Time for the ghost to become tangible
Time for me to open myself a little as I have made a few posts and been reading and learning a great deal from you all.
My wife, smackers, has already introduced herself so I do not need to say anything about my little Toy :)
I am late 30's, quiet by nature and had never really taken part in any serious BDSM until recently. We got an album buy a group we saw do a song on a TV show. On getting the album we found many of the lyrics had BDSM overtones, unsubtle in many cases, and after a bit we both realised how horney it made us both. That resulted in a week long, mental and physical session that made us feel like kids again. Pandora’s box has been opened, and I doubt it can now be closed…
;whip
Looking back at that first week makes me realise how little I understood about the Dom mindset but I have learnt quickly and now feel far more comfortable doing and taking what I feel I need in a session and giving out punishment when it must be given to help my Toy understand what I expect of her.
We do switch a little, as I love fear and pain myself but on the whole I love the whole Dom feel. There is a strength it makes you feel that is so seductive.
Well that’s a bit about me, can't believe I posted that :)
