Gagging for it!

[slave327-834-200]

I am just starting to really learn and practice the art of deep throating. I am asking for advice on how to overcome my gag reflex. I have read from other posts that to swallow over and over helps work through it, so drinking water for elongated periods of time is a good way to learn this. Also the obvious route is practicing daily, Master may become jealous of my bananas!

Any other suggestions? Advice would be gratefully received.

Obviously I want to perfect this as best I can for my Master but I must also ask, for some of you, mostly Doms I presume, is the gagging sometimes part of the experience?

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For me as A Dom, when she gags some, its a bit of a turn on. Cause I know she is enduring something she normally would not do. The sound, and then the following feel of her pushing forward even though she is gagging. Huge turn on for me. Then again, I have an asphyxia fetish.

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[MsUther]

Practise on your man/Master when you are aroused. Really wanting it, sexually, might help you forget about the reflex and make you relaxe the most. And as mentioned above: repetition.... I`m sure he will allow you to practise your skills on him ;)
I have a question in addition; can you hurt your throat if the cock goes too far down too many times?
While the feeling of deep throating is amazing, the clogged up, eye watering and burning throat experience that commes with it make me worry a tiny bit about the parts down my throat.

[hotfirefly]

Various positions will allow your throat to open more. I've found the best position for me is lying on my back with my head hanging over the bed. My Master stands and his penis is just the right height for my mouth. My mouth and throat in this position are in a straight line. At first I used my hands to pull him forward by the hips, now that we are both more comfortable, he goes at his own pace, but I still keep my hands on his legs so I can let him know if he is going too deep for too long. Plus the blood rushing to my head is a nice little rush. sigh...now I'm wishing he was at home...

A 69 position with me on top is also a good angle. I slide up and down his body and it allows him to go really deep in my throat.

As for gagging, at first I was really embarrassed by gagging, but he told me how much it turned him on and whenever we watch porn together I can see how excited he gets if the girl gags. Now that I know that he isn't disgusted about it, it's much better. I still get embarrassed, but now that is also part of the fun. :)

My biggest problem is remembering to breathe. It's really hard to breathe with something big in your throat. At first I would panic a little and pull back, but then I learned to control that and instead of pulling back I'd tell myself to just hold it and breathe. It takes a little more effort to breathe through your nose but once you conquer the panicy feeling it's better.

Good luck and remember have fun. Even if it's not perfect, practicing is a lot of fun. ;)

MsUther- I'm not sure. I've never had any lasting effects, the throat burning and eye watering goes away almost right after. I would imagine that if your throat hurts for a long time after there might be reason for concern and you might want to slow down.

[MsUther]

I think maybe a little rains for us both would be advisable, my throat hurting for a day after might just be the right indicator on too much fun :rolleyes: The stuffed feeling of being all clogged up and eye watering is also very enjoyable, makes me all dizzy and happy.
Thanks for the advice, Firefly :wave:

[slave327-834-200]

Thanks for the advice and insights guys

"often a banana is too soft or will break off as you practice" - delia
lol- Dont i know it but its such a great way to tease on cam at breakfast time! Thanks for the other tips too, looks like i am setting aside some practice time every night!

"when she gags some, its a bit of a turn on" - IDCrewDawg
I suspected this might be the case, as you said, knowing that she is doing something out of the ordinary and discomforting to herself, for you must be a rush (and I am with you on the asphyxia thing too!) The gagging has never stopped my Master so i knew there must be other levels of enjoyment in it for him other than the obvious.

"Practise on your man/Master when you are aroused" - MsUther
Oh alright then seeing you have suggested it so nicely! If I must! :rolleyes:

"My biggest problem is remembering to breathe. It's really hard to breathe with something big in your throat" - hotfirefly

This is my biggest problem too, i just cant get my body to remember to do it and I dont trust that i can get enough air in through my nose. Looks like Master is going to have to be very patient with me while i perfect this! Perks of the role i suppose! :)

[master 327-834-200]

"Practise on your man/Master when you are aroused" - MsUther
Oh alright then seeing you have suggested it so nicely! If I must! :rolleyes:



Think it is me you should be asking politely!

[slave327-834-200]

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Of course Master

*quickly bows head*

If it is pleasing to my most tolerant Master may his humble slave give him elongated periods of cock worship? :)

[master 327-834-200]

That sounds compulsary slave and a very well timed request at that.

Almost as if you had planned this.....hmmmmmmmmmm?

[angelfreak]

I would've replied sooner, but I was kind of grounded from the internet. *blushes*

So...my two cents worth... I think it's pretty possible to get to the point where you don't gag. Maybe not all the time, but it'll get less and less as you get comfortable with having a cock in your throat.

I started practicing on a dildo before I moved in with my Master so I was already used to gagging a bit (as used to that as one can get I guess). I still gag, but I can tell it's not as frequent or as strong as before.

The main thing is practice, as pretty much everyone else has said. The angle is a big help, too because if it's not the right angle, you could possible bruise your throat.

I guess one main thing I try not to do is intensive deep throat soon after eating...for obvious reasons. ;)

Also, here's a website I found that has a lot of good information.

http://tdte.porkyhost.com/instruction.htm

[slave327-834-200]

Also, here's a website I found that has a lot of good information.

http://tdte.porkyhost.com/instruction.htm


Angelfreak

Thanks for your advice and the link, looking at it right now.

Practice it is and Master was very happy to oblige me on that front this morning...getting there!

*blushing*

[MsUther]

Also, here's a website I found that has a lot of good information.

http://tdte.porkyhost.com/instruction.htm

Thanks so much for the link, Angelfreak. It contained a lot of usefull information, and best of all...some pleasure tricks to "blow" his mind with:gun:
:p

[Ozme52]

:rolleyes:

Is this an elective at the academy?

[Psynymph]

oh my they have a blow job smiley.............

something a little werid.....try fingering your mouth....lol....i'm not sure how else to explain it. stick two fingers down your throat until you start to gag, then stop but keep your fingers in place. relax your throat. breathe around your fingers. then push further. stop and breathe when you start to gag, but go further and further. do this daily. granted, you mostly likely can't breathe around your Master's cock, it still helps. i have bearly no gag reflex at all. it sounds werid to do, but it really worked for me.

and while your in the process of deep throating....just remember to relax.it's kinda like anal. for myself, i have to focus and tell myself to relax the muscles in my ass or my throat. it works though, just takes a moment of focus.

ok hope that helps......hey if your ever in nc or sc, i've got a strap on you can practic on, i'll even coach ya through ;) lol

[slave327-834-200]

ok hope that helps......hey if your ever in nc or sc, i've got a strap on you can practic on, i'll even coach ya through ;) lol

Now there is an offer I cant turn down! You can be sure that I will look you up lady if I am ever over that way!

Thanks for the advice, will give it go.

[AngieSmith]

My mistress likes me to deepthroat her strapon. At first the gag reflex hit, but I have found over time that the best method is to lie on a table or bed with your head of the end so it is a striaght shot.

[VixeyandPhoenix]

I find it most satisfying to have Vixey gag all over my cock. When she started out the poor girl was like a pencil sharpener, but now she has learned to perform most incredibly. She can even take being forcibly throat fucked. I just love to grab her by the hair and pound away!!!

[Clevernick]

I've heard that squirting Chloraseptic down your throat while humming the magic vowel "eeeee" makes the gag reflex go away for a while. Practising with less and less Chloraseptic over time might be a way to go....

No personal experience I'm afraid!

[Eponine]

Everyone seems to be concerned simply with gagging- I don't mind that and I know Master loves it, but I'm concerned with the throwing up! (or was "gagging" a euphism for that?) Am I really the only one?

It's happened enough times that I'm not as embarrassed anymore, but besides being embarrassed, I'm disappointed as well.

I love feeling and being unable to breathe (I also enjoy giving up control of my breathing to Master, the asphyxia thing), so would like not to have to worry about vomiting ruining a perfectly good time...

It's weird for me- when I try to focus on not gagging/ vomiting, that's when I do. Sometimes i can kind of focus without letting myself know I'm focusing- then I relax, but I can't hold on to that state of mind for very long, and it's not just Master's going in that makes me gag/ vomit, it's as He pulls back out.

But I do love the feel of His cock sliding farther back than any cock has gone before (in my mouth). And I guess that's not even all the way- Master said I "almost" had it all the way- and also, I've never experienced throat irritation during or after.

Psy- I think I'm going to try the fingers thing.

[jeanne]

I've heard that squirting Chloraseptic down your throat while humming the magic vowel "eeeee" makes the gag reflex go away for a while. Practising with less and less Chloraseptic over time might be a way to go....

No personal experience I'm afraid!

Now I'm curious enough to try this - Chloraseptic is in the medicine cabinet!

I would like to add one tidbit here - I also worry about the gagging, tears, etc. not being very attractive...but also find the fact that he is big enough (and selfish enough in the way we love) to cause me to gag and choke and cry an incredible turn on. When he has his hands in my hair, forcing himself down my throat, my brain is saying "oh no" but my body is saying "oh hell yes"

[gagged_Louise]

All I need to add to the final post of his_j is I totally want to do this, totally want, nay need to be there on my knees, mouth stuffed with man meat, hands bound behind, grunting, heaving to breathe through the nose and sucking that big fat hardening cock. And finally, of course, swallowing the torrent and knowing I'm a cumslave. :)

[Sir_Russell]

since swallowing is my advice I will offer a few off the wall thoughts.

Remember when you gag your saying "My god Master your big." That works wonders for me. Not all of us are straight of cock, mine is shaped in a curve like a semitar so a straight line is not great for us but it does make her feel like I have a very thick cock.

Throwing up is no fun and I agree not very sexy. I have to ask here are you being excited first by your Master so that your wet and in subspace or is he expecting you to just take it fairly cold. If so I recommend that he puts you deep into subspace first so hot and out of your mind that you are relaxed and willing for anything. Once he is in deep he should not be pulling out very far for that too will add to the gag response. Hold him deep as long as you can and swallow hard.

Yes your throat can be damaged but that is very rare and normally will heal given a little time.

[Eponine]

Remember when you gag your saying "My god Master your big."

Great point!


...are you being excited first by your Master so that your wet and in subspace or is he expecting you to just take it fairly cold.

It's been done both ways- deep in subspace as well cold, though He does not force Himself all the way back right from the start- He lets me have my own pace, then He gradually goes deeper.


he should not be pulling out very far for that too will add to the gag response. Hold him deep as long as you can and swallow hard.

Yes, He does like to stay in there for long periods of time- not just in and out quickly- and I do hold Him in as long as I can- then finally when I can't breathe (I can't breathe out of my nose b/c my whole airway is blocked) anymore, I pull away... He does not try to pull out very far.

So, next time, I will add the swallowing thing- I just hope I remember!! I am very curious to see how it works.

Thanks Russell!

[jeanne]

I have to ask here are you being excited first by your Master so that your wet and in subspace or is he expecting you to just take it fairly cold..\

For some reason I get really wet when doing it - don't need to be in subspace or anything - the act itself sends me right off. This is a change from the many previous years - my body/mind just responds differently now.