JuliusP

These are just a few random thoughts after a conversations I had with some people a few days ago (the conversation actually led me to seek out others, hence my coming here).

Know what you want, trusting that I know what you need. No one gets everything they want. Don't take things for granted as they are not guaranteed. I don't need a reason to do something nice. Serving brings you comfort, safety and happiness. Providing you with what you need brings me happiness; meaning, if you have done an exceptional job at a task it fills me with pride, hence happiness. Behind every great man is a great woman. Its not what you said that got you into trouble, its how you said it. Never forget that I am genuinely interested in what is going on in your mind. Never become complacent. Seriously, never become complacent.

Now I realize most of these thoughts are totally out of context and are therefore may be difficult to grasp. I'll answer any questions asked.

If you are afraid to ask, say, or do something, there is a serious problem. Common sense is always key. I always have a plan. The three stooges ARE funny, period. On a personal note, I enjoy being challenged intellectually (not that I'm a genius). Anger is fine, as long as handled properly. Temper tantrums, while initially cute, will never end well.

I don't understand that (in the previously mentioned conversation) one participant said that I was too nice (in some hypothetical situations). I find this ridiculous. There should be predefined rules and boundaries and if nothing is violated then I see no reason to be "mean" just because one can. I was at that point in the conversation that I felt I needed to talk to a larger group of people to see other points of view. I wanted to know if I was being... abnormal, in my thoughts.

Foods done, I guess that's all my rambling for now.