Gag question

Sir and i were in a fetish shop yesterday looking for a suitable collar..which was duely brought and paid for...while there He started looking at the selection of gags that were on offer.....a problem has arrisen and i wondered if anyone here would have a suggestion as to how we could get around it....

i have a mild allergy to latex/rubber...when worn it brings me out in a nasty blisterlike rash...therefor Sir will not buy a gag made from those substances.....which is just about all of them...the only all leather gag that the shop had was pretty much just a leather loop on the back of a mouth cover...which would be fairly inefective at gagging me....has anyone any suggestions as to either where He might be able to get a better leather gag or something that He could use as an alternative....


would be greatly appreciated

song

I have visited the local pet shop for collars for my 'pets'. I really wonder about the looks I get from one of the young female cashiers when I purchase different size collars for my different sized 'pets'. She once asked me what kind of dog I owned and I told her I didn't have a dog. Which brings up more questions about her flirting with me... hmmm.

Dear,

i cannot make out where are you located, but some leather stores, especially those that deal with fetish clothing might be able to help you. Also – just a suggestion, look on line for leather gags, leather ball gag, leather penis gag etc. while i personally love leather, i don’t like the taste of it in my mouth. Obviously you do not have much choice (being allergic and all) but apart for store bought, home made ones maybe of the tick silky rope, knotted, used together with some cloth, or the metal ring and leather gag one on top of some cloth in your mouth (which can than, conveniently be pulled out to free mouth for some better stuffing...) will do nicely, i think :)

Assuming your allergy is specifically to latex, have a look through the pet stores for suitably shaped vinyl dog toys which can be strung on a strap, or used to replace the latex plug or ball on a store-bought gag.

The only potential problem here is staying serious while being gagged with a vinyl hambone, smiley-ball or something equally silly :)

My femsub has a similar irritant reaction to latex dildoes, so I've learnt to look at these vinyl shapes with a very imaginative eye!

thank you all for your suggestions...will inform Sir of them when next He is here in the flesh:) ....have also updated my location ....again thank you all and will keep you posted as to what Sir eventually desides to buy for my gagging:D


song

your local sports equipment store could also have balls that might work. I don't know what lacrosse, squash or other common balls are made of, but surely there is something that would work for you.

worse come to worse, just go to a local hardware store and find a wooden ball suitable for the task. Sure, it'll taste horrible for you, but...in the end isn't your discomfort kinda secondary to the whole objective?

The lovely red and leo have already mentioned the two suggestions I thought of while reading your plea. The only other thing I would care to mention is unconventional gagging. LadyAmanda's post in this thread is a perfect example.

Cheap, easy to find and very effective are bandanas. I always recommend them.

Also, if you look hard enough, you'll find gags with no latex content at all. Ebay, for instance, usually has a selection that would rival any toy store. I bought a ring gag on ebay that was leather over steel, no latex or rubber at all.

Ack! Your suggestion of bandannas reminded me... a former Dom used to have me remove my panties, wad them, stuffed them in my mouth, then tied a bandanna to keep them in. *blush* It worked rather well.

Kittenfemme :o :o that was actually one of my Sir's first suggestions...not sure how serious He was being though..

thank you all for your suggestions...

looked on ebay but really wasnt sure what to look for..will look again and this time consider things available to the uk from outside its fair shores....

will keep you all updated:D

song

Look at this item on ebay: 2990484216
You need to have an adult account (have a CC on file so they can age verify you), but most of us do, so that shouldn't be a problem.

This one as well, and they are by the same person, so you might want to ask them if what they can do for you: 2991711732

Hope this helps!

i suppose i should have known really....as i am outside of the US i am not authorised to view or purchase any of the items in the adult only area of Ebay...sighs...grumbles.....again thank you for the suggestion..

That is weird. The guy ships world wide too. Maybe I can contact him and get his email address for you if that would help. Then you can contact him directly and see if he can do something for you.

has something to do with the differing laws and policies worldwide for the purchase of pornographic materials....

the email address would be very useful though i would appreciate it thank you....

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Originally posted by His_sweet_song
i suppose i should have known really....as i am outside of the US i am not authorised to view or purchase any of the items in the adult only area of Ebay...sighs...grumbles.....again thank you for the suggestion..

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I live in Canada and I use ebay for all sorts of services all the time. I bought a paddle a few months after I moved up here and it arrived safe and sound without any problems.

every time i try authorising to access the adult areas of ebay i get the following blurb

eBay has made a policy decision not to allow access to the Mature Audiences category outside the US.
This restriction applies to browsing, bidding and selling.


This decision has been taken due to laws that restrict the sale of pornography over the Internet.
Often, these laws are more restrictive than those in the US and vary substantially from country to country, while often being unclear.
To avoid potential legal exposure for our members and out of respect for laws regulating such material, we have implemented this policy.

We do know that in some countries access to at least some material of this nature may be lawful, however eBay is unable to block access to the Mature Audiences category on a country by country basis.
Therefore, to avoid potential legal exposure for our members and out of respect for laws regulating such material, we have implemented this policy.

In the event that the laws in this area become more clear and as we become better able to handle such materials on a country by country basis, eBay may ease this restriction.

That stinks. But I contacted the guy and they actually have a webpage. It has all sorts of awesome bdsm stuff. Check it out and I'm sure they can arrange something and that you can contact them with questions.

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:D ...cool thank you Kelli...just looked through the site and have to say there are some fantastic bits and pieces there...will ask Sir to have a look when He is here at the weekend....definatly need them now as He will be here for 4 whole days soon...swoons..and will be taking me for a walk through our local nature reserve...;)He wouldnt want anyone to hear my screams:o :o will definatly keep you posted...and may even have pics to post on the personal photography thread as a result:) :cool:

just a thought....there is an aussie site: www.saxleather.com.au
they make a leather covered ball gag that sits inside your mouth with a leather strap across. very effective. it takes about a week to post to america, and with the exchange rate shouldn't be too expensive.
might be too late, but thought i'd share

happy :o)

:) thank you happy....not too late yet...still looking for the right gag..am thinking of a hard plastic ball instead..have seen some really fantastic gags..

used a makeshift one the other day:o a tightly rolled up sock secured in place with a length of rope..worked very effectively though ....Sir did take a pic but not sure if i should post it or not...lol am not exactly photogenic..

Again thank you all for your suggestions

TG, Canada is considered northern Texas for business purposes.

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Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide
I live in Canada and I use ebay for all sorts of services all the time. I bought a paddle a few months after I moved up here and it arrived safe and sound without any problems.

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Slightly off the gag topic, but I've found that having my sub visit the porn/fetish shops with me is a nice humiliation for her. I make her ask for specific items at the counter and have the clerk show her what she is looking for, then have her pay for the items. She, of course, has to wear appropriate slut attire for these field trips. It's fun to watch the looks she gets from the "browsers". For me, e-bay would take half the fun out of it!

I have a collection of about 50 gags and nearly all are leather. There are some amazing online shops for various leather gags. D-rings, ball gags, penis gags, etc all come in leather.

:)

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Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide
Cheap, easy to find and very effective are bandanas. I always recommend them.

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Yeah though some us of cannot stand the taste of clothe in their mouths and gag and choke horribly when they do. :o

*nod* Ditto F_F. It's the texture for me, but cloth almost always makes me gag. The Dominants in the past I've played with who used cloth gags would add a bit of flavor, such as a sprinkle of lemon or orange juice... or use a pair of panties that one of us was wearing. *blush* That seemed to keep me from gagging on the cloth.

I would have to agree that it is the texture. It makes my teeth hurt just to think about it and I can't stand to even look at someone who chews on cloth. It's just makes me shudder. It's mental mostly, but something that I just can't get around.

Anybody have any experience with those ball gags that have straps going over the head and under the chin as well as round the back? They look cool. Is the main advantage that you can pull the head back with the gag or is it just a more secure variant?