My Introduction

Hello all.
I have been reading alot of the threads and have enjoyed them very much. So i thought i would introduce myself finally. I am 40 years old..and married to a wonderful Master. We have been together almost 10 years now and married almost seven years . We both were vanilla when we met and then several months down the road we started to talk about our fantasies and we started to investigate the BDSM world. We have been involved in it ever since. With in the last year we have included others in our lifestyle and even joined a local group. I look forward to more of your interesting posts and have hopes of adding in my opinions..for what they are worth....



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I find the most interesting places when I'm bored and surfing! My name is Karen, I'm 44, mom of two and very happily owned by my (eep!) fiance, Mike. We've known each other for 5 years, and been living together the last 2. It wasn't easy to get here, together (is it ever?) but it's been worth the struggle.

We're as 24/7 as we can be, with signifcant allowances for "real life." I've been involved in BDSM since I was 18, two previous Dominants, then a long vanilla marriage. But I got better! :D

I suppose we're "edgy" players since I'm a painslut. I'm also bi and have switched on rare (wayyy in the past) occasions. We've talked about inviting another sub to play, but so far haven't found the right chemistry with anyone.

When I'm not bored and surfing, or harassing my kids, or getting a whipping, I play with hot glass. Nothing like playing with fire to really get your juices flowing! Most of my work is for the 'nilla market, but I've made a few dildoes and butt plugs, plus beads for weighted body jewelry. Oh, and sometimes I write stories. Now I just need to get up the nerve to post one.

Absolutely feel free to post your stories. Some of our finest writers are femsubs, woodsman's game, to pick one out at random.

Remember, above all, you are writing for your own pleasure and not to make points with, or impress, anyone else. Those of us who are experienced reviewers, always check a writers previous record of posting stories on this site before we produce our review and we try and be especially considerate of new authors.

One final tip. After you have completed your story sit on it for about a week. Then go back and give it a final polish. You will be surprised how much of a difference it makes. In particular, check for malapropisms (synonyms that pass spellcheck but have very inappropriate meanings) and if the work is longer than about 7 or 8 pages divide it up into chapters. For and example read through a few of the new stories on the story section of the site.

Welcome and good luck!

I've posted twice elsewhere and submitted a story, but I've not yet introduced myself. My honest-to-God nickname is Trouble, (or so they call me at the office). I found this site while I was surfing and looking for something to read (I've finished every single book I own many times over) and was intrigued. I've read books that had dominance and submission in them before, but...

Anyway, I'm dominant, very dominant, in every aspect of my life. Always have been. It's my fantasy to find someone strong enough, mentally and physically, to "top" me. Haven't found him yet, *sigh*, but he's out there.

Anyway, nice to meet all of you. Hopefully my stories will start appearing shortly, and I'd love to hear what you think of them. Be honest, though; telling a writer "I liked it, it was good," is no help whatsoever. :)

As per my welcome above we all look forward to your stories. I can assure you that my reviews are usually quite detailed.

As per your observations that you are dominant in most areas of your life, but have some aspects where you are submissive. Kraft Ebling in his classic studies of masochism noted that most closet masochists are hard driving dominating personalities. Although not one of his patients, T. E. Lawrence (Lawrence of Arabia) was later revealed to exactingly fit the mold.

Enjoy and welcome to BDSMLibrary

Interesting, isn't it, that a lot of control-freak people are closet subs. Just need somewhere to not be in control, I suppose.

At last i got the courage to join. Most forums I've seen in the past are about quick satisfaction (movies/pics)... seems different around here

Anyway, really hope to learn something... like what goes on in the mind of a switch ? I mean, and it seems kinda silly to me, i cannot imagine myself being dominated by a woman, only by men. Strangely this is because i think are women the stronger sex, so being dominated by them is not really a kick in my mind.
Confusing ? U tell me...

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like what goes on in the mind of a switch ?

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Well, wouldn't you have some idea as to what goes on in the mind of a switch...since you've stated in your profile that you are one!

Also, switching doesn't necessarily refer to switching the gender of the person you are submitting to, it refers to finding enjoyment and fulfillment in being both the dominant and the submissive (at different times!).

i do take your point though, the notion of switching is something that i have always found hard to get my head around (not in a negative way).

Anyway, welcome.

lucy

Well, what would you like to know?

I am a 37 year old white Married Dom. My wife has no interest in BDSM. Although I've had some exerience in the 'lifestyle', I've only started to explore this in-depth within the last two years or so.

My wife is aware of this, so don't worry about my health.

I've always had an interest in it ever since I tied up my high school sweetheart as a joke. A few days later she said "tie me up again" and I was hooked. ;)

I've only started to write fiction after being a non-fiction writer for several years. I've even had a few things published and been paid for it.

Any and all advice is welcome concerning the work I hope to post to the site.

You can feel free to send me e-mail.

Easiest thing is to go to the "Stories" area and read a few. See what stories you enjoy the most, which stories stimulate your fantasies. Then put your own fantasies down on paper, nothing terribly long, perhaps ten pages or so. Let your story sit for a week or so, then buff it up and send it in to the "Submit Story" area!

Perhaps as an intermediate step try reviewing a few of the posted stories.

Good Luck

I've been reading stories on this site for more than a year now. The only real constant in what I've been interested in is the lovely creature known as a femsub :) (Must be the word itself. Sounds soft, giggly, rolls gently off the tongue ;) )

I've finally started working on becoming an RL Master too, after a loooong time of wondering how on earth I'm supposed to get started.

A 30 year-old Male Dom, about to burst out upon an unsuspecting world!

Nice to meet you :D

Hello, Sunrise. This a goo a place as any to start. :) Welcome to the group.

Hello! KarenAM here. I've written several bondage science fiction stories, which I'll post as I can.

:)

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This a goo a place as any to start. :)

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Mmmm... Goo ;) Kind words and accidentally visible spontaneity :)

For me, this is not a good place to start, though. I realized some time ago I needed to break down any and all remaining self-consciousness when meeting women. Works great since I took a thinker and started working on it but needs training with "real" people.

hello everyone ... long time lurker here as you can tell by my registered date.

I've posted here before (most recently in a spat with Kostly) but I'm not sure why my post numbers have been reset.

However, I digress... as the real reason I'm posting here is to give you a brief introduction of myself. Its strange... I feel like I know all of you so well since I'm here reading almost everyday.

Well, here's the shortcake version: I'm almost 34 and I am lucky enough to be married to the love of my life. We play a lot with BDSM with me in the sub role. Most times I agree with that role although sometimes I fantasize about a more intense (slave) relationship. Other times I think I'm just kinky. ;)

There really isn't anyone (except my husband) I can talk to about some of the experiences and feelings I have so I'm looking forward to having the opportunity to do that here.

Welcome Karen

I hope that you find, here at this site, a place to post your thoughts and fantasies. This is truly an adult site. Adult in the sense that we try to be caring and respectful to each other while still allowing the full range of our "kinky" lives to unfold.

E. E. Norcod

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I've posted here before (most recently in a spat with Kostly) but I'm not sure why my post numbers have been reset.

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Because that thread was deleted and all posts made to it were removed from the post counts of the individuals that made them.

Same thing happened to Mobius and several other people when Gary accidentally deleted Favorite Pictures. Mobius lost about 250 posts off his count.

Hello everyone

I just joined after searching for a forum like this one. Over the past little while this lifestyle has intrested me and I have begun to do some research and it seems like this is the life for me.

I am 20 years old.
I live in Canada
I am currently in Univerwity Hopefully I will be leaving with a Degree in Political Sciences.
Like I said in my profile I am, at this time, looking of an online relationship.

The Canadians rule these forums. Nice to see another Canuck join up. You'll fit right into our world domination plan nicely. :)

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Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide
The Canadians rule these forums. Nice to see another Canuck join up. You'll fit right into our world domination plan nicely. :)

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I will not be used for any plans of world domination...Unless I am on top.

Hello, I am a new member and wanted to say hello to everyone. I am realtively new to the lifestyle and am a female submissive. I am owned by my Master Bill. He has encouraged to view this website and learn. I have assigned reading and am enjoying exploring and learning.

Hello All,

I am not new to this site, I have been lurking here for as long as I can remember. I am newly retired and am pursuing my adoration of Fetish Life as my retirement goal.

Thanks to all the Authors on this site, you continuously amaze me with your imagination and creativity.

Ozzy

laurenlady2003, welcome..... hope you enjoy and learn.

Welcome to the new members laurenlady, ozzystoy, Nightstriker,
karen, Sunrise, rob.wilson and those who posted before them.

I hope to see your input in the future in the forum and maybe a story or three from some of you.

Just thought i'd pop in and say "Hi". Brand new to the site and just posted a story of my Master's. "Confessions Of A Sadist" i've been blessed with a very talented Master and am trying very hard to get Him to write more.
i'm looking forward to discussion on the board and reading some great stories.
:)

Hi,

just want to say hello from Hamburg, Germany.

I'm not very deep in BDSM, but like very much the stories.

My dream is to be 24/7 slave to a mistress.
Maybe somebody is intrested.

:)

I'm Girl

mid twenties

I love R&B music, Alternative Rock, and Classical

My favorite composer is Peter Tchaikovsky

I am an animal lover

Wrote a story named Sub*lime (Sub+Sublime, catchy, right?)

I like to read the other stories a lot

Hi, I'm Lola. Well, technically I'm justlola cause, way back in 2001, someone registered Lola and then never posted. If you are still here Lola for the love of all that's good please post so that I don't have to think every time I type the just part in front of the lola part that I am wasting my time. Thanks. I live in sin with the father of my 6 year old about an hour away from Toronto and I am kind of addicted to run on sentences. Oh, and I'm a sub.

i am a new member. my name is jennifer. i am 30 sub looking for experiences

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Hi, I'm Lola. Well, technically I'm justlola cause, way back in 2001, someone registered Lola and then never posted. If you are still here Lola for the love of all that's good please post so that I don't have to think every time I type the just part in front of the lola part that I am wasting my time. Thanks. I live in sin with the father of my 6 year old about an hour away from Toronto and I am kind of addicted to run on sentences. Oh, and I'm a sub.

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Lola... L-O-L-A Lola...

Gosh, I like that song. It's by the Kinks. Coincidence?

Welcome to the group, Lola. Another Canadian to again take part in the Canadian BDSM World Domination Plan.