To pose a question for all. What is your favorite way of punishment for a slave who disobeys? Please give details!
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To pose a question for all. What is your favorite way of punishment for a slave who disobeys? Please give details!
cane. . . . . on the ass and the back of the thighs. . . . no preparation, no foreplay. . . . .
well it depends on the slave..... see the caning would be something i would enjoy... being a pain slut and all.
the best punishment i ever had....lol yeah oxymoron... best punishment... ok well most effective punishment was when i was forced to sit in a closet for 30 mins, in the dark. i was completely ignored for 30 mins. i'm terrified of the dark and i can NOT STAND being ignored for any reason. i wasnt allowed to talk, at all. if i did, my time was extended. so i couldn't even voice my regret or beg for forgiveness. it drove me absolutely insane.
by the time i was allowed out of the closet i was groveling and begging. i've never felt more submissive.... well... except during my two week cum restriction.... also a effective punishment... orgasm restriction.
GOod point psy. The punishment must be tailored to the submissive. REmembering the old adage "How do you punish a masochist?" Answer "You don't." A deep and thorough understanding of the personality and the psychological makeup of the other person must be understood before and effective punishment can be administered.
i agree Psynymph although i am not a person who enjoys pain so much it is easier than to have him disappointed in me
My personal Fav, is a good kick in the nutz or jerk him off and stop before he blows and forbid him to masterbate. It's quite funny he wont beable to sit for days..lol...
And yes i enjoy every bit of pain i can hand out.."hee,haa...
For a slave who disobeys take away something that they really enjoy....computer,tv time......add extra chores to the ones they may have....or turn an easy chore into something much more complicated.....example....moping the floor......hand them a toothbrush and give a set amount of time it should be done. Early bedtimes.....Corner time..... or if she has forgotten her place maybe a night on the floor will help her remember......Or you can just beat there ass real good!!! *winks*
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Originally Posted by TheDeSade
I'll second that. Problem is that it's my favorite. But also her favorite. I have to find something else. :span:
another vote for TDS's postQuote:
Originally Posted by TheDeSade
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and add that I have found I like to use a light flogger over most of the body. That has gotten to be a serious favorite since i watched a video where the sub totally lost it and in the end passed out from overload i reckon. Have tried it online... but sighs as of yet not RL.
I guess a good, old spanking is my own favourite.
i think ... cum overload
being put on *ignore* i cant stand it and wouldnt stay with a Dome that did it
If you read all the suggestions here you almost have to come to only one (yeah right) conclusion, do what they HATE.
Avoid like the plague their "favorite" punishment.
I think i am very efficient at punishing....... myself.
If i......think....i have disappointed......oh man can i do a number on myself
I can be pretty hard on myself too. We got to stop that crap, it ain't healthy.Quote:
Originally posted by thrall:
I think i am very efficient at punishing....... myself.
so true, ashton, i think we take on alot of the responsibility of our own punishment ourselves, mentally....
lol wplf's lil girl: so cool cum overload,, dont laugh too much though,, there is such a thing as punishing a sub by making her cum too much,,,believe it or not, ive seen/felt//wept my self to near death shaking and sweating, begging for an end an anything to make it stop. i cant say its the worst punnishment, though it will deffinitly rock your misbehaving subbie bottom into deep sub space and after yu drop make u re-think what yu believe punishment to really be by golly.
Personally, the way the punishment is administered doesn't matter so much for me as the intent behind it. If I know I've disappointed, I feel miserable when I'm with a Dominant.
I find that a beating is the method which I prefer to be punished by; not because I enjoy it, but because it's immediate reinforcement and mindfucks really do an unhealthy number on me.
I would say find out why they are disobeying first. Punishing for not knowing the reason is a mistake in itself. For a slave to willfully disobey the root of that needs to be found first or it will be repeated over and over.
I would say put them in a small cage after a spanking, and leave them there for 24 hrs alone in the dark. In the moring feed them from the floor and make them beg forgivness.
Depends on the slave/sub....how yall's relationship is.For foreplaying around spanking teasing small restrictions and pain is what would be appropiate.For some actually physical punishment is administered for others this doesnt really work the way you want it to,sometimes humiliation,isolation etc is more effective.Hard to just say what kind of details and what punishment,everything is on a case by case basis,and person by person...:)
I completely agree, that's exactly how I feel. Nothing is quite as bad as actually letting my dominant down.Quote:
Originally Posted by pineapplesub
But then as to punishment matters, i am not very experienced or wandered far down the lane of extreme things or toys so maybe being spanked with a cane and locked away is worse, but really the thing I most strive for when I'm with a dominant is to keep him proud of me. And its devastating if he isn't.
livy loved your comments just so to the point exactly how it feels as a sub
take all her privaliges an give her no atiention as if she was invisableQuote:
Originally Posted by ces3