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I have just started to use a butt plug on my slave. Aside from using plenty of lube and starting with a smaller size plug, are there any other things to be wary of? Is there a maximum (besides the obvious one) amount of time you can leave one in place, etc? How about removing them, is a quick pull better than a slow withdrawal. Any info would be greatly appreciated as hurting my slave is one thing damaging her is another.
Barton.
Any thing done in anal play should be slow in insertion and removal. Do not push it in and out quickly unless your trying to make your sub feel pain. Also be sure your sub relaxes as that will make the whole thing easier.
Hehehe one of my favorite things... :D
I've worn one for up to about 8 hours while I slept. The longest I've worn one while awake is about 3 hours. I've found that while moving around, plugs without a narrow enough neck in comparison to its body have a tendency to slip out without the aid of something to keep them in. Although sex is divine with one in, after cumming I feel a bit "crowded" with it in. Although the feeling passes with a bit of time.
My current favorites are the pyrex variety. Ebay has several varieties and I've purchased two from them. They are about 4 inches long stem to stern, and 1 1/4 inches wide at the widest part. I'm a bit sensitive and prefer them warmed a bit first, but since glass is so conductive it doesn't take long at all.
Lube is essential, and you can always wipe away any excess. As far as removal, once past the widest part they tend to just slide out. I prefer a firm smooth motion as opposed to a quick or slow one.
I've also found that keeping a spray bottle with rubbing alcohol in it to disinfect the plug after it has been washed is handy.
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The maximum amount of time is completely up to your submissive. Until she either needs to go poop or until it just gets too uncomfortable for her to wear, they can theoretically be left in indefinitely.
Remove slowly! Removing a plug quickly, especially after it's been in awhile, can lead to... unpleasant... results during the removal process.
I am worried about the use of glass. I'm sure it's fine 99.9% of the time, my obvious concern is it breaking with disasterous results. The idea of something so uncompromising is a turn on though. I currently use a plastic/rubbery type plug on my girl and am v happy with that but does anyone have any reassurances regarding glass plugs, are they engineered in a specific way? or made to shatter in certain way? are there any inherent safety features?
I watched Pinky and the Brain the other day :
Pinky - What are we doing this week Brain?
Brain ( in inimitable style ) - Same thing we do every week Pinky...taking over the world
As long as it is a solid piece and not previously cracked, glass is as safe as can be. Glass is actually a very hard material. Of more concern are rubber buttplugs. No matter how assiduously they are cleaned, rubber is porous and ends up absorbing minute traces of bodily fluids, dust, germs and chemicals from cleaning products. All these can lead to serious infections. Please remember that the lower digestive tract absorbs freight matter into the blood stream faster than the mouth, or the lungs.Quote:
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I guess everyone has their own technique. I find it most comfortable for her to give it a start and let her body expell it naturally.
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The Pyrex plugs and dildos should be very sturdy. Pyrex glass is a composite material designed to hold up under extremes of heat and stress. I know for a fact that you can drop Pyrex measuring cups on the floor and they will not break in most cases.
My biggest concern would be flexibility. Glass, unlike latex and silicone, is very inflexible and does not mold well to the inner cavity of the rectum or vagina. It might create a little more discomfort than going with the standard types of plugs or dildos.
Good man. Keep supporting the show. Maybe they'll bring it back and I can start annoying everyone with my "Yes!" again.
Here is an FAQ for Pyrex plugs I found while digging on the net. :)
http://www.allglasssextoys.com/cart/faq1.php
(Of course as it is off a product site, it plugs - pun intended ;) - their name continually in the FAQ.)
But borosilicate glass is quite strong. Just as long as the piece has no flaws - chips, cracks etc. - then it should be fine. I've never had an issue with mine at least.
Oh and TG - does your love of Pinky and The Brain extend to The Animaniacs? :cool:
While we're on the subject of types, I must say, BUY SELECTIVELY. Pyrex is good, rubber is good, but with plastic, make sure the object is solid, not hollow. Plastic can and will spall off in sharp splinters under stress if not reinforced - and while pain was part of what was wanted at the time, raw agony wasn't. Neither were the giggles by the emergency room staff.
and though it is always nice to revisit the facts and of course find some new ones - check this thread.
and than of course my fawourite butt toys
Thanks for all of the input (pun definitely intended. :p ). I went and got a medium size rubber one ( how do they determine the size I wonder?) to try out on my slave. So far so good, not only does it make it easier to gain entry for sex but it seems to help put her in the right frame of mind when she is not with me. Any opinions on sizes would be helpful. For right now I think I will avoid glass ones, something about them seems to unforgiving.
Barton.
This is slightly different, but I think it's essentially the same idea. Instead of a buttplug inserted into the female rectum, I'm curious about a male digital insertion. What does it feel like to have one's middle finger up a girl's butt? Is it hot? Warm? Is it wet? I always pictured it as being dry. Obviously it's tight. What does the channel feel like (squishy, tight)? My girlfriend isn't too keen on letting me stick my finger up her bum-which is ok, because I don't think I want to, either. This information is for a future story.
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It's quite nice, actually. It's all warm and soft and kind of wet, but not too much. Technically speaking, the intestines are mucus producing organs, since, without some lubrication, having a poop would be a lot more work than it already is.
Neopadinski, a woman's is just like a man's. Why don't you try exploring your own?
I didn't want to explore my girlfriend's as I thought it would feel "icky", so why would I want to explore my own icky ass and have to take a crap at the same time? :D
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Barton.
Yes, I thought it would feel "icky". I selected that word simply because it's a very strange word to find on forums of this nature. And it's a very amusing word.
Like "pudding". Or "irreverantly".
But back on topic. Butt plugs.
Yes it is a very amusing word. Back to butt plugs, I was wondering about the differences between the use of Vaseline as opposed to KY jelly. Is there one better than the other. For long term use is there a preference. As I now understand it, KY jelly is a water based lubricant. While Vaseline is a petroleum based product. Would'nt a water based lubricant be adsorbed by the body after a short time, causing irritation?
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Barton.
There is a longer-lasting formula of KY (actually, I think there are three or four different formulae), and that doesn't get absorbed easily. Vaseline, unless used in gobs, tends to get tacky with repeated friction. Also, it will eat right through a latex condom, which the KY will not. And KY is more pleasant to lick (though when applied in that region, that may not be an issue).
I don't much care for petroleum jelly as it can irritate tissues and cause rips in condoms. KY jelly usually needs frequent reapplication from what I understand.
A relatively inexpensive one I have found that I like specifically for plugs is Joy Jelly. Astroglide is good too. Although, I do tend to prefer jelly ones over more liquid-y ones as they don't run all over.
:D My slave tried the Astroglide that you mentioned the last time she had to use her butt plug. It does seem to be more jelly that water. She says that it lasted for the entire duration and did not make the mess that Vaseline makes.
Thanks for the suggestion. Now if I could only find some magic vanishing cream for when she gets a bruise (she is a pain slut). :p
Barton.
I'm glad that worked for you and Kat, Barton. :)
For bruises try some arnica cream.
http://www.kcweb.com/herb/arnica.htm
:D
Thanks Pandora, We will have to try this. I'll let you know how it worked for us.
Barton.
I seem to recall that I once read a story (like, a real-life recollection in a magazine or something) where a guy accidentally grabbed Vaseline instead of the KY next to his bed (the lights were off) and after he was going at it for a bit on his wife, she yelped and ran into the bathroom and washed out her butt (cause it was all ICKY with Vaseline) and was creating a burning sensation. Then again, I might have just dreampt I read that.
I'm not sure about irritation to sensitive areas, but I can tell you that it makes a mess. It did not work out to be a good lube when using butt plugs.
Barton.
I just have issues with using vaseline as a lubricant. Like you said it's messy as heck. And it has been known to cause irritation to tissues. It's generally not recommended.
They make many good lubes on the market and you don't have to pay an arm and leg for them. Although with astroglide, you get what you pay for in my opinion.
Kama sutra makes some nice oils. And they even have a pleasant warming effect. I wouldn't use them for butt toys though. I just have a thing about oily substances and my rear end. :D
Hello folks. Been off-line for a while during some work on my house but got my cable back now, oh how I've missed it.
I use a product called Millenium ID Superglide. It's water based but dosen't dry up much and dosen't get sticky and is latex and condom friendly, it has not provoked any irritation to me or my girlfriend and although it comes in at a pricy £20 a bottle I would have to recommend it. ( I've not just bought shares in the company )
Vaseline seems to hang around for ages, I don't know if anyone else found that, and I think I'm right in saying that it's a no-no for the vagina in terms of imbalancing the natural flora, I could just be making that up though as it's the type of crap I rapidly forget once I discount a product.
Is there a website for that product Andrew.
Barton.
So my understanding after reading this thread....
it is totally safe to sleep with a butt plug in over night?