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Ok recently I have noticed when I meet someone new I try to fit them into the Bdsm community .If I meet a woman I imagine her with a gag tied up being spank ,if that does not work I imagine her as a mistress dressed in leather, and I do the same for men.
Yesterday I spent my whole day off in a board meeting I call it a boarding meeting because I was board to tears with the whole thing it was one of them meetings that did not need to happen it was pointless, and at the end of it nothing got resolved and I lost my day off
Anyway through the whole meeting I was imagining the woman who spent most of the time talking, bent over the desk being spanked by another woman who was very nervous and out of place at the meeting there was another guy there that thought he knew it all and kept interrupting the speaker so he got gagged and was being tortured by the speaker
Does anyone else do this in there vanilla life or am I just losing it?
Ironwulf
02-07-2007, 11:28 AM
Well, you might be losing it. :)
On the other hand I always thought Princess Diana would have been a knockout in collar and chains.
I actually did see a picture of her once in a very attractive black velvet and silver type collar. I was unable to locate a copy of the picture for this post though. :(
TheDeSade
02-07-2007, 11:33 AM
you arent losing it. . . . youve already lost it. . . . welcome to the club .. . . new members have to provide refreshments at the next meeting
precious
02-07-2007, 11:44 AM
i don't know... i sit through church at times... looking around the crowd... trying to determine who is Dom/me/subbie... who would enjoy a good paddle... know this one lady and i SWEAR she must have a butt plug in each week.... and picturing my pastor crawling across the floor with a leash on while his wife stands over him is not a stretch of the imagination at all... lol.
provides a bit of amusement... grinz.
Timberwolf
02-07-2007, 01:55 PM
Are we implying that when I go to a football game and spend the entire third quarter picking out methods of erotic torture for the cheer team in front of me, that this is abnormal? :D
jamwish
02-09-2007, 04:35 AM
When have you started seeing this?
I've just entered this life-style a few days ago and already i feel just like that.
Could loosing it be an essential part of this? :)
floffe
02-09-2007, 09:53 AM
It happens quite a lot to me... Just thought it was part of being young...
Truth be told, it's the reason i keep awake in class ;)
Ok recently I have noticed when I meet someone new I try to fit them into the Bdsm community .If I meet a woman I imagine her with a gag tied up being spank ,if that does not work I imagine her as a mistress dressed in leather, and I do the same for men.
Yesterday I spent my whole day off in a board meeting I call it a boarding meeting because I was board to tears with the whole thing it was one of them meetings that did not need to happen it was pointless, and at the end of it nothing got resolved and I lost my day off
Anyway through the whole meeting I was imagining the woman who spent most of the time talking, bent over the desk being spanked by another woman who was very nervous and out of place at the meeting there was another guy there that thought he knew it all and kept interrupting the speaker so he got gagged and was being tortured by the speaker
Does anyone else do this in there vanilla life or am I just losing it?
Yes. :) Well, I always make up stories about people I see and try to think of some interesting "background" for them, even if it isn't sexual. I have a long train ride to and from work, and it's one of the only ways to keep myself entertained. Sometimes I like to imagine that someone has a "secret life," usually if I see some kind of clue that they might, like outrageous high heels or a particularly severe expression. :)
Sometimes I think about "I wonder what he'd be like as a dom..." in a more interested way, usually with guys who seem to have that "natural leader" quality. NFL quarterbacks tend to fall into this category for me, naturally... :D
Mishka
02-09-2007, 10:52 AM
I do this, as well. I have for a long time. It's not losing it, it's a vivid imagination. At least I hope so.
Any chance it's happening more often because, if memory serves me correctly, you are single at this time? If I'm mistaken I apologize. Perhaps though, it's more consuming than usual because you long to fill your days with the real thing?
floffe
02-09-2007, 11:04 AM
I do this, as well. I have for a long time. It's not losing it, it's a vivid imagination. At least I hope so.
Any chance it's happening more often because, if memory serves me correctly, you are single at this time? If I'm mistaken I apologize. Perhaps though, it's more consuming than usual because you long to fill your days with the real thing?
I think that might be the cause in my case... Pretty sure in fact...
sorry but as of the begining of last week i now have play partners so that not it
Guest 91108
02-10-2007, 03:53 PM
I have play partners of all kinds..
I imagine it with those i know, with those i don't know.. hell even in the grocery store i imagine torturing the woman on the produce aisle with bannans or cucs. or the cashier needs a toilet paper gag.. or the bagger needs to be saran wrapped.
adn the little old lady who blocks teh aisle every time i go bound naked and bent of that buggy placed on a lazy susan so it spins for every one to smack her ass for being such a little old bitch.
mkemse
02-10-2007, 03:58 PM
Ok recently I have noticed when I meet someone new I try to fit them into the Bdsm community .If I meet a woman I imagine her with a gag tied up being spank ,if that does not work I imagine her as a mistress dressed in leather, and I do the same for men.
Yesterday I spent my whole day off in a board meeting I call it a boarding meeting because I was board to tears with the whole thing it was one of them meetings that did not need to happen it was pointless, and at the end of it nothing got resolved and I lost my day off
Anyway through the whole meeting I was imagining the woman who spent most of the time talking, bent over the desk being spanked by another woman who was very nervous and out of place at the meeting there was another guy there that thought he knew it all and kept interrupting the speaker so he got gagged and was being tortured by the speaker
Does anyone else do this in there vanilla life or am I just losing it?
I have done this for years, just never confessed to anyone, it is normal or at least to me, as long as i watch what i do and say to the person, but mentally i love to do it, in reality probably not, they are married, have someoneand i do not need the hastles of doing in a story or making a sence with what i say
Fantasies to me are normal part of live vanilla or not some may never admt to it but they are, and those woh do not believe in it proabably are to vanilla to be on this or any other adult site
Well, you might be losing it. :)
On the other hand I always thought Princess Diana would have been a knockout in collar and chains.
I actually did see a picture of her once in a very attractive black velvet and silver type collar. I was unable to locate a copy of the picture for this post though. :(
I think it's the way she'd always pose with her head tilted down and her eyes looking up.
TomOfSweden
02-11-2007, 07:29 AM
No, you're normal. I do it all the time. And I'm fine.....right?
Does anyone else do this in there vanilla life or am I just losing it?
I think all men do this .. I personally find that looking at women that i don't know sometimes gives me ideas or inspiration for an up comming session .. I seem to be always looking to find that edge that makes the evening interesting .. maybe if we stop doing it .. we will be deemed clinically dead ..
Amberxiao
02-11-2007, 02:47 PM
I do this, but I did it a lot more when I was new AND when I was involved with someone. We'd evaluate people together and make up stories as we indulged in dark chocolate.