Spanking: What turns you on more?

The other day I was spanking my wife with a new switch and her reaction really turned me on. I had her standing on the floor, bent over with her hands on the edge of the bed. Each time I spanked her, she rose up on her tip toes and gasped! It was really sexy!

This made me think of a question. If you had to choose one or the other, what turns you on more:

1. The act of spanking and inflicting pleasurable pain?

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2. The reaction of the person your spanking?

I would have to say for that scene, it was the reaction of my beautiful wife.

I think, for me, the answer is simply "Yes"

The former without the latter is just exercise (which I can do by myself)... but the reaction without my participation also leaves me cold.

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Originally Posted by Ozme52

I think, for me, the answer is simply "Yes"

The former without the latter is just exercise (which I can do by myself)... but the reaction without my participation also leaves me cold.

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Good answer! IN fact, I don't think there could be any other answer so I'll just shut up. :)

Actually, I can't say that I have ever been really big on spanking. The only time I have ever indulged in it on an on-going basis was with my last full-time secretary. She was, I have to say, the worst secretary I've ever had but, when she suggested that corporal punishment might improve her efficiency, what could I say except yes? She had one of those bottoms that you only have to look at to know it was made to be spanked.

I must say, though, I still can't say that I particularly enjoyed the actual spanking part of spanking her. The most enjoyable part (for us both, I think) was her removing her skirt and pulling down her knickers to get ready — on the rare occasions she wore knickers, that is.

She had been brought up a strict muslim and was so painfully shy about her body that I soon learned the simple act of making her bare it improved her efficiency no end. No spanking required *L*

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Originally Posted by Ozme52

I think, for me, the answer is simply "Yes"

The former without the latter is just exercise (which I can do by myself)... but the reaction without my participation also leaves me cold.

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I agree. One without the other is not particularly stimulating. It is seeing her reactions and knowing that I am the cause of that pleasure/pain mixture.

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Originally Posted by Ma_am

I agree. One without the other is not particularly stimulating. It is seeing her reactions and knowing that I am the cause of that pleasure/pain mixture.

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Logic, there you go again with that!! LOL I checked and McDonald's doesn't have this combo!! But it certainly would be delicious!

I can't really comment on the original question. Submissives are usually the ones on the other end! Yay us! :p

The entire thing turns me on, same as what's already been said.

- The sound of the paddle/whip/hand/crop slicing through the air
- The audible impact against the skin
- The movement of the ass from the impact
- The moans she makes
- The screams she makes
- The Squirming she does as the pain flows into the body
- The cuddling she does after I have stopped
- The crying she does when I don't
- The giggling she does as she passes through her pain pleasure threshold
- The moaning she does when the impact hits her pussy
- The feeling of the warm skin against my hands when I rub the hurt out
- The feeling of the warm skin, as I fuck her from behind
- The taste of her tears on her cheeks
- The way her calves look when her heels come off the ground
- The way her boobs shake when she jumps from each hit
- The way her hair flies through the air when her head comes back in a pleasurable moan from the impact
- etc etc

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Originally Posted by IDCrewDawg

The entire thing turns me on, same as what's already been said.

- The sound of the paddle/whip/hand/crop slicing through the air
- The audible impact against the skin
- The movement of the ass from the impact
- The moans she makes
- The screams she makes
- The Squirming she does as the pain flows into the body
- The cuddling she does after I have stopped
- The crying she does when I don't
- The giggling she does as she passes through her pain pleasure threshold
- The moaning she does when the impact hits her pussy
- The feeling of the warm skin against my hands when I rub the hurt out
- The feeling of the warm skin, as I fuck her from behind
- The taste of her tears on her cheeks
- The way her calves look when her heels come off the ground
- The way her boobs shake when she jumps from each hit
- The way her hair flies through the air when her head comes back in a pleasurable moan from the impact
- etc etc

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Oh....my....God.

I'm off to find a fan. Two fans. Okay, a whole slew of fans. As a matter of fact, a cold shower might do the trick. :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by IDCrewDawg

The entire thing turns me on, same as what's already been said.

- The sound of the paddle/whip/hand/crop slicing through the air
- The audible impact against the skin
- The movement of the ass from the impact
- The moans she makes
- The screams she makes
- The Squirming she does as the pain flows into the body
- The cuddling she does after I have stopped
- The crying she does when I don't
- The giggling she does as she passes through her pain pleasure threshold
- The moaning she does when the impact hits her pussy
- The feeling of the warm skin against my hands when I rub the hurt out
- The feeling of the warm skin, as I fuck her from behind
- The taste of her tears on her cheeks
- The way her calves look when her heels come off the ground
- The way her boobs shake when she jumps from each hit
- The way her hair flies through the air when her head comes back in a pleasurable moan from the impact
- etc etc

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ID........i love your answers!!!

......there it is all in one place!!!......it all needs to to in the game thread "reason for a spanking".....lol

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Originally Posted by IDCrewDawg

The entire thing turns me on, same as what's already been said.

- The sound of the paddle/whip/hand/crop slicing through the air
- The audible impact against the skin
- The movement of the ass from the impact
- The moans she makes
- The screams she makes
- The Squirming she does as the pain flows into the body
- The cuddling she does after I have stopped
- The crying she does when I don't
- The giggling she does as she passes through her pain pleasure threshold
- The moaning she does when the impact hits her pussy
- The feeling of the warm skin against my hands when I rub the hurt out
- The feeling of the warm skin, as I fuck her from behind
- The taste of her tears on her cheeks
- The way her calves look when her heels come off the ground
- The way her boobs shake when she jumps from each hit
- The way her hair flies through the air when her head comes back in a pleasurable moan from the impact
- etc etc

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All of the above!!! Wow! Is it wet in here, or is it just me? Whew!!!!

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Originally Posted by Isabelle90

All of the above!!! Wow! Is it wet in here, or is it just me? Whew!!!!

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LOL

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Originally Posted by Isabelle90

Logic, there you go again with that!! LOL I checked and McDonald's doesn't have this combo!! But it certainly would be delicious!

I can't really comment on the original question. Submissives are usually the ones on the other end! Yay us! :p

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lol you are mistaking my AV on that other forum with Ma_am´s ;)

and Originally Posted by IDCrewDawg View Post
The entire thing turns me on, same as what's already been said.

- The sound of the paddle/whip/hand/crop slicing through the air
- The audible impact against the skin
- The movement of the ass from the impact
- The moans she makes
- The screams she makes
- The Squirming she does as the pain flows into the body
- The cuddling she does after I have stopped
- The crying she does when I don't
- The giggling she does as she passes through her pain pleasure threshold
- The moaning she does when the impact hits her pussy
- The feeling of the warm skin against my hands when I rub the hurt out
- The feeling of the warm skin, as I fuck her from behind
- The taste of her tears on her cheeks
- The way her calves look when her heels come off the ground
- The way her boobs shake when she jumps from each hit
- The way her hair flies through the air when her head comes back in a pleasurable moan from the impact
- etc etc

THAT is my answer too :)
great answer IDC

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Originally Posted by Captain

The other day I was spanking my wife with a new switch and her reaction really turned me on. I had her standing on the floor, bent over with her hands on the edge of the bed. Each time I spanked her, she rose up on her tip toes and gasped! It was really sexy!

This made me think of a question. If you had to choose one or the other, what turns you on more:

1. The act of spanking and inflicting pleasurable pain?

Or

2. The reaction of the person your spanking?

I would have to say for that scene, it was the reaction of my beautiful wife.

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Both <G>. Though likely from a far different perspective then Yours <WEG>.

Respectfully~Sidhewolf

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Originally Posted by Logic1

lol you are mistaking my AV on that other forum with Ma_am´s ;)

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Thanks for clearing that up for me. I kept looking and looking for the post that she was responding to. Now I know why I couldn't find it. lol

And, yes, it is "wet" in here Isabelle. *runs off to change panties*

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Originally Posted by Logic1

lol you are mistaking my AV on that other forum with Ma_am´s ;)

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Originally Posted by blythespirit

Thanks for clearing that up for me. I kept looking and looking for the post that she was responding to. Now I know why I couldn't find it. lol

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I did the same thing!!! Sorry Logic! It took me awhile too! And the combo thing reminded me of another post you made. It added up in my scrambled mind.

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Originally Posted by blythespirit

And, yes, it is "wet" in here Isabelle. *runs off to change panties*

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If this keeps up we're going to need to buy more underwear!!! I can't keep up with the wash! LOL

ID...thanks for the great response. I don't think you could have said it better!! And I agree, it's really the whole experience. All of your senses are involved.

Thanks again!

With all the ways there are spanking a lady, still the most erotic one and the one that turns me on the most is the old fashoned otk that is performed with the hand. To this day it never fails to get me hard. I don't need ****** or anything like it. The closeness of the body contact coupled with the repeated action upon her upturned buttocks, is still the best aphrodisiac going.

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Originally Posted by Isabelle90

If this keeps up we're going to need to buy more underwear!!! I can't keep up with the wash! LOL

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Unless, of course, you follow the course of the "Reasons for not wearing panties" tread in Fun and Games.

:cool:

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Originally Posted by rce

Unless, of course, you follow the course of the "Reasons for not wearing panties" tread in Fun and Games.

:cool:

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hehehehe. But then the furniture gets wet.

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Originally Posted by blythespirit

hehehehe. But then the furniture gets wet.

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...or your skirt, but I guess the furniture is the safer bet.

Well, if it is leather or wood furniture, it may not matter much.

;)

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Originally Posted by rce

...or your skirt, but I guess the furniture is the safer bet.

Well, if it is leather or wood furniture, it may not matter much.

;)

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Well, whatever the case, somethin' besides me would be wet. ~laughing~ Of course, unlike wood furniture, I won't warp. Ummmm, but of course, I'm already warped. *sitting bare-assed on a leather chair, smiling*

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Originally Posted by rce

...or your skirt, but I guess the furniture is the safer bet.

Well, if it is leather or wood furniture, it may not matter much.

;)

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What!! :eek:

LOL. You allow your sub to sit on her skirt?

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Originally Posted by Ozme52

What!! :eek:

LOL. You allow your sub to sit on her skirt?

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perhaps he likes the humiliation in her face when the back of her skirt is wet when leaving the restaurant *weg*

My opinion, all of the apove is my turn on. My personal favorate is the nice marks left behind.

I noticed that most have mentioned the during and after, but not much about the anticipation/preparation. For me, the fun starts before the smacks. Borrowing the format of IDC's definitive list, I'd include:

- that baring of the ass in preparation
- the slappy sound the belt makes as I pull it quickly through the pants loops
- then the jinglejangle the buckle makes when you fold the leather over double
- seeing the tensing of the skin as I run a finger across the target

and even though we haven't exercised it yet, I'm thinking of the fun to be had with a good old Southern Grandma "Go get me a switch" command, and the pleasure of my sub's return presentation of a well-selected flexible and thin branch stripped of its leaves. Hmm, I think the weather's supposed to be good this weekend...

ID's post is great. I had not seen this thread yet.
and I like what clove hitch added for a time and place for that as well.

before the look of hesitation and anticipation.
during the look of pain turning to ecstasy.
after.. the look of pleased contentment from having endured and done well.
knowing she had pleased me and I her.
sighs ........

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Originally Posted by Clove Hitch

I noticed that most have mentioned the during and after, but not much about the anticipation/preparation. For me, the fun starts before the smacks. Borrowing the format of IDC's definitive list, I'd include:

- that baring of the ass in preparation
- the slappy sound the belt makes as I pull it quickly through the pants loops
- then the jinglejangle the buckle makes when you fold the leather over double
- seeing the tensing of the skin as I run a finger across the target

and even though we haven't exercised it yet, I'm thinking of the fun to be had with a good old Southern Grandma "Go get me a switch" command, and the pleasure of my sub's return presentation of a well-selected flexible and thin branch stripped of its leaves. Hmm, I think the weather's supposed to be good this weekend...

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Yes, indeed, the humiliation of having to search the back yard for the "switch," which to this day stands in a vase along with some golden twigs as a reminder.

Then having to lift my skirt and stand in the corner, bared-assed, as he lectured me and explained what was going to happen and why. The anticipation left me squirming.

But still greater anticipation awaited me when he bent me over the back of a club chair and positioned me to his liking. I could feel my butt cheeks involuntarily clench and perspiration break out on my brow as the switch repeatedly whizzed through the air, hard and fast, while I listened to the prelude before it connected with my butt. Sheer torture. Listening was almost enough to make me want to call out my "safe word" and before the switch ever met my ass cheeks, I was tearfully contrite and pleading.

When we'd have guests and he felt I wasn't behaving properly, all he needed to do was look to the vase and then at me.

- the look of anticipation on her face as she squints her eyes, hiding from the pain that will come.
- the clinched muscles on her face as she tightens her jaw in an attempt to accept the pain.
- the way her forearms flex as she makes fists to work through the pain.
- the way her mouth quivers when I miss on purpose, expecting the pain and not getting it. The anguish of withholding her torment evident in her moaning.
- the satisfied sigh and mewing she makes when my fingers rub across the red hot welts.
- the salted stain on my shirt from the tears that stream down her face as the endorphins run through her, whilst I hold her. Letting her know its over, and that she did good.
- the yelp she makes as she sits down from getting me a drink after snuggle time
- the way she carefully puts on pants for the next few days.
- the look in her eyes as she admires the marks, longing for them to remain, anticipating the next time they will be made

ID.........Are you trying to kill us all with you answers............Because were going to all pass out just thinking about it!!!!

I'm coming for a visit......lol..........*wink*

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Originally Posted by thrall

ID.........Are you trying to kill us all with you answers............Because were going to all pass out just thinking about it!!!!

I'm coming for a visit......lol..........*wink*

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Thrall, can I tag along too!!! Please! I really don't want to miss out in ANY of what ID's dishing!

Geez, ID - now I have to take another cold shower! :rolleyes: