L is for Laughter

Laughter taking BDSM away from being so serious and putting the fun back into exploring …

I think many individuals get so wrapped up in what is “supposed to be and not supposed to be “ that they forget what they came into BDSM in the first place was to enjoy themselves.

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I recently had a conversation about this topic recommendation.

xxx : a serious suggestion - laughter
xxx : I think it is a key component to BDSM - particularly in real life
xxx : because things do go wrong , knots slip , canes break
xxx : and that sort of thing is best enjoyed with laughter
wolfscout1: the Whole we take our selves to seriously thing
xxx : exactly
xxx : it is serious, but it is also fun
wolfscout1: agreed.
xx : it is about flogging her, but is also about splashing her with washing up water

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Perhaps this thread should be about telling others of something funny that led to not taking things so seriously which added to their experiences.

Perhaps you’d just like to comment on how being so serious detracts from the experience.

If you don't enjoy what you're doing ... if you don't laugh with each other occasionally .. is it as enjoyable for both parties?

Don't you find that laughing and smiling together can bring the two closer in this most mutually benefiting relationship ?

Lighten up and enjoy yourself , folks.
This is why we do what we do.

Wolf - what a great topic

I for one couldn't be without laughter - the times without it are always the hardest part of my life

looking forward to other opinions

love

minxy xx

Holding my hand up as being the xxx in WS's post. Laughter is key to me. Without it the whole thing becomes stagnant and a chore. It is both a release at times and a counter balance which gives greater solidity to the other times.

cariad

Smiles.

I can honestly say that since we started exploring together, we have laughed more together than we ever had before. There was the ice dropped in my mouth that was spit back to the ceiling, then the discovery of the "ass button", lots of tickles, and so forth.

I think I have always been guilty of being way too serious, and probably still am, but those moments of laughter together are priceless, and I hope we have many years of laughter and fun yet to come.

If any of you have any stories that could give us all a laugh, I ask that you please share them with us.

Well I read this thread, and had a little private chuckle, spoke to Master about it and had another whole hearted chuckle reminiscing on moments in my submission to Him and now I am ready to post. *smiles*

There are so many things that I can fondly write about in my experiences with Master. Things don't always need to be so serious and focused. For example there was one time that i was a little hungry but nothing could stay down so Master ordered me to fill my cunt with sultanas/rasins and count each one that went in. Then He spanked me with my favourite implement and told me to eat a sultana one by one and count after each one. When I was down to three sultanas...I said to Master in a panicked voice, I must have lost them I can't find them! We laughed for ages. A few days later Master was teasing me and testing me on Cum Control and all of a sudden when I came...those little sultanas popped out. He and I were in hysterics. I FOUND THEM MASTER! I swear i was laughing so hard I fractured a rib.

Another time, more recently if people here can remember. I was on a week of CR and I was as horny as hell reading stories on the Library, and messing around in chat. Subs can be SOOOOOOOO kind when they know one of their own is on CR :P :P And all of a sudden I sneezed! Before I knew it the sneeze triggered me to cum and while I was in a huge panick people were laughing their asses off. Master on the other hand punished me lightly with a huge grin on His face. Angel what did I say about breaking CR? Hmmm? Under No circumstances, no coughing or sneezing, itching..NOTHING.

Another time earlier in my submission Master, I misunderstood a task (this was when I was very new to showing off my body in public etc) and He told me to go to the cricket match and have my legs open to distract the opposition fielders LOL My Brother's team was in the final at that time so we tried anything to win LOL. Now because i was new at this He let me wear panties...but usually wearing panties is forbidden unless i really have to...if you know what I mean *grinz* So lil ol' ange terrified of exposing her bare cunt to the opposition did it without panties. So when an hour later she had to report to Master on her task and telling Him how scary it was that i was so open and exposed to all, He suddenly started laughing. Not just normal laughing but whole heartedly almost falling off his motorcycle laughing, He had to pull over. He has a mike set up but He had to pull over, laughing while riding is a hazard!!!!!!

Gosh should I continue....the point I am making is that sometimes things go wrong that amuse us. It shows a more human side and that things aren't all strict and by the book. Yes and I too have experienced icecubes popping out of holes and flying across the room as well.

Also one time I wore pegs on my nipples and Master told me to snap them off by squeezing the flesh of my tits, that i couldn't take them off with my fingers...anyway I did that and one of the flying pegs hit my sleeping cat! She was startled as hell and then proceeded to attack the little peg that disturbed it's sleep. :S

There are times that I am so close to cumming and Master has me on the edge with a vibe pressed on my clit that all I do is giggle uncontrollably. Master laughs please laughs oh my...LAUGHS...and it get's Him laughing too.

Things happen...gosh I have heaps more that I can tell you. I should write a book LOL.

There are moments where all one can do is just chuckle. I mean I have done some pretty silly things in my time, but you know what? I wouldn't change it for a thing in this world! ~ Well as long as Master tolerates it! *winks*

Thank you for this post angel. I laughed the whole way through.

I especially remember the sneezing orgasm on CR and laughing my ass off at/with you . Classic.

*grinz at Wolfy* You know He still never lets me forget about the sneezing orgasm....

Here is the thread for all your laughing needs *dies*

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...light=sneezing


Well you surely opened up an interesting topic, the only thing now is that I will always find new things to add, that will embarrass me no end. But I can't help finding the humour in my submission to Master...it makes things just feel so good. I mean I love it when He at times is uber-strict and doesn't miss anything and let me get away with nothing, but I also love the times when it is more relaxed and we can explore together.



Oh and last night...something very new....

Well I knew I wasn't to see Master until Monday, and last night I needed Him with me so badly so I watched some of O/our favourite spanking clips that we have archived. I of course when I see a good spanking clip can't help getting wet, so I let my mind drift.

Then my mobile phone rings...and guess who it is...Master! I was in shock as it is rare for Him to ring me on a weekend as on Friday He rang and told me that He'd see me on Monday. I stumbled out of my state and answered the phone, while at the same time trying to dull down the speakers LOL.

What was funny is that He caught me watching spanking porn LOL. Heard it in the background when he rang LMAO. "What is that I hear my angel?"

It was hilarious and of course as I was already wet, He decided that He would tease me for three hours and not let me cum, until He had to go to London to watch Arsenal play.

It was so much fun. I couldn't believe how such a horrible day could end so well.

*grinz*

My Master and I are always laughing, in life generally we tend to do silly things and make each other laugh.

I think it is so important as part of our relationship, when things go wrong, or get really intense it's great just to be able to take a step back and laugh at ourselves.

When we share giggles and playful fun like silly stuff, ice down his shrit which results in me being chased around the kichen being attacked with a tea towel as a whip. That is part of feeling close to each other and knowing that we enjoy each other and that is why we are playing!

I agree with Wolfscout. The only problem with me is that I laugh a lot... Really REALLY A LOT! =^.^= But I`ve always been a brat :P

I think laughter is essential in every relationship.

It can hold you together as much as the serious moments. Laugh together and you can learn an awful lot about each other. I know when things haven't worked out when i tried to play online with my ex Master- like a knot that won't stay tied or a piece of equipment that is faulty the laughter has certainly released some of the frustration and embarrassment and let me try again!