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The Making of a Classy Whore

Rule #2 Do It With Style - Everyday!

Classy is an everyday job. Everywhere you go, everywhere you may be seen, it is the face you want to present. Work clothes can be stylish, elegant and comfortable. Evening wear can be elegant, expressive and attention gathering, Recreation wear should be stylish and fitted. And remember, the real art is making sure that there is just that edge of the naughty in every outfit. The work clothing may

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This is the first in a set of basic training rules that I am formulating to aid in the training of a submissive. Enjoy, comment, criticize. All are welcome.

The Making of A Classy Whore

Rule #1:

Dress for Success! Remember, you reflect on your Owner. Classy with an edge is the key. You want to present as a lady of refinement but there needs to be just that hint of the slut mixed in. The skirt just a bit short, the blouse open a bit to much. A flash of

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Hi Everyone!

I wanted to let everyone know that I have updated my name from mpellegrino to sweetlynaughty. Hope you like the change!

You say you want to be owned. You beg to be dominated. You confess to a desire to be objectified. You declare yourself a submissive. Very well. This then is what you can expect.

Short of the list of off limit items that you negotiated when you entered into this agreement, you have given up all rights to your body and to your actions. You exist solely to please me. You need to consider carefully what that last phrase really means. You, as a person. Exist, live and breath. ...

Back again to what appears to be the new and improved BDSMLibrary. Still wandering around getting the feel for the place. I have seen a few familiar faces. The place is a lot quieter now. Activity levels seem to be down and there isn't as much chatter on the social parts of the forum. I haven't ventured into any of the deep and more philosophical parts of the place as of yet, just happy to putter around in the games areas.

Doesn't surprise me much, the changes. These types ...

You know I sit here this morning and I wonder...how many times I have sat, exactly where I am and taken it for granted. This morning I sit here and my heart is bursting. So why not share the joy!

I am loved. It is a feeling that I can not describe. it is a feeling I am so blessed to have that I smile. Tears fill my eyes as the feeing swells in my heart. You see to say that out loud, to actually BELIEVE it is a huge thing. I have always loved others and I know I was loved by ...

A wise Aristotle said: “Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”

How true! To feel always together…connected by those ethereal, and amazingly strong cords of thought and emotion.

And when this transcends into the physical…the sync of two bodies knowing instinctively the needs of the other…then there is a totality, a completion, a merging like no other…the amalgamation of two bodies and one spirit.

I was abused as a child and also as a young adult. One of my abusers attempted to use bdsm as an excuse because she knew that my previous girlfriend and I had been into it. I have since learned that rape is rape, no matter your sexual preference or turn-ons, but I still struggle with being a sub sometimes. I feel guilt over enjoying consensual play, wondering if some part of me did "want it" (as my abuser so frequently told me) and asked for it. I know that being a sub does not me I can be used/abused ...

You….have changed me…
Molded me into a new and beautiful creature,
strong and resilient…powerful on my knees.

You have forged my heart in cruel and awesome fires…
only to wrap me in tenderness,
and to fold me in arms of light.

You…have given me a name…a purpose…
and a hope that will not fade…
You have made me...Yours.

Some days, I sit feeling so sorry for myself. I see people in my family doing things I wish I could do. One of my sisters has gone to the beach several times this year. Now i see on facebook where she is in Cancun with her boyfriend. I sigh when I see the pictures, knowing how happy she is. Knowing she is living the charmed life. She has her own business...she's thin and beautiful. She has a gorgeous home, and a boyfriend to match. I really envy her and her life. I sit wondering, why I ever divorced ...