Hello!

[briansmine]

I had been on here a while back, ages ago before the forums got switched around with the whole under 18 thing(and I'm far over 18, that's not why I haven't been around :) ).

Anyway, I'm back. Married switch with definite domme tendencies. I have a slave that is very dominant in real life and has a lot of shame issues about being/wanting/needing to be dominated. He introduced me to BDSM and he's known this about himself for since puberty, but still, he has trouble going under, doubts that I really mean it and otherwise can be hardheaded and troublesome.

And I'll be honest, I get torn between forcing the issue and giving up on it, not wanting to reward him for being difficult. Then sometimes we fight over whether I really meant it or not or if I'm just a big tease.

I AM a big tease. ;)

There's very little we haven't at least tried and we have a ridiculously large toy collection.

Mostly I'm hear to learn a little, get some fresh ideas. I'd love to talk to another sub or domme in the life, not so much to play(though a little play never hurts) but as to discuss the ups and downs the lifestyle and compare notes.

happy halloween, ya'll.

E

[Timberwolf]

Very interesting introduction, welcome (back) to the forums.

[~hellish one~]

welcome back, briansmine! ~smiles~ and Happy Halloween to you too!

if you do a little search up there at the top of the page, you will come up with TONS of threads on exactly what you are talking about. bratty/resistant behavior and the effects it has on the Dominant and submissive in the relationship. i know it's seems overplayed, but communication is always the key in situations like this! :) feel free to start up some new threads!! ask some questions and get some good discussions going! and most of all, enjoy yourself!

[RickBulow74]

Welcome back to the forums, briansmine. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.

[Flaming_Redhead]

:welcomebo

It's always nice to meet a fellow peach! *ggls* There's a wealth of knowledge here. Stop by the chat room and say "hi." It's a great place to r/p or get to know some really nice folks!

[Warbaby1943]

I just say welcome briansmine and nice intro. Have a great time here and enjoy the people.

[annie]

Welcome!

[Curious_1]

WB briansmine!

Please do stop by that chatroom. Sometimes there are discussions if people bring things up. And everyone is happy to share ideas.

Curi

[MsUther]

Welcome back briansmine:)

[Ozme52]

Hi b-mine. (lol@thepun)

Though neither sub nor domme, I'll offer a suggestion. Skip the toys for a while and go directly to work on his mind.

You do that by....

[suchaminx]

~smiles~

hello and welcome back

minx

[Psynymph]

Great introduction!! We certainly need some more dominant women around here....seems there's a shortage.....lol.....

Welcome back, hope You enjoy!!!

[cariad]

Well, that was some introduction you gave yourself. Smiles and a big welcome back to Forums, and I hope you love every minute here.

cariad

[Jadetiger]

Hello and welcome

[briansmine]

Thanks ya'll. good to be back.

and redhead in general where are you in GA? We're between Atlanta and Macon about equidistant between the two(so middle of NOWHERE) but we went to college in Atlanta and met there.

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[frankee]

Welcome briansmine,

Enjoy the forums:)

[Flaming_Redhead]

Thanks ya'll. good to be back.

and redhead in general where are you in GA? We're between Atlanta and Macon about equidistant between the two(so middle of NOWHERE) but we went to college in Atlanta and met there.

E

I'm between Atlanta and Athens. Go Dawgs! *ggls* (I actually hate football.)

Today is Book Lovers' Day and King Tut Day! *smiles and hands you a book about King Tut*

[dzire2pleeze]

~k... following red around is becoming painful to me...~ ouch.

Greetings, b-mine, (no pun there... just sheer laziness) and welcome to the forums... Enjoy.