Positive Attitude

[Beswitchingly Positive]

After i chose my name here, I realised it could be misinterpreted...

I have been interested/practicing bdsm, starting with my first lover who introduced me to bondage, spanking, and other aspects of bdsm...he was older than me and had a naturally dominant personality. I am naturally a little shy at first.

I have tried at times over the years to be happy with less than kinky lovers and this has always proven to be frustrating.

As I ascend into my late thirties, it has become more obvious that I am a switch not just submissive, and I have recently found someone to share this with, and he has asked me for things I know little about...I hope to learn more about all aspects of bdsm here, though my experiences span many years and perhaps I have tried more than most, I still feel very inexperienced in some areas and realise I have much to learn. So far my experience has made me quite good at spanking and being the aggressor, but there is so much more to it.

I was going to lurk longer and read more first, yet I am compelled to go ahead and follow the suggestion that new members should be polite and introduce themselves...

[MrDom]

hi and welcome Switch Positive


MrDom

[Sir_Russell]

greetings

we are all learning and those that know the most are learning the most.

Enjoy

[tessa]

I am certainly glad you decided to introduce yourself. This is a great place to learn and I know you'll find our little community helpful. Welcome!

tessa :wave:

[angelic.zest]

Hello and Welcome to the forum!!! im sure you'll find ussful infomation here as well as friendly and knowledgable ppl

kurixx

[Beswitchingly Positive]

It is nice to be welcomed, I am already enjoying a number of threads, there seems to be an open and positive attitude here...this is my first experience communicatingg with a group like this online...my experience is mostly real time and I this this could be a good place to learn and grow...the lessons see to be narrowing down the details...

[Mishka]

Warm welcome :)

I enjoyed this site instantly, mostly because of such intelligent discussion with friendly people. Glad to see you are, too.

[cariad]

Is really nice when people do come out of lurk mode - and thank you for taking the plunge and posting.

There is lots of information interwoven in these threads and lots of fun to be had too. Perhaps you should suggest your new friend also joins and then you can chat about what you read here. If you are looking for anything specific the search function is pretty good, and don't hesitate to start another new thread...

By the way, although your ID seems fine to me, if you would like to change it, just send me a message and it is a job of a few seconds to do so...

:wel
cariad

[Beswitchingly Positive]

Cariad, thank you for the offer but I am fine with it. I hesitate to write too much here as there might be more appropriate places for comments or subjects that are already covered.

In response to including my lover here, that would be up to him, I doubt he has time for it, he has a lot on his plate, as is life in post K New Orleans... but I may suggest it. My primary mission here is to search for inspiration, I do have some of my own, as to how to approach a situation with another switch, I have only been dominated in close relations with men, though I tend to dominate females. And some males, but it is rare that they hold my interest if this is all they want.

As I said, better addressed in other threads, I will try to figure out the search function...by the way I lurked long enough to read a little and as soon as I saw the invite to introduce I went ahead and did. I though it nice because if I want to ask questions of a sexual nature it would be nice not to be a total stranger...and when I see a good thing I tend to embrace it.

I have many questions, I think I am off to something I saw about obscure fetishes...

[cariad]

Hmmmmmm obscure fetishes hey....

Off to think about they may be.

cariad

[~hellish one~]

:welcomebo

[Rhabbi]

Hello and Welcome Switch Positve

[BaronVonWinger]

Hi & welcome

[Stone]

hello and wecome

[Beswitchingly Positive]

This place is very warm and fertile...I have already seen many helpful ideas and there is a Ruby who is great at posting useful links that are well thought and written. Sweet. Thanks to Ruby. Incedentally, Ruby was the name of the last car I owned...

I was happy before I found ya'll, but now I am 23% happier, very excited, I have learned about CBT (something I have never done to anyone, and as i consider cock to be sacred something I would like to do well and safe) and tips about bondage (almost always the tied and rarely the tyer) and the most slippery bit to master, for me, a Domme attitude! Thank you all so much for your contribution here...even those of you who take the devil's advocate ot are just plain snarky are helpful...at least what I have seen, this is a well cultivated and moderated forum. Thanks for all the work!

[suchaminx]

~smiles~

Welcome to the forums and so good to see it has helped already :)

minxy

[Flaming_Redhead]

:wel: