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TomOfSweden
12-14-2006, 12:32 AM
I thought I'd share this wonderful little glimpse into my life as a Master.

So I got the slave collar from the leathershop yesterday. We'd ordered it over a month ago and it had been delayed beyond reason. This just made us long for it even more.

When we got it, it was so powerful. Once I put it on and said our vowes we where both so incredibly emotionally overcome. We both had watery red eyes and told every word of love we knew. We did the final edit to the slave contract before signing, and now she's officially mine. I love her so much.

I feel a bit sorry for her, since she can't have it at work, and I know how much she allready have grown accustomed to it. It's amazing how much symbolism we can store in one simple piece of leather.

She's mine now. And it's official.

Here's (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showpost.php?p=189925&postcount=63) a picture

suchaminx
12-14-2006, 12:35 AM
Tom of Sweden

Wonderful news and your words moved me so much. Thank you for sharing

~hugs~ minx

Psynymph
12-14-2006, 01:06 AM
wow BIG congratulations to the B/both of you.....

thats absolutely wonderful and very well said Tom.

slaveangel{HM}
12-14-2006, 02:13 AM
*hugs* Congratulations. *tears in my eyes as well* Such a wonderful moment. Thankyou so much for sharing this special moment.

angel xx

Echoes
12-14-2006, 04:00 AM
beautiful news Tom, thank you for sharing and the most heartfelt congrats to both of you.

Talia
12-14-2006, 05:13 AM
Congratulations...

ObeyMe
12-14-2006, 07:01 AM
Congrats...and good luck!

Warbaby1943
12-14-2006, 09:35 AM
Congratulations

slave327-834-200
12-14-2006, 01:32 PM
Like all before me have said, Congratulations to you and your lucky slave.

StillBehindBlueEyes
12-14-2006, 02:39 PM
Very very nice.

orchidsoul
12-14-2006, 11:08 PM
Congratulations to both of you!

Indeed, a beautiful moment shared.

cariad
12-15-2006, 12:34 AM
Feeling all emotional too as I read that. Wishing you both every happiness in your lives together.

cariad

Alex Bragi
12-15-2006, 06:18 AM
Ah, I love to see people in love. *ss*

orchid
12-15-2006, 09:25 PM
Congratulations to you both!

Starchaser2006
12-17-2006, 04:04 PM
Congratulations!!!

My master is getting mine from the shop in two weeks...I cannot wait!

TomOfSweden
12-18-2006, 11:09 AM
Yesterday
I ASKED HER TO MARRY ME

I got down on my knees, even though I knew she doesn't like that. And this is what I said before I poped the question. *Well sort of, I screwed it up a bit. Just a little*

Since we met things have gone fast. It's been an intense two months.
Since the first day we met you've made me feel happier than ever before.
More for every passing day.
I hope I can repay this the gift you've given me.

I will do everything in my power to make you happy and to earn your trust.
I'll never betray you, never lie to you, or ever let you down.

I will shape you to make you mine and
treat you and discipline you as I see fit.
I will always do my best to be a good Master to you.

I love you. You are and will always be my soulmate.









































She said, yes. :264:

But we won't do it until at least 2008. I want to see this will work out in the long term. But so far things are looking good, and both of us are pretty together and secure in our dominancy/submissiveness, (besides having more than 10 years experience each in the scene). So I'm certain this will work out just fine. She also moved in with me yesterday.

Psynymph
12-18-2006, 04:28 PM
WOW!!!!


BIG congratulations!!! thats awesome!!

TomOfSweden
12-19-2006, 12:08 AM
WOW!!!!


BIG congratulations!!! thats awesome!!

Yeah, I know. I'm so excited. She's at my feet now eating breakfast from a dog-bowl and I'm so happy and proud she want's to be mine. I love her more than life itself right now.

mina
12-19-2006, 12:59 AM
Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's great! I'm so happy for you two ^^ I also think that's smart to try living together first before marriage to see how that works out.

polarbear9889
12-19-2006, 08:45 AM
oohhhhhhh, such a wonderful relationship. i'm happy for both of you. Congratulations!!! i wish you both lots of happiness and more...
*hugs*

SheepishJaina
12-19-2006, 10:26 AM
Congratulations to the both of ye!

gagged_Louise
12-19-2006, 12:25 PM
Grattis Tom (and your sub too)

Mishka
12-20-2006, 10:45 PM
*all teary eyed*

I'm so very happy for you both. Congratulations, and wishes for a long, happy life together.

Hime
12-21-2006, 01:27 AM
Congratulations! That's awesome.

I think I've finally managed to get it through to my D. that I want a collar. *le sigh* he doesn't take hints well.

Your words were so romantic. She's a lucky girl. :)

TomOfSweden
12-21-2006, 01:32 AM
Congratulations! That's awesome.

I think I've finally managed to get it through to my D. that I want a collar. *le sigh* he doesn't take hints well.

Your words were so romantic. She's a lucky girl. :)

If I'd been a younger guy I wouldn't have understood the level of submission the slave I have now wants/needs. What I'm trying to say is that sometimes, no matter how much you want him to take control and lead, you have to say what you need straight out or he'll never get it. And seriously. He might huff and puff but everybody likes to know when they're doing things right or how they can do it better for the one they love.

Ruby
12-21-2006, 08:41 PM
Congratulations on popping the question and getting a big yes!

That's great news.

Best wishes for the both of you.

D e m e n t e d
12-22-2006, 11:48 AM
congratulations...

rora
12-23-2006, 08:59 AM
Congratulations to Yyou both. We just had our 41st anniversary. We decided to try for 42. *laffs* Something we say each year. i hope Yyou are as happy as we are. Yes, it takes work...but it is well worth it. My hubby *smiling* he completes my life. He is the other half of me. i don't know what i would do without him.

Just be happy. Never give up on love.

What awesome news! Thank You for sharing!

Merry Christmas..

caroline
12-23-2006, 11:35 AM
:638: ahhhhhhh that is so sweet I just love a love story

Ozme52
12-23-2006, 11:30 PM
Gonna have a lifestyle wedding?

TomOfSweden
12-24-2006, 01:14 AM
Gonna have a lifestyle wedding?

We where thinking of it. She would mostly like a cermony with just the two of us and as usual, no matter if it's a Master/slave relationship. It's the ladies who usually have the strongest opinions in these matters.

But if we're still together by next January we'll start planning the wedding then. Right now it's just romantic and dreamy. I'm sure the practical issues will hit us in the head like a brick when it gets closer. This isn't the first marriage party I'm organising. My last wedding was atended by 300 people. I'm aiming for a little less now.

Sextoymaker
12-26-2006, 07:57 AM
Congratulations

As I am ending 1.

I am going forward with another as you are.
Have a great adventure!

StillBehindBlueEyes
12-30-2006, 09:30 PM
I'm so excited for you Congratulations!!!

Guest011909
05-30-2008, 09:16 PM
Congratulations and thank you for sharing!