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I have the books but I couldn't read them... I tried but I couldn't get past the bad grammar and spelling. I'm kind of interested in seeing the movie though I'll wait until there's online version later.

Originally Posted by Echoes

Human Rights is getting involved in boycotting the movies/books in Canada.
I cannot wait until they boycott all books on murder and mayhem,
vampires, werewolves, zombies...

i mean imagination is such an affront to being politically correct....rolleyes

i know right...get for real. their are other things out there that are more important to be worried about.....it's just a damned movie for Pete's sake...

Originally Posted by Solis

LOL..well in my case Sir I am thinking it would be YES, YES, YES....

[QUOTE=lorem angelum;bt4902]yes he is....*grin* but i think i would have picked someone different...everyone has a picture in their mind of what he would look like, though he is not bad...especially when he has a goatee...*grin*[/QUOTE]


I pictured Christian with Channing Tatum's body and Matt Bomer's face....**swoon**

When I changed dentists some years ago, she did a rather complete check on my oral health. At the end, she announced that I suffered from "minor tongue thrust." She thinks my tongue is mis-positioned when I swallow; she offered to help fix me. I allowed that, having successfully swallowed for the preceding forty or fifty years, I would probably prefer just to muddle through on my own without her expert redirection.

I have the same reaction to books with titles like "50 Places You Absolutely Must Visit Before You Die," articles entitled "8 Things You Should Never Have in your Home After You Turn 30," or movies entitled "50 Shades of Makin' this S**t Up."

Human Rights is getting involved in boycotting the movies/books in Canada.
I cannot wait until they boycott all books on murder and mayhem,
vampires, werewolves, zombies...

i mean imagination is such an affront to being politically correct....rolleyes

Originally Posted by needtobetied

I agree it is a fictional story...and yes Christian Grey is hot!!!!

yes he is....*grin* but i think i would have picked someone different...everyone has a picture in their mind of what he would look like, though he is not bad...especially when he has a goatee...*grin*

Originally Posted by just_ine

I hear people discussing it at work, but no-one has ever asked me whether I've read them books....
In fact, when they tell a joke that's a little naughty, they tell me I won't understand.

*grins*
*pushes my halo back into place*

*giggles and straightens her halo over her horns*

Ummm well i told them i did read them, but didn't let on that i know what "really" goes on. I am sure that you understand just fine...*grin*

I hear people discussing it at work, but no-one has ever asked me whether I've read them books....
In fact, when they tell a joke that's a little naughty, they tell me I won't understand.

*grins*
*pushes my halo back into place*

Originally Posted by just_ine

I couldn't agree with you more. I won't be going to watch, simply because I shouldn't know what BDSM is, at all! Teeheehee.

LOL..

I agree it is a fictional story...and yes Christian Grey is hot!!!!

I couldn't agree with you more. I won't be going to watch, simply because I shouldn't know what BDSM is, at all! Teeheehee.

You can be fat and beautiful and sexy. Just doesn't translate onto film, but for those of us lucky enough to love a beauty, or be loved by one (or ten!)....there's nothing likfe it. Do not ever sell youself short. You think that women are the only superficials? Men, as well....and that's part of the beauty and ugliness of ...US.
I'd take a beauty with a good heart than an unattractive TO ME)))) person who I have to force myself to try to want. It isn't hate. It's just....I do not KNOW! God! I just want to love the way I used to!!!!!!!!!!!

[QUOTE]All those sanctimonious, unknowing and uneducated people out there[/QUOTE]

I think one needs to also cut the muggles some slack...
They are sometimes unknowing, they do sometimes lack the education, and they can sometimes be pretty sanctimonious...

But you just judged them all to be the same, just as 'they' judge 'us' to all be the same.

Some of the 'us' are into kink purely for the sex. Visit Fet long enough and some guy (or girl) will want to take you into his harem and your limits be damned! Nothing safe or trustworthy about that.

But the truth is:
Society dictates what is normal sexual behavior. And whatever falls outside of it is 'wrong'. We all know that there is no such thing as 'normal' and society has gotten stuff wrong before. Often.

The media perpetuates stereotypes and love the stereotype of the Domminatrix in leather wielding a whip. Or the poor, abused-as-a-child female submissive with huge Daddy issues.
Or yes, lots of sex..the whole time...

Perhaps that is why I can't get behind the whole 50-shades bashing. Because at least it challenged Some of the stereotypes society holds.

I think the best way to cut through sterotypes and prejudice is through education. It's not a quick fix, but it will make a difference in time.

It is as it should be...
Happy New Year.

to a stronger step
to a greater depth...

Originally Posted by Odysseus

Happy New Year

-O

Happy New Year Sir, I hope you had a great holidays!!!

Happy New Year

-O

Originally Posted by Echoes

I was with a Sir a long time ago, helping him buy his slave exuberant amounts of leather items from skirts, pants, jackets, dresses to shoes, complete outfits. While he was in the process of paying for them I wandered over to look at a vest. He came up behind me and told me that I was fat and leather would not look good on me. I turned to him that day and told him, "yes I am fat, but this does not mean that I am not beautiful."

Yes you are beautiful, the inside is what is more important then the outside. I am glad you are no longer with him for he is not deserving of the true beauty of you...of your heart and soul. I am sorry it has taken a while to write back, I have not been on as much as I used to. I hope that today you are truly with someone who appreciates all the beauty you hold......

Originally Posted by patience1

That was written beautifully

Thank you so much!!! I used to come on all the time and have recently been absent. I am sorry I have not replied much sooner.

Thank you both, I am sorry I haven't been on very much to check my blog. I hope you are both well..

I was with a Sir a long time ago, helping him buy his slave exuberant amounts of leather items from skirts, pants, jackets, dresses to shoes, complete outfits. While he was in the process of paying for them I wandered over to look at a vest. He came up behind me and told me that I was fat and leather would not look good on me. I turned to him that day and told him, "yes I am fat, but this does not mean that I am not beautiful."

That was written beautifully

Originally Posted by Odysseus

chuckles... glad you have come to this realization...

-O

Well Sir I have always known this, but to be able to live it is a entirely different story. I can now safely say that I do live it and look for those who would look at me on the inside...not the outside trappings. We all get caught up on societies norms and while I have never been one to conform....we are just people with all the messy emotions that come with it.

chuckles... glad you have come to this realization...

-O

Excellent. I have no doubt that you will achieve the balance you seek.

Originally Posted by TheDoctor

Balance is a tricky thing to achieve, since we often don't even know the value of the weights on one side or another of the scales. Often there are even weights that we don't even realize are there... but that is not to say that seeking balance is in vain. Indeed, in my experience, what you look for is generally what you find, if your eyes are opened correctly.

*grin* you always have such great things to say, you make my brain work hard. I know it's not always at it seems, but i realize for me I have to have certain things to be balanced..whole and fulfilled. I won't settle for any less, I deserve it. So trust me my eyes will be WIDE open....

Originally Posted by Silverraven

I love the way you write. I feel I can realte to what you say. It is like you have taken this right out of my mind and heart. You are very brave to put it into words. I admire you for that!

Thank you very much..I just write from the heart. If any of what I write helps someone...in anyway I am glad of it. To write for me is a healing process, it is cathartic. Have fun on the site, I hope you find what you are looking for...but just remember don't be in a hurry. Take your time and just enjoy..

la

Balance is a tricky thing to achieve, since we often don't even know the value of the weights on one side or another of the scales. Often there are even weights that we don't even realize are there... but that is not to say that seeking balance is in vain. Indeed, in my experience, what you look for is generally what you find, if your eyes are opened correctly.

I love the way you write. I feel I can realte to what you say. It is like you have taken this right out of my mind and heart. You are very brave to put it into words. I admire you for that!

Very true, sweet Doctor.

This is wonderful, lorem...thank you for sharing your journey with us.

I've always seen life as something as an optical illusion. From one perspective life looks a certain way...step back from it a bit and it looks like something totally different.

Well done, Lorem! Keep pushing forward and fighting against that darkness that tries to consume you. Raise your chin and hold your head high, for YOU are a survivor, a fighter, and an example to all of us. Be proud of yourself every time you get up and take your first sip of coffee (or wine - no judgments hehe) in the morning. Feel the sun on your face and let it warm your heart and soul. We, your submissive sisters, are routing for you.

There is light at the end of this tunnel, keeping moving to it, angel xo

Total *hugs* always, no more words are needed from me, just hugs xxx

cutie, jane and sweet jem....thank you so much my sisters for everything. I am taking it one day at a time, but I miss the comfort of being able to chat with you all. I am taking it slow...working my way...and when I feel able will tentatively place my toes back in the water. Ya'll and everyone here have been so supportive...a family that I have like no other..

My many, many thanks...
xxxxxxxxxxxxx
la

I think those words say all that needs to be said lorem. Take anything you can from those around you. You are loved and that can only serve as a much needed crutch until you're ready to walk again. Eventually your wings will heal and the walk will become the beauty in full flight that you have been shown and you know you are. As Jane says, don't rush. Allow yourself to heal - privately,publicly, however best serves you. Every one at this site who regularly interacts with others knows the immense feeling of hurt. It is shared and it WILL heal. Allow those that surround you to help ease the pain and never, ever be scared to reach out and grip hold of someone when it is needed. Your processing and dignity in how you get through is a credit to your lessons learned along the wonderful journey you had. Thank you for helping every submissive see the reality of the strength a true and real submissive does have. You're gonna be just fine babe! Take all the time you need. We'll be here to poke ya as needed! Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

*holds you tight* you are strong, special, loved and loveable, look after yourself while you heal, don't rush it xxx

It's beautiful and your beautiful my Angel. You, your heart and soul. There is no one like you and im truely honored to count you as friend and sister.

Originally Posted by TheDoctor

Lorem, you and I have only interacted very superficially, and only once or twice... passing hellos in the chat room and the like. And while your other friends are saddened by what they read here, I actually take heart from your words.

You are very honest in the expression of your pain, and I am in no way happy to know you are hurting. However, what I read in your post is that you are strong, and that you have no regrets. And that, lorem, is beautiful. It is so hard to be in pain and actively decide that you have no regrets. With the level of pain you expressed, I am surprised, pleasantly, that you are not just retreating into a shell, just abandoning the lifestyle and yourself along with it. Yes, this has hurt you badly, and I am so, so sorry for that. But where others see pain and strife, I see strength, of spirit and of character.

My hope for you is that the pain fades quickly, but that memories never do. Be well, lorem, and know that your steadfastness in suffering is an inspiration, even to someone you have never really met.

Sincerely,
The Doctor

Sir,
Yes I do remember talking with you briefly in passing, I haven't been in chat lately and am regretful for this fact. It is where I have found all these special, wonderful people...you included even though we are well known to each other, that have given me their love and unconditional support.
To express my pain as you say is my way of healing, writing, getting things down help me deal with the turmoil that goes on inside me every hour of every day. My Sir was wonderful to me, I would never regret or want to lose what he taught me about myself. The wonderful times and what he gave me far outweigh, in some ways what I am going through now.
I know someday this hollow, lost and painful feeling I have inside me will eventually fade. I feel I will make stronger like all trials in life do. What is the saying "That which does not kill us makes us stronger" Friedrich Nietzsche. I hope in the end, I will reach out to grasp with both hands to grab a hold of that which I know inside of me, I can be. So thank you Sir, for your kind uplifting words that have given me one more layer of hope.
with much thanks,
la

Originally Posted by cutielady

sweetheart i love you so much and just want to hug you hard im praying for healing over your heart

Thank you so much cutie, having you and jane here these last days....I have no words as to describe how such unconditional love and support helped me in a dark time. love you xxxxxx

Lorem, you and I have only interacted very superficially, and only once or twice... passing hellos in the chat room and the like. And while your other friends are saddened by what they read here, I actually take heart from your words.

You are very honest in the expression of your pain, and I am in no way happy to know you are hurting. However, what I read in your post is that you are strong, and that you have no regrets. And that, lorem, is beautiful. It is so hard to be in pain and actively decide that you have no regrets. With the level of pain you expressed, I am surprised, pleasantly, that you are not just retreating into a shell, just abandoning the lifestyle and yourself along with it. Yes, this has hurt you badly, and I am so, so sorry for that. But where others see pain and strife, I see strength, of spirit and of character.

My hope for you is that the pain fades quickly, but that memories never do. Be well, lorem, and know that your steadfastness in suffering is an inspiration, even to someone you have never really met.

Sincerely,
The Doctor

sweetheart i love you so much and just want to hug you hard im praying for healing over your heart

Originally Posted by sweetlynaughty

Lorem, I am truly sadden to read this blog. Please know even though we have not connected as friends (yet - maybe someday) you are in my thoughts and I'm sending you hugs and much emotional support.

Thank you soo much...I have had a outpouring it has quite touched me in ways that I cannot explain. I am always open to new friends, support and sisterhood are important.

la

Lorem, I am truly sadden to read this blog. Please know even though we have not connected as friends (yet - maybe someday) you are in my thoughts and I'm sending you hugs and much emotional support.

Thank you Mrs....I have felt such loving support from so many. It is what makes people in this lifestyle so special.....
xxz

Such words, my thoughts to you as I would hold a dear friend, always *hugs*

Sett xx

Thankyou

Originally Posted by jem

You write beautifully and with a real injection of infectious fun. I am glad you are sharing the wonderful journey with us A/all. Xxx

jem thank you so much, i am always a bit uneasy about putting my thoughts out there. It has been a wonderful journey so far and i hope everyone is as lucky as me.

You write beautifully and with a real injection of infectious fun. I am glad you are sharing the wonderful journey with us A/all. Xxx

So Beautiful - So Hot - Such awesome writing ..... You are supremely talented at making me do the the wet 'n' slippy squirm whilst reading your smut *giggles*