hey, well, everyone!

well, i am Rob king, 27 years old this year, come from
southern Philippine and unmarried. i am very pleased and excited to
come here by accident. well, i am really still fresh about BDSM,
through i have had two times of experience before. for more times,
it occured in my fantases in the last four years, i can clearly remeber i wached a video about BDSM at my age of 23, from that time on, i'm very interested about it, and i want to explore the ultra end of sex, want to know whether it behaves result from the darkness of hunman psychology or the most crazy love of hunman beings.

apparently, i havn't get a clear answer till now, but only find myself
lost in the happniess and painess of BDSM, and i even don't know it's a way
connecting heaven or hell. so i am very happy to find we are here togather
to discuss the topic our concerns, and want to find friends with
similar temperament, remember, i am a pessimist and believe people borne
lonely.

Welcome :wave:

I personally dont find myself on the dark side of human psychology, rather the opposite but
welcome :wave:

hello and welcome to the community!!

Hi kingsan and welcome to you. Please feel free to explore all the forum has to offer. Most of all, enjoy yourself here.

:hihi: Hello and :welcome: to the forums kingsan. :wave:

hello and welcome to the forums!!

welcome and greetings

I don't feel that it is the dark side of anything just a path less traveled. Love is very important to this life and each person fills the other persons needs how can that be wrong.

Hello and welcome!

Welcome, you're very metaphysical -- I look forward to hearing from you!

As for darkness...I don't know. I think the pain isn't really about that at all, just understanding that pain and pleasure aren't opposite sensations at all.

But the fantasies, the control, the humiliation...hard to say it isn't exploring our darker sides, our need to force and be forced, to break from societal norms into the taboo largely because it's forbidden to us.

:wel

Those early sexual experiences sure can shape a mind. This place is great for learning as well, so please indulge and enjoy.

Welcome!

tessa :wave:

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Originally Posted by Logic1

I personally dont find myself on the dark side of human psychology, rather the opposite but
welcome :wave:

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ha, you are so confident, that's great.

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Originally Posted by lizeskimo

Hi kingsan and welcome to you. Please feel free to explore all the forum has to offer. Most of all, enjoy yourself here.

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yes, you are right, we come here for happiness, for exploring the unknown field of sex. just enjoy ourseves here.

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Originally Posted by ElectricBadger

Welcome, you're very metaphysical -- I look forward to hearing from you!

As for darkness...I don't know. I think the pain isn't really about that at all, just understanding that pain and pleasure aren't opposite sensations at all.

But the fantasies, the control, the humiliation...hard to say it isn't exploring our darker sides, our need to force and be forced, to break from societal norms into the taboo largely because it's forbidden to us.

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hey, ElectricBadger, out of question, you reply is the meaningful to me.
i agree with you and appreciate it much, the fantasies, the control, the humiliation, force and be forced in some extend, may be really need of our nature, or some large charge under the revolt of societal norms. as for how to explain the deadly pleasure brought to us when i humiliate a pretty girl or let her be tortured? maybe the real truth we can only find in the psychological works of Floyd or the pornographic novels of Sade.

Is something more true because Floyd or DeSade wrote it?
truth is in the eye of the beholder. Real truth is for me? you? your neighbour? your president? your church? somebody elses church to decide?
love the topic :)
again though. much welcome to us!

Hi kingsan - yes, fantasies are vital and a strongly personal pointer to where you want to go. Feel free to explore things here and to be open about waht you're after, we're an open community and will give you the trust you need. :wave:

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Originally Posted by Logic1

Is something more true because Floyd or DeSade wrote it?
truth is in the eye of the beholder. Real truth is for me? you? your neighbour? your president? your church? somebody elses church to decide?
love the topic :)
again though. much welcome to us!

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hey, logic1, i agree with you,truth is in the eye of the beholder. True Enough.

forgive my poor English, maybe i have some problem in my expressing, what i mean "truth" here is the secret of BDSM behavior, and the psychological origin of the great pleasure we feel in the humiliation, torture, forced smeone and be forced.
yes, we experienced the truth, BDSM is wonderful, the deadly pleasure is good but, why? we use our thought to explore truth, not the eye or the excitment rushed in our brain, and we can look into what predecessors say about this topic if we have enough interest in it. and that's really why i mentioned Floyd and Sade.
so it's very well to have some the communication with you, and you are always wecome.

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Originally Posted by gagged_Louise

Hi kingsan - yes, fantasies are vital and a strongly personal pointer to where you want to go. Feel free to explore things here and to be open about waht you're after, we're an open community and will give you the trust you need.:wave:

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"Feel free to explore things here and to be open about waht you're after, we're an open community and will give you the trust you need."

so, i feel like that i find out another home, much appreciated.

lol
yes it is too easy to talk around eachother. Especially when neither of us have english as our first language.
No wonder there are wars in the world and that men and women isnt really understanding what the other person mean either
The inner truth of why we feel pleasure in BDSM?
cant answer that.
I honestly have no idea more than I like it <3 I let it rest at that.

Hi

WELCOME! Great to have you here!

Welcome!

Welcome Kingsan

Enjoy and if there are any questions, don't hesitate to ask!


John