View Full Version : What Soothes the Wild Beast in You?
bluebutterfly
08-02-2006, 09:11 AM
We all get stressed out, who or what soothes or calms you when this happens?
MUSIC is my calmer
Widget
08-02-2006, 10:29 AM
I have to say nothing does it for me quite like a good shagging. Oh god to lay there afterwards all calm, relaxed and snuggling together. Yes very calming and soothing indeed. My stress levels drop to about -60 or so.
Umm. I'm not into the new age hippie stuff like crytals and wind chimes and the like, but... if I'm at work and stressed and can't go to a darkened room to lie down, I place my hands flat on my desk, with the fingers stretched out, and the thumb and first fingertips touching. Then I concentrate and try to feel the pulse of the thumbs as they touch. I breathe deeply and slowly, and that 15 seconds of time spent doing nothing really helps calm me.
If I'm at home, masturbation or loud music usually works.
Q xx
Uncle_Ed
08-02-2006, 10:32 AM
We all get stressed out, who or what soothes or calms you when this happens?
MUSIC is my calmer
At the moment very little. I'm very much afraid that life has got on top of me.
This afternoon, though, watching the incredible wit of ColinClout in the chatroom. I thought I was pretty good at the fast one-liners-but, Colin, you're the King-not me.
Thanks, mate.
bluebutterfly
08-02-2006, 10:35 AM
I have to say nothing does it for me quite like a good shagging. Oh god to lay there afterwards all calm, relaxed and snuggling together. Yes very calming and soothing indeed. My stress levels drop to about -60 or so.
Widget, I do agree with you a good shagging would do the job for me also, just have to find the right someone, lol :)
Timberwolf
08-02-2006, 10:40 AM
I have to say nothing does it for me quite like a good shagging. Oh god to lay there afterwards all calm, relaxed and snuggling together. Yes very calming and soothing indeed. My stress levels drop to about -60 or so.
Have I mentioned how much I like you? :blurp_ani
When I've got no partner available :rolleyes: either playing music, going for a long walk, or, yeah, masturbation always helps.
Widget
08-02-2006, 04:18 PM
Widget, I do agree with you a good shagging would do the job for me also, just have to find the right someone, lol :)
haha that is the tricky bit
Have I mentioned how much I like you?
When I've got no partner available either playing music, going for a long walk, or, yeah, masturbation always helps.
Thanks *blushes*
M&M's also work (music and masturbation...)
Silke
08-02-2006, 05:26 PM
I've got loads of strategies for that. Here are some that work for me...
...meeting with friends and talking...a LOT, lol.
...a little self hypnosis or meditation to clear my mind and relax.
...long walks alone, preferably somewhere beautiful.
...listening to music - I've got special play lists for most moods, lol.
...a cup of coffee. Tricky at home because I'm not allowed cups at the moment, but Starbucks will do the trick. *grins*
...working out til I drop dead and my mind is blank. ;)
...orgasms do the trick...and submitting is a great stress relief, too.
Just a few from my collection to quote my furry boss, lol.
hawk_fann
08-02-2006, 06:15 PM
Doing the Sunday NY Times Crossword and listening to Van Morrison's Astral Weeks.
For almost a year now, I've spent an hour or so chatting each afternoon with a dear friend in California. That usually takes my troubles away.
Nothing however works like hearing katie's voice on the phone. She brings me back to life in an instant. :bdsmsmile
Tojo
maddie
08-02-2006, 07:23 PM
Depends. Sometimes it's music. Depending on the situation and my mood, it's either mellow stuff or really loud and fast.
I used to work in a store. In the back room, we had a big block of styrofoam. One afternoon, a customer annoyed me so much, I went back there, picked up a hammer and started whacking away at the block. That felt good. :)
If I need to focus, the fluidity of the salute the sun movements in yoga works.
MsUther
08-02-2006, 08:30 PM
A good story.
On a busy cafè where i can let all the chatter around me distract me just enough to stop thinking, looking at people walking past, drinking a bucket of cappuchino and reading.
These are timeouts i love. All by myself.
Oh one more- once in a while I like to head out into the scrub (woods or whatever you call it)
I either walk or take my off-road bike, head out away from it all, sit down on a log & light a little fire. Put the billy on & make a cup of coffee- or tea...
We have miles & miles of scrub around here, where few people go- the solitude & peace is real nice.
Good story maddie- I got so pissed at a builder once, I said 'you believe what you want to believe mate' & walked off the site & drove to the next job. :rolleyes:
Tojo
Radiance
08-03-2006, 12:39 PM
Just prey to God, he will always help you in stressful times. Him and a good friends shoulder.
DaddyDearest
08-03-2006, 01:08 PM
When I am really uptight, nothing works like playing the fiddle. It is a great form of meditation and the old maxim that "music hath charms" is all very true...
DD
Warbaby1943
08-03-2006, 02:02 PM
Usually relaxing and watching a movie. However lately its been checking my email for a note from a very special lady. :wave:
Timberwolf
08-03-2006, 02:14 PM
M&M's also work (music and masturbation...)
You'd better be careful Widget. You know how some people feel about those kinky M&Mers... freaks, they are~! :28:
dzire2pleeze
08-04-2006, 05:44 PM
You'd better be careful Widget. You know how some people feel about those kinky M&Mers... freaks, they are~! :28:
HEY you, watch your mouth!!!!! lol
storm
08-04-2006, 05:51 PM
It's definately music for me.
What I play depends on what I need; to yell, cry or just sleep.
Otherwise a drive out to my favourite beach to sit and ponder
poetic_justice
08-04-2006, 10:51 PM
Meditation and yoga, stretches out all the (bad) kinks and knots, and lets me relax, stretching my mind and body.
suchaminx
08-05-2006, 01:51 AM
White chocolate for me ~smiles~, talking to someone special on the phone- He knows who He is and those that know me know who He is ~more smiles~, or being in the chatroom and joining in all the wit amd humour - nothing quite like it
smiles and hugs minx xx
Aussiegirl1
08-05-2006, 05:14 AM
Lots of things seem to help.
*music is a very calming thing for me.
*writing a story and just tuning the world out.
* Emailing friends and or chatting online
*A nice, long soak in the bath
*having a good laugh.
- A bear hug
- My hair being stroked
- Belly laughter
- Being called my 'special' names
- Remembering I'm in love
Asia
xxx
siralex
08-07-2006, 10:27 AM
not too many things, actually.
- falling asleep while hugging her
- my piano
- a good book in Russian
or shall I give a cooler answer: "in every beast, there is something human. there is none in me, so I am no beast" (thank you, Willie old chap)
MasterRob{cali}
08-07-2006, 10:51 AM
Smiles,
Knowing you want her, and her knowing she wants you.
Peace, Smiles, Laughter. just to name a few.
Smiles
Master Rob
Scorpio'sWill2Power
08-07-2006, 11:25 AM
For some mild stress relief grabbing a sack of M & M's
and tossing back a handful of them can brighten your day
just a little.
Especially those green ones, they really do a number on ya!!!
Now that they've come out with the "pearls" white chocolate
ones, those really add some smile enhancement to a bitchy
day.
When I'm really stressed to the max I need a good sexing
with someone to just get it all out of my system.
Go all animal an shit on every sweet tight opening they offer
up and if they resist and struggle a little it's all the better.
NO, hell no I wouldn't just dis some one that way and take
something they really didn't want to share but I'm talking
in terms of making it a challenge when you know they want
it just as fucking bad as you do but pretending otherwise
to make it even more intense.
There's no doubt about it, at times I probably deserve to
be locked up like some caged animal cause when the
red haze of fuck lust overtakes me I won't deny it.
I CAN'T, it's all a part of things for right or wrong and
I just deal with it as I know how!!!
Warbaby1943
08-07-2006, 12:07 PM
Lots of things seem to help.
*music is a very calming thing for me.
*writing a story and just tuning the world out.
* Emailing friends and or chatting online
*A nice, long soak in the bath
*having a good laugh.
I'm listening and learning and that to soothes the wild beast.
happy41
08-07-2006, 02:21 PM
We all get stressed out, who or what soothes or calms you when this happens?
Well talking to Master and getting a little hug and Him not asking no questions, or talking to Him helps to get things off my chest helps, if i am overly stressed another thing that helps is talking to someone behind the computer or i get up and start cleaning to help calm my nerves down. So i have several ways of dealing with stress.
KermitsKeeper
08-07-2006, 09:38 PM
For me:
Special notes from my pet
Spending happy time with my kids (the not so happy times are when I need these stress relievers!)
Escaping into a good book
Spending time on one of my creative hobbies - quilting, machine embroidery, scrapbooking
Coming here and catching up on the latest from this awesome group of people
BeautifulOblivion
08-07-2006, 10:19 PM
Reading de-stresses me. Especially a good fantasy story... ie. David Eddings (Author) or Harry Potter... =)
And then curling up in my bed with a good movie that I can quote tends to help too.
bluebutterfly
08-11-2006, 06:42 PM
Another stress reliever is getting emails from a great friend, they always put a smile on my face :) Thanks D xo
nothing and nowhere
08-12-2006, 09:14 AM
lighting a fire, putting some music on and watching the flames dance about - thats what calms me. it doesnt matter what music you have on, the flames always dance in time to it!!
Dancing like there is no one else in the room - completely letting yourself go and not giving a damn - now *that's* stress relief *smiles*
Asia
xxx
MsUther
08-12-2006, 07:06 PM
Dancing like there is no one else in the room - completely letting yourself go and not giving a damn - now *that's* stress relief *smiles*
Asia
xxx
Ooh i`ll second that one!
Ahhh - but right now - a HUGE bear hug, squeezing me as hard as possible, stroking my hair, gentle kisses ... okay, I'm a wimp *smiles*
cookiecat
08-15-2006, 05:00 PM
Ahhh - but right now - a HUGE bear hug, squeezing me as hard as possible, stroking my hair, gentle kisses ... okay, I'm a wimp *smiles*
Asia's wimpy side? smiles... everyone needs a bear hug and gentle kisses once in a while.
Lately, my stress reliever has been a glass - ok i lied - maybe 2 or 3 glasses of wine when i get home from work. and this. with the wine.
Silke
08-15-2006, 06:04 PM
*smiles* yeah, a nice glass of wine or two does wonders to shake off a stressful day...haven't had it in a while. *makes mental note to buy a nice bottle and beg Master for a glass* ;)
lizeskimo
08-16-2006, 06:51 AM
i really enjoy a game of scrabble or chess with my partner, with a forfeit to the loser. A nice stress buster!
Hmmmm .... I'm in the mood for a big, huge, squeezy bear hug and cuddles again - I should go to a different site *sulks*
bluebutterfly
08-16-2006, 02:06 PM
Hmmmm .... I'm in the mood for a big, huge, squeezy bear hug and cuddles again - I should go to a different site *sulks*
No you shouldn't.....I will give you a big squeezy bear hug cyberly of course, lol. And I am nice and squishy, lol. HUUUUUUUGGGGGSS & CUUUUDDDDLLLES sis. Go where you should to get the real stuff, I am older than you so you have to listen to me, lol :bdsmsmile
Awww - that answer the question, my butterfly sister soothes me...
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ hugs and cuddles}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
~kisses for my friend~
xxx
Warbaby1943
08-18-2006, 10:49 AM
Very soothing are the emails between aussiegirl and myself. More relaxing and satisfying than anything else I can think of without being able to physically touch her.
bluebutterfly
08-18-2006, 11:21 AM
Very soothing are the emails between aussiegirl and myself. More relaxing and satisfying than anything else I can think of without being able to physically touch her.
How sweet Warbaby :) I hope one day you two get to meet!
Warbaby1943
08-18-2006, 02:56 PM
How sweet Warbaby :) I hope one day you two get to meet!
Thank you bluebutterfly.
I dream about that but I don't believe it ever possible. Still she'll be with me in my heart and that is good too.
I don't mean to be crude or change the subject, especially as it is such a wonderful one, but right now, the wild beast in me would be soothed by being held against a wall by neck and and ferosiuosly finger-fucked while my legs are kept apart by a leg spreader *goes dreamy*
bluebutterfly
08-18-2006, 05:42 PM
I don't mean to be crude or change the subject, especially as it is such a wonderful one, but right now, the wild beast in me would be soothed by being held against a wall by neck and and ferosiuosly finger-fucked while my legs are kept apart by a leg spreader *goes dreamy*
Well nothing wrong with that!
bluebutterfly
08-18-2006, 06:18 PM
Thank you bluebutterfly.
I dream about that but I don't believe it ever possible. Still she'll be with me in my heart and that is good too.
I truly believe that NOTHING is impossible. You can make it happen if you really want it!
SheepishJaina
08-18-2006, 08:10 PM
A few things help calm me down. I'll either write, listen to music, or go take photos in the park. The best thing though is going up to the kitchen, pulling out my recipe book and experimenting with new deserts. It's very calming to me, and even if it doesnt taste great, its fun to try the new desert out afterwards. My "now famous" peanut butter cheesecake came outta one such bad day.
Warbaby1943
08-18-2006, 09:45 PM
I truly believe that NOTHING is impossible. You can make it happen if you really want it!
You also take into consideration the love and feelings of all involved and that really does make my dreams impossible. However, since they are dreams I still have that.
The best thing though is going up to the kitchen, pulling out my recipe book and experimenting with new deserts. It's very calming to me, and even if it doesnt taste great, its fun to try the new desert out afterwards. My "now famous" peanut butter cheesecake came outta one such bad day.
Mmm sounds delicious.
she_screams
08-19-2006, 03:21 PM
Headbanging and not caring what i look like. lol
OttifantSir
09-12-2006, 08:55 PM
Just prey to God, he will always help you in stressful times. Him and a good friends shoulder.
I respect everyone's right to believe and worship their divinity anyway they want (as long as it's not harmful to people who don't have the same belief), but I get so aggravated I almost fly through the roof when I read such things as this. Why? Well, look at it. And then the question asked at the beginning of this thread. then look at it again. Wasn't the meaning of this thread to answer what YOU do to relax? Not to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ, Son of God, Savior of mankind? If she finds it relaxing, great. But does that give her the right to impose that on the rest of us? If her post had been:
"I just prey to God, it always helps me in stressful times."
Then I wouldn't say anything about it. But she is preaching her. And that was not the intention of this thread as far I could see.
As for myself, if I have the possibility, I write. A two-liner, a two-pager, whatever springs to mind and amount of inspiration. If I don't have the possibility to do that, I usually just envisions breathing new energy in and expelling spent energy. Most of the time it's just a matter of a minute before I'm sufficiently calm to go about what I'm doing and taking a more thorough approach with pen and paper later.
riverwindsong
09-12-2006, 09:36 PM
I sit outside and read. Either that or I contemplate my belly button ring. :p But if I'm feeling really stressed and/or bad, I beg Sir for a little release.
Silke
09-12-2006, 09:37 PM
I'm sure this was just a well meant suggestion, and you can take it or leave it, it's up to you. No need to get stressed over this, OttifantSir. ;)
Aesop
09-12-2006, 09:41 PM
I play with my yahoo buzzer. :D
riverwindsong
09-12-2006, 09:54 PM
I play with my yahoo buzzer. :D
The only thing better would be playing with someone else's buzzer... :D
LadyK
09-13-2006, 05:11 AM
Sex is always the best but when that is not available it would be
Chocolate, diet Coke and Loud Classic R&R
SheepishJaina
09-13-2006, 05:14 AM
Mmm sounds delicious.
*giggles* i just saw this.. I'll have to post the recipe
~hellish one~
09-13-2006, 07:28 AM
i read when i am stressed. The more stressed...the faster i read. Depending on my stress level, i can finish a 400+ page book in a matter of hours.
Also, since i live about 5 minutes from the mountains, if i am stressed and need alone time, i'll just drive up to the mountains and lay there for a few hours listening to nature.
Leaving the harsh realities of the world behind me and living my dream in here, with some very special people...
Asia
xxx
frankee
09-14-2006, 04:47 PM
i usually do one of the following, depending on my mood and what kind of stress i'm feeling and who caused it lol:
-put on the gloves and beat the shit out of my punching bag
-yoga
-work out
-a nice hot candle lit bubble bath with mellow music with a nice glass of wine
-a long drive out of the city, lie on the hood of my card and look at the stars
-and of course like Silke, Starbuck's!!! thank God for Starbuck's!!
Today, Lady K's wonderful words and the fact that she thought about it.
Touched, so say the least - calmed my beast...
Asia
xxx
frankee
09-16-2006, 02:06 PM
i'm happy that the beast was calmed sweetie.
*hugs*
frankee honey - you were part of that too and I love you for it
~blows this special angel a kiss~
frankee
09-16-2006, 03:24 PM
awwwwww, i just saw your post.
You really touched me, thank you, you sweet sweet woman:)
And honey - you are a true Goddess and I love you more for it...
xxx
likeafox
09-17-2006, 12:09 AM
I take a long walk in a random direction i've never been to think
or
I write in the book of knowledge "poetry book"
she_screams
09-17-2006, 03:11 PM
putting the music on dead loud and dancing lkie a mad thing when no one is at home!
Flaming_Redhead
09-18-2006, 11:30 AM
Get in my car and drive aimlessly with the music blasting and chain-smoke. Eventually, I wind up at a friend's house or fuck buddy's house.....
Guest 91108
11-05-2006, 08:36 AM
different things different times.
music, meditation, soft light, silence.
sitting quietly and slowly cutting off all thoughts.
if i can't do that then good conversation.
being helpful to a friend has a calming effect.
pleasing a friend is even better.
Curious_1
11-05-2006, 11:09 AM
I listen to music. Or cry, crying is a great way to relieve tension
RickBulow74
11-05-2006, 11:54 AM
I watch TV or spend time online.
Guest 91108
11-05-2006, 11:58 AM
Sex
lily27
11-05-2006, 12:18 PM
Like red, I get in my truck, drive aimlessly, and crank the music.
Unlike red, I do not chainsmoke, or end up at a fuck buddy's house. Unfortunately. Maybe.
The last couple of days I have also realized how much I now rely on Sir to keep me grounded when I need it.
cookiecat
11-05-2006, 12:37 PM
The last couple of days I have also realized how much I know rely on Sir to keep me grounded when I need it.
I was just thinking the same thing. You don't realize it until he's not there.
And - like Curi - sometimes a good cry helps to get it all out. Once the tears are gone - the beast has been calmed.
Guest 91108
11-05-2006, 09:54 PM
I like my Pet being online now. that soothes the Beast before i have to let it out on someone.
TheDeSade
11-05-2006, 09:56 PM
Time alone in my wood shop. . . . or, weather permitting, on my boat.
Curious_1
11-05-2006, 11:49 PM
The thought of screaming when I want. Since it is not possible to do r/l I think of standing on a hill and screaming until I feel better
cookiecat
11-07-2006, 06:31 AM
after a beastly day of CR - the most intense, immediate, overwhelming orgasm when he's on the phone listening..... and then another one.....
Guest 91108
11-07-2006, 07:53 AM
hrm, i find it calming to have my Pet stroke my back until i fall asleep.
Guest 91108
11-13-2006, 03:34 PM
Sometimes it's soothing to sit back and think on sitting in a field of flowers during spring when the butterflies are just taking wing. Om.
vampyres{ID}
11-13-2006, 03:51 PM
Loud angry Music, Rough Sex, Getting on Grand Theft Auto and running people over or writing. (Not always in that order)
Timberwolf
11-13-2006, 04:51 PM
Lately it's been the ability to talk to two amazing women from here that I love, both incredible friends that keep me sane when otherwise I'd go crazy.
Confessor_Ed
01-06-2007, 06:54 PM
Watching her stretch her legs and arms, her hair tumbling down her sweat beaded chest, after I've untied her---her dirty mind
slaveangel{HM}
01-06-2007, 08:08 PM
Taking a long drive to nowhere in particular, with my favourite CD's blaring from the speakers.
Guest 91108
01-07-2007, 11:46 AM
having Wild Passionate extracurricular activites with WV.
Curious_1
01-07-2007, 02:33 PM
listening to music
suchaminx
01-07-2007, 02:36 PM
hearing his voice ~smiling~
Curious_1
01-07-2007, 03:25 PM
hearing his laugh
Lee Boudine
01-09-2007, 06:33 PM
she looks at me with tears falling: utterly helpless with desire without my loving..............
slaveangel{HM}
01-09-2007, 07:28 PM
Laying in His arms as He strokes my hair, as we talk.
Curious_1
01-09-2007, 08:44 PM
thinking of killing ...very very slowly..native american style the person I am pissed at
TheDeSade
01-18-2007, 01:47 PM
she does. . . just by being her
poetic_justice
01-18-2007, 03:40 PM
Taking out my anger/frustration on the punching bag... poor thing.
Dorkalicious
01-18-2007, 04:03 PM
Taking out my anger/frustration on the punching bag... poor thing.
I need to get one of those.........lol
poetic_justice
01-18-2007, 06:03 PM
Oh yes. They definately come in handy *nods*
gagged_Louise
01-18-2007, 06:27 PM
music, and talking to people. In spite of my nick here, I've found anger will often dust off if you have someone to talk to, even the one who said something you thought was bloody stupid. :-)
Mishka
01-18-2007, 09:03 PM
sex.
Let me become a beast in the bedroom and I collapse into calmness. All rage melts to a manageable level.
DrkRvn
01-18-2007, 09:18 PM
things that calm me when I am upset....
cleaning....
Sex...
ice cream...
Sex...
relaxing bath....
Sex...
poetic_justice
01-18-2007, 09:22 PM
Sex... you can take all that pent up emotion and energy and fuck someone senseles... really makes you feel good. LMAO
Mishka
01-18-2007, 09:30 PM
things that calm me when I am upset....
cleaning....
Sex...
ice cream...
Sex...
relaxing bath....
Sex...
what about sex? does that soothe you? :26:
Curious_1
01-18-2007, 10:04 PM
Blasting music, sometimes playing the same song over and over
Guest 91108
01-21-2007, 04:19 PM
a soothing voice, a feathery touch, a wisp of hair over the eyes......
Can's Peaches
01-21-2007, 04:59 PM
Talking to Sir, all he has to say is relax and I feel better.
Curious_1
01-22-2007, 05:06 AM
comfort foods
Guest 91108
01-22-2007, 05:52 AM
Her words this morning.
Curious_1
01-22-2007, 08:43 PM
waking up to an email from him
poetic_justice
01-22-2007, 10:06 PM
The rain
Curious_1
01-23-2007, 01:23 AM
finally getting to cum after CR
riverwindsong
01-24-2007, 09:56 PM
listening to my music as I journal in a room by myself...or a long hot bubble bath.
Sir_G
01-24-2007, 11:41 PM
waves.
suchaminx
01-25-2007, 01:22 AM
He does :)
TomOfSweden
01-25-2007, 01:42 AM
This is a major weakness I have. Nothing much works. The best I have is going to the gym. There's been some great advice in this thread. Thanks guys.
poetic_justice
01-25-2007, 03:24 AM
Thats brilliant Tom - I'm glad you found it interesting and that it gave you some ideas :)
Letting loose at a party.
babykat
01-25-2007, 03:28 PM
a sweet kiss on the lips
cadence
01-26-2007, 03:58 PM
Practicing on the cello, it doesn't matter if it's trills, drills, or even my most hated scales, it always makes me feel good. And makes the day that much better.
Curious_1
02-04-2007, 07:13 AM
crying
Krynn
02-04-2007, 07:17 AM
First cup of coffee in the morning
gagged_Louise
02-04-2007, 07:47 AM
ice-cream (in summer)
mkemse
02-04-2007, 07:49 AM
either a cigarette or a nice piece of french silk pie
wildhoney
02-09-2007, 05:51 AM
In the summer, it's cutting the grass. All other times, I get out and walk as far and as fast as I can.
mkemse
02-09-2007, 06:57 AM
either a walk or it depends on what is stressing me out, different soothes for different things
violet girl{MM}
02-09-2007, 08:25 AM
Going for a nice long run on a beautiful sunny day always does me good! :)
slaveangel{HM}
02-16-2007, 07:10 PM
Master spanking me mercilessly, when I am in a wild mood, until I reach breaking point, that sates me wonderfully.
Curious_1
02-20-2007, 05:05 AM
seeing his name login
Guest 91108
02-20-2007, 05:52 AM
Warm, soft caring hands rubbing on my neck or back ...
"yes, you can have anything you want once i wake back up ...."
* ... nods off.... *
violet girl{MM}
02-20-2007, 09:32 AM
*rubs Sirs neck softly and gently*
*smiles as He nods off*
*puts His head in my lap so He can rest* ;)
mkemse
02-20-2007, 03:47 PM
Frozen Chocolate Yogurt
sisterhoney61 {RW}
04-04-2008, 05:37 PM
Let's see: sex, a long hot bath, venting to Master (He's a great listener), going for a long drive, music, watching a movie, playing a computer game (particularly violent, bloody ones to let out my stress), playing with my two cats, reading, chatting online so that I can vent to my friends
a1984944_isback
04-04-2008, 08:12 PM
fishing from my kayak on a beautiful day w/ my wife
mandy77
04-05-2008, 04:48 PM
throwing (basketball) hoops
a1984944_isback
04-05-2008, 09:02 PM
hoops is good!!
Game to 15??
some alone time and then just letting go and relaxing in the ropes ..non sexual or depending on how extreme the 'wild beast' some carefully monitored intense play
mandy77
04-06-2008, 06:29 AM
sitting back and listening to the favs on my iPod
Sadistic1
04-09-2008, 02:04 AM
my wonderful girl cg :)
slave eswn
04-28-2008, 02:53 PM
a good long whipping, then a good long cry, keep me well grounded. such a stress reliever
snowflake
04-28-2008, 03:03 PM
mattering... hmm music , walking into chat and domming a male sub
or being grabbed by the hair and someone whispering in my ear .. on your knees bitch and completely controlled from there ... especially with a good spanking or caning...
Tufty {Bad}
05-01-2008, 05:26 AM
I think my 'wild beast' got up and left years ago...
chelsea99
05-12-2008, 08:13 AM
a massage would work...alas i never get one..
reading a good book and listening to classical music usually helps though..or else going for a walk..
butterflySlave4u
05-12-2008, 08:39 AM
M&M's also work (music and masturbation...)
omg...is THAT what M&M's stands for???? (winks at S1)
*Runs to the H&HSC*
sisterhoney61 {RW}
05-13-2008, 01:12 AM
I didn't add a couple more to my list. One of them is reading, but I usually have to be calmed down in the first place to read. So after I initially let out the stress then I'll read. There is also belly dancing, but I haven't been doing it lately because I've been ill, so no energy to dance with. And I discovered a new hobby: gardening, so that helps with stress.
chelsea99
05-13-2008, 07:29 PM
drinking cheap champagne....
babypup
05-13-2008, 07:32 PM
listening to music
ShyGreenEyedGrl
05-13-2008, 07:39 PM
writing poetry
babypup
05-13-2008, 07:45 PM
^that works quite well for me
sitting in the dark
ShyGreenEyedGrl
05-13-2008, 07:57 PM
i like sitting in the dark.
dancing until i'm too tired to care what was wrong.
babypup
05-13-2008, 08:05 PM
^thats always fun
organizing to the point of OCD
ShyGreenEyedGrl
05-13-2008, 08:14 PM
^ have tried that...just irritates me more. lol
yoga
babypup
05-13-2008, 08:19 PM
^yoga is nice
exercise
ShyGreenEyedGrl
05-13-2008, 08:33 PM
a nice long walk
Sadistic1
05-14-2008, 03:14 AM
seeing my slave cg
ShyGreenEyedGrl
05-14-2008, 08:04 AM
awww...thats sweet.
curling up with Master after a month of having to wait to see him.
Sadistic1
05-15-2008, 05:09 AM
a glass of shiraz after a long day
Euryleia
08-19-2008, 11:14 PM
re-reading a classic, favorite book
Jayden McZimmer
08-19-2008, 11:15 PM
laying with my beast (my dog)
DowntownAmber
08-19-2008, 11:16 PM
A good flogging followed by a good cry.
steel1sh
08-20-2008, 07:45 AM
Ronn{s}!!!
dewran59
08-21-2008, 05:39 AM
my boy!!!!!!!!!!
isis646
09-03-2008, 03:30 AM
curling up with my Master and falling asleep or if He''s not around burning miles in one of my vehicles till i feel better.
craven
09-03-2008, 08:09 PM
glass of merlot and enya (sorry but she does)
blossom
09-04-2008, 05:32 AM
a good story to let my imagination go and forget everything else
dewran59
09-04-2008, 06:20 AM
the naughtiness of someone who i really adore
rosebud
09-04-2008, 07:53 AM
Also Enya, hot bath, candles, and white wine
~Snake~
09-04-2008, 09:36 AM
^ rosebuds Ave! :)
rosebud
09-04-2008, 09:40 AM
lol...love you, hun! Kisses
talking to Snake on the phone! ;)
~Snake~
09-04-2008, 09:41 AM
^ rosebud singing "happy birthday Mr President".....lmao!
rosebud
09-04-2008, 09:52 AM
lmfao...Hearing his ^ laughter!
craven
09-04-2008, 10:29 AM
letting my mind run wild at the prospect of getting hold of the ass above ..... oh yeah
Jayden McZimmer
09-04-2008, 10:36 AM
^ lol
listening to music
rosebud
09-04-2008, 02:51 PM
letting my mind run wild at the prospect of getting hold of the ass above ..... oh yeah
*Hugs you tight*
Flying to Europe to see Craven...;)
dewran59
09-06-2008, 01:12 AM
My favourite dancing music
craven
09-06-2008, 03:31 AM
waiting at the airport to welcome rosebud
rosebud
09-07-2008, 09:43 PM
Getting to know him and Mmmmm...thinking of the many pleasures!
dewran59
09-09-2008, 06:01 AM
^^ I would love to go and watch!!! ^___^
dancing away with my favourite music..
rosebud
09-09-2008, 08:01 PM
^^smiles & hugs^^
the hot sun on my body
craven
09-13-2008, 01:39 AM
watching the hot sun on rosebuds hot sweaty body
Sadistic1
09-13-2008, 05:43 AM
seeing my cg
craven
09-14-2008, 08:30 AM
hot bath, candles, cold white wine and a good book to lose myself in
MrEmann
09-14-2008, 02:14 PM
Guitar and amp set to 11...."I just wanna make some eardrums bleed."
ShyGreenEyedGrl
09-14-2008, 03:07 PM
quiet alone time to spend doing whatever i want. reading, writing, sleeping....mmm
MrEmann
09-14-2008, 03:12 PM
what is this "quiet" you speak of?
dewran59
09-14-2008, 04:51 PM
bush walking , listening to birds noises and the smells of the bushes
MrEmann
09-14-2008, 04:53 PM
I do that when I go hunting...
craven
09-14-2008, 11:40 PM
the sea
Sadistic1
09-19-2008, 06:16 PM
icecream
manda
09-19-2008, 09:14 PM
a soak in my hot tub
rosebud
09-19-2008, 09:19 PM
laying in the sun, feeling the warmth on my body.
craven
09-20-2008, 01:16 AM
losing myself in a good book
rosebud
09-20-2008, 10:43 AM
caresses
ShyGreenEyedGrl
09-20-2008, 06:23 PM
ahhh...sweet silence.
craven
09-21-2008, 06:04 AM
some quiet me time, away from it all
rosebud
09-21-2008, 04:58 PM
soft music, scented candles
craven
09-22-2008, 03:37 PM
good glass of wine, phones of the hook, no one else, some candles and good music playing
Jayden McZimmer
09-22-2008, 05:09 PM
^ what he said but change the wine for dr pepper lol
dewran59
09-22-2008, 05:17 PM
doing yoga and listening to my favorite dance music then dance around like a mad dog....
Jayden McZimmer
09-22-2008, 05:24 PM
lol ^ i like that dewran and i gotta try yoga.
dancing with my dog (she stands up on her back feet like a human and jumps around with me) was just doing it :)
manda
09-22-2008, 07:54 PM
soft music and a glas of wine
craven
09-22-2008, 10:09 PM
driving in he sun
rosebud
09-23-2008, 06:19 PM
agree with Craven...with the top down (convertible)
manda
09-23-2008, 06:23 PM
whispers in my ear
Baddbaddgirl
09-23-2008, 09:23 PM
******.. lots and lots of ******
thrall
09-23-2008, 09:25 PM
control
TheDeSade
09-24-2008, 12:02 AM
a dark night in the middle of no where and the quiet
dewran59
09-24-2008, 01:04 AM
early walks on the beach and watch the sunrise
TheDeSade
09-24-2008, 01:21 AM
a steady breeze filling the sails of my boat, the soft sound of water on the hull and just a hint of salt spray in my face
himind
09-24-2008, 10:52 AM
A cigarette in my car in the mountains somewhere, almost lost, the wet spray of a rushing stream...
Jayden McZimmer
09-24-2008, 12:31 PM
playing games here
manda
09-25-2008, 06:58 PM
an afternoon nap in someone's arms
rosebud
09-25-2008, 09:23 PM
The built up, i can't take it anymore, May i Pleeeease cum, Orgasms
DowntownAmber
09-25-2008, 09:36 PM
Cookies.
isis646
09-27-2008, 01:49 AM
curled up in His lap sleeping feeling His strong protective embrace lull the beast to calmness once more. and if that don't work there's always the truck.
craven
09-27-2008, 03:17 AM
her telling me to behave and that i am hers mmmm
ShyGreenEyedGrl
09-27-2008, 10:23 PM
just hearing his voice at the end of a very tiring day. sweet whispers on what a good slave i am. :)
TheDeSade
09-27-2008, 10:28 PM
time alone outdoors where I cant her traffic noise, just the insects and birds
cadence
09-27-2008, 10:53 PM
It's still playing the cello, I haven't found anything else yet to compare