Sub-liminal...hat I hope

Being a Dom is so much a part of who I am that it feels like there is nothing else. There is an emptiness I feel when I am without a submissive, without someone to command, without someone to call my own little one. I am willing to match the level of commitment shown to me, and also be conscious of what discrete measures are requested. I am not seeking to find someone who believes she knows all there is to know about being a sub, experience is good, but not when you let it dictate how you submit after you have given over control to your Dom. I believe that a good Dom should have the patience and understanding to teach and guide a submisive and also the imagination and sense of self enough to grasp the attention of an experienced one as well.

For now I will say just a little about myself, for starters I have experience in both online and real life. I am a patient teacher though I do have structures and rules that I want my sub to follow. I will listen but I will not be told what to do, I make decisions according to what best suites both of us as long as it does not infringe on our outside life, discretion is always key. I would describe myself as caring, though I do not let that aspect get the best of me - meaning I will not let my sub get away with things just because.

There may be many other things I could say about myself but I leave that up to anyone that proffers an interest in my post, you may ask what you will.

still searching
sad but true....

well what are you looking for? I know you looking for a sub, what exactly are you looking for male, female, trans, jellyfish?

well I am searching for female submissive

though the jellyfish might not be too bad...hmmm...

jellyfish are good, they are soft and strong and also has tentacles and can pack quit a sting

lol true

hee heee

Hello there. Are we finally going to chat?

the most responsive I have had on a post and still no takers
lol

lol well sorry I am not female >> but if I was I be taken already

lol, you might find a lot of dommes just gunning for a sub

i found a few fakers or people that like to disappear.. I think i may have found one now.. not on this site tho Collar Me I found her and she on fetlife

yes i get a lot that disappear too and many fakers, but congrats to you

Perhaps if you participated on the forum more, you'd reveal some of your opinions and perspectives, your experience and experiences, your kinks and methods... and get more interest from those who tend not to trust online meet-ups.

It took me a full two years of participating before people started to take interest with me. I've now met with nearly 30 Library members. Each "successful" (meaning safe,) meeting led others to try.

I even returned from one of my road trips to find that my local munch group had a new couple who "knew me" by my library reputation... and that led to more fun.

thanks for the advice

are you still looking for a sub? let me kno