24 f sub looking to explore a bit deeper

i'm searching for a strong and patient Dominant who can bring me out of my shell and help me explore more of my submissive side. Someone between 30/45 years old who is unattached, intelligent, and looking for more than just play. Also, One who is an all around great guy who can balance the structure/discipline of D/s and the fun/playfulness of a DD/lg. Finding Someone near my location would be great but online will be fine. i am open to the possibility of it developing into more.

i am not new to being a sub. i've had a couple of D/s relationships but neither were quite healthy. i know there is an affectionate sub inside but bringing her out can sometimes be a challenge. i am especially interested in the emotional/psychological aspects of the D/s relationship. i want Someone who can learn me so much that they know what I want better than i do. i want to feel safe with Someone who dares me to let go and explore fantasies i wouldn't otherwise try. And Someone who will give me a good spanking when i get out of line.

i am 24 years old, mother of one (if children are limits then i am sorry) who resides in East Tn, US. i am shy but can be outspoken sometimes a bit too much but am willing and loyal. i am short, 5'2, and considered "BBW", so if weight is an issue please overlook this. i enjoy mommy duties, crafting, gardening, family time, and getting out breathing the fresh air.

53yo dom here let me know if you would like to.....

I might be able to help you as long as after reading this you feel up to it. You will have to be intelligent can write and be devoted.

My experience is that arousal and release are more about a psychological connection with another. Language is critical, the right whisper can drive one insane and crave for more. One wrong word can put out the fire. Tease and anticipation are wonderful tools if used in a respectful and trusting manner.

There was another and I who have been exploring this side of each othe for some time. One word can evoke desires, posssion and anticipation. Sensual agonising tease awaiting the next message that might trigger relief. Orgasms can occur unexpectedly. It's exciting

The trick is to discover what is the others main communication mode, audio( hearing) visual ( seeing) or kinaesthetic ( feeling) Once you know you that you only have to write the right erotic words and the other will construct what they need to see feel or hear in their own way.

Im an intelligent discerning older man. love art music poetry and eastern philosophy. Indeed I took i nstruction in Tibetan Buddhism for three years. Being sensitive and creative I can get into your mind.

The subs Ive known wanted desperately for someone to help them express their inner slut in a safe secure and respectful manner. It was a spiritual experience. Yes we spoke of dirty things and lots of cum, me making them cum and them making me cum by doing and saying things they discovered I liked. Yes I set tasks because that's what they craved for, to serve. In real life Im a counsellor and hypnotherapist. You can't get anyone to do something they don't want to. Its not what I say that's important it's what the other hears that's useful for them that plants seeds and heals them

But equally we shared beautiful poetry paintings and music and romance. There might have been nipple clamps and scenarios of dungeons and debauchery but we always ended with kisses.

The goal was not to break rather to help them break down personal barriers created by society due to the judgement mind. It was not imprisoning them in a cage but helping them to discover the key to release themselves and find freedom of expression. There can be something healthy about role plays and giving acknowledgment and life to ones shadow self. In that way you make it your friend. The other option is to repress it and it becomes a prowling tiger in ones mind. Everyone has a shadow side.

Lust and love are two sides of the same golden coin. One side lust is sprinkled with trust and respect, love with friendship and giving.

I prefer to be the older man who has a relationship with his young sub and make her his slave over time if she's worthy.

The chat function on here doesn't work with my Ipad so it would need to be on yahoo messenger. Email and voice recordings would be necessary too.

If you want to commence the journey leave a short message here and then your first task is to send me a photo you'd think Id like and tell me more about you. My email addy is trajanfirst@ymail.com

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
there is a field. I'll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass,
the world is too full to talk about.
Ideas, language, even the phrase "each other" doesn't make any sense.
Rumi

An Older Australian man

I Have had a couple of subs girl. I would be happy to teach you the BDSM lifestyle/Please email me If Interested............My email addy Is...scotlad219@yahoo.com