Okay...awkward introduction time!!

Hello everyone! :wave:

I joined this site for one reason... to find out if the lifestyle of BDSM is for me. I'll admit that there is a lot about this lifestyle that I have read about and fantasized about... I find some of it very exciting and erotic. Some things just aren't for me!

My problem is, I'm not exactly sure how to classify myself! I know I am not the Dominant... but not sure if I could be totally submissive either. I mean, I have found a wonderful man, who is willing to gently show me the way, but this is where I get some things confused! :confused:

What, if any, difference is there between a submissive and a slave? If I am into certain things, but not all, do I still have to bow down and "grin and bear it", so to speak? Or do I have a say in what I will perform for my master?

I love to please, but not sure how far I am willing to go... I guess only time will tell that story! That is why I am not sure about being submissive, or if I just like kinky, rough sex! :bondage:

Anyways, I am glad to be able to be a part of this site... and deff. look forward to hearing any feedback! Thanks! :)

:wel peach

Rather than the whole litany, I suggest you read threads on subs v. slaves, limits, and communication.

Many are submissive only in the bedroom, others within a wider venue. Figuring out where your interests lie is half the fun.

Good luck.

:welcomebo to the forum Peach. I'm sure that you'll like it here. Were a bunch of crazy, but very nice people. Just look around and I'm sure that you'll find what you're looking for. For me it sounds like you might be a switch.
;rose;

Hello and welcome to the library

Hello and welcome!

Hi :wave: Welcome to the Library! Enjoy!

Hi Peach,
Covering the whole area od what you can and should do it far more that I will attempt first rattle out of the box.

Perhaps you should consider being a switch so that you can experience both sides of the life-style.

That works for me bit i am not everyone.
Frj111 ... :)

A very hearty welcome from a Texas sub.

Hello from another confused peach!

Wellcome to the site!!!

We are so very happy to have you here. The forums are full of great information, as well as having a very nice personels section and chatroom.

There is also an awsome Tasking Society for those wishing to learn just how to give and or preform commands.

Feel free to pm any of the staff or myself with conserns or questions, we are more than willing to lend a hand.

Hope to see more of you soon.
Have lots of fun exploring the site!!


Hugs and kissess,
denuseri

Well hello!

There's lots of great information here. But as a general guideline, "submissive" does not mean "doormat".

Why worry about labels, anyhow? Don't be too quick to put yourself into a box labelled "slave" or "submissive". Try new things, and above all have fun with it. Do what feels right, reject whatever doesn't feel like "you".

Good luck!

Welcome to the Library. :)

Welcome and enjoy your journey.

Welcome to the site. I hope you find it fun and informative!

Hello and welcome from South Georgia! If you ever have any questions or just want to chat, feel free to drop us a line :) Once again welcome and have fun!

~Elghinn