Resist
grammar fetishist

There are hundreds (if not thousands) of facets of BDSM, and I don't believe there is any single person who enjoys them all. In fact, I would assert that for every one niche of BDSM, there are thousands of BDSM enthusiasts who find that particular thing repellent.

For example, this morning I saw a photo of a "Pony Girl". There is nothing wrong with this fetish, of course, but the idea of making my good girl pull me around in a cart or wear a tail...well, I had to start

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Okay, okay, I know we're all very serious about this BDSM thing. She belongs to him, or her, or them, or he does, or whatever. Sir this, Miss that, Mistress, etc, blah blah blah blah blah.

I want to rant about this phenomenon, but first, a disclaimer:

I fully understand--and interpret according how I see fit--the BDSM relationship. It is not to be taken lightly, per se, owning or being owned by another. Devoting yourself to someone completely or taking on the responsibility

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Hey everyone...I'm newish to the forums, but I've been nestled in the mustier parts of the chat room for a while, now.

Initially I thought about doing something in the forum to introduce myself, but I have at least two reasons that I chose a blog instead.

The first, (and the irony isn't lost on me here), is that I like to maintain a little more control and permanence over my work. When I say my work, I don't mean being dom. Being a dom is an extra benefit--the cream

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