just want to tell u what the life style means to me
What D/s means to me
I will try to put into words the most intense of relationships. Though i have found that there are no words to really describe the intensity that is involved in such an intimate relationship, but i will try.
D/s to me is an aw inspiring love. The mutual understanding that is between a Dominate and His submissive is the most intimate of understandings. The role of the Dominate is that of a teacher, disciplinarian, lover, and protector. As a teacher He will share knowledge and wisdom. He will teach His submissive how to present herself in public by ways of voice training, dressing, hair and makeup, personal hygiene, manners, and all other aspects He finds appropriate. He will mold her into what He wants her to be not what others think or say she should be. He will teach her how He wants everything from basic house duties to scene presentation and everything in between. As a disciplinarian when somthing calls for discipline or punishment he will tell her why she is being disciplined or punished and make sure she understands what she did wrong so that she learns from it and does not do it again. As a lover He will give her unconditional love no matter what. And as a protector He will give safety and security before, during, and after scenes as well as in everyday situations. He is her defender in all aspects. In His eyes she is a prized possession and as such should be treated as one bye Him always. The role of the submissive is to submit total and complete control to her Dominate. As a submissive i am not weak for i am a strong person who has thoughts, feelings, and ambitions. I am not a doormat to be abused or mistreated. I'm not void of thoughts or feelings. As a submissive i know that my Master always has the final say in all situations. I will only give my opinion knowing that he will make the final decision for he knows what is best for me. The intense relationship between a Dominate and his submissive is like an intricate dance gracefully moving in perfect harmony with each other rather in a scene or in day-to-day life. There is always an unspoken bond between them that is not always apparent but is always evident. With a touch, look. or spoken word the submissive is immediately transported in her mind to a special place that the two of them share even though no one else knows of this place or the bond that they share. It's a bond that cannot ever be broken. The relationship that i desire is that of complete 24/7 total power exchange. With my Master i have that. Everything i am is his my mind, body, and soul belong solely to him. I will strive everyday to please my Master. To know that i am pleasing my Master is what makes me complete and also what makes me His submissive
