Newbie to this lifestyle

[bardybear]

Well this will be my first post on any forum ever! I'm a newbie to this life style & being that I'm on a learning curve and would sincerely appreciate any advice that anyone wishes to give me. About me? Hmm where to begin? I've always known that I wasn't "normal" in a mainstream social expectations type of way. I didn't truly lose my virginity till i was in my twentys and that wasn't a very satisfying expirance. Since then and up till now I've had very few lovers mostly due to mental hang ups about many things but mostly due to my self perceived body image and the thought I was abnormal in my needs. It has only been in the last year and a half that I'v come to the realisation that missing out on what I needed was missing out on life and it was my own doing. So I decided to do some research( got to love the internet ) and that's when I discovered you guys and girls and those of you who are both hehehe. I'm still coming to terms with who I am and what this life style is all about. But I can't but help but feel this is who and what I am. To me there is nothing more beautiful and erotic than a woman giving her self to me completely. I've only had that once in my life and well..that's another story for another time. I'm sure this post is full of spelling mistakes and may be long winded but I ask please be patient and understanding with me as a newbie to all of this it's my hope that I will eventually become better.

[Guest 91108]

hello bardybear welcome to the Board.
read , learn, and enjoy .. if you have questions just as ..
We're a friendly bunch mostly , chuckles.

[Flaming_Redhead]

:wel:

Normal people worry me. *ggls* You'll fit right in as Wolfscout is right...we're a very friendly and accepting group. My advice is to have fun on your life's journey!

[suchaminx]

~smiles~

Hello and welcome to the forums. Looking forward to getting to know you, have fun exploring and posting and any questions please just ask :)

minx

[Curious_1]

bardybear,

Hello and Welcome! The forums are a great place to learn and to have fun too.

Please stop in the chatroom and say hi. The people in there have varying degrees of experience and are happy to share and answer questions.

Curi

[TheDeSade]

Hello and welcome. I think what you will eventually find is that most of us are way more normal than you would think. Take some time, explore, talk, get acquainted and you will find that you aren't all that different than a whole bunch of pretty nice folk.

[annie]

Welcome... Welcome... Welcome...

Come on in and enjoy! We are all here to learn and explore...

And we are all very normal... just in an interesting kinky type of way. (Life would be boring otherwise!)

Feel free to pm with any questions!

:)

[BaronVonWinger]

Welcome, you are not alone as you are learning

[elyse]

:welcome:

welcome to the forums, bardybear!

~elyse

[justin]

hello and welcome ( yay an nother aussie )

[Miraculix]

Beer is in the fridge, bardybear... Make yourself at home :)

[Echoes]

welcome bardybear! This is a good place to learn and you will meet many wonderful people here willing to help, listen and laugh with you.

[cariad]

Your first post to any forum, and now you seem to have left us. I do hope we were not that scary. It would be wonderful to be able to have you as part of our community, and I for one would love to hear about that one time...

cariad