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I have searched back a fair way and cant find anything related, forgive me if i have missed anything.
Mr B*****d has recently been in purchase of such an item, im excited and scared to hand over such control to him.
My question is, fellow subs, how far do you let your very very very 'significant other' go?
Personally? As far as she wants. :p
I couldn't wear it 24/7. I don't even like wearing underwear. However I would enjoy wearing it overnight once in a while. Having him in complete control of when I get to feel anything and if I get to feel anything. Even the idea is turning me on.
I agree I would have a heard time wearing it 24/7 but if my Master asked me to I would manage it. It all depends what your limits and your turn-ons are.
Maybe just try talking with him about it, I'm sure he wouldn't make you start out 24/7 and would let you get used to it a little at a time.
Hope it works out for you.
Sana
My Master knows how far he can push me, how many boundries he can cross without pushing me too far, and because I know that he is going to take care of me, and I trust him, I let him go as far as he wishes.Quote:
Originally Posted by fluffy
oh the idea turns me on alrightQuote:
Originally Posted by Kahlann
Definitely something I would like to try, even other a long period. Being inexperienced I don't know if I would still say this after doing it, but that is what trying is for. Wearing a chastity belt 24/7, even for a long period of time, is certainly a turn on for me. Something I am more than willing to try, and hope that I would enjoy.
I have a chastity belt, but haven't used it yet. It's not elaborate so I can still get my fingers inside of it.
Chastity belts, mean orgasm denial for me, and I don't deal well with that.
While I can go a day wearing one, I won't wear it longer unless I am allowed an orgasm .
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Originally Posted by Kahlann
i agree other then i would wear it 24/7 if Master wished or if Sir wished and Master approved{bet i know who would hold the key in that one giggles}.. the thought totally turns me on.. i guess it doesn't help i loved to be controlled by them both and the thought of being restrained in anyway just about for long periods of time...totally makes me melt..
Just my opinion
hugs
snow
I was made to wear one once. It was certainly painful because I don't really have good control over if I get an erection or not. I would not say that it is a hard limit but its not something I am itching to do again that's for sure.
Firstly many thanks to all that replied, a little support went a very long way with finding my courage to submit.
after spending 48 hrs handing complete control to Mr B******d i can truely say its been a most enlightening, occasionally humilliating and frustrating, experience.
im sure its not for some, and at times i was sure it wasnt for me.
its another experience i have survived and have had the chance to thank Mr B******d for.
My mistress secured me in chastity belt as we played.She declared me all hers.Now she carries it to a point of punishment,even to the point of wearing it to work.
We use chastity often. As a male I find it extremely submissive to lock myself up and hand the key to my Mistress. Normally I am locked up for a day or so. The longest was from a Friday untill Sunday. While this was a challenge to me the rewards afterwards were well worth any suffering I went through. The device we use allows for proper hygene and bathroom usage, although I have to sit, so long term is possible. My question would be to the females. How do you perform hygene or bathroom usage while locked up? I have never seen a device that would allow for these activities for a female.
well in my recent incarceration, he chose a time whilst we were mostly together so i could ask him for release.
but the within the time he had control, i did have an evening out without him and had hold everything in, but there was a hygene slit to allow for accidents? impossible to fit your fingers thru to masturbate.
my Dom states that "if I can't trust you without a chastity belt then why am I with you?"...we have a deep trust in each other. If you look up manogamy my photo would be there....
:-)
its not the case he cant trust me?
its the physical manifestation of control, i was happy to hand it over to him, and it made him exceptionally happy to take it.
because Mr B*******d knows best.
i've been looking at these two devices, the CockTrap, and the Kal's Teeth Bracelet, with and without the urethral wand. Has anyone had any experience with any of these products. If i got the KTB i would be getting the mild version and be aiming for 24/7. Both are at malechastitynow.com i know the KTB has been around for awhile, then was discontinued Any thoughts or experiences on either device?
Thanks for your help,
blake
i've been looking at these two devices, the CockTrap, and the Kal's Teeth Bracelet, with and without the urethral wand. Has anyone had any experience with any of these products. If i got the KTB i would be getting the mild version and be aiming for 24/7. Both are at malechastitynow.com i know the KTB has been around for awhile, then was discontinued Any thoughts or experiences on either device?
Thanks for your help,
blake
*This is what i've learned so far, mostly from other newsgroups/e-mail lists.
*Any first hand input on 24/7 use of either device would be appreciated.
*There is a discussion on here from maybe a month ago about the health risks of devices with urethral insertion. They are not designed for 24/7 wear. Infection is a very high risk. I know their FAQs say other wise, but look at people who must wear catheters. As far as the KTB I am not sure how good one really is. I have only used them for casual CBT play.
*This is what Nexo, that maker of the cocktrap had to say, about the CockTrap,
*"Is this risky play? YES. Is this highly risky play? Any perception is relative to the person perceiving. What's risky to one is not risky to another.
*I fabricate a similar device to the one in the url you provided. It's called the CockTrap.
*I've sold approximately 200 of these over the course of the last two years and have not received one report of any buyer having received an infection. A friend of mine made and sold Prince Albert Wands for more than ten years, and he told me in all that time nobody ever reported an infection to him either.
*In short, the average length of male urethra is six inches long, which makes it less prone to urethral infection than women's urethra's.
The CockTrap is made entirely of stainless steel, and I take utmost care to make sure ALL pieces are smooth, with no sharp edges.
I fabricate so that there are approximately three inches of urethra behind the point where the tube ends inside the body, keeping it relatively far from the bladder.
As with any sort of edge play, the best thing you can do is educate yourself as much as possible, then make your decision based on the information you've gathered...
All the best, Nexo"
* If anyone has any experience with the KTB for 24/7 use it'd be appreciated. My biggest problem is i don't have great dexterity in my left hand which pretty much means i'm stuck with one hand, and with being in a long distance relationship no help to put the device on. i've tried multiple devices but you'd be surprised how hard they are to put on with one hand.
Thanks again for your help, blake
*Not familiar with the Cocktrap, do you have a link? As for the KTB, that's not going to happen 24/7. Suggest you look at something more traditional.
*Both are at malechastitynow.com As for 24/7 on the KTB under sizing it says "The mild version is by far the most popular version sold and is meant for 24/7 wear. " Any thoughts?
*OK, I do remember seeing the Cocktrap before. Interesting device. I suspect that neither the Cocktrap or especially the KTB would be suited for 24/7 wear. My guess would be that a day or two would be the limit before things turned from uncomfortable to painful. Or, things could get really ugly. But, some people enjoy pain. And that's perfectly OK.
*Either way, good luck to you and please keep us posted
*I had a "Cock Trap" for awhile. While I was able to escape and have a orgasm while wearing it I still think it has the potential to be a great device for some men. AND it is quite comfortable (I couldn't wear it very long because my erections are quite intense and my penis is quite large). If your penis isn't more than 6 inches when erect I think it should be fine. As far as escaping you need to be quite determined have good dexterity and no erection.
*I am just on the nose of being six in. As for the dexterity I have the one hand, but not the other to due to cerebral palsy, and wouldn't want any scaring. It does seem that one can get the KTB, and a urethral wand, almost identical to the cocktrap, the wand itself would prevent most erections, but the KTB would be there for backup. Any thoughts?
blake
*I own a KTB and have used it occasion. Note that I got it many years ago, and it was not from malechastitynow.com. I'm a "grower" and not a "shower" and whilst it was fine when flaccid (I really couldn't feel it), it was very, very painful when erect. I had a girlfriend who enjoyed teasing me in it and watching me squirm on the floor in agony. Definitely not something I would wear 24x7 -- night times would be far too interrupted and painful.
*There are several other things that I found detracted from it:
*It was difficult and fairly painful to put on. I had a non-hinged one and it required a bit of force to open, and you had to be pretty careful to ensure nothing too sensitive got pinched in things. Holding it together whilst working the padlock onto it was difficult.
*I could masturbate in it if I was really careful and didn't pump the shaft but just focussed on the head. I did orgasm in it once just to see if I could, in the shower just using soap and water.
* I could slide out eventually if I used lube and pressed down carefully on the shaft and eased a bit of skin past some of the teeth. Maybe a tighter one wouldn't have this issue, but then it would have been continually painful.
* The "teeth" were normal staples from a staple gun (well, that's what they looked like) and started rusting. As they would occasionally dig in enough to draw flecks of blood (particularly when attempting to get hard) I didn't want that near my skin.
* i do have a question, as the KTB that you have was from a different manufacturer, being the original most likely, did they offer degrees of severity, or was it a one severity, and take a measurement type device? From what i can surmise from the the original it was awfully painful. The one review that i'm going on for the new one said that it was his favorite chastity device to wear 24/7 as it was "noticeable" when he got erection, and almost not when he did not. That's what caught my eye. The review said it took a good week of determination to get used to it, but his body quickly adjusted, to both the pain and the stimuli of the pain, stopping the erection rather than increasing it. Unfortunately i can't find that review again, but that was the jist of it. Thanks again.
blake
* Any first hand input on 24/7 use of either device would be appreciated.