crikey_2004
03-09-2007, 01:47 PM
Hello everyone, My name is Mike and I'm an amateur writer that has found his love in erotica, (specifically writing BDSM stories), despite typing with just my favorite two fingers. I live in the outback of Ohio and originally hail from New Zealand.
I'm not rich and famous (poor and unknown is a better description), but I'm well known locally because people seem to remember me in a good way after I've met them just once (man that sounds big-headed, but it's true, I promise!!). Maybe it's the accent?
I've been in the U.S. for seven years and am still not sure what I want to be when I grow up. I know I'm running out of time for that now, because I've just turned 39, but being a self-diagnosed adult A.D.D.'er, I'm going to wait for my body to catch up with my years before I make firm plans.
I believe I'm straight, but as a result of some of the things I've done in my past, pinning the 'straight' label on me just doesn't sit exactly right. I have no idea if I'm a Dom or not, because I like to please, but if pleasing someone means tying them up and spanking them, I'd volunteer in a heartbeat. I'm hoping someone will help me figure out exactly where I fit in, in the larger scheme of things, because it's really beginning to bug me. I'm married and have been since 2 weeks and 3 days after meeting my wife online, however there has to be a new phrase that describes our relationship because vanilla is way too spicy an adjective.
Until a few weeks ago, I had no idea some females in the U.S. actually read erotica without getting all angry at the author and not only that, they even have sex; sometimes before marriage, sometimes actually after, and sometime even, all by themselves! Can you imagine?? If I didn't set a schedule and force my wife to submit (in the dark with the lights off) to a trip around her body culminating between her legs once or twice a month, I'd have had hairy palms years ago. She's 20 years older than me and that's her excuse. She's sticking to it. Period! But you get the idea :)
Have a great day everyone and I look forward to hearing from someone who can relate to my issues!
Mike
I'm not rich and famous (poor and unknown is a better description), but I'm well known locally because people seem to remember me in a good way after I've met them just once (man that sounds big-headed, but it's true, I promise!!). Maybe it's the accent?
I've been in the U.S. for seven years and am still not sure what I want to be when I grow up. I know I'm running out of time for that now, because I've just turned 39, but being a self-diagnosed adult A.D.D.'er, I'm going to wait for my body to catch up with my years before I make firm plans.
I believe I'm straight, but as a result of some of the things I've done in my past, pinning the 'straight' label on me just doesn't sit exactly right. I have no idea if I'm a Dom or not, because I like to please, but if pleasing someone means tying them up and spanking them, I'd volunteer in a heartbeat. I'm hoping someone will help me figure out exactly where I fit in, in the larger scheme of things, because it's really beginning to bug me. I'm married and have been since 2 weeks and 3 days after meeting my wife online, however there has to be a new phrase that describes our relationship because vanilla is way too spicy an adjective.
Until a few weeks ago, I had no idea some females in the U.S. actually read erotica without getting all angry at the author and not only that, they even have sex; sometimes before marriage, sometimes actually after, and sometime even, all by themselves! Can you imagine?? If I didn't set a schedule and force my wife to submit (in the dark with the lights off) to a trip around her body culminating between her legs once or twice a month, I'd have had hairy palms years ago. She's 20 years older than me and that's her excuse. She's sticking to it. Period! But you get the idea :)
Have a great day everyone and I look forward to hearing from someone who can relate to my issues!
Mike