North New Jersey female submissive seeking mistress

I have never served as a submissive before, but like being submissive in the bedroom. I don't think I'm a lifestyle sub, but I want to learn more about how to be a good submissive in the bedroom. I want a Mistress who is willing to teach me, mentor me, go slow and help me find what I want/need. I am looking for a woman to help me explore me and maybe I can help her learn about herself.

Prefer real-life meetings at some point. Open to suggestions/advice/various scenarios.