Alice entered the rabbits hole, please help her out? :)

Hey everyone,
Obviously I'm new around here..Aaaand new to this whole thing too..
I'll be honest, I could never really quite understand the lifestyle as well as the practice..you see I hate hate hate violence..even violence made with the others consent, doesn't make much difference to me..
That said and out of the way - I do enjoy a though of being in control. I have been told before on numerous occasions that I would make a good dom - I personally have NO idea why. Yes some scenes (that do NOT include pain or violence) I do find a huge turn-on. Not all though, and I guess to each his own, I've always been tolerant to this I guess I am just here to figure out whether it is for me or not at all and I hope I've come to the right place, if not, correct me.

A bit about myself:

I'm a female, bisexual but with a strong lean towards females, so girls, where relationships go - you're always welcome..guys..depends on my mood pretty much.

That's about all. Nice to be here and well, HI everyone :)

Welcome to the site... I hope you find your joy here, may be worth looking into service & objectification for ways to express your desire for control without violence, maybe chastity too? Have a look around, talk to people, you never know what you might find!