Looking for the right woman or women!

Hello,

I am a man with an over controlling wife who is also having an afair. she knows that I will never leave. she says that Iam not affectionate enough for her and that i ignore her. I just want to find a woman, or women that I can share sex with!

I enjoy sex and it may be the only time I can connect with a woman.

I am not very confident; however I do not enjoy being told what to do.

So I think that I need some coaching getting what I want. I have no problem telling others what to do and how to do it.

I only lack control around her!

Can a kind submissive woman or women help?