ta, wish it was me but me is the one on the profile picQuote:
Originally Posted by Lord Douche
but love the avi pic cause of the colours and stuff.... :rolleyes: :p :D ;)
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ta, wish it was me but me is the one on the profile picQuote:
Originally Posted by Lord Douche
but love the avi pic cause of the colours and stuff.... :rolleyes: :p :D ;)
I am new to this site and I would like to say that it is wonderful being in a community with like minded individuals. I look forward to doing a lot of reading and learning as well as posting some of my ideas and experiences.
Hi, my name is star. i'm the very proud sub of Primal_sage. i have been in the lifestyle a number of years, and have now found happiness with a wonderful Dom. i'm looking forward to going through the site and getting to know it and the members.
It's always interesting to consider what to say in these introductions.
So where to begin? I started enjoying the sight of women tied up at an early age. Watching of all things Scooby Doo (daphne looked hot tied and gagged) and Johnny Socko and His Flying Robot. The latter as a japanese import, and every week one of the women would be tied and gagged, and not the fluffy stuff you see in tv normally. Usually a rag stuffed in their mouth with a cover tied on top.
So flash forward some years, high school days. A girlfriend actually ASKED me to tie her up on her bed while we were fooling around. Which was great fun. (I often wonder what happened to her)
Went in the service after that and met some great people who taught me lots of neat stuff. Among which the most important was that women are not nearly as fragile as I was led to believe growing up. It was a great education.
Got out of the service and met a nice woman and settled down. She had some interest in the life that grew as time passed. We don't really play in public, but had some great days at home.
One particular interest of mine is shibari which I've studied on and off for years. In one of the threads on here about favorite toys, someone wrote that they had about 120 ft of rope. I thought about that for a while. I have no idea how I'd tie someone up using only 120 ft. In my closet I probably have around 1500 ft of various kinds, colors and weights.
I like to make my own toys, nothing says love like showing your sub a freshly made flogger you've finally complete just for her.
Fairly soon, I'm going to be ordering some roo hides from OZ and making my first attempt at a bullwhip. If all else fails, they'll make some spiffy equipment if I screw the bull up.
Some of the stories in the library are very good, and kudo's to the authors. I've written three books, which are horror/young adult, numerous horror short stories, and am just getting back to writing erotica which I hope to post on here soon.
A large part of my free time is spent caring for my wife who is chronically ill, and unable to play anymore. Someday perhaps she will, but for now its just memories.
If I've missed something important, ask.
Welcome Kalluss, and thank you for a great intro. It is great to have you on site, hope to read more from you, and my sincerest wishes for fast and full recovery of your wife.
Respectfully
red
Hello,
i'm softncomfy2 :p i'm a subbie, who has recently dipped her toes into being Domme, it's not as easy as it looks! i could really use some help, its online, and its a Dom who has wanted to explore the sub side of things. i feel very honored that He would chose me to experiment with, but to be honest, i'm a bit lost as to how i should go about this. in person, would be different, but here.......... He is open to anything and says His only limits are mine. so, can anyone help this newly Dommed subbie out?
ps, i am new here, i know, you are so surprised, lol. i am canadian too, the friendly sort. :)
Welcome softncomfy2,Quote:
Originally Posted by softncomfy2
It is always hard to try something new, even more so when you are kinda going against your nature (submissive). But being online it is not impossible. Two thoughts here: Since the on-line is a Dominant (lifestyle or still cyber?) you are probably going to do more of what he wants than initiating things within yourself. This means he is probably going to top from the bottom. This is not necessarily bad, if you both are fine with it. So, since I think most on-line things are mostly play you two can go and enjoy yourself.
What I would do is to make a list with him of the things you two would like to try, remembering the limits of cyber interaction. If he still says he has no limits then find a list on-line and ask him to fill it out.
Then start slow and work mainly with mental things, humiliation, denial, etc...For sure work with orgasm delay and denial. Hard to do many physical things like CBT or waxing since you can't be there to make sure it is safe.
Also, make sure You are doing things You want to do or try (through negotiation of course). This way you are also getting something out of it and not just allowing him to work his submissive fantasy through you.
Good luck.
Have fun.
Again, Welcome.
SirW
p.s. If you wish more info feel free to PM me.
:) red
im new here male switch canada still trying too figure out how works.46 and single.looking for female switch.
undefinedI am new to the forums, been using the site for wonderful stories for over a year so I can't believe I never stumbled upon the forums before.
I am a 32 yr old Domme. Not professional, just looking for a 24/7 relationship. Own my business so I work too much but am always able to sneak time away to read the posts here and keep updated on the stories.
I wish there were more F/m information/stories on here. Maybe I should get my juices flowing (pun intended) and write a few myself.
I look forward to being an active participant as I feel I have much to learn. I have had several d/s relationships before but want to move to something more in depth than the usual bedroom play, etc.
Brenda
Welcome. Yes this is a pretty interesting group is'nt it. Join the fun and yes there is a great deal of knowladge here.
Barton
Just signing in to say hello. As a new user I wish to adhere to what you all consider as proper etiquette. Please don't hesitate to send me your two cents! As you could probably guess by my username...I'm from the Detroit area. I have yet to work on my profile, so you won't gain any infomation there. Looking forward to getting to know some of you. mcs
Somehow I just keep coming back to BDSM....... after a break for a few years the hankering and need just doesn't go away and so here I am :)
I was heavily involved in the UK munch and club scene for several years but then drifted away after becoming a little disillusioned when it seemed to be becoming a "trendy thing to do".
So single just now, perhaps looking for an online relationship which might move to rl. who knows might just end up at all those munches and clubs some time soon!
lynn
Have been visiting here for a couple of months now. Somehow I over looked this thread. It has been and shall continue to be interesting following the shenanigans that go on in this forum. Thank all of you for sharing bits and pieces of yourselves.
While I am thanking, I wish to include all of you who have taken the time to review or e-mail me regarding my stories.
P.S. S. Lucy....how was the fish stew?
Hello. I am called sunny and live in central Florida. I am a divorced, uncollared submissive Daddy's girl-wussichist and a sexy baby boomer! I enjoy reading and writing erotica and a friend suggested this site. I have enjoyed reading many posts and several stories as well. I just wanted to say hello. . .sweet smiles
Hi all! New member here! Well actually I've been a member for a few weeks, I think! LOL :D Can't really remember :o , as I first came here to read the stories! And may I just say, I have found more than quite a few that just have me riveted, barely unable to contain myself, until the next chapter is written! The threads have been quite helpful too, as have some of you who have read my (very few) posts and responded! Thanks for making us newbies feel welcome and teaching us what we need and desire to know!
Have a good day all! :)
Hello to Everyone,
My name is Bobi-I am a 38 yr old female-I am very new in every sense of the word-Curiosity being one of my strongest personality traits, I stumbled across this site while googling my way through my morning coffee-This is only the second site of its kind that i have visited-not counting Yahoo and the wide array of individuals representing the BDSM chat rooms there-That alone is enough to make a "newbie" such as myself run screaming in the other direction. Anywho, I look forward to familiarizing myself with this site, hopefully gaining real knowledge and maybe a friendship or two along the way. And now....a word from our sponsors..... :D
Hello, I found this site through google. I'm 33 and I've been heavily into BDSM since age 29, although I always like my sex rough before then. I feel like I still have much to learn and there's a lot I haven't tried yet. It's only in the last two years I starting finding my domme side.
Hello E/everyone! i am new here and thought i would take the advice offered. my name is spirit, i'm 36 and live in Wisconsin, USA. Not only am i new to this website, but am also fairly new to the lifestyle. Currently my husband and i are moving towards D/s r/l 24/7. Any advice, suggestions, comments will always be welcomed. Thank Y/you for Y/your time :)
Nice to have you on the forums here. Make yourself at home.
We're not terribly big on the internet BDSM typing protocols, though. So, if you'd rather not type all the slashes in your pronouns, that won't offend any one of us. :)
Have fun.
Thank you for your note of welcome, and the welcomed suggestion. :)
Okay, I've been on here for a few weeks and have some posts up, so I'm not exactly a new member, but...
My name is jaeangel, I am an Asian female, 25 years old, 5'1", 130 lbs, black hair, dark brown eyes, fairly proportionate except for some extra fat around the middle from my two sons. My oldest boy is 2, and my youngest is 1. I am married to a vanilla man, 35 years old, and we are entering our fourth year of marriage, our sixth year of knowing each other.
I have submissive tendencies; I do write some BDSM-themed fiction, though none for the Library yet. I am considering that though. I consider myself a sub, however, my only r/l experience has been a four month move-in with a boyfriend who said he was into the lifestyle and ended up being a sadistic bastard who put me in the hospital for a week. I did have a few scenes with another Master after my husband and I broke up while we were still dating, but my hubby and I got back together, and are now married.
hey all
I'm new here, my name is eaving, i'm 18, female, 5/9 and cruvy, with short blond hair and blue eyes, i'm a virgin and a sub, this is the first real step i've taken into the life... kinda scared... but this site looks like fun so... who knows, anyhow i look forward to geting acquainted
welcome eaving, im sure you gona get attention (plenty of it). hang around and take it slowly :)
red
I'm Luca from Italy, quite new to this lifestyle in real life even if in my mind i think to bdsm from my first birthday :eek:
When i was young i considered myself as a sick perverted, but growing up i find many book related to bdsm and with the internet era so many material about it, so now i'm more relaxed and i try to pursue my wishes :cool:
My compliments to TourGuide and to others people that spend their time to manage and keep alive this site.
Luca
Hi All,
I'm Emma, a 33 year old mother of 2. I am an uncollared submissive who is new - in a sense - to the lifestyle. An innocent? No. Learning? Always. :)
I stumbled across the site via Google and am feeling quite shy at the moment!
Anyhoo - hoping to meet others, and an owner. I guess that's it!
I am a submissive female in a M/s relatiionship. My Master and I have lived together 24/7 but recently I moved out due to business and personal reasons. He and I still have a very strong relationship. The move had nothing to do with the relationship. We still have found ways to continue the relationship long distance and to see eachother as often as we can. Though, it does get difficult, at times.
Recently, he gave me a task. For an entire day, I was not allowed to give myself anything but "gentle touches". This might be fine, for most girls, but I am an extreme pain and humiliation slut. The day it happened, I ended up having to face that "gentle touches" turn me ice cold and I do not respond to them well in any way, shape or form. So, being terribly frustrated, mica suggested I come here and introduce myself. I guess, because she felt I would be among people that might be able to help me or at least accept me the way I am as I still (after many many years... I have known I was a painslut at 6 years old) have trouble accepting what I am and that I need extreme pain and humiliation just to get me even aroused.
Welcome Dslave. Nice to have you here :)
Y/you know, I've posted without introducing myself (I tend to just barge into conversations, etc.) so...apologies to A/all and am just saying "hello." I've done some force fantasy stuff but hang out mostly at dolcettgirls. I just kinda stumbled into this place (story of my life ha ha) and found it interesting. Looking to expand my horizons, blah blah. Peace to A/all!
Hello, CCBlonde. I popped your intro over here, since this is where it belonged.
Welcome to the forums. Look around, have fun and feel free to post. We don't follow internet BDSM typing protocols here, so you don't have to slash your pronouns unless you really, really want to.
hello thought i,d introduce my self and say hello i am twenty five year old male sub owned by a beautiful goddess, i found the forum and loved the free exchange of knowledge. I am still discovering my limits and my loves. so all knowledge and ideas help. :D
Hoy. Yeah, I'm an 18 year old female in my very own M/s relationship. I don't know what to say right off the bat. I don't know what to add but for you I will say what no one can know.
My very own turn on's are 2 males with me, both dominant. Maybe I'm asking too much. I recently attended a GLBT fest and met the local leather group. It was certainly an eye opener.
I'm still new, not too trained and have a preference for rebellion. Hmm... maybe I do like pain.
So yeah, now that you online users know things about me that my closest friends haven't found out yet I think I'm done talking.
More to cum
-SR
Wait, I just re-read what I said and realized I told you nothing.
The last 3 days have been the most (what I figured) unlikely for me in my life.
I had my 2 males and it was- yummy.
The day after I had the best orgasm to date.
The last day my master involved actual bondage for the first time. Granted, I didn't obey even then. Yeah, the pain was... good.
So, NOW you know what other people don't know.
-SR
Sorry for the fauxpas!
Regards,
plato571
Quote:
Originally Posted by plato571
*looks up, looking confused*
Um..what?? What faux pas dear?
sl
Hello-I am Windryder and am fairly new to the D/s lifestyle--Myself and spirit are working towards being 24/7--I have heard this is a good place to seek advice and guidance from other Doms--Welcome anyones comments or input
Hello A/all,
I'm a malesub from Chicago, and here via an indirect invitation from fellow author, Carmenica Diaz.
I've posted F/m stories on various sites over the years under the pen names of Mike Hunt and Myker.
My entry into D/s began on the dominant side of the coin many years ago. A chance encounter with a young, budding Domme several years ago proved to be the catalyst of my metamorphosis.
subfever
I guess I should introduce myself now. Even though I have been here around for a wee while and been posting a bit. I enjoy the format of this. I'll continue on posting here for a while longer.
Anywho, I'm from Edmonton. ever so curious which city in Alberta the Admin resides in. :) I'm really new to it all, haven't even tried it at all. Everything is just fantasy for me - may be a bit too much. I digress, I am a virgin. But that's ok, right?
Yeah... so hi, everyone!
Quote:
Originally Posted by Xelebes
I'm about two and a half hours west of you.
I suppose a straight forward albeit brief intro is appropriate. I’ve been in a Dom for 20 years and I’m good at what I do. No games or part time roles. I am located in the southeastern USA and I’m a biker. If there are any particulars you would like to know, ask. As mentioned, I’m very straight forward.
I came upon this forum quite by accident, read a few of the threads and posts and thought I might join some of the conversations. Most of the posts seem to come from genuine Dom/subs so, I thought; why not give it a shot. This is the first and subsequently only forum to which I belong so hopefully, something productive will come for Me and as maybe others as well.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Slick
A couple of PM’s prompts me to give a few more details:
48 yo
6’3”
230lbs (Fit)
Travel extensively on business (US and Asian countries).
Travel extensively on pleasure – mostly on my bike.
Asian cultures exposed me to the Dom lifestyle 20 years ago and I actually honed my skills from Asian cultures.
…anything else, please ask.