body language along with the sound of my lovers voice trying to express a desire to me I cannot understand so obviously....

He is very private..his personal did not say much more than that he was a switch and this made him very much sexier than I thought he was at first impression in person, that he managed to keep it to himself...we met in real time...and he speaks a foriegn language fluently...much sexier for me to know a person well enough to like them outside of sex before I can get turned on.

I on the other hand have no problem talking about what I like and he likes this, I have kept my laundry list just that, a list, and he has already shown me there are some key things we have in common (shared fondness of pain) and an abitlity to read each others bodily responses...no long discussion, just my permission and his and the agreement we will respectively stop if it really seems to be too much.

It is not sex with strangers that I crave and really like, but the mystery of slowly discovering each others kinks and the suprise of a good match...I feel as I would know if it were a bad match with the slow get to know.

Revealing too much right away seems to make me lose interest especially if every detail is all planned out in too many words.

[cariad]

Well, have never thought of that as a fetish SP, but am a fully signed up member to that particular one. Was feeling decidedly weak kneed at some points as I read your post.

cariad

[Beswitchingly Positive]

I think you said that, or something similar about one of my other posts.

Thanks, I Like You!

(Is it totally inappropriate to kiss up to an administrator like this? I am only half kidding, I have no experience with forums except I was friends with a guy that was a moderator for a big one and he was MEAN.)

[duktig flicka]

Men with long hair. It makes me completely melt. Especially when they toss it. Sometimes I sneakily push my boyfriend's long hair into his face so I can see him toss it back. Nearly gives me orgasms on the spot.

And fetishwear! I just saw the movie 300. It was one of the worst B movies I've seen (and that's saying a lot coming from a MST3K fan) but luckily the creators were kind enough to give us men walking around in underwear with leather straps across their shaved chests. So I could just ignore the cringeworthy dialogue and stare at those delicious, smooth chests with leather straps across them. Mmmmm.

[LikelySuspect]

I'm a pretty simple girl myself. I like anything thats coming from a person behind me; Whispering in my ear, kissing my neck, stroking my body... It's the feeling of not being able to know whats coming. I have the option to turn around, but I just don't want to...

I'm also a big snuggler at heart. I'm like a big kitten. I play at being tough, but alot of the time, all I want is to purr and curl up in someones arms. Someone who will take time out to snuggle with me... Yay.

Lastly, well, the last thing I'm mentioning right now, is biting. Mostly my neck... Its my newest found fetish. Suppose it ties into my love of vampirism. Was found by my last partner. Did I ever love that he abused my love of that....

[Sir_Russell]

hmmmm fetish,

So many of them it would be hard to list

I would say that seeing her tied and helpless and cumming hard also hearing her cum

[angelic.zest]

i have an ear and oral fetish-not together lol... there's something about ears that i love. its such a turn on to please a man orally, that i get so excited and cum *giggles*

kurixxx :smilie_orange1:

[Hime]

Kidnapping fantasies can be a hell of a turn on. I used to have them before my lifestyle days, and I felt guily as hell about them.

These days, not so much. :)

I've had kidnapping fantasies since I was a kid... it took me a while to figure out what I really wanted. The other thing I used to fantasize about was being a groupie for a rock musician.

As for fetishes, hmm... spanking is a big one. Partly the spanking itself, and partly the way he holds me and gently rubs my sore ass afterwards. I think a lot of the appeal is the timing -- the feeling of inevitability when you're waiting for the next stroke.

I also really like having my throat touched and played with. My master doesn't choke me hard, but he likes to hold me by the throat with just enough pressure that I know he could hurt me. I also really like what someone else mentioned earlier -- having his arm around my throat while he's fucking me from behind, just tight enough that I have to breathe through my mouth... and usually his other arm squeezing my tits.

My Master's fetish is large breasts and breast expansion (BE). I don't know if anyone here is into that; I wasn't at all at first and didn't think it would ever work for me. Over the time we've been playing with it, though, I've come to really enjoy it -- wearing padding, silicone forms, etc, and generally allowing him to dictate how he wants me to look. At first it was the humiliation aspect that really got me -- the idea that I don't deserve to be fucked the way I am -- but over time I've gotten really excited about the idea of eventually having implants. I love to think about wearing my new tits as a symbol of his ownership of me, like my collar but more permanent, and of being on display as the ultimate fucktoy for him. When the subject first came up it almost broke our relationship, but by now it gets me hot just thinking about it. So I guess that means that it's a fetish for me, too.

He also likes to play with my nipples, squeeze and restrain my tits, and cum on them while standing over me. Basically anything involving big tits (mine are pretty big already) and he's good to go. :)

[Lonely Puppet]

My major fetish is anal play, having either a strapon or a plug in my ass whenever possible.

My second, and older fetish, is being shackled and caged. I've had this fetish since my teen years and during my summer vacations I would find a way to tie myself up (still giving me a way to escape my crude bonds).

Another, lesser fetish of mine is pony play, however this one isn't nearly as much of a turn on as the other two.

EDIT: Also, Kidnapping and rape fantasies are a HUGE turn on for me. Probably moreso than even anal play.

[anonymouse]

I love silk scarves, especially for bondage. It isn't simply the sensual nature of the fabric. For me, to go out with my hair tied up with a scarf, or wear one as a neck scarf or sash belt is to go out wearing items that potentially could be used for bondage. It's as if they are symbolic of my desires and represent a kind of complicitness on my part.

[Eponine]

I like the subtle stuff many of you mentioned- the silk scarves, the whispering, etc...

I love breath play- and Master's only done a little with me- He usually does choke me, to the point where I cannot breathe until He lets go- I'm wet on the spot (Master's my witness lol)...

Getting slapped in the face...

Nipples pinched till I can't stand it- that's a direct link to my clit.

But mainly, it's just the concept of domination, of Master's owning me, and doing whatever He wants (no safewords, but trust in Him that i have).

I never thought/ knew I would like to be choked the way He does. I never enjoyed being bitten before. I never thought I would enjoy knifeplay. I never even thought of the concept of having Him put a gun in my mouth- this one has not yet been done, but He talked about it. Look: http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=10104

But, from Him, I love it all.

But fear is a big turn-on too. And it's a fine line, because I know He would never truly harm me... but still He does a good job making me flinch and fear and never know what the hell He's going to do!

[sullensub]

My most basic and original fetishes are blood and biting, then there’s minor slow prolonged pain, and being pushed to endure harder pains, then there is face sitting which in composes two things of breath control and being used as human furniture which I both enjoy, bondage and losing control of all mobility. A few fetishes that don't necessarily relate to bdsm are spit and being forced to swallow it, also the giantess fetish which people may not be known by people involving giant women using me and such. I think that’s about it I have a lot of random tweaks and such but not what would be a fetish.

[Mishka]

Same as majestic fae, orally pleasing a man.

[Guest91408]

An interesting thread...

I will allow Dark to list her own interests of course, but we share all so perfectly as to be interchangeable.

My strongest fetishes perhaps are breath play and pain/blood through cutting. We both have medical backgrounds and have a deep understanding of the human body that we exploit in both reality and fantasy (I suspect you will soon find the extent of our fantasy in RP or story formats). I also like enforced and rape play, this is something that can cause much anger in BDSM communities since its essential core is consensual submission, but hey, its part of who I am and who Pain and I are together…so fuck it.

The most powerful orgasm I ever had was during a prolonged period of breath play. Whilst care is always required during this activity, once you have someone that you trust with a totality and an understanding that goes beyond the norm, it can be the most intense power play ever.

Once, being bound to a metal sluice table used during autopsies and the like, Dark used tools to slice my breasts…then pulled the scalpel gently down my abdomen…the fear, the total and absolute surrender of control to someone who could quite easily cut me apart in a highly professional and medicinal manner…she smeared my blood across my body and then climbed atop me…to say we made love would to lessen the powerful act we consummated there.

There are others…but I prefer the shroud of mysteriousness to remain for a while longer. Perhaps Dark will illuminate us a little more….

[DarkSister]

As Pain stated, our interests mesh so completely that I guess its what makes us so perfectly able to switch and indulge each other in our deepest fantasies…

My greatest fetishes involve rough physical pain, having my body punished and brutally beaten, feeling that constriction around my throat as well as blood/knife play, I also have a thing for broken glass… to me there is fewer greater acts of love and devotion that cutting the name of my lover into my body and sharing my blood with her.

Having a medical background and understanding of the body certainly helps to reduce the inherent risks to our play, but the greatest aspect is that of trust and being able to fully give yourself over to someone safe in the knowledge that wherever our play takes us that we seem to have an almost unspoken mutual understanding of the others needs

I am reminded of a time when I was attached to a X frame… metal chains attached to both nipples and clitoris whilst heat is applied to the base of the chain with a blow torch and the heat slowly reaching toward the securing padlocks against my body feeling it burn against my body, before my breasts are cut with a blade and then subjected to the touch of a cat ‘o nine tails… there’s something about being at the receiving of an almost harnessed rage that threatens to consume you…

As Pain suggested there are many others… but a little mystery is always good and undoubtedly more things will be revealed in our writings on the board

Dark x x x x

[_ID_]

Absolutely delicious!

I would be interested to know if either of you (pain or dark) have seen the myspace (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=7280) thread. Reason I ask, there is also a site called mydungeonspace mentioned in the myspace thread. Curiosity makes me wonder if you two are on either site.

I look forward to each of your contributions to the site.

[Guest91408]

I am reminded of a time when I was attached to a X frame… metal chains attached to both nipples and clitoris whilst heat is applied to the base of the chain with a blow torch and the heat slowly reaching toward the securing padlocks against my body feeling it burn against my body, before my breasts are cut with a blade and then subjected to the touch of a cat ‘o nine tails…
Dark x x x x

I think you'll find it was a catering torch my love. Not a blow torch. Detail is everything. ;)

[DarkSister]

I think you'll find it was a catering torch my love. Not a blow torch. Detail is everything. ;)


:) my mistake darling, guess i was a little distracted at the time ;) it wont happen again X

[gloombunny]

over time I've gotten really excited about the idea of eventually having implants.

Implants? For your chest?

Well... just make sure you find a really good surgeon, I guess. There's a shortage of perfect breasts in this world; it would be a pity to damage yours.

[Krynn]

Foot fetish ,shoes boots etc and
Foreign Accent speaking ladies :) espcieally French ,Eastern Europena and Spanish

[gloombunny]

My own fetishes include sploshing (especially in conjunction with bondage), and feminization of a sort... sort of odd since I'm already female, but being made to dress up in ridiculous over-the-top frilly pink outfits conflicts with my relatively butch self-image in an enjoyably humiliating way.

The sploshing works well in conjunction with the feminization as well. ^_^

[Hime]

Implants? For your chest?

Well... just make sure you find a really good surgeon, I guess. There's a shortage of perfect breasts in this world; it would be a pity to damage yours.

:o As you wish.

[cream _(DNW)]

For me my fetishes are getting my tits fucked and to be spanked.But at the same time to take my sub and fuck there ass with a strapon

[Dorkalicious]

I don't know why, but I have a thing for being at least partially clothed. When I was with my ex, I always had my socks on, lol. Sometimes my bra too. I like the vision of the bra straps coming off the shoulders, the loose mini-skirt hiked up....

Mmm.. :)

Then of course, bondage :) If only I could find someone that I trusted enough who was good at it. I always seem to be able to free myself within the first five minutes. *le sigh*


I would like a good "mind fucking", just to see what it was like. It sounds intriguing... =D

[Slave Precious]

My fetish is doggy play - I love to lick my Master, and be pulled while wearing my collar & leash =]

[TeddyBearGaySlave]

Hi there

There are a lot of things that turn me on, I try to list most of them:
Things I have already experienced:
- big, fat, hairy, husky, bearded guys
- torture without safeword, until I cry
- chastity (belt)
- body hair and beards
- being forced to be naked or partly naked in public
-gags
- beastiality
- not getting allowed to shower
- being forced to make sports until I nearly collapse
- beards
- sweat
- whipping
- forced drug consume
- beards
- having to beg for something (stopping torture, allowing to cum, stopping running etc)
Things that I have not yet experienced:
- getting tortured by lesbians
- military camp
- getting "gang banged"
- forced diet

[dont_look_at_me]

I feel like such a virgin! I don't know what quite a few of these even are!

I love hearing about other people's fetishes. I guess if I had a fetish it would be other people's fetishes.

I have a friend who has an age progression fetish and we used to write erotica for each other. We used to have a bit of a thing for each other and every now and then we would speak on the phone and he would whisper stuff about his fetish and it would be a bit of a turn on.

My boyfriend has an outie belly button fetish and our belly button play is a huge part of our sex life. We recently bought some small, thin, piercing needles and stuck three of them through the lip in my outie and one through the protruding part. I never though about the belly button as an erogenous zone before I met him, but now I couldn't imagine not having it played with during sex. My favorite is having him lick and tongue it, or pull it between his fingers, especially when he is giving me oral and pulls it hard when I orgasm. He's an innie, so we suck his out with a snake bite syringe, tie it up with a band, and push needles through it. There is nothing quite like having your belly button pulled on when you're orgasmic. I would swear there's a nerve that runs from there to the genitals.

I like being spanked, but only when I'm buzzing. I also love it when he fucks me while standing up and holding me with my legs wrapped around his waist. Ooohhh, and me on top, but with my back facing him, laying down so his hands are free to roam!

I think that's enough and my face is sufficiently red now.:)

[TeddyBearGaySlave]

He's an innie, so we suck his out with a snake bite syringe, tie it up with a band, and push needles through it

You should ask a doctor if that isn't dangerousl. The skin beneath the belly button can easily brake, which is rather dangerous.

[dont_look_at_me]

You should ask a doctor if that isn't dangerousl. The skin beneath the belly button can easily brake, which is rather dangerous.

I should have said that a bit better. We don't stick needles through it when it's tied up. Surface piercings only. He tried to pierce the middle of his a few years ago (stupidly) and it rejected it. And we always clean everything afterwards and before. Don't like the idea of infections.

[Tasker]

Hmm I have a few. but the main one is a relatively discovery one that I was told about and just had to try.

Forced orgasm. there is nothing like having her tied down and inducing one orgasm, then another and another and another and...............................

[tessa]

Forced orgasm. there is nothing like having her tied down and inducing one orgasm, then another and another and another and...............................

another and another and another.....

~wicked smile~ Just couldn't resist.

:wave:

[gagged_Louise]

oh yeah baby... *fans herself*

[tessa]

~smiles at the darling Louise~

Quite so.

:wave:

[gagged_Louise]

*forces beautiful Tessa down on the floor, pinning her hands beside her head and rasps "well, you're in for it babe. How many? how many?"

[WyldWyl]

Oh, alright...I'll play too.

Ahem.

In general: dirty talk (drools..), biting, sudden changes between rough and tender, leather, home-made toys (so satisfying to use something you've made yourself).

As a dom: puppy play, spanking, tease and deny, cum control/restriction, making people beg, clothing control, breast bondage, face-slapping, choking (mmm...doggy style with a belt around the neck...-looks around for jamie, then realises he'll be at work. damn.)

As a sub: spanking (again!), body worship, tease and deny, name calling, choking.

Probably a whole lot more. But that's the basics of it.

[nk_lion]

I'm not into the whole spanking, needles, nipple clamps stuff (although I wouldn't say no if she were to like it). I rather would like to mind fuck; get her to essentially thinking of sex, submissively, and push her to a place where the only thoughts in her mind is pleasure, and if I can put her in a state of nirvana, it would be an increadible turn on for me.

From my experience, albeit limited, sexual experience is heightened by the time spent leading up to the big O. I'd try to make her feel like she is my world just to start of with. When my ex and I were going out, on occasions, foreplay would be her stripping of completely, while I'd rub oil all over her body, and on occasions, finger her, or just play with her clit for a short moment, progressively getting more and more enthusiastic. And when I sensed that she started breathing more heavy, while her muscles where being relaxed, it sort of put her body through a mixed state between complete relaxation and that relief it completely needed to be pushed over the edge.

We were vanilla, so if it got to hot for her, we'd go at it like a couple of lions :), but since this is my fetish, I wouldn't stop for a while, and if so, I'd tie her down to prevent her from moving, also I'd blindfold her, and stuff ear plugs in her ear, so that the sense of touch, smell and taste are remaining, therefore, more alive. I'd imagine I'd continue this till she starts begging for an orgasm, pause, and then tease her more. Once I'm satisfied, I'd want to lick around her pussy as lightly as I can without sending her over the edge, kiss my way up, getting everything in between, her belly, below her breasts, nipples, neck, and lips, and because I'm a mean bastard on occasion, I'd stop, perhaps tie her up spreadeagled or something, before I start ramming into her.

Serves two purposes, I force myself to wait, submitting essentially to myself, while I try and convert her from normal girl to lust crazed lunatic, and fulfilling this I guess pretty weird fetish (Works for me).

Don't know how effective this is gonna be, (single at the moment), but once I try it out, I'll let you all know.

[jeanne]

Don't know how effective this is gonna be, (single at the moment), but once I try it out, I'll let you all know.


Please do let us know....please? :)

[wolfs_lilgirl]

my fetish is to be a lil girl.. playing of course.. but.. beeing treated like a lil girl it reaaaly turns me on... and.. spankings of course

[nk_lion]

Please do let us know....please? :)

Gotta find the victim *cough* sorry, girl first.

[jeanne]

Gotta find the victim *cough* sorry, girl first.

Oh, you got me laughing with that! Good luck on your search and remember - you must tell us all! :)

[TeddyBearGaySlave]

I'm not into the whole spanking, needles, nipple clamps stuff (although I wouldn't say no if she were to like it). I rather would like to mind fuck; get her to essentially thinking of sex, submissively, and push her to a place where the only thoughts in her mind is pleasure, and if I can put her in a state of nirvana, it would be an increadible turn on for me.

From my experience, albeit limited, sexual experience is heightened by the time spent leading up to the big O. I'd try to make her feel like she is my world just to start of with. When my ex and I were going out, on occasions, foreplay would be her stripping of completely, while I'd rub oil all over her body, and on occasions, finger her, or just play with her clit for a short moment, progressively getting more and more enthusiastic. And when I sensed that she started breathing more heavy, while her muscles where being relaxed, it sort of put her body through a mixed state between complete relaxation and that relief it completely needed to be pushed over the edge.

We were vanilla, so if it got to hot for her, we'd go at it like a couple of lions :), but since this is my fetish, I wouldn't stop for a while, and if so, I'd tie her down to prevent her from moving, also I'd blindfold her, and stuff ear plugs in her ear, so that the sense of touch, smell and taste are remaining, therefore, more alive. I'd imagine I'd continue this till she starts begging for an orgasm, pause, and then tease her more. Once I'm satisfied, I'd want to lick around her pussy as lightly as I can without sending her over the edge, kiss my way up, getting everything in between, her belly, below her breasts, nipples, neck, and lips, and because I'm a mean bastard on occasion, I'd stop, perhaps tie her up spreadeagled or something, before I start ramming into her.

Serves two purposes, I force myself to wait, submitting essentially to myself, while I try and convert her from normal girl to lust crazed lunatic, and fulfilling
this I guess pretty weird fetish (Works for me).



At least on me that was always working extremely well. If you go a level higher you can do that several weeks, every evening but putting her in a chastity belt after that (without letting her have an orgasm). That was so unbelievable intense :wave:

[isabeau6]

Hmm I have a few. but the main one is a relatively discovery one that I was told about and just had to try.

Forced orgasm. there is nothing like having her tied down and inducing one orgasm, then another and another and another and...............................

o god...that is a fetish i would love to try..that and orgasm denial...being slowly teased for the longest time with a feather lightly touching up and down the clit...not allowing enough pressure for release or satisfaction...and of course being bound while that is happening...blindfolded and gagged would be a plus...

i suppose my main fetish is tickle torture..being tied tightly and tickled lightly or fast or both or hard all over my poor helpless vulnerable body...whoohoo hehe...

also the being controlled aspect is a fetish of mine..

[tessa]

*forces beautiful Tessa down on the floor, pinning her hands beside her head and rasps "well, you're in for it babe. How many? how many?"

~manages to squeak out in a tiny voice~ As many as we possibly can? Pretty please?

Of course, I'll return in kind. ;)

~giggles~

Hey, NK? Need a victim? Umm, girl, I mean? I'll be sure to be on the lookout for you. ~says that while looking in the mirror...smiles quite wickedly~

:wave:

[gagged_Louise]

*caresses Tessa's neck with my hand and watches her shining blonde hair spilling out on the carpet*
-Hun, you really need the hot stuff, no?

[tessa]

*caresses Tessa's neck with my hand and watches her shining blonde hair spilling out on the carpet*
-Hun, you really need the hot stuff, no?

Seeing as the hot stuff is my fetish, I guess it's okay to say "yes, please?"

(making me fan myself, darling Louise) ;)

[nk_lion]

Hey, NK? Need a victim? Umm, girl, I mean? I'll be sure to be on the lookout for you. ~says that while looking in the mirror...smiles quite wickedly~

:wave:

Victim sign up sheet here

1) tessa

Though if no one else signs up, I'm gonna have to practise on the same victims again and again. I heard practise makes perfect so...

[tessa]

Victim sign up sheet here

1) tessa

Though if no one else signs up, I'm gonna have to practise on the same victims again and again. I heard practise makes perfect so...

Yum!

:)

[Flaming_Redhead]

OMFG nk_lion!!!!!! *groans* Now I'm all worked up and no VoodooMan until Thursday night! *pout* Sneaky sadistic rat bastard had me on cum restriction before I knew that's what it was. Well, I knew what it was. He just went about it a different way....making me want to save all my cum for him. Ppffftttt Damn Doms!!!!

I can't believe I haven't posted in this thread yet! My fetish is asphyxiation. I cum hardest while being smothered, not so much choked. My favorite position is the 69 with him on top, pushing his long hard cock down my tight throat until it completely blocks my airway. Meanwhile, his tongue is teasing my erect clit mercilessly until my hips are writhing beneath him and pussy juice is dribbling down the crack of my ass. My heart is pounding, and my chest is heaving. I begin to see spots and then......the big O.....my nails digging into the back of his thighs. mmmmmm

I'm also a fear junkie. I guess that's why I love asphyxiation so much....realizing there is no way in hell I could make an almost 200 lb man get off of me. Well, perhaps I could encourage him to remove himself....cock in my mouth....lots of teeth in there. *weg* As if that isn't enough, I love to goad him. If you've read my thread "Near Dom Experiences," you've seen that every now and then I get myself into a bit of a mess. I love it when I'm at his mercy, fearing the worst as he pins me down and begging to be let go. Methinks the lady doth protest too much! *ggls* I suppose that's also why I love bondage. The more I can't move, the better it is. Being blindfolded is the best! I love not being able to see what's coming or only being able to see a little bit with some effort. I can get myself pretty worked up with my overly vivid imagination, so when I'm expecting something painful and unpleasant but receive pleasure instead, I am lulled into that happy place where everything is okay.

I love humiliation. I love it when he talks dirty to me and calls me names. I love it when he points out how wet my cunt is or makes me feel how wet it is or rubs his cock around so I can hear how wet it is. I love it when he makes me tell him what I am and who I belong to. I love it when he spits on my cunt and in my mouth. I swear I can almost cum when he does that! I love it when he makes me beg for his cum. I love it when he has me suck his cock while I'm taking a piss. I love it when he pulls my hair and bites my neck while he's fucking me like a wild beast...using me for his pleasure.....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Damn it! Two more days.....*wanders off to bed* Pffttt Damn Doms!!!! One starts a thread about fetishes that gets me all hot and bothered, another gets me even more horny talking about his fetishes, and one gets me to save all my cum for him. AARRRRRRRRRGHHHHH

[Tasker]

*grins* @ Red's discomfort. Gotta love the anticipation

[nk_lion]

OMFG nk_lion!!!!!! *groans* Now I'm all worked up and no VoodooMan until Thursday night! *pout* Sneaky sadistic rat bastard had me on cum restriction before I knew that's what it was. Well, I knew what it was. He just went about it a different way....making me want to save all my cum for him. Ppffftttt Damn Doms!!!!


If I made even one woman even more hot for her significant other, I know I made a difference today, lol.


Now, I read that other thread about a sub's favourite thing to be spanked with, and my mind has been going on active imagination mode for the last few days or so for some reason, I thought of another thing I'd love to do.

It's a type of spanking game.
Before starting, I'd let the sub get familiar with perhaps 6-7 different types of things to spank with, the feel and what not.

Position: Blindfold the sub, tie her onto a table (face down). Now, I'd pick up a random thing to spank her with, perhaps 5-10 strokes, and let her guess which one was it. If she gets it right, I'd give her a reward of her choice (pre-arranged), and if she gets it wrong, then perhaps another 5-10 strokes.
Types of things to spank her with: a wooden paddle that's straight, a wooden paddle thats round, a short cane, a long cane, a plastic paddle, and this is where my limited knowledge of bondage equipment ends.

Yes, I have become a sadistic dom.

Anyhow, the question was What is your fetish, I think it should be What are your fetishes (is that the proper plural form)?

Maybe I could replace paddles with vibrators, use them on her for 20 second intervals, with 2 minute breaks (don't want her to cum....yet), and let her guess.

[Requiem]

I've always had a thing for water. I've been comfortable in water my entire life...in fact I prefer to be around water as much as possible. I don't mean water in the BDSM sense though. Just the though of sex in/near flowing water makes me shiver with excitement.

Other than that, I really have a fetish for tying someone down and blindfolding them and stuffing cotton in their ears so their sense of touch is heightened and doin all sorts of fun things to tease them. For some reason the though of dragging a cold blade across someones skin while their in a state like this really turns me on, and thats about as far as I'd ever go with knife play. maybe some nicks and scrapes but I don't know if I could bring myself to actually cut someone

[Dorkalicious]

This thread is getting me all hot and bothered.

Damn you sadistic doms.

*glare* lol

[nk_lion]

This thread and this entire forum is just bad. Everyday, I have this new idea in my mind, and I was one of the most unimaginative people in the sexual regard.

Or maybe thats a good thing?
Well, single and having fantasies like this is bad

[Requiem]

right now i'm in a biting mood....

[Dorkalicious]

This thread and this entire forum is just bad. Everyday, I have this new idea in my mind, and I was one of the most unimaginative people in the sexual regard.

Or maybe thats a good thing?
Well, single and having fantasies like this is bad

I agree, single + Fantasy = Frustration! Grr!!! Lol.

I am happy that the forums are helping you get ideas though ;)


right now i'm in a biting mood....

:rolleyes: hehehe

[nk_lion]

I agree, single + Fantasy = Frustration! Grr!!! Lol.

I am happy that the forums are helping you get ideas though ;)



I'll note them down somewhere, and person I end up with (if subly) will have a hell (or heaven?) of a time.

[ElusiveDream]

Don't know if I have one paticular fav. but can certinally think of 10-20 that all are up there....grins....

[nk_lion]

Controlling someone's ability to orgasm, realised it just yesterday that it was a HUGE turnon for me.

[Requiem]

here's my list so far...i've started writing them down in a word document just to keep track of them.

biting
rain/thunder and lightning
water (see my previous post about it)
knife play
fire play
food play
rope bondage (i love the way neat ties and watching someone struggle in my ties looks.)
cum restriction/game
foreplay (lots and lots of it, I want her begging for it ;))
public
floggers
spanking (bare hands)
hair pulling
asphyxia (...at least threatening it)
control and mind games (my favorite second to ropes)
corsets and sexy lingerie (on women, not on me :P)
clothing (I've always loved having sex with a girl who's partially or as fully dressed as possible)
collars
pressure points (the good ones :D)
gagging a girl on me
pinning a girl down or restraining her with my bare hands
handcuffs
rough sex
skin on skin contact

[jeanne]

here's my list so far...i've started writing them down in a word document just to keep track of them.


That's a very interesting list :) - and good idea to keep track.

[thezigg]

I have a fetish for real smart women with glasses. Someone who is clearly more intelligent than myself and she knows it. I know alot of you are laughing saying that is almost every woman out there and you may be right.

Also for short girls. Being a slave to a girl that is short but spunky.

Also for black women. With the history of our country kind of a role reversal thing. Damn this could be a long post.

Being made to do things I wouldnt want to in front of a woman or a group of women for their entertainment. IE: sucking a cock (Im not gay or even bi at all) while they laughed and cheered. Maybe even a little beastiality as they watch in amazement at how low they could make me go.

This may be a little more tame but just having a woman wrap her legs tight around my face, hands tight in my hair and say EAT ME is a tramendous is such a turn on its almost a fetish for me.

Females in powerful positions. Cops, bosses, Dr.s,professors, executives.

[Hime]

I have a fetish for real smart women with glasses. Someone who is clearly more intelligent than myself and she knows it. I know alot of you are laughing saying that is almost every woman out there and you may be right.

Also for short girls. Being a slave to a girl that is short but spunky.

Also for black women. With the history of our country kind of a role reversal thing. Damn this could be a long post.

Being made to do things I wouldnt want to in front of a woman or a group of women for their entertainment. IE: sucking a cock (Im not gay or even bi at all) while they laughed and cheered. Maybe even a little beastiality as they watch in amazement at how low they could make me go.

This may be a little more tame but just having a woman wrap her legs tight around my face, hands tight in my hair and say EAT ME is a tramendous is such a turn on its almost a fetish for me.

Females in powerful positions. Cops, bosses, Dr.s,professors, executives.

Short, nerdy chick with glasses here. :D Just sayin'.

[l1zzy]

Just found the thread so I thought I'd contribute...

Thunderstorms
Roadhead (obviously giving it ^_^)
Biting
Hands...big calloused long fingered hands
Hair-pulling
Geeks (science, lit, computer, music...doesn't matter...mmm talk nerdy to me!)

That's all the big ticket items, I think.

[gloombunny]

If liking geeks counts as a fetish, I should probably mention my recurring daydreams about the author of xkcd (http://xkcd.com/).

I don't care what anyone says, he is a dom and I will marry him someday. :P

[tessa]

NatalieD, I haven't laughed that hard in a long time. That is some hysterical material! No wonder you want to marry him. Seriously!

:wave:

[l1zzy]

I think it definitely counts. It's definitely not mainstream at the least...not like every other girl in the world gets light headed when an pale pasty guy expounds on Hawking theories now do they? ^_^ You might be a geek-lover if...readings from "The First Three Minutes" count as foreplay for you. lol

edit: after I hit submit I realized that it kinda seemed I was attributing "The First Three Minutes" to Hawking but it's written by Steven Weinberg. Forgive the confusion.

[ElectricBadger]

Curse you, Nat, you just stole my entire night away! Spent the whole thing reading that comic...hilarious and so very...well, very. Thanks for sharing your nerd-lust!

[Dick Tickles]

I guess i would have to say watching and making a woman squirt so hard and keep her climaxing as long as I possibly can. I like to keep her at full climax until she almosts looses consciuosness(if that happens). The best thing is rubbing her g-spot while sucking on her clit, I know this might sound a bit vanilla to most but this is my kink.

[wind_dancer{W_W}]

my fetish would definately have to be being bitten Holy Fuck i am addicted to the idea of vampires i cannot help the love of being bitten..... my friends will come up and bite me just because they know i like it!

[Willsubmit2]

as a sub, my fetish done to me is top: asphixiation, knife play, bondage big time, being flogged/whipped/hit with the cane and strap....is that all of it? lol...;pank:pd;whip

[Zarine13]

The most intoxicating thing for me would be immobilization and exposure, that combined with a blindfold and possibly earplugs would drive me wild.

I must say after reading this I sure do wish I had someone to answer to. Pleasuring oneself just isn't the same, especially if this is your inspiration!

[SmileyJoe]

Though I've never participated in it in real life... I do have a taste for predicament bondage. There is something intoxicating about a bound 'victim' struggling against the forced predicament of a well thought-out rigging.

[leah06]

Today, face slapping. Tomorrow, who knows what? I love my life.

[Ozme52]

Today, face slapping. Tomorrow, who knows what? I love my life.


Outstanding rachel. :D

[MissConfused]

I am extremely claustrophobic!
What would you do to terrify me and excite me?

[SauvagePouline]

I had to post here. lol.

As surely is rather apparent... pony play -drool- To have a stall, and a harness, and be bathed and groomed and hooked to a cart.... yea. That just plain does it for me.

Also, most definitely, public sex. Doesn't matter where, I just want to be in public, with people around and unaware....

Threesomes... with 2 men, and me. To be controlled and shared. It's two times the domination for the price of one!

I could list lots of kinks that I am extra fond of, but i'd say those were the true "fetishes"
(anal, enemas, heels, HAIR PULLING, etc etc etc) for me, cuz they're really hot, but not always necessary.

[DIXIE LASS]

The most intoxicating thing for me would be immobilization and exposure, that combined with a blindfold and possibly earplugs would drive me wild.


Zarine,
Exposed to what? A small, intimate group? A large public? The elements? I picture a bondage table, a blindfold, and the small intimate group. Yes, intoxicating is a good word.





Threesomes... with 2 men, and me. To be controlled and shared. It's two times the domination for the price of one!



YEEEEEESSSSSSS!! But what's wrong with foursomes? 3 men? Menage a quatre.....would that be the term? Three times the eroticism and intensity. But only controlled by the one doing the sharing. I'd willingly give him great control just because of his willingness to share.

But regardless of numbers, the main key here is "To be controlled and shared."

DIXIE ;pant;

[shayna{L_D}]

im going with rachel06, face slapping *drools*

[jesperi]

As I told someone on here just recently I have a bunch, but my top three have to be the "three C's". lol Collars, corsets and chastity. I have a hard time imagining anything more amazing than a beautiful girl in a tight corset, restrictive collar and steel chastity belt. ~sigh~

-Geoff

[Zarine13]

Zarine,
Exposed to what? A small, intimate group? A large public? The elements? I picture a bondage table, a blindfold, and the small intimate group. Yes, intoxicating is a good word. A small group? Now there's something I honestly had not thought of.. but it does sound really.. delicious! I was thinking more the elements, and to be exposed to whatever my Master wants to do.

[ksst]

This was a fun thread, so I'm bringing it back to add mine.

Being tied, held down, blindfolded, helpless, collars, leather, being a slave, serving, um, whipping, spanking. The thought of being in public or with a private group excites me, but haven't done it that much.

[ThFH]

Footplay, domanating a slave, pregnant slaves, giving enemas, watersports, lactation.

Are my fetishes

[Dog's Lady]

I love being spanked, watching and hearing him when I go down on him, his smell-not just his genitals, I can bury my nose in his armpit just to get that spicy, woodsy, masculine scent of him.
Also, something he did just once, so far: he put his thumb and forefinger up to my throat. He didn't choke me, and I don't think I would enjoy asphyxiation, but showing me that he could. Even more than knowing his power from that one move, with no toys or tools, but feeling my reaction. Most people, non-kinks, would react by lowering their chins to protect the neck/throat, but I threw my head back, to give him better access. I was offering him everything, my heart, soul, mind, even the power of life and death over me, and it excited me (okay, maybe it scared me a little, too, as I had never submitted to anyone like that before.) We are LDR, but just the thought of that moment can make me wet.

[ksst]

^ Dog's Lady, I love that too, what you described.

[brace [EDQ]]

I know it's a niche fetish that many won't understand, but that might exactly be ID's intent. I enjoy wearing restrictive braces and casts, even without medical need. They are comfortable, restrictive, and can control you for weeks at a time. They can be worn next to a nun without any offense being taken, yet with any obvious cast or brace, every passerby's head turns to look. It is a slice of publicly acceptable bondage and humiliation.
Example: a medical neck brace is more comfortable and more restrictive than a posture collar, and can be worn for as long as someone else is enjoying it.
Obviously, your milage may vary.

[hellman]

the on fetish i love most is rope just feel it on my skin mmmmm yes and i love all the rest of the fetish will give some a go thank you all

[ksst]

Yes, I love rope also. I slept wrapped up in some last night in fact.

[Ultraprene]

While I have long enjoyed bondage play and erotic teasing, I have recently become fascinated with women wearing full-body shapewear such as that made by Spanx. I have noticed that some of these garments are open, or openable, at the crotch presumably for bathroom convenience. It would seem these same openings would also allow the wearer to have sex without removing the garment. Does anyone share this interest, and especially has anyone tried this slightly kinky adventure?

[~CreamySub~]

A man of tall stature , laughs for Im only five foot two, so everyone is tall to me , nah I like a man to be at least six foot . This preference or fetish is quite new to me but Im truly enjoying the search such a nice canvas to look at when I find him :) . I have plenty more but will leave it with this one .

[sub_sequent]

I have never answered this post...simply because i have had preferences but never consider them fetishes. That has changed...breast and nipple torture..I need it...crave it...want it...

Clips, clamps, pegs- pulling, stretching, tying up.

Now I really want to try wax- i can only imagine what hot wax would feel like on my breasts. Mmmmm... (This new thought is thanks to scotsgirl's fantasies on her blog :) )

[~CreamySub~]

Wax) mmm was my first experience , I was 13 and actually was watching a show I should not have been , :) than went in my room later that night and used a regular candle , I dribbled the wax on my breastes and realized I loved it , than I did it on my inner thighs and was sold on the idea I LOVE WAX. Was awhile many years later before I returned to it in play .

I dont know if this is more a preferance or fetish , but smell omg I must have something to smell and it must be umm lets say very male from armpits to crotch .enough said there.

[mauve]

While I have many things that I like, enjoy and that turn me on I must say it's the psychological aspects of what we do that I'm drawn to most.
I like the control, discipline, ritual and structure that is inherent in a D/s relationship.
It just makes the whole experience of being bound or flogged (or whatever) so much more richer, deeper and meaningful.

[kbs]

to a young black haired girl.....i wish to hogtied her in difficult position for hours.deepthroatin her in that position unti she gagged,Pulling her hair fucking her ass roughly

[Fumiko-Oppai]

By the gracious and thoughtful arrangements of our Training Master, Mei-Xing and I are now Living it. :excitement::triumphant::love_heart::cheerful:
And we do NOT take it for granted, not for a moment!

[Fumiko-Oppai]

While I have many things that I like, enjoy and that turn me on I must say it's the psychological aspects of what we do that I'm drawn to most.
I like the control, discipline, ritual and structure that is inherent in a D/s relationship.
It just makes the whole experience of being bound or flogged (or whatever) so much more richer, deeper and meaningful.

I would have to Agree, definitely! Very well-said!

[Noxifer]

the sounds people make can turn me on so much that and algebra for some reason makes me very hot

[Fumiko-Oppai]

the sounds people make can turn me on so much that and algebra for some reason makes me very hot

Sounds, again, I Agree! A good point we all tend to forget! Algebra??? Did you have a crush on a teacher, that might be the Linkage?? I like it, most people hate math, and a sexual-linkage to it, is unique, or close to such!

[Noxifer]

Sounds, again, I Agree! A good point we all tend to forget! Algebra??? Did you have a crush on a teacher, that might be the Linkage?? I like it, most people hate math, and a sexual-linkage to it, is unique, or close to such!

it gives me a very strong arousal similar to guys morning wood and interestingly enough it lingers so for a few days after at the same time of day it's been active I get the feeling of arousal and it was caused by a very beautiful teacher almost as lovely as yourself

[Fumiko-Oppai]

it gives me a very strong arousal similar to guys morning wood and interestingly enough it lingers so for a few days after at the same time of day it's been active I get the feeling of arousal and it was caused by a very beautiful teacher almost as lovely as yourself

I do not suspect it would surprise you that I'm Blushing. :D
I can't relate, really, to having 'morning wood'...I'm rather opposite gender-wise. ;)

[bickinadox120]

Mine is castration or CBT I really would like to find a female Dom who will Skype with me or if possible would rather have this meet up with em and have a session someone let me know

[SkylerR3531]

I really enjoy the idea of my wife with another man but to put a twist in it I want my wife to force me to be with the man. Choking me with his dick. And having men show up and raping me for her pleasure.

[bigboy168]

I like to be tied down with a electro plug in my ass and electro title clamps plus having my nut devised and hook up to electro wires also having my cock wired all at the same time and having the current switched between the at different levels just to tease me for over 3 hours then bring me to a great climax. Let me rest for 15 minutes then do it all over again.

[FemdomMyLife]

Toilet slavery

[csr]

Loss of control and freedom; I like the feeling of being "stored" --tied down, gagged, and left for undetermined amounts of time. A blindfold or full hood allows that time to seem much longer. It's an incredible turn on right at first, then subsides--then after about an hour or two, I get extremely turned on and compelled to struggle. The sudden sound of my domme walking around, doing things in the room and totally ignoring me intensifies the feelings. Anal and/or nipple play is good too, and just makes the feeling of being used and abused that much more of a turn on.

[shy.girl]

Would have to say restrictive clothing/restraints tie with nipple play

[subslutty. sneha]

Ooohhh !!
Humiliation in public ...that's my favourite fetish !
For example eating without using hands in a public hotel ,collared in public ,fingering in public without anyone noticing , and especially being exhibitionistic like showing of your nipples through a sheer white top and going pantyless , or with extra makeup etc.
These are always a real turn on for me !

[Camille1981]

Spanking! Yes my fetish is to be spanked and getting my hair pulled from behind while getting penetrated by my cave man!:highly_amused: Unfortunately my last boyfriend was pretty much 100% vanilla and even after I made him watch with me tons of videos (http://theporndude.com/748/spankingtube) with the focus on spanking I couldn't get him to satisfy my sex desires. Hope someday I can find a man who can make me sexually happy!

[cgeldof]

i think i have repressed fantasies of hurting men but i'm scared to explore that.

being humiliated gets me off too, idk why. i wish i could get over the bdsm stuff

[Freakandrew9722]

Mine are the same things most doms have but the ones outside of bdsm for my are chubby girls. I love the chubby little arms, hands and feet. the way a nice fat hand feels against my cock and how fat girls can take a beating on their nice big ass. I also have a foot fetish. Not with dirty smelly feet I like them clean and I like the short toes and fat feet (which is one of the reasons I like fat girls they got the best feet). I've also wanted a girl to piss on me but my sub cant go away from the toilet so I haven't gotten to actually try it but I want her to piss her panties right on top of me as I play with her. I also wanted to try one of the remote control vibes so I can use it in public on my sub to let her know when shes being bad but they cost to much especially the ones that can be controlled from a long distance so shes never safe from a nice little tingle when daddy wants her.

[shauwn]

hmmm...top of my list would be very tight rope bondage, so love the feel of being helpless an tied up! needles...kinda scary! but really hot too :) and slavery. Specifically the idea of being displayed an sold...

[Misschief]

infinite and ever evolving, fetishes linger deep in my psyche long before i am able to vocalize them.. many have already been mentioned in this thread; strong hands on my throat with an accompanying look in His eyes or a fierceness in grasp that makes me truly uncertain how far He will take it this time..

being called names and otherwise demeaned while performing orally or riding Him.. i particularly like being told i am a 'dirty bitch' or 'fucking whore' when i am passed the point of restraining my desire.. i truly love giving oral and doing so when fully aroused is almost a guilty pleasure.. i definitely have an oral fixation and will lick his chest or arm or whatever is in reach while he is fucking me.. i like it when He reaches into my mouth, holds my tongue or tells me to suck His fingers..

most integrally, i love being used for His pleasure.. i love it when He cums inside of me, anywhere.. its like the most arousing thing in the world for me..

don't get me wrong, i love being played with, too.. the way He touches and licks me; perfection.. the softer the better.. oh, and i love when he tells me im a good girl because i get so wet from His touches.. i get so wet giving Him oral, too.. that turns Him on and i love the verbal implication of being a complete cock whore because i am dripping wet..

im no good at dirty talk, ive tried and read books, etc.. i over think things.. i wish i could, i love hearing it from Him.. i have always loved humiliation, since my first masturbation memories.. verbally, or being made to feel like i am filthy and completely obedient, no matter what is asked.. i love when He spits on my pussy or on my body or in my mouth..

recently, i have been loving anal sex.. when my g spot has been stimulated (directly or indirectly from fucking) it is so good.. i was scared at first, and shocked how much i actually enjoy it.. love when He cums in my ass, too.. incredible..

others: i love lingerie (corsets and garters and cuban heeled stockings), strong men, rough sex, being blindfolded, having Him piss on my pussy or in my mouth, a man who can fully take control and use me in a manner that is arousing and not annoying.. i do not like being spanked but a carefully timed face or breast slapping is so hot..

[GagAndTieme]

i have to say long-term bondage, preferably a hogtie or other comparatively uncomfortable position, complete with gag, is mine toO. I will struggle with my bonds to no end and when i finally realize i am not able to get free, that's when i will feverishly try to make myself cum. Oh, and a plug in my ass is always nice too ;)

[Misschief]

delete please, double post

[Misschief]

you mean get over being confused as to why humiliation gets you off, or get over these ingrained, uncontrollable sexual proclivities that will be with you for the duration of your life in some form?

there is no shame.. embrace it with a trusted lover.. go slow, keep a sense of humor, and plenty of reassuring talk helps.. "don't be so nervous.." my man said this to me earlier when i was using a strap on, something i NEVER thought i would enjoy.. i am a lot shy and a bit nervous, but making him cum from penetrating him from behind was unbelievably arousing.. I was wet down to my knees..

i cant imagine how hard it was for him to ask me to engage in pegging with him.. i didint know what exactly it meant, though i had an inkling.. he ran out that night and bought a strap on for me.. by the second time using it, i had him cumming all over his stomach strictly from the penetration..

i feel silly walking about the apartment with a floppy dildo swinging in front of me.. but whenever he tells me he wants me to get "my toy" i am excited to try again..

i am submissive in every sense and act, even when i am in mundane society.. it was easy for people (especially men) to take advantage of me in my youth.. it was pretty traumatizing.. but i still cannot escape how utterly arousing those memories are, of being taken against my will, or told to shut up and held down by my throat when i protested.. it was something i desired on a level i wasnt ready to come to terms with at the time.. now, i am able to vocalize these things to my lover and am in no danger of being led astray by those who do not have my best interests at heart, or worse..

dont think. " i wish i could get over this bdsm stuff," and think, "i wish i could get over whatever it is thats preventing me from indulging these fantasies in a safe, sane, and consenting manner." may take a long time, but if you think that bdsm is the problem, you will never be satisfied fully.. its a part of your sexual personality..

[theCARS1979]

you mean get over being confused as to why humiliation gets you off, or get over these ingrained, uncontrollable sexual proclivities that will be with you for the duration of your life in some form?

there is no shame.. embrace it with a trusted lover.. go slow, keep a sense of humor, and plenty of reassuring talk helps.. "don't be so nervous.." my man said this to me earlier when i was using a strap on, something i NEVER thought i would enjoy.. i am a lot shy and a bit nervous, but making him cum from penetrating him from behind was unbelievably arousing.. I was wet down to my knees..

i cant imagine how hard it was for him to ask me to engage in pegging with him.. i didint know what exactly it meant, though i had an inkling.. he ran out that night and bought a strap on for me.. by the second time using it, i had him cumming all over his stomach strictly from the penetration..

i feel silly walking about the apartment with a floppy dildo swinging in front of me.. but whenever he tells me he wants me to get "my toy" i am excited to try again..

i am submissive in every sense and act, even when i am in mundane society.. it was easy for people (especially men) to take advantage of me in my youth.. it was pretty traumatizing.. but i still cannot escape how utterly arousing those memories are, of being taken against my will, or told to shut up and held down by my throat when i protested.. it was something i desired on a level i wasnt ready to come to terms with at the time.. now, i am able to vocalize these things to my lover and am in no danger of being led astray by those who do not have my best interests at heart, or worse..

dont think. " i wish i could get over this bdsm stuff," and think, "i wish i could get over whatever it is thats preventing me from indulging these fantasies in a safe, sane, and consenting manner." may take a long time, but if you think that bdsm is the problem, you will never be satisfied fully.. its a part of your sexual personality..

thats awesome , you f**ked him with a strap on?! That sounds as if it went well and you had fun as he did too.
Did he enjoy it? I'd love to take it from a girl with a strap on. I'm so fascinated by it but I am new at this though.
Steve

[theCARS1979]

Yea I think I have a strap on fetish and want to get f **ked in the ass by a girl with a strap on. I think I would enjoy it and it would be fun. the girl can go easy at first and then go rough , hard and fast. I guess it has to be with the right one too

[jrockitt]

Love the ropes. Love to be tied and played with, teased and tormented. My last relationship was with a girl that understood that. Current relationship has not turned out the same. I can tie her up but she won't return the favor. So far.

[annie_rose]

Am trying to separate what the "norms" of BDSM are from the idea of a fetish. Ropes, cuffs, floggers, toys and such seem to be a part of what is accepted as a form of dominance or humiliation. So, beyond those, i'd have to say my fettish is being milked. Not just being a Hucow, but just the joy of knowing Her Dom/me feeds from her.. the ache of waiting for the feeding, and even milking during the day to keep my breasts full.

[jrockitt]

I think there are probably as many fetishes as there are people. I don't get off on feet, or spandex, or being peed on, but my very first sexual stirrings were from the thought of being tied or restrained, suspended or tortured. I was too young to respond to sexual thoughts or images, but I am still turned on by being in bondage or seeing someone else hung from the ceiling. The strap on talk was exciting me, but mostly thinking of being invaded while tied and helpless.

[jrockitt]

Exactly how I feel. And exactly the situation I'm in, except that she's backing off from being tied up as well. There is something about being tied and helpless that really rings my chimes. Any form of abuse or teasing is a turn on if I can't prevent it.

[jrockitt]

Failure To Thrive? Doesn't sound good.

[Beltbuckle]

you mean get over being confused as to why humiliation gets you off, or get over these ingrained, uncontrollable sexual proclivities that will be with you for the duration of your life in some form?

there is no shame.. embrace it with a trusted lover.. go slow, keep a sense of humor, and plenty of reassuring talk helps.. "don't be so nervous.." my man said this to me earlier when i was using a strap on, something i NEVER thought i would enjoy.. i am a lot shy and a bit nervous, but making him cum from penetrating him from behind was unbelievably arousing.. I was wet down to my knees..

i cant imagine how hard it was for him to ask me to engage in pegging with him.. i didint know what exactly it meant, though i had an inkling.. he ran out that night and bought a strap on for me.. by the second time using it, i had him cumming all over his stomach strictly from the penetration..

i feel silly walking about the apartment with a floppy dildo swinging in front of me.. but whenever he tells me he wants me to get "my toy" i am excited to try again..

i am submissive in every sense and act, even when i am in mundane society.. it was easy for people (especially men) to take advantage of me in my youth.. it was pretty traumatizing.. but i still cannot escape how utterly arousing those memories are, of being taken against my will, or told to shut up and held down by my throat when i protested.. it was something i desired on a level i wasnt ready to come to terms with at the time.. now, i am able to vocalize these things to my lover and am in no danger of being led astray by those who do not have my best interests at heart, or worse..

dont think. " i wish i could get over this bdsm stuff," and think, "i wish i could get over whatever it is thats preventing me from indulging these fantasies in a safe, sane, and consenting manner." may take a long time, but if you think that bdsm is the problem, you will never be satisfied fully.. its a part of your sexual personality..

Very well said, and I'm glad to hear that you and your partner seem both to know what you are doing. I like that he is leading from the bottom, at least sometimes, from what you describe.

[subrob99]

My fetish would be eating a creampie. After doing it a few years back. I find myself cuming too soon just to clean her out. Which always gets me ready to go again. My fantasy would be forced to eat another's.

[blueyed_slave]

My first fetish is ladies bare feet. Something about seeing bare feet realy turns me on. Even more so if they are smelly feet. I can't stop imaging sniffing and licking each toe and eventually shooting a load on them and licking it off if asked.
My other fetish is being naked and inspected in front of a group.