View Full Version : Change to the Forum rules
Rabbit1
11-08-2006, 09:20 AM
Not a new rule but a better explaination of one of them
Spam ----the new part states
Pming invitations to other sites is considered spaming ---it is the same as getting them in email ---if you did not request them ---if reported you will be banned for spaming members of the site.
I have had reports of this going on ---and members who do not want their PM box filled with junk like this
chattel69
11-08-2006, 03:35 PM
Can we put the spammers on the cross first...
TheDeSade
11-08-2006, 03:39 PM
no no .. . lets tie them to a chair and force them to watch every episode of Andy Griffith that were produced. . . .
Personally, if it were up to me to 'torture' a spammer. I would choose to make them watch every late night infomercial ever produced.... TWICE. Then once they started to drift off to sleep, I would give them some "go go" pills (the military uses them for pilots) to MAKE them stay awake. Once that didn't work anymore, I would probably set up a electrocution chair that was not active as long as they kept proper posture (sleeping would not keep proper posture). Thus tormenting them to the extent I felt would result in them electing to never post spam to anyone ever again.
Of course if it was website spam, well I think making them manually type out the address they attempted to push onto me one thousand times (repetition can cause you to think of nothing else for awhile) while their keyboard was electrified, so if they stopped typing it electrocuted them thus forcing them to comply.
Aww such fun punishments to imagine.....
V/R
ID
karin
11-08-2006, 04:44 PM
i hate spam. god only knows whats in that shit. the blue can thing...pop top..and WHAT IS that weird white layer on the top of the meat by product ANYWAY?
frankee
11-08-2006, 04:49 PM
what the hell is spam???
*giggling*
Sorry Rabbit, just teasing:)
Woogsbie
11-08-2006, 06:33 PM
no no .. . lets tie them to a chair and force them to watch every episode of Andy Griffith that were produced. . . .
I like Andy Griffith .... *finds his cane pole, starts whistling and throwing rocks in the lake*
learningtopleez
11-09-2006, 12:18 AM
I like Andy Griffith .... *finds his cane pole, starts whistling and throwing rocks in the lake*
Me too Woogsbie!:) But that's probably because we both live in the lovely state where the show took place?
Nah! It's gotta be the cane pole fishin'! ;)
ID, ever had a go-go pill? They are torture enough in and of themselves... LOL....
No never had one. Though I know the people who take them, avoid it if possible.
ID
RickBulow74
11-09-2006, 05:52 AM
I got the perfect torture for the spammers. Tie them and make them listen to the theme song to "Barney and Friends"
master 327-834-200
11-09-2006, 05:52 AM
I got the perfect torture for the spammers. Tie them and make them listen to the theme song to "Barney and Friends"
or watch a looped tape of the Wiggles.
Guest 91108
11-09-2006, 05:58 AM
or watch a looped tape of the Wiggles.
Ha!! that gets my vote.
Desperadosong
11-09-2006, 08:15 AM
Spam's not so bad... it's ok if ya can get it out of that blasted lil can anyways and fry it up with some onion. :rolleyes:
Ds
Desperadosong
11-09-2006, 08:18 AM
was going to add this to my last post, but couldn't find the modify button.. lol
Is posting a link to a personal forum against the rules? I have a forum I am starting for submissives/slaves to share recipes and other ideas. Kind of a "Bring the service back into the lifestyle" site... but it's members only, so I was wondering if that was what was meant in the rules about not posting sites ya have to become a member of. (It's a free site, ya just have to register to read it)
Thanks!
Ds
MsUther
11-09-2006, 03:28 PM
So me sending a pm to someone saying " this might be of your interest" would be a cause for banning me from the site?
I have done that, several times. Both as jokes and as wanting to discuss or share info.
Timberwolf
11-09-2006, 03:54 PM
I wouldn't worry about that MsUther. People here know you're a regular and your post count proves you contribute around here all the time. I think they are more concerned about people who register an account just to shill something.
TheDeSade
11-09-2006, 03:56 PM
Sooo.. . I cant spam the email addresses trying to sell DeSades Delightful Degreaser and All Round Cleaner?
So me sending a pm to someone saying " this might be of your interest" would be a cause for banning me from the site?
I have done that, several times. Both as jokes and as wanting to discuss or share info.
Yes I share MsUther's concern- I often find interesting sites & send the URL to a friend. Am I to be banned for sending Oz the name of a site dedicated to '100 different ways to wash a motorcycle?'
Should I send a PM first saying 'Oz would you like the addy of a site on bike washing?'
Please explain.
karin
11-09-2006, 06:11 PM
teletubbies. that'll get 'em all...*nods*
Rabbit1
11-09-2006, 06:20 PM
was going to add this to my last post, but couldn't find the modify button.. lol
Is posting a link to a personal forum against the rules? I have a forum I am starting for submissives/slaves to share recipes and other ideas. Kind of a "Bring the service back into the lifestyle" site... but it's members only, so I was wondering if that was what was meant in the rules about not posting sites ya have to become a member of. (It's a free site, ya just have to register to read it)
Thanks!
Ds
I am afraid it is this is not a place to advertise your own site ---you may put it in your profile as your homepage ---but not announce it on the site
Desperadosong
11-09-2006, 06:42 PM
I am afraid it is this is not a place to advertise your own site ---you may put it in your profile as your homepage ---but not announce it on the site
That works for me, was just getting clarification. Thank you!
Ds
Ozme52
11-09-2006, 11:34 PM
Tojo,
Please send me all sites with information on bike washing if said sites include nude female bike washers.
Talia
11-10-2006, 11:03 AM
Rabbit1 is talking about personal sites being sent via PM. Not joke sites sent via PMs or PMs that give special information sent for the recipient.
Like he told TheDeSade...his would have to part of his profile. It's his personal site. I hope I am clarifing right.
Talia
cariad
11-10-2006, 11:21 AM
Well I am still confused...so if Tojo was to send Oz, unrequested the URL - ww.naked_ladies_washing_bikes.com - would that be allowed or not? And does it make any difference whether it is a free site or not?
cariad
Ozme52
11-10-2006, 11:50 AM
Speaking of naked bikes....
cariad
11-10-2006, 12:00 PM
Speaking of naked bikes....
The rules are simple there - naked bikes should only be ridden by ladies in leather.
orchid
11-11-2006, 09:37 AM
what about messages from completely unknown people inviting you to join them in the chat room? this happened to me once and i went to the chat room...immediately, the guy wanted to private message with me, being super familir - it was just yucky. it happened again just the other night but i was smarter this time...just ignored him!
cariad
11-11-2006, 09:42 AM
I am sorry to hear about that orchid - and it is not right. If you would care to PM me with a few more details I can hopefully stop this from happening again.
cariad
orchid
11-11-2006, 04:33 PM
thank you cariad,
i appreciate that and there's certainly no need for you to apologize.
i dont want to cause any trouble. i just wanted to check what the general thoughts on this were so that i would know.
thank you for answering
:)
Rabbit1
11-11-2006, 06:57 PM
Yes I share MsUther's concern- I often find interesting sites & send the URL to a friend. Am I to be banned for sending Oz the name of a site dedicated to '100 different ways to wash a motorcycle?'
Should I send a PM first saying 'Oz would you like the addy of a site on bike washing?'
Please explain.
I have no way of knowing unless someone complains ---and then they have to forward me a copy of the PM ----a lot of people have home pages or forums of there own ---many do not want this information ----this forum did not build it membership off of spaming or posting the address on other web sites ---it did it by being a good fun place ----and advertising---
what has brought this about is I have had complaints ---about former members starting their own forum and instead of advertising some are PMing invatations to their new forums trying to build membership from this sites membership ---not a big problem but some of the ones they PMed did not appreciate it ---they do not wish to go anywhere else ----just like most do not like their email box filled with spam from unwanted information
so to answer your question if OZ complains and sends me a copy of a PM that is advertising another site ---yes you will be banned ---if he don't complain then I do not know about it and it must not be spam
Rabbit1
11-11-2006, 06:59 PM
I am sorry to hear about that orchid - and it is not right. If you would care to PM me with a few more details I can hopefully stop this from happening again.
cariad
yes if she will forward me a copy of the PM ---I will stop it cold
Tojo,
Please send me all sites with information on bike washing if said sites include nude female bike washers.
Sorry, only girls in bikinis & wet Tshirts washing cars so far Oz....
Tojo
Timberwolf
11-11-2006, 11:16 PM
"what has brought this about is I have had complaints ---about former members starting their own forum and instead of advertising some are PMing invatations to their new forums trying to build membership from this sites membership ---not a big problem but some of the ones they PMed did not appreciate it ---they do not wish to go anywhere else "
I must have missed the meeting where joining another forum meant I had to give up my BDSM Library membership.
cariad
11-12-2006, 12:51 AM
Oh - I think we can go wherever we like Timberwolf - just not use the PM facility on this site to do cold selling for another.
Feeling pleased that I think I have at last 'got it'.
cariad
Curious_1
11-12-2006, 10:38 PM
orchid..
If people PM you in the chat without asking that is against the rules. Just let me know
Curi
Rabbit1
11-13-2006, 05:15 PM
"what has brought this about is I have had complaints ---about former members starting their own forum and instead of advertising some are PMing invatations to their new forums trying to build membership from this sites membership ---not a big problem but some of the ones they PMed did not appreciate it ---they do not wish to go anywhere else "
I must have missed the meeting where joining another forum meant I had to give up my BDSM Library membership.
it means no such thing ---it means do not use the site to advertise other sites if such information is not requested ----I am a member of many forums and sites ----but I do not PM you to join those sites ----if you want the information of some suggested sites I will be glad to give it to you but by my just PMing you unrequested information ----that is spam ----
orchid
11-13-2006, 09:06 PM
thanks for your responses Cariad, Rabbit and Curious
unfortunately i deleted the message when i decided to ignore it
no big deal - i was wanted to know and now i do - next time, i will certainly forward it on
thanks again
cariad
11-13-2006, 09:14 PM
Hugs - you, and anyone else who experiences unwanted PMs of any nature is always free to forward to them. This should be a safe place, and whilst we are not PM police, harrasment will not be tolerated.
cariad