Grr and hi

I'm new here and just glad I found this. I have a sort of alternate lifestyle. I'm married and my husband is a horrible dom which usually ends with me telling him what to do. He's much older than me and is open to us having an open relationship. Essentially I don't really get what I need physically. It's a bit of a trial and error thing. I would still consider myself new, though. I have only been in one true dom sub relationship though it has been who I am for many years. Nice to meet you all.