Where to begin?

Hi everyone!

I'm a 20 year old student in Bristol, UK who recently discovered my submssive side. At the moment its all pretty new to me, and I guess i'm looking for someone to point me in the right direction. Its not exactly the kind of conversation you can have with your friends!! I'm not a big fan of relationships, but I'm beginning to feel jaded by the single life and the men that go along with it. It may sound ridiculous but i'm began to feel like something was missing when it came to sex, and I guess I found it. Its definately something i'd like to take further, so if anyone has any suggestions then please let me know!!

Looking forward to getting to know you!!

Lauren xx

Hello,
Welcome to the lifestyle. Since you're not really into the lifestyle or heavy relationships for that matter, I think for now you're best of reading up on any bdsm books, novels or whatever and getting a better feel of the scene. You could also visit the chat room, get to know a few members and even try doing the whole cyber thingy. Though if any, the most important piece of advice I would give would be to give your imagination more room to fly. Fantasize, and be open about it. That is the best way to find out your personal favourite kinks and so on.
Good luck, and know that you've just acknowledged one of the most satisfying and interesting cultures there are, so to speak.
Yours sincerely,
VP198

hey, im not that far away from you, currently live in Swindon. I would be more than happy to talk with you, just pm me.

Hi :wave: Welcome to the Community! i agree with vp...just take your time, hun and have fun!

Wellcome to the site!!!


We are so very happy to have you here. The forums are full of great information, as well as having a very nice personels section and chatroom.

There is also an awsome Tasking Society for those wishing to learn just how to give and or preform commands.

Feel free to pm any of the staff or myself with conserns or questions, we are more than willing to lend a hand.

Hope to see more of you soon.
Have lots of fun exploring the site!!

Hugs and kissess,
denuseri

hi from harrogate uk im new to scene myself but am interested in bdsm

Take your time c&k.

:wel to the forum and when you figure out what you're interested in... then start looking for someone to fill that need.

More people from the UK :)

Hello and :wel to the Forums

Welcome to the Library. :)

Welcome and good luck on your journey.

Hello and welcome to the library, :wave:

Good luck on your journey!

Hi and welcome to the site. I am sure you will find it fun and informative!

Hello and welcome. I'm in Salisbury and pretty new myself. Remain open minded and adventurous and READ everything that you can access. Have fun.

Hi and welcome.

A very hearty welcome from a Texas sub.

Welcome to the forums.

Hello and welcome