ChurchofVirus
08-24-2006, 12:42 PM
Okay, yet another question from this novice master, here goes:
My love tends to be pretty indecisive. Our relationship currently is pretty complicated, we love each other but there are some outside sources that are hindering our relationship and I feel that some decisions need to be made, or answers given. She can get upset sometimes when I bring some of this stuff up so I try to talk to her about it in doses(Mostly dealing with attachment to an ex, fear of trusting me, and moving forward in our relationship(ie living together)), but she continues to be indecisive and I really need some conclusions to draw from.
My question is this. I was considering tieing her up and telling her 'I'm going to leave you here for X amount of time. I'm going to come back and ask you a question, I want an answer. If you fail to answer the question I'll add a tool of persuasion to help you come to a decision.' The tools being anything from ice cubes and cloths pins to vibrators and spanking. Basically a torture/interrogation kind of technique. If she fails to answer I'd do something or add something to her, and tell her 'I'll leave you here to think about what I just asked you, I'll come back in X amount of time and expect and answer.' If she doesn't give me the answer I'll add something and continue this process until I get the answers I desire. After she answers a question, I'll give her some kind of release, fucking her, allowing her to orgasm, something, I'll kind of wing it as I go. Another question about this would be other ways I could torture her in this setting without having to spend money on stuff, and she's a sado-masochist so I don't know how well pain will work though. I want to give her pleasure through this, I'm not really sure how I should work this.
Now this could be quite enjoyable but I wonder if this is something that is wrong? It kind of seems like training yet it can harsh since these questions I have for her can be touchy at times. I'm concered that this perhaps may not be a good venue for it, but I am not sure honestly if it would or not. This is not something I have really done before, but this could work to mine and her gain, but since these questions can be touchy, it could cross some boundries. I don't want to force her to make a decision if she truely cannot make one at this time, and in the past when I tried to make her come to a decision, her decision sway to cut me out, since it was easiest that way though she didn't want to do it, but I want something to go on.
Advice? Discuss.
My love tends to be pretty indecisive. Our relationship currently is pretty complicated, we love each other but there are some outside sources that are hindering our relationship and I feel that some decisions need to be made, or answers given. She can get upset sometimes when I bring some of this stuff up so I try to talk to her about it in doses(Mostly dealing with attachment to an ex, fear of trusting me, and moving forward in our relationship(ie living together)), but she continues to be indecisive and I really need some conclusions to draw from.
My question is this. I was considering tieing her up and telling her 'I'm going to leave you here for X amount of time. I'm going to come back and ask you a question, I want an answer. If you fail to answer the question I'll add a tool of persuasion to help you come to a decision.' The tools being anything from ice cubes and cloths pins to vibrators and spanking. Basically a torture/interrogation kind of technique. If she fails to answer I'd do something or add something to her, and tell her 'I'll leave you here to think about what I just asked you, I'll come back in X amount of time and expect and answer.' If she doesn't give me the answer I'll add something and continue this process until I get the answers I desire. After she answers a question, I'll give her some kind of release, fucking her, allowing her to orgasm, something, I'll kind of wing it as I go. Another question about this would be other ways I could torture her in this setting without having to spend money on stuff, and she's a sado-masochist so I don't know how well pain will work though. I want to give her pleasure through this, I'm not really sure how I should work this.
Now this could be quite enjoyable but I wonder if this is something that is wrong? It kind of seems like training yet it can harsh since these questions I have for her can be touchy at times. I'm concered that this perhaps may not be a good venue for it, but I am not sure honestly if it would or not. This is not something I have really done before, but this could work to mine and her gain, but since these questions can be touchy, it could cross some boundries. I don't want to force her to make a decision if she truely cannot make one at this time, and in the past when I tried to make her come to a decision, her decision sway to cut me out, since it was easiest that way though she didn't want to do it, but I want something to go on.
Advice? Discuss.