Hi, I'm patricialynn

I have been exploring this site for about a week, and enjoying what I am reading. Thanks to my friend Hawksinger for introducing me to this site!

I am a 30 year old mother of three who has always desired to be dominated. The first man I was with (the father of my children) told me my desires were sick and that I needed professional help, so I suppressed my feelings for many years.

I left that man, and just started exploring my submissive desires in February. So far I am liking what I am doing! I have a Master who has been living the lifestyle since he was eighteen, so has six years of experience under his belt.

So far we have tried bondage (shibari), spanking, whipping, ball gags, orgasm denial, nipple clamps, use of toys in sex, fisting...and more.

For all the Masters and submissives who are reading this...I am looking for more ways to please him. I went on the chat room last night and got some good advice....I had planned on surprising him when he got home, but he came home an hour early with a migraine, so I put those plans on hold. So if anyone else has ideas on how a sub can please her Dom, please leave me a reply!

And thanks, in advance!

welcome to the community!

wellcome to the site

we are so very happy to have you here, the forums are full of great information, as well as having a very nice personels section and chatroom

feel free to pm any of the staff or myself with conserns or questions, we are more than willing to lend a hand

hope to see more of you soon
have lots of fun exploring the site
hugs and kissess
denu

Hi :wave: Welcome to the Community! Enjoy!

patricia,
i enjoyed our talk lastnight, I myself and still exploring my limits with my Dom/Husband, if you ever just need someone to talk to about any of this feel free to send me a message. Perhaps we can give each other advice. Lots of luck with your Master! Have a great day!

satisfied

:welcomebo

hello and welcome

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Originally Posted by patricialynn

The first man I was with (the father of my children) told me my desires were sick and that I needed professional help...

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LOL...I had a wife like that :)


:wel to the Forums

Welcome to the Library. :)

Welcome and good luck on your journey.

Welcome on your journey to unlimited explorations.

welcome to the community, sorry we're a week late, and thanks to hawksinger for pointing the way. i'm a 39 year old father of 2 and i've been told i'm just a sick minded person, but she liked me that way. well for a while anyway. if it's been since february, you've just started on your journey, and i'm glad your enjoying whats been going on. i enjoy a serving girl aspect from a submissive, specially since it's football season, a game generally last about 3 hours, and the enjoyment of just having a person for all needs during the game is a terrific thought specially if they are dressed up as a cheerleader of my team. unfortunetly pittsburgh doesn't have cheerleaders, so a girl dressed up in the team colors shaking her (pom poms) around for me to amuse my self with during the game and commercials would be terrific. i would love being served a beer/mixed drink, food tray, playing around on the commercials, enjoying recieving oral when the game lags, or if i'm losing. i'm sure there are lots of other ideas that come from this line of thinking, maybe set up a submissives rewards or punishments as the game progresses, like clothes pins added for every point the opposing team scores, and removal of such for every point the favorite team scores. definitly reinforces the idea it's good for the favorite team to win. or vice versa if your actually for the other team, main thing is just don't get between the guy's line of sight to the tv. you could enjoy other aspects of bdsm while the game is going on. just a little seasonal advice from this football fan.

:wel

Hi and welcome to the forum. I am sure you will find it both fun and informative. Good luck as you explore your submissive side. I love it when I hear of someone becoming their true selves after supressing it for a long time. Hope you have lots of fun!

Wow, so many replies, thanks to all of you! And that was a good idea about the football season.....