hola

Hello everybody, I am new to this site. I am currently engaged and is trying to slowly introduce this lifestyle to my beloved. Hopefully I will get some helpful tips on what not to do and what to do. My relationship with her is my first and only relationship in which bdsm was not part of it. Wish me luck.

Welcome to the site!

Be patient, take your time and have honest comunication with her.

There are a lot of misconceptions that the unintiated have about bdsm. I reccomend that you bring her here to the Library Forums as well, and remind her that alltough the stories are fun to read, they are fantasy.

If she has no experience with the Lifestyle it can seem overwhelming.

Hello, Welcome to the Library!

Hugssss
xx rosie

I am not sure I should direct her to this site right away denuseri. I think the banner pictures may scare her off. But thanks for the suggestion.