Fisting

[sipgirl]

Ok I have a question and guess theres no better place to ask then here. A recent thread made me wonder about fisting and the permanenet impact it may/may not have on a womans anatomy. I will be the first to admit that the idea of giving up such control to Master, allowing him to "possess" my body in that way gets me very, very hot. but the actual act of doing it seems to me would be very, very painful. I have children..childbirth was not easy. I have worked very hard to keep my muscles down below toned...even my OB is impressed. So heres my question....is it similar to childbirth..as in afterwards the vaginal opening returns to normal? I am aware of the anatomy of the vagina (vaginal folds, the type of tissue, etc..I am a nurse after all) I just wondered if this type of activity eventually over time can destroy the elasticity of the muscles? Does anyone have any long term experience in this area?

[Talia]

I have always found fisting interesting and when Master did this to me I was amazed at the intensity. I'll admit..it was painful...very painful. But in a hightened sense of arousal I was in, the pain went away as I escalated up the arousal hill.

I've given birth to four beautiful children...all vaginally. The head was always the most painful and memorable, because the feel as the head goes through the birth canal is amazing. That's what it felt like when Master's hand left my body. I even mentioned this to him and he kind of giggled at me...but really if you think about it...a man's hand...no matter how small his hand may be..it's going to be about the size of a baby's head.

After fisting...the muscles go back to where they are suppose to be. Master and I had sex after this experience and everything felt back to normal...for me anyway.

Long-term effects...i have no idea..but it would be interesting to find out. That's the only reason Master and I haven't done this more often, is because of the long-term effects of doing something like this might cause.

Talia

[sartori]

:wave: Sir has tried on several times to see if He can fist me and we have come to the conclusion to we are not compatible this way, i am too small and his hand too big to make it pleasureable in any way, and i have also had 2 children, both had large heads and both came out that way..lol....Though saying all that i do love the feeling of being "stretched" and "full"..it is very erotic and extremely submissive to me personally to be able to relax that much and allow Him to enter me as much as i can physically take.....same as above though, i have no idea what effect it may have long term if it was done all the time, then again i dont think it would be so pleasuring to do it all the time, would lose a lot if the mental impact of the act....looking forward to hearing more on this thread..hugs xXx

[Psynymph]

i was told by my OB that my cervix is pointed oddly and that if i ever had kids i would almost most certainly have to have a c-section because i'm so small the amount of ripping that would ensue would just be bad.....

*and people wander why i dont want kids*

but anyway....after learning this.....my Dom (at the time) expressed interest in fisting because He also said i was so tight. i've also heard this from various other lovers. i'm like, wait a minute, since when is this a cause for complaint???

i'm terrified of the idea of fisting. it isn't a limit for me though, because errm.. well...pain and fear are my number one turn ons......

i just don't understand why guys want to do it... i mean what exactly is the draw??

[Guest 91108]

The only draw i've experienced was a lover who asked for it.
It was only upon her request had i ever done it.
Not really thought much of it since.

[rora]

hmm

i actually checked this out for my pie eater #2. She wanted to try it. Sooo being a good mom *laffs* i asked around. i didn't want to see her hurt.

What i was told was...make sure they wore gloves and fingernails are clipped short. Lots and lots and lots of lube. If you think you have enough...use MORE!

Go slow..take your time. (took them over 30 minutes.)

i do know her uterus is tipped and she does kegals all the time. She says she is very tight.

For her...it was awesome. Yes painful to do, not as bad as child birth though. Everything returned to normal very soon.

Hope this helps.

[OttifantSir]

As already said here, you have to take care of the hand that's supposed to do this, by having manicure and washing, and using lots and lots of lube. While a good idea to start by using a surgical glove, I feel this is more of a personal preferance as long as you abide by the other "rules".

Why do men want to do it? Well, men are certainly not alone in wanting to do this. I saw a video of a band called Rockbitch where the lead singer fisted the bass player on-stage (all-girls band). I have my idea of why it appeals to me to think about it, and it has to do with control. As long as you don't have a cock the size of a firehose, the woman is free to eject it at her own pleasure. When she has your whole fist inside of her, this isn't likely to happen. If you don't make a fist per se, but only use all your fingers wedge-like, as soon as they are inserted, you trust your lover to be in control. If the person doing the fisting wants to hold onto you, he/she can simply start forming a fist. This would be the equivalent of a dog's knot. Not impossible to eject, but extremely painful. So, for me it's about having gained the trust of the person I will be with.
It's also simply fascinating. Almost no men can do this, or want to do this because of the difference in anatomy. And that is one of the main things we men are drawn to women in the first place, I believe.

On long-term effects, I don't have much to offer. Some women are capable of having a baby and not get "loose" down there, while others can't. But training will help with that. The groin is the least practiced place for both sexes. Train it, and you will get a firmer vagina. Train it, and you will have a better control of your erection and how to use it. The best part: You can do it whenever. To teach yourself which muscles to contract, try cutting off the stream as you pee. Then, tighten, hold for a few seconds, and release those muscles anytime, anywhere. As women, you may also get additional help from inserting weights. But get help to get it inserted right, or it will work against its meaning. For men, hanging a towel on your erection and bobbing it up and down will do the trick.

Hope my ramblings are of any use.

[YoungMan]

i had a girl who actually requested i put my had finger by finger into her pussy...when i had my whole hand in she told me to push i and clench in and out with my hand....
i nearly got to my elbow!!! hahah
it was great!!!

[Talia]

What's the fasination? Hell, I would like to know that too. Every time Master has his fist in me, I wonder what is the fasination or why does he like it so much...all I know is I like seeing it as much as he does. Master recently bought one of those little baseball bats (I guess for teeball)...well lets just say, we're trying to see how much I can take. ;) When he picked out the bat in the sports section and looked at me and smiled, I nearly came right there in the store as he walked away with the bat in his hand. (Remember lots and lots of lube and be gentle if you are going to try this.)

[Psynymph]

recently i had a rather good convo with a Dom on how He would fist me... if given the chance....


He would start out by tieing me spread eagle on a table. then He would go down on me. get me good and wet. have me begging for an orgasm. then He would begin sucking on my clit. no other stimulation. just sucking on my clit. as He did this He would then begin putting fingers inside me, one at a time. (three is pushing it for me) then after He got all four in, He would pause, while still sucking on my clit. then He would position His fingers that were inside me, so they made a wedge. then while still sucking on my clit He would begin pushing His hand into me. He would keep pushing until His hand was in past the joint of His thumb. then He would pause again, while sucking on my clit. then He would clench and ball His fist up inside me. thats when i would be given permission to cum.


so needless to say after that little story.... i'm extremely interested in trying..... *grins*

[nowgirl]

recently i had a rather good convo with a Dom on how He would fist me... if given the chance....


He would start out by tieing me spread eagle on a table. then He would go down on me. get me good and wet. have me begging for an orgasm. then He would begin sucking on my clit. no other stimulation. just sucking on my clit. as He did this He would then begin putting fingers inside me, one at a time. (three is pushing it for me) then after He got all four in, He would pause, while still sucking on my clit. then He would position His fingers that were inside me, so they made a wedge. then while still sucking on my clit He would begin pushing His hand into me. He would keep pushing until His hand was in past the joint of His thumb. then He would pause again, while sucking on my clit. then He would clench and ball His fist up inside me. thats when i would be given permission to cum.


so needless to say after that little story.... i'm extremely interested in trying..... *grins*

oh..... my..... yes.....

[ChurchofVirus]

Usually the only thing I have to do to prepare my slut is to start with 2 fingers, then 3, then 4, then fist. Only takes a minute or two from 2 fingers to fist. She loves it and her orgasms are pretty intense when I fist her. When we fuck after that it feels just as tight as she did before hand. It's amazing how elastic a women's pussy can be. We're 50/50 on who decideds to fist, sometimes I just feel like it, other times she'll tell me to use more fingers, and that's the give-away she wants a fist.

[shyslut]

It actually took me almost 1.5 years to stretch enough to take a fist. Just larger and larger toys. Let me say the journey is as much fun as the destination!!! At first I could only take 3/4 of a fist for only a couple minutes. Now Ive worked up to taking a LARGE fist up to the wrist for about 20 minutes. Large fist can even clench when inside and pull straight out and push straight in once Im warmed up. In this same time my kegals have gone from 50-200+ a day. The pay off to me is the extreme relaxation and release of stress. OMG the orgasms!! Ive had as many as 20 in one go!! According to hubby I am even tighter than I used to be. And my increased fine muscle control also does delicious things for him!!