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  • HBmisty's Avatar
    5 Hours Ago
    I am having fun, reading the old threads and found this. If only more people would create such a list, and ask the tough questions before jumping into a scene, perhaps there would be less damage. More especially if it isn't simply a Top / bottom arrangement. I think letting just anyone into your mind is very unwise, if proper vetting isn't done.
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  • Phenyx's Avatar
    1 Day Ago
    As a masochist that relies on pain to keep her grounded and she is very curious and would like to ask a couple questions please. Does one have to be a Sadist to understand pain? Does one have to be a Sadist to understand a masochist's need for pain especially in times where that need becomes overwhelming? Can a Dominant that is not a Sadist handle the levels of pain that a masochist may need at times? And if not? what is the appropriate steps needed to seek out help to take care of these needs? Can a Dominant that is not a Sadist recognize the ques that there is a need building for more pain if the submissive does not always speak of this need? As a masochist submissive seeking out a Dominant? Would you advise her to seek out specifically a Sadist Dominant due to the levels of pain she may need at times? If not? what questions would you suggest she ask a Dominant that is not a Sadist to ensure that there is no misunderstandings of future needs that may or may not complicate the relationship?
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    1 Day Ago
    HBmisty posted a visitor message on HBMan-misty's profile
    I do prefer slow and thorough. But You're right, quick and hot is just perfect some days.
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    HBmisty posted a visitor message on HBmisty's profile
    I do prefer slow and thorough. But You're right, quick and hot is just perfect some days. :love_heart:
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    HBMan-misty posted a visitor message on HBmisty's profile
    Yes quickly..
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    HBmisty posted a visitor message on HBMan-misty's profile
    Hallo my Sir. And can I take Yours?
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    HBMan-misty posted a visitor message on HBmisty's profile
    Hello girlieslut...let me be the first to take your wall cherie... yumm and sooo tasty...
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    HBMan-misty posted a visitor message on Phenyx's profile
    I like your questions too,especially what pisses me off about Dom's...Its very,Very simple....Dom's just piss me off with their false promises and their lies...Apart from that they piss me off because they are,Dom's....The only Good Dom phenyx is...Well...Me... just ask misty :)
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    1 Day Ago
    As a very curious, somewhat playful, with a little teenie tiny hint of brat, newbie submissive I have found it a bit challenging, in an interesting sort of way, to gain the attention of a Dominant even if that attention is simply to make them smile. :) I like smiles :) and i will admit that i will act out just to gain that smile or that half hidden smile known as 'The Smirk' :) Gotta love a good smirk :) So i am very curious to hear what others have done to 'gain the attention of a Dominant and/or your Sir/Master/Mistress in a playful respectful way? I'm not talking in a way that makes Them angry or frustrated but maybe in a way to make them smile or take notice that you are there? Any and all suggestions that are made of respectful fun natured ways are welcome. I look forward to hearing from anyone willing to share.
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  1. I like your questions too,especially what pisses me off about Dom's...Its very,Very simple....Dom's just piss me off with their false promises and their lies...Apart from that they piss me off because they are,Dom's....The only Good Dom phenyx is...Well...Me... just ask misty
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    All your posts are gone!
    Can you still write to me here?
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    Nope, you didn't come across as wanting anything more than word banter.
    And that's what I'm looking for here as well. Frankly what I'm looking for is to discuss the "insides" of BDSM and maybe make some nice connections with some nice people. This means sharing and discussing some pretty intimate stuff. And that's actually dangerous business because it is way too easy to get carried away with sharing intimate stuff and obsessed (get carried away) with the person with whom you are sharing and discussing that intimate stuff. (Been there, done that). In high school I knew a girl who eventually turned into a leatherdyke and spokesqueer. She had a regular BDSM column in a publication. I looked her up back in the summer and she said she's happy to discuss. She is probably the only "real life" person that I feel safe to discuss BDSM with. Safe: 1 because she knows kink and 2 because we wouldn't be sexually attracted to each other. (I know she's a dyke. Her words) I contacted her again recently and she has no time. So I came here to this forum to get a chance to discuss matters of this personal nature (hopefully without getting carried away)

    I found your presentation completely respectful. No worries.
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    Hi Phenyx
    I've enjoyed your questions too! You're a good writer.
    I'm married and committed to my wife. I'm not looking for an affair. I'm looking to discuss philosophy and psychology in, but not limited to, BDSM. In general, BDSM is not my wife's favorite topic. I'm very willing and wanting to go deep and talk about that innermost stuff. You seem very good at expressing that innermost stuff.
    You've said in your profile you're not looking for Mr Right and not looking for cybersex. Suits me fine. But even if you decide you're looking for a dom, I'm not your guy.
    Scot68
  5. Thank you just_ine I too hope more will answer and i'm glad you enjoyed them. And no worries I have LOTS more where those came from.
  6. Hi!

    I enjoyed your questions on the forum. I hope more people will answer and that you will keep asking!

    J
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curious in nature, open minded, honest, can be a bit bratty at times, a little intimidated of power exchange but not enough to hide, i do not question being submissive rather 'how' to be, friendly and unafraid of life, can be a little challenging at times, i love sharing smiles, inquisitive so i tend to ask a lot of questions, over thinker, respectful, a touch of exhibitionist, playful in nature, not really shy, and.. not sure what else to say so if i've missed something? Please feel free to ask.
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