How to tease a tied up man?

hey :)
so me and my partner are into light BDSM scenes.. we are switching the roles from time to time, and now is my turn.
well .. i am going to to have 2 scenes and i do not really know what to do in those, i'd like it if you could give me any ideas or advice on what and how to do stuff
1. i am going to have him dressed in panties , a skirt and a bra. than i'll have him do stuff for me like washing the dishes, than i'll have him shave my legs and pubic hair . and here i'm stuck
2. i am going to tie him to a chair and blind fold him, what can i do with him? how can i tease him?
we have a wip and a ball gag

thanks aalot to all the helpers :)

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and here i'm stuck

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I had to giggle... If you've got the guy shaving you, that's exactly the moment you Shouldn't be stuck. *grins* Having him in exactly That spot, it should be kinda obvious where to go to next...

Now I'm not a Domme but my Topping experience tells me part of the dynamic could be him being denied orgasm(s---if you're lucky;) )
Perhaps he could erm...release some of your pent up frustrations.
Or how about sitting on his face...having to test with his tongue whether he did his shaving task properly. If he is dressed all femme why not let him do your nails? Insist he does his?
Whatever you like actually... This is about having things done to you that you enjoy.

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2. i am going to tie him to a chair and blind fold him, what can i do with him? how can i tease him?
we have a whip and a ball gag

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What about sensory play? Feathers? Ice? Hot/cold stones(of you have experience with those) Wax? Some delightful CBT. There are some great sites explaining how to do that safely.
Tease him to the edge of orgasm and deny.

This scene seems to be about what you like to do to him (and not having done to you, as the other scene). So, what does he enjoy? Consider his limits/likes/dislikes.
Oh.... And do Not for a moment think a blow job is a purely submissive 'thing'. Consider that you have his most tender bits between your teeth... Who's the boss now?

I feel I want to caution against doing these things if you are not FULLY aware of how to do them safely. And how to communicate to each other if he has the ball gag in.
Safe, sane, consensual. Risk aware.


Ooh, and.... A word to the wise... If you are switching roles soon...
Remember that 'Turnabout is fair play' :d

Thanks a bunch :)
you really gave me a few points to think about ^^

I'm sure some our resident (much-loved and respected) Dommes will have excellent ideas to add. Hoping They will perhaps do so?

But....remember.... After-actio reports are always most welcome! :d :d :d

What a delicious topic...

How I would tease, involves setting the room the scene, I have a penchant for my dining room. A well padded table, set with a red cloth and chains around the legs. I dim the room, not too dark though, just enough to stay safe as I work. I light candles, scented, a flicker of flame is very sensual.

I would remove the shirt and deliberately drag my hand and nails across his bare back as I bid he lay face down, his bottom pert at the end of the table. I like to cuff hands to begin with, and instruct them to be handed to me. I take my time as all my actions are slow, un-hurried, luxuriously delivered. I stroke the wrist just prior to placing the cuffs or rope, I want to draw attention to the sensation to that area as I apply them.

I run my hands into the nape of the neck, moving around the table, from each side, nibbling and caressing with my lips. Reaching across, I allow the weight of my breasts and the perk of my engorged nipples to make contact from within my clothing as I touch. I speak gently reminding him that he is there for my pleasure as well as his. I place one hand onto the bottom, over the trousers lifting the buttocks, separately and repeat whilst, at the same time as I stroke my other hand, nails into the dip of the spine, tracing patterns across the back, covering the area.

Standing tightly behind him running my hand under, between his legs, stroking, enticing as I tease, nipping between fingers gently ensuring arousal. I search for response listening attentively to his breathing. Indulgent of my actions as I stand tightly pressed behind him, undoing the trousers and underwear as one, allowing them to fall seductively to his ankles. I like to wear heels and either a silk, satin or velvet dress whilst knowing my perfume is evident as I press my hips deeply against the now bared bottom. The sensation of my clothing enhancing my position and contact as his bottom is bare, he has the feel of my hips and clothing in contrast to his former clothing.

From here on, is personal choice, whatever you wish.......

Sett

*wipes drool from my mouth*

Thank You Miss-Sett for that very erm ...enlightening visual...

I was thinking of replying, but I'm not sure there's much left to say after those two responses. Fans my face...

get his wallet out of his pants, pull out all cash and credit cards, tell him you are going to the mall and will be back in a few hours....

just__ine has some damn good advice

*grins*
Thanks slaveboy 6.
It's such fun to 'think naughty thoughts'.

There was a time in r/l when a Domme tied me up so tight, that the only things left untied were my cock and balls. Lying face-up on a bed, there was nothing I could do to stop her from teasing and tormenting my privates to a faretheewell. And that is precisely what she did. Oh it was fun.

I also want to give a shout-out to Mrs-Sett (Kuve). Great stuff

a guy in panties is hot hahaah:love_heart: