needed: CREATIVE public humiliation suggestions

Hai! :wave:
I'm new to this site & have been reading a lot of the threads here & (being a total humiliation whore) am looking for new ideas.

Master is a new Dom, so the extreme public participatory humiliations are not feesible at this time (for those interested try publicdisgrace dot com)

There are the basic groping in public, visible collar/cuffs & verbal humiliations ideas, but what are some others?

I am looking for creative suggestions that could humiliate me & not him. The problem is that for me to be humiliated I need the public reaction. But as he will be with me & I am a reflection of him & his needs I dont want him to be humiliated too.

any suggestions?

thanks so much!!
~ openlyrefined

A classic is to take you to a sex shop and have you bring, say, the biggest vibrator to the counter and ask the sales rep things like how long the batteries last and how powerful it is. Even if it's obvious that you're with him, people will just envy him for having a gf who's either a total slut, or prepared to look like one publicly to please him.

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Originally Posted by openlyrefined

I am looking for creative suggestions that could humiliate me & not him. The problem is that for me to be humiliated I need the public reaction. But as he will be with me & I am a reflection of him & his needs I dont want him to be humiliated too.

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Maybe this is over simplistic but who says they have to know you two are together? The task is created, you both go to the same public spot, he enters first and orders/browses/etc., you entire 5 minutes later, perform the task, get the humiliation and leave, he waits another 5 minutes (and gets to hear all of the "OMG I can't believe she did that!" comments) while you wait in the car (which i would think could add to the embarrassment in and of itself) and then he joins you and you leave.

Since public humiliation isn't my thing though... i may be completely off. :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by annie

Maybe this is over simplistic but who says they have to know you two are together? The task is created, you both go to the same public spot, he enters first and orders/browses/etc., you entire 5 minutes later, perform the task, get the humiliation and leave, he waits another 5 minutes (and gets to hear all of the "OMG I can't believe she did that!" comments) while you wait in the car (which i would think could add to the embarrassment in and of itself) and then he joins you and you leave.

Since public humiliation isn't my thing though... i may be completely off. :rolleyes:

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annie, that's awesome! Neither of us (or anyone on the other site forums) ever considered this!

thank you!

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Originally Posted by openlyrefined

Hai! :wave:
I'm new to this site & have been reading a lot of the threads here & (being a total humiliation whore) am looking for new ideas.

Master is a new Dom, so the extreme public participatory humiliations are not feesible at this time (for those interested try publicdisgrace dot com)

There are the basic groping in public, visible collar/cuffs & verbal humiliations ideas, but what are some others?

I am looking for creative suggestions that could humiliate me & not him. The problem is that for me to be humiliated I need the public reaction. But as he will be with me & I am a reflection of him & his needs I dont want him to be humiliated too.

any suggestions?

thanks so much!!
~ openlyrefined

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Hi! Well, I am an extreme humiliation slut too AND it takes a lot to humiliate me so we go to some pretty extreme measures and play some hard core games in order to acheive that for us. I very much understand the need for public reaction, as I too need that. What we do (and I'm not suggesting this for a new couple, new to bdsm, btw... I just thought that you could tame these ideas down a few thousand notches lol)- anyway, what we do is cucking. He openly and brazenly cheats on me both in front of me and away from me and sometimes even purposefully deceptively (lying to me about where he's headed out to when he's going out to fuck another girl, for instance). However, just that isn't enough for me... I need the more public reaction so, within our neighborhood, to our friends, and at stores that we frequent; he has made sure that the cucking is not only common knowledge, but also makes it clear to people when he talks about it how much I love it. He also keeps most of his sexual encounters to within a couple blocks of home, and the above mentioned store clerks. The bottom line is that he is working at weaving a net around me of all these women he has fucked, so that I can't step out to check the mail without knowing that the people who see me are very likely to know about what we do... and that I get off on it. In fact, at this very moment, he is 2 houses down fucking the very attractive woman who lives on the 1st floor. So basically, not only am I humiliated by the cucking because of the general public view of it as being constantly cheated on; I am also humiliated by the fact that everyone around here knows that I'm getting off on him doing this to me- in other words... he's publically outing me to the general nilla community around us. Now... how can this be applied to your situation, I genuinely have no clue... that depends on how far you are willing to go for your kink needs, and exactly what your humiliation needs entail. For some being led around a 24/7 Walmart in the middle of the night on a leash is humiliating. For me, knowing that everyone who sees me knows my "secret" is humiliating. Additionally, knowing that I am not enough to satisfy him can be humiliating. I mean, on a logical level... no woman could. My sex drive is through the roof and we play constantly, but I can't wave a magic wand and be dozens of different looking, new women. That is what he needs. We have found a solution for both of our deepest needs in a creative way. However, we are very fortunate to be that in our life, we can pull this off with no negative side effects. Anyway, that's my 822 cents lol.

I have tied a nude slave with intricate rope bondage, ordered delivery (food) and made them answer the door nude, except for the bonds.. Done that a few times, *evil grin*

any ideas on self humilation?

expanding on the idea that you two are not together, your Dom entering the store first and then you, you can do tasks at the supermarket...buying a big cucumber, condoms and personal lubricant like ky, and nothing else, while you have a bullet inside you whirring away

There is also buying things with slut money, money that has nasty things written on it, like "I am a dirty sex toy" or "I like being slutty" in bright letters as you hand the money to the clerk the words showing

of course both of these you are dressed rather provokatively...no panties, bra...well you get the idea

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Originally Posted by muskrat3o3

any ideas on self humilation?

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you could rub your own cum on yourself, genitals, stomach chest, in your hair...and then leave it there for the day

Or mark on your body with a marker, like graffiti,

arrows to nipples...pinch these, on your buttocks...spank here, arrow pointing to anus..fuck this...or "fucktoy of _____" on your chest in pink letters, well you get the idea

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Originally Posted by muskrat3o3

any ideas on self humilation?

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Any task or predicament that has been suggested for someone's Owner to impose on hir, provided it doesn't need the intervention of the Owner, can just as effectively be imposed on you by yourself.

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Originally Posted by muskrat3o3

any ideas on self humilation?

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I suggest not reading the previous answers, nor exploring the forums for the myriad similar threads, conversations, requests, and answers...

:hubba:

And asking if anyone has any ideas. ;)

One of the humiliating things about public humiliation is the element of suprise. if i tell you and you tell your master, then it will not be a surprise to you. how can you DOMINATE guy hear these suggestions w/o you ?


Maybe he can read some of the stories about humiliation.


Looking forward to hearing from him.

We have a slightly different take on "Public Humiliation". Our games a little more discrete with the possibility of being caught out. My Mistress will have me escort her to the grocery or shopping or whatever, either dressed in a bra and panties under my street clothes (making sure of course that those clothes are tight enough that if someone was paying attention, then they'd know my perdicament). Sometimes, she'll have me wear clips until we get home (again, if you are watching, they are visible) or a combination of the two (pegs in a bra wile eating at a restaraunt...most uncomfortable) Maybe starting with the possibility, rather than the certainty of detection is the way to go.

When she does insist on detection, it is usually at our local adult store. I am to stay behind her as she shops for toys for me. I am to put up whatever she chooses for me and pay for them, burt she talks to the clerk, I don't speak. Some of her conversations are quite long, and reveal more detail than I would like, but then that is the point right? to take one out of their comfort zone

I swear this wasn't me. But it was a friend who lives in the same city. She was driven to a grocery store with a list of items to buy. He had her do the shopping wearing her collar, and after she finished she made dinner. Being see in public like that was hard for her, but good at the same time. Good for both of them later.

Here is an idea that i'm usually told to do is wear a short short short skirt and no undies underneath, then wear a white blouse that is tight with non bra mmmmm then usually has me get stuff where i have to lean over to get it so then whole pussy is showing and ass... it's humilating. Make sure there is a dildo in ur pussy and a butt plug in ur ass too...

also how about when ridding in car wear no clothing at all so he can play when he pleases... but when u get somewhere to get dressed u have to stand outside the car to do it.

Buy some cheap white t-shirts and some permanent and washable markers.

He can write what he likes on the t-shirt and make you wear it in public.
If you use washable he can reuse the t-shirts.
some things to write

"Wink if you think i'm a slut"
"I am not wearing underware"
"I wank too much"
"I swallow"

He can also write on your skin - e.g. "Property of xxxxxx"

He can make you go on-line and show your self to strangers.
He can get you to post a personal Ad proposing sex for money or anything else to humiliate you. With photos if He wants.

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Originally Posted by muskrat3o3

any ideas on self humilation?

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wear your slacks or jeans over a pair of pantyhose. make sure the slacks are too short, that is short enough that your nyloned ankles are in plain view
then go shopping, go ride a bus, go some place public where you'll be seen

My house looks over a busy street and the kitchen has the best view.
I have a large beam overhead with cast iron hooks used for hanging cast iron pans. Before my girlfriend came over I walked down the street and checked back to be sure nothing in the kitchen was visible even if headlights shone into it.
First I tied her wrists together and hooked them on a hook while she was fully clothed. A check showed she was invisible.
Next I stripped her and left her hanging naked from the hook. She could see cars going by and when their headlights struck the windows the illusion was that they lit her up like a spotlight.

That's how we got started.

Later I tied a ring to her hair and we walked around a shopping mall with it plainly visible. Got a few grins.