My Introduction

Greetings…

I am a Dom of some years standing, both cyber and real life. My current partner and I have lurked here for a while. Decided to join, make our presence known. We have come looking to learn, to find friends, and maybe share a little knowledge.

We are interested in making social contacts in the mid west. Although my girl enjoys performing in front of others, she wont be performing with others. Feel free to contact us. One word of warning, we give total respect to those in lifestyle, we expect the same.

Canopus - Master of tehya

Hello.... my name is tehya, submissive to Canopus. Living in a small town in Kansas. I am a 42 year old, mother of two. I have been involved in BDSM for about 9 months now. During that time i have been to several chat rooms in search of real people, living real BDSM lives....

I am elated to say that I feel I have found that here. Hoping my search is now over, I look forward to many years of getting know the members here, expressing and sharing ideals and views. I can't tell you how many times I have found answers to my questions here. :)

Devotedly,

Master's tehya

Hi, I'm posting. I don't usually mind posting as a new member, in fact I love any and all attention I can get, but this is the first time I've used this type of forum. I had quite a time doing all the normal first rites of joining a group. Having my own avatar is kinda kewl. I may have one & I may not. I kept getting messages telling me there had been an error. I attempted to fill out a profile and add a pic -- not sure if that worked out either.

I do have a question. I enjoy chatrooms sometimes -- sometimes I don't -- you know how it is. There weren't very many ppl chatting the last time I was here. Is there a particular time when more ppl are online or chatting than other times?

It's been so hard to find groups surrounding my interests and curiosities. I enjoy writing erotica and I'm very curious about D/s & bdsm. I've already gleaned some interesting things to read and would love to get to know some, any, or all of you. Although I'm in my 40s, I'm recently divorced from a man who was very controlling. Many things most women my age are familiar with, I know nothing about.

So my main purpose and need for being here is to learn about myself, other people, and to understand some things I've always had such a narrow view of.

Nice to meet all of you. Have a good Saturday.
~tyme~

Hi,
Like many I have been reading the stories at the library for about a year but have only just discovered the forums, so I thought I would be polite and say Hello.
A bit about me; I am from scotland and a Dom (although with little r/l experiance, but any subs out there who would like to teach me or help me learn let me know). I have been trying to write a story for about a year but I always think that they are crap, or a rip off, and end up binning it after about 1000 words (but I will keep on trying.

Welcome remraff, and I hope you enjoy it here and stay!
One thing right from the top: “NO, NO, NO, naughty Dom!” just cause you thing they are no good – does not mean other readers would not like them. Give them to us, share and we will try to help you improve :).
Hope to see you around

Hi,

As you can guess I'm new... as in, to everything. I'm a female sub who’s never had the courage to do anything but fantasize and read a lot of stories. I'm still a work in progress and I'm exploring more of myself, so I thought that I could find out a lot more about myself here and gain some courage. Here's a little about me. I'm a 19-year-old girl from sunny Los Angeles, California and I like to do what most people my age do. Eat, party and not study enough. Actually, there is a piece of pizza that’s calling my name right now, so…..

Hello and Good Evening

I have been reading the stories here for about 2 years and have never looked at the forums until a couple of days ago.

So here I am. My name is Melissa. Hopefully in time to be collared.

Hello, I am t, I am very excited to be here. I feel like I know some of you already. I have been reading and taking notes for about 2 years. :) I will soon be 48 and have no r/t experience or on line either. :eek: I learn quick, and want to be a submissive/slave. I have been looking for about a year now and I am trying to be patient. However it is not one of my best virtues. :rolleyes: I feel like I am ready to take one more step my toward my goal in my learning, and wanted to join the subbie task academy, so,, here i am a new member. NO pressure. :D I am single and have no children, only my dog. And he is special. Wanted to get my first post over with so I know what I am doing here. Well at least make an attempt.

Hi Everyone,
My name is Mandy. I'm a 28 year old female sub that spends most of her time in Michigan - though I try to head out to Chicago quite a bit and travel to just about anywhere when I have the time and money.
I'm new to actually engaging in any type of BDSM lifestyle, though I've thought about it for probably most of my adult life. I have a vivid imagination and I'm not sure yet what I want to do in real life with so many of my thoughts.
I'm new to the forums and this site in general, though I've been looking around quite a bit. Everyone seems honest and open and that makes me feel comfortable.
I hope to get to know some great people here and to learn as much as possible.
Not sure what else to write at this point. :) Thanks for taking the time to read my intro. Drop me a line sometime!
Mandy

Hi everyone,

I suppose I should have added to my post that I am an opinionated bitch.

;)

Welcome to all and enjoy the forums.

Mistress Val :)

I've followed this board for quite awhile and have noticed a lot of new names so figured I'm get involved. Married guy in Texas mostly Dom but enjoy being a sub to my wife on occasion. Just saying hello and looking forward to contributing.

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I've followed this board for quite awhile and have noticed a lot of new names so figured I'm get involved. Married guy in Texas mostly Dom but enjoy being a sub to my wife on occasion. Just saying hello and looking forward to contributing.

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Welcome, Travis. What part of Texas are you from?

I'm near Austin--about the only place of reason left in the state.

My name is angelpet…I live in California and have all my life.
I’m a 42 year old bisexual female submissive.
I came across this forum about 2 weeks ago and knew I had to join.
I have been interested in the Lifestyle for the last 15 years, and have done tons of research, but have only had a few actual experiences. So I still consider myself a novice.

My interests are of the D/s nature. Seeking a Master. I’m naturally submissive, and have been, ever since I can remember. I’m submissive all the way, no desire to be switch, but admire those who are. Being a novice, i know that I still have lots to learn and experience. Learning from my mistakes along the way, will only make me a better submissive. Looking forward to chatting and posting here…looks like a great group of peoples! I’m a big fan of The BDSM Library, there are some great stories there.

This looks like a good learning place :) Glad I found You all :)

Hi all. My name is Brad, I'm not sure what I should write here so if it's not creative or it's just boring, I'm sorry. I'm 18 and live in Las Vegas. I'm very sumissive and want to learn about this lifestyle, though I know a little. Please if I've left something out please let me know.

Hi everyone, I'm Katmandu, submissive female to my Husband/ Master Barton. We mutually discovered this site a couple of months ago, and sort of stumbled from the story section into these Forums.

Since dragging my hubby (oops! :eek: looks over shoulder quickly to make sure he didn't hear that slip of the tongue...)*Master* into BDSM, we have tremendously enjoyed this Community. It has been invaluable with it's wealth of information that shows/teaches my Boss that other people DO this, and the HOW TO's, and SAFETY issues.

*blushing*And that I really do like the pain, just like others in here...(special thanks to Nikka! ;)- Inspiration Incarnate! )

Hey I'm Jai,

Like so many others I've been looking around for ages and thought it was about time I showed my face. I really like the atmosphere here, everyone is quite friendly and welcoming and it is nice to feel that way with a group of people you don't really know.

Not much to say about me really, I'm 22 and I am a Uni Student studying Product Design. I've kinda always liked the idea of BDSM but have only ever practised/experimented it on myself and the odd occasional kinky night with a girlfriend. I would by no means consider it as a lifestyle thing for me and I wouldn't ever want it to be, I don't think. More just a bit of fun and an extreme turn on.

I wouldn't have joined even, if it wasn't for the fact that I read some threads and find myself in sheer frustration at not being able to put my point of view across, especially when to me my idea seems glaringly obvious and no one has said it.

Anyway thats enough for now. I'm sure you will here more from me soon

I just recently joined the forum and was looking at the posts, trying to decide which threads to reply to first. looks like this would be a good choice. ;)

I'm 22 years old, female, and dominant (at least 95% of the time). I've been interested in BDSM since I was in middle school, but was shy (and not into dating/sex at the time), and didn't really explore my interests other than reading stuff online, some writing, and a lot of fantasy/self-bondage. I first "tried" BDSM at about age 16 (light bondage & spanking, a little mental domination), as a submissive, because that's where most of my fantasies were at the time, and because most stuff I'd read said that women were "supposed" to be the submissive ones. As I grew up some, and explored things a little more, this changed.

I met my fiance/sub around the time I turned 19. We started out in a vanilla relationship, but found that we were both interested in BDSM within the first few months. I tied him to a chair with my stockings one night and teased him for a while, and things took off from there. We switched for a few more months and experimented with different things until we found the roles we were most comfortable with. I realized that I was mentally much more into domination, and he just seemed to be a natural sub. I switch every once in a while and will "bottom", but not submit, to him, because there are times I really get into the pain/sensation, and also because I don't like to try something on a sub that I haven't first felt for myself. It works out good. :)

We're monogamous, and haven't "played" with any other people, although I could see it happening in a non-sexual context. Now that we're comfortable doing things together, we've thought about going to some semi-local munches to meet other people into BDSM, to meet new people and learn new things. Clubs/play parties also sound interesting, but I'm not sure either of us would be up to any public scenes just yet (we're both a little shy in some ways, and our scenes are usually prety personal, as I'd imagine most people's are). For now, most of our interaction with other "pervs" is online, through websites, groups, and forums like this. I also lurk, and occasionally post on s.s.b-b on Usenet.

I haven't submitted any stories here yet, although I've red a few (yum!), and I may send in one or two once I get the time to write and type them up. I've loved to write every since I was young, and have had poetry and some horror/short stories, and "confession"(lierary trash, but quick, easy) money in a pinch) stories published over the last couple years, but erotica/BDSM fiction is a new genre for me (outside of some lame fantasy stuff I worte as a teen), so I'm a little nervous about writing in a whole new genre, for a new audience.


--Raine
(the shy domme chick) :p

Just wanted to say hello to everyone. I'm really enjoying the site so far. A little more about me...I guess I'm what would be called a 'switch', but lately have been wanting to explore my submissive side. I'm staight and would love to hear from everyone, particularly women who enjoy the dominant role.

Hope your day is cloudless...

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Originally Posted by cloudless

Just wanted to say hello to everyone. I'm really enjoying the site so far...

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*smiles* Hey cloudless, glad to see you came over and said hi, welcome to the forums. :)

lucy

and a special warm welcome to Raine! Be prepared to be swamped by mail, we are a bit short on Dommes here :D , and just BTW – do write some, we are low on supply in F/m genre too!

Now that I gave you so much work, glad to have you around and hope to get to know you better :)

I am really unsure as to what to write, I guess I should start out by saying that I am very happy to be logged on here. My mistress is also logged on as
Raine. I am sure that there are several people in the lifestyle in NC, although I have yet to meet anyone. I am really hoping that we can meet new friends that share a common interest, whether in NC or elsewhere. I guess I should tell that we are considering a full 24/7 type of relationship, although we are somewhat inexperienced in certain areas we have tried many things we have read about in some of the various posts on the different web boards, & it has only brought us closer together. I started out being the top, but realized that it wasn't in me, so we switched, & it has just felt right every since then.

Hey all, i am a 23 year old submissive female who is new to the lifestyle, trying to learn but finding that although i have the submissive nature i haven't truely accepted it...tried some RT and some online but haven't been broken i guess is the word.

I have been a sub for over 20 years to a variety of professional dom's. I have had a few long term relationships and have played as a dom of female slaves. But I really am a male sub in need of being under female control. I love nipple punishment, cock teasing, body worship and humiliation. In humiliation I love when forced to do things in public or in front of other dom's. I love everything about cum eating, golden showers and smothering. I love reading about others humiliation. I look forward to being a toy for others on this forum.
ToySlaveJim

Hello to all;

I've read stories on this site for about a year but only just discovered the forums. I'm amazed at the threads i've read--filled with like-minded intelligent individuals sharing their experience. I'm amazed at the quality of the discussions here!

I've been playing for about 4 years now in real life; never tried on-line. I live in Canada, consider myself a submissive male and am definitely a bit of a pain slut. Okay, maybe a lot of one. ;-) My Dominant partner is also my gf of two years... a few years younger, but manages to keep me in line.

Hi to everyone.

Hello csr. The people here are a great group, I am sure that you will enjoy.
Barton.

Hi, been snooping around this site for a while and must say that the selection of stories on here is amazing!

Anyway finally decided to become a member! My name is lilli, and I am most definitely a sub although don't have a lot of years 'practice' but I am only 27 and have a lot of years in front of me!!

This forum seems a very hospitable place and i look forward to getting to know some (or all!! thou with this many members that may be hard!) of you soon.

I have been an avid reader at the site for more than a year. I enjoy stories of power and dominance and am turned off by excessive violence. I see it as more of a mental thing.

Some of use were meant to be readers and some of us were meant to be writers, unfortunately I am the former.

Does that make me a voyeur?

a better question bardbin would be...do you mind being a voyuer? ~grins impishly~

...so I've been reading for a while, and reading the stories for a /long/ while.. even written a few here and there. Finally decided it's rude to lurk in someone's house without announcing yourself even if you DO like to lurk in corners and try to blend in.

I guess I'm sort of in a state of flux. Ten years ago, when the Dominas in my playground gave me ten years tops to figure out that I was a Domme in subbie wool, I laughed at them. Respectfully, of course. Somewhere along the line, though, I found myself playing top more and more often. Go figure. One of these days, I really should go look them up and pay up on my lost bet.

I still play on both sides of the fence when I have a chance, and write from either point of view... and maybe someday, I'll write something I'm pleased enough with to submit here. Till then, cheers! Bottoms up!

I'm new here too! I've only posted once or twice and I am normally very quite. Hmmm, let's see..I like the anonymity part of this forum. It helps me speak up and sometimes just sit back and listen- what can I tell you about myself...I teach and I'm finishing my doctorate. I write a lot. Excuse my improper grammar and punctuation but, as of now, I am not on the proverbial "clock." :o I am new to BDSM scene- And having one of those roller coaster transitions which has been affected by discovering my "true" nature. I am in my mid-thirties, very physically fit, buxom, enjoy outdoor sports including bikes, hiking and swimming and or course I am an AVID reader. I teach the classics (literature) and love music- all kinds-
BDSM preferences- haven't really had any super, expertise, experiences yet other than a good spanking and tie up- Well, that's me-

Always been interested in the control aspect of bondage, for as long as I can remember. Not much interested in the pain part though. Wrote a few stories a few years back and just a few days ago found that four of them were published on this website. None of the reviews said that my stories were awful, so I thought that maybe I would write a few more. Personally, I like stories about men tying women, women tying other women, or occassionally a man being tied up by a woman. Ordinarily I prefer it to be erotic consensual bondage. Anyway, I'm glad to be a member.

finally got an account that will allow me to stay logged on long enough to post :) i'm new to the scene, my master led me to this board as a place for me to get information and learn as well as ask questions and the such. although i have read in a lot of the fem/sub posts who are also new to the scene about struggling with their new found identities in life, i find myself falling rather comfortably into mine...i finally feel like me so to speak and am happier than i have ever been. not to say there arent challenges ahead for me but i look forward to them as i feel without a challenge of some sort, no matter what your role, life would get quite dull and boring. i am of an old school mindset that any relationship should be passionate and symbiotic and i have finally found one that is....where i am an equal partner and contributor. i look forward to reading lots and getting ideas from you all...feel free to say hi...i'm quite friendly and would enjoy the conversation!

i have been reading the stories on this site for years, had a username once but can't remember the password it seems as i dont manage to log in anymore. now i tried to read an article on the dungeons and it said i need to log in. so i signed up again. now i can access the forums but still not the dungeons, keeps asking me to log in over and over agin so i have given up for now.

meow :o

oh and by the way am a 27 year old masochistic sub/slave and painslut :eek: (did i really say that) or whatever (rather think i am me and leave others to figure out the rest) from the UK. :p
P.S. the avi isn't me but the pic on profile is. :o

Hello:

Well, after a couple of months in the library chatroom, I thought I should formally introduce myself. I have about 35 years of active and passive interest and experience in BDSM and have recently embarked on a bondage-fiction writing hobby which has attracted moderate interest in male and female readers. I have written and revised about 50 stories -- 10 long and 40 serials -- in recent months and most have been well received by readers.

Now, I am seeking a submissive female for online training, rpgs, dress code adherence and someone to share my story-writing interests and activities. Those subs who are familiar with my work know where my bondage interests lie. My heroines are generally crafted as bright, determined, resourceful women in their 30s or 40s who, by fate or free will, find themselves in a multitude of perilous or semi-perilous situations -- and in steel bondage -- and who must rely on their resources and wits to engineer escape for themselves. The plots are believable, the settings are everyday and well-researched but the adventures themselves are, I hope, enthralling.

I am looking for a sub with whom I can share my fantasies and in so doing satisfy her submissive self-expression needs. I believe that when a submissive turns over her submissive side to her selected Dom that it becomes the Dom's responsibility to keep it. I have had a couple of rewarding, but all-too-short online experiences already with female subs and I look forward to continuing these pleasant, mutually rewarding times with a special person. Will it be you?

I am in the chatroom nearly every day and I look forward to any and all correspondence.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

:)

myri_SN - Glad to see you made it hun! Welcome.

And, Sailor - hey! Good to see you here, now you can tango on the forums as well as the chat room! ;)

sl

Thanks, slavelucy. Is that you in the avatar? I could never tango like that!!
:p

Hello all,

A quick introduction before crashing...

I spent the last couple of hours browsing these forums, and found them very entertaining, illuminating and liberating. Oh, and v. hot... :)

I'm a 27 yr old male switch, mostly theoretical (unfortunately :( ) but for one brilliant experience as a sub. I used to think of my self as purely sub, but seeing all those pictures of women having done all sorts of things to them, I found myself thinking: I would love to do that too.

My interest in bdsm probably goes back to my early teens (first memories anyway), and it took a while to figure them out (not that I thought those thoughts were bad, I liked them fine - just to get from the theoretical to a desire to explore the practical seems to have taken some time).

And that's where I'm at now. I very much look forward to meet, talk to and - if it so works out - play with like minded people - both on and off line - and want to give a big thanks to the operators and moderators of these forums for providing the opportunity to do so.

Anyway, off to bed, grudgingly... But got a 6 AM wake up call.

Later,

Cornelius (the 76 is, well, force of habit).

PS: avatar will follow

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oh and by the way am a 27 year old masochistic sub/slave and painslut :eek: (did i really say that) or whatever (rather think i am me and leave others to figure out the rest) from the UK. :p
P.S. the avi isn't me but the pic on profile is. :o

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Welcome to the forum, myri_SN! I love your avatar ;) Very pretty.
LD

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Originally Posted by Sailor861

Thanks, slavelucy. Is that you in the avatar? I could never tango like that!!
:p

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You wern't tangoing with me, you were tangoing with Pandora...remember, you cut in and took her off me!! :rolleyes:

sl