24 M Looking For Southern California Submissive / Slave

Hello,

I live in Southern California and I'm looking to find a submissive. I'm fine with starting out online, getting to know each other of course.

What I Want
First and foremost, I want a friend. A companion. Someone I can share movies, video games, and intellectual conversations with. I love to talk and share ideas. If I can someone I connect with without a d/s aspect, the d/s part of a relationship will naturally fall in to place.

As far as what I look for in a submissive I love girls who like to please. A sexy woman is a woman who acquiesces to the desires of others. I love the "I don't like doing this, but I'll do it because I put aside my wants and accomodate yours" spirit.

I know there's a girl out there who is reading this and saying "that sounds like me". I look forward to hearing from you.

Oh, and feel free to ask questions about anything.

Sincerely,
Kole

poor poor Bravo man ;)

I'm not quite sure what you are trying to say. Could you please clarify?

That would simply be all too kind of me, now wouldn't it

You're submissive, isn't kindness in your nature little nerd?

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Hello,

My name is Cole and I’m a 24 year old dominant male.

I have been looking for a submissive for quite some time now and met some wonderful people during my search. Unfortunately, I have not met someone who I click or connect with enough to make a go at an actual relationship where power is exchanged willingly between boy and girl. I want that relationship.

I want to make it perfectly clear who I’m not. I am not rude. I will not expect you to submit to me simply because I have a capital D in my “BDSM Role” box. I am not a jerk.

I am a gentleman. I am kind. I am caring. I am looking for a relationship, not a one night stand.

Me
I’m smart. Not math smart, but witty smart. I’m intuitive the way a psychologist is intuitive. I love to look at people and examine their desires and motives. I love to understand how people work. I’m like an amateur mental engineer. I also love to understand and examine myself in much the same way I examine other people. EVERYTHING people say has subtleties and connotations to be interpreted. It’s fun to decode the full spectrum of human communication.

I love telling stories. When I feel comfortable with you or your friends it will be hard to get me to shut up. I love talking about the things I’m doing or did, especially if they’re funny. I love getting a laugh, even if it’s cheap or cheesy, wait, especially if it’s cheesy. An awesome girl would love to just drive with me so I can talk and work out some of my ideas. Believe me, I have lots of them.

I suppose you’re wondering what my d/s personality is like. Well, there isn’t one until there’s trust. It takes a lot of trust for me to accept any power you may or may not choose to surrender to me. Believe me, I realize how much of a responsibility it can be to be in charge of caring for and protecting a submissive. It’s something I take very seriously.

I do like many things, among them protocol, rules, nipple / breast play, spanking, hair pulling, and about a thousand other things. My thoughts are that the d/s part of the relationship will probably fall in to place if we have a solid connection going. Feel free to ask me any questions you may have about my sexual interests or how I would conduct myself in a d/s relationship.

I know I have to be speaking somebody’s language here. I know I have to be. If you are in the Southern California, preferably Los Angeles area, please contact me. I’ve been waiting here for you.

I'm not in LA, but you are speaking my language. Would you be interested in talking?

Hello,

I'm a college student seeking a submissive companion. My studies come before everything else, but after that I'm all fun and games. In a vanilla context I like going to movies, cooking, video games, and talking about philosophy, religion, and politics. I'm definitely a talker and if you get me going, I might not stop.

I'm a bit of a sadist, and I love the idea of having the authority to physically correct a submissive. I do respect limits and the level of pain is always negotiable. I like rules and regulations. I love chastity.

In the overall scheme of things we'll be normal people with an understanding that I'm in charge and in the end, what I say goes. I'm in Southern California and you should be as well.

Looking forward to hearing from you.
Kole

Hello,

I've been here a couple times already. I found some wonderful people, but they all live way too far to do anything meaningful.

So, I'm here looking for MY girl. The girl that lives within 3 hours of Los Angeles and willing to drive half way to meet up, or alternate between driving to meet.

I am. Well, I'm a lot of things. First and foremost I'm a 24 year old student who quit his job to go to college. I work part time and I support myself.

I like the world. I like news. I like reading. I like knowing things and collecting information.

You, well, I suppose this is the part where you get to wow me.

Go ahead and ask me any other questions you have.