My Introduction

Just wanted to say hi to everyone out there, and thank all of you in advance for guiding me down the path of my online submission. It took me a long time to get to this point, but I now feel like I am ready. If I don't get back to any of you in a timely manner, please be understanding. I could very well be on a large fire or emergency somewhere in the country. I will, however, do my best to get back up to speed upon my return from these emergencies. I don't really have much control over when I get sent out. Please feel free to teach me in the ways of being a true submissive. :rolleyes: Your mind is my only limit :) Hope to hear from you all in the near future. Until then, stay safe and enjoy life.

Hi all!

I'm a 20 year old female submissive involved in a very loving D/s relationship. While I have been interested and learning about the lifestyle for nearly 4 years now, it wasn't until recently that I finally began to experience the true D/s relationship I've always longed for.

I am very interested in meeting other submissives, as I don't have any friends involved in this lifestyle. I am obviously not in need of a Dom/Domme though I am always friendly and polite when shown the same.

I like the usual fare of verbal degredation, humiliation, bondage, moderate pain, and the psychological aspects of D/s.

Hope that shed some insight- see ya around!

Welcome Julie Les and congratulations on your first attempt at "writing." It's so refreshing to watch someone "discovering" their "inner feelings" and trying to put their fantasies into perspective....(or reality, who knows). Don't worry Julie, we love you here ... and we won't tell hubby! :)

Joined today and greetings to All/all from Ireland! i'm a 41 y o (well, in 3 weeks!) subbie gratefully owned by my adored Master. In the 18 months we've been together i've learnt so much it sometimes feels like my head is spinning but i've not regretted a moment of it. i see that most/many members are US based....i'm intending to take 3 months sabatical next year and visit the States for the first time (NY, San Fransico, New Orleans and Bermuda are on the agenda so far) so it would be great to 'know' like minded folk in these areas. Similarly if anyone is planning a trip to Dublin please get in touch - it's a grand little city!

sarah

Hi all,

Just a quick intro....

I live in the southern part of the UK, working as webmaster for a large web site. Been visiting this site for over a year now - finally thought it was about time I became a member.

My introduction to bdsm was many years ago. While as a teenager, I became "hooked" reading stories about kidnapping, bondage and other aspects of bdsm. I am in the main a Dom, although occasionally I do "switch" when I am in that frame of mind. My main tastes are tight (rope) bondage, humiliation and spanking.

I have been very lucky over the years to have had a succession of subs to play with, although at the moment after a break from the scene for a few years, I am without a partner - watching, waiting, searching......

There was an article on spanking in last weeks Sunday Times (a UK top paper) which some might find interesting. You can read it here:

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/newspap...188983,00.html

Thanks for introducing yourself and thanks for the link, a very enjoyable and witty article. Wonderful to see such a good/positive piece in such a high profile publication.

Hi Everybody,
Reading all these posts made me feel a little rude, as I've been lurking around this site for months without saying a word or introducing myself. So here I am!
I'm a submissive female in Ontario, Canada, currently not involved with anybody and just hoping to chat with people here and maybe make some friends. None of my friends know anything about my interest in these, so sites like this are my only places to chat with like-minded individuals. I've noticed that there are quite a few Canadians around here too - if there's anybody else in the GTA, feel free to drop me a line!
Have a great day and thanks for letting me lurk and read all of your posts for the last few months, lol.
Caro

"Perverts are forever going on about how their particular interest is really the most freeing, marvellous thing, and how, if everyone wore rubber and attached clothes pins to their delicate bits, the world would be a happier place. "

LOL

That article was quite amusing! Thanks!

Ah, well, after having written a bit in some other threads, I suppose that it's time to introduce myself, more or less. Ah-hem! Greetings, people, I'm TheDarkOne, a student from Scandinavia. Been interested in BDSM and subjects related to that for quite some time. But unlike many others here (or so it seems :p), I haven't had any real life experiences (so perhaps I should change my info above from "Dom" to "Dom wanna-be" like Morbius has...). I'm fine with that, however and doesn't expect that any fantasies or kinks of mine shall become reality, at least not anytime soon :).

But I do read a lot of stories that contains subjects like that on the BDSM library among others, and look at BDSM artwork and such. I also play japanese slave-training simulations (and similar games), which can be quite fun to do :D. Well, that's it for me. As I'm often busy or at times don't have much to say, I don't think you should expect much more than a comment or two or so on a subject from time to time, althrough that depends on if I'm actually discussing or something like that in a subject and not just giving "my 2 cents on (insert topic of free choice here)"...

*steps down from the box* (or is there any questions? ;).

Welcome to all new members and to those who after a while decided to drop a few lines in this thread too :)

Drop by the chatroom when you have nothing better to do

Greetings friends, other submissives and to the Doms and Dommes i bow my head with respect:
i am a 42-year old submissive in the NY area and i wanted to introduce myself as a new member. Your intro suggests that we speak about our special interests and delights, and i am delighted to have discovered over time that i love the verbal part of D/s, the talking. Maybe it is the gemini influence in my astology chart, but i find erotic words to put me over the edge very quickly. My Master has a way with his words that makes me wild in that regard. i love to be verbally humiliated. (i find the word humiliation a bit inadequate, but given the lingo of our community, it is the best word so far for communicating to others. If anyone has discovered or uses a better alternative, i would love to hear about it. In general the erotic aspect of my Master recognizing what a slut whore i am despite my outer presentation to the world as a successful professional woman is what i refer to here. And an aspect of our relationship that i love). Also i very much enjoy light pain and the subspace that it can take me to at times. i also love it when my Master chains me to something to wait for him. i enjoy sitting on my knees, which feels like the right place for me when i am with my Master and chains of all kinds give me an erotic thrill....bondage in chains, wearing chains, chain outfits, chains around my neck or ankles or feet. The feel and texture of chains, the metaphor of my slavery, all of it makes me wild. There is also a part of me that likes to go very young and wants to just be taken care of. There is a part of me that wants to be fucked for hours at a time and treated like the slut that i am, even being taken to others for their use-in a safe and disease-free context of course- while my Master looks on. There are many other things i have never tried but would like to. i feel honored that my Master knows what i need and gives it to me.
it is exciting to find an active forum for the d/s lifestyle and i welcome correspondence from like-minded people.
Au chaunte, monsiers and madamoiselles
little thing victoria

Greetings everyone,

Thanks for the invite. We're looking forward to reading some good stuff and perhaps making a few friends along the way. We're married and play well with others *wink*

Until soon

Us

my first post :D

I would add to the post above that I am the recent and very proud owner of the little thing who introduced herself above as myMastersProperty, and joined this forum as per my instructions.

she is very beautiful, intelligent, and accomplished on the outside, while inside she is quite the obedient little trashy cum, piss, and cock loving slut whore that she confesses to being, and, although our relationship is rather new, I have used her satisfactorily a number of times.

I have named her "cock lover victoria", for that it what she is, and I am quite proud that she is my property.

I'm happy to add my addition to the long list of introductions. I've been reading the stories here for a couple of years though this is my first foray into the forums here. I'm currently attached to a wonderful submissive woman that makes my heart and soul sing. Unfortunately, while we're both on the east coast of the US, there's 1000miles between us at the moment. But (longing sigh) our reunion isn't too far off.

I was introduced to BDSM in the form of japanese rope bondage while I was living in Kamakura, Japan in the mid 90's. With the quiet, subtle and patient determination the Japanese are known for, my girlfriend there thoroughly hooked me on lifestyle. I've been traveling this road ever since.

Recently I've picked up a hobby in leathercraft. I've been turning out collars, cuffs, whips, paddles and floggers at a speed that would make Henry Ford proud :) My goal is to have my entire collection forged and tooled by my own hands. I think there's just more character to a piece thats been sized, styled, and crafted just for you and your play partner(s).

I also enjoy discussing, debating, sharing, etc, the ideals of the art, not just the technique and tools. Anyone can swing and paddle and make it hurt. I like to talk about why swinging it is so much fun, and why the hurt feels sooo good :D

Cheers for now!
J

Yes, I would like to introduce myself since I am a new member. I have joined because I was not able to find many things that attract and excite me in real life. I am not going to give too many details now, but although I have had a few long term relationships (as well as a couple of short-term ones) I have never met a man or a woman who would take me on a journey that I wanted. I have always been open and straightforward about what I like and although a couple of times I had been indulged, I still felt that it was done more as a favour, not for mutual enjoyment.
So here I am right now - I guess trying to find more about myself to begin with, and to meet people that share similar tastes. I suppose I would like to meet somebody - a dominant sensual man or woman - who will help me explore my sexuality on-line first with a possibility of a personal meeting. \
Ella is not my real name, of course, but it will have to do now. I am a young woman - petite, brunette, of slavic origin. I am attractive. I would offer more details if anybody would like to know more...

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I have never met a man or a woman who would take me on a journey that I wanted. I have always been open and straightforward about what I like and although a couple of times I had been indulged, I still felt that it was done more as a favour, not for mutual enjoyment.
So here I am right now - I guess trying to find more about myself to begin with, and to meet people that share similar tastes. I suppose I would like to meet somebody - a dominant sensual man or woman - who will help me explore my sexuality on-line first with a possibility of a personal meeting.

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What is usually the most important step in any journey is the First one. So congratulations on doing that. Sometimes the longest and possibly most fulfilling journeys start with one simple step.

Your's is a journey of discovery. There are many paths available to one in the journey. At the end of the journey is the discovery of your submissive soul. What you seem to be asking for is a Dominant who will guide you in this journey. There isn’t a set speed or even specific markers that need to be met. The journey usually consists of wonderful times and also times when you and your D/s partner need to slow down and talk about what might have misfired. Talking about everything and allowing questions on all things is really the most important quality in a Training Dominant.
D/s is actually all in the mind. You don’t need any toys, chains, whips or anything else but the mind set and will to Dominate or submit. What you do need is the willingness, and eagerness to explore this lifestyle whether beginning on-line or in real life.
One last point, you mentioned your attractiveness. While that might be good or bad in some relationships, in a D/s one it actually doesn’t matter. What is important is the deepness of your conviction in discovering your submissive soul. The “beauty” in that is immeasurable. Feel free to either post here or email me (check my profile for the address), if you wish to discuss this a bit more. Good luck in your journey.

SirW

Hello all,

I'm also a new member, having been encouraged to join by my wonderful, loving, perfect companion and submissive, onlyforhim4ever. We are a real-life, nearly 24/7 couple who love each other more than either of us ever thought was possible. Yes -- we both got extremely lucky! She is the most wonderful woman I have ever met, and her submission to me is the greatest gift she could possibly have given me.

We hope that will be both be positive, contributing members of this forum!

- Warren

Me? Hardly worth mentioning.

I am an American who lives in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. I am only able to log onto this site thanks to an illegal satellite ISP. (Saudi Arabia censors the net.)

As of last month, I am no longer in a relationship. (Hurts like a bear.)My (ex) wife and I were never into BDSM, but I like the stories and illustrations.

So I guess I am just a wannabe.

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So I guess I am just a wannabe.

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You're here, and there's educational stuff and just talk, too. Everybody here is a wannabe, because they wannabe here! :cool:

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Originally Posted by Frito

Me? Hardly worth mentioning.

I am an American who lives in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. I am only able to log onto this site thanks to an illegal satellite ISP. (Saudi Arabia censors the net.)

As of last month, I am no longer in a relationship. (Hurts like a bear.)My (ex) wife and I were never into BDSM, but I like the stories and illustrations.

So I guess I am just a wannabe.

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Are you not taking a great chance?
That part of the world is a little wacky isnt it.
I heard that the fundlmentlist are going around blowing up Americans and doing all that beheading stuff.
I may be underemployed and have a crappy job but atleast I dont get killed doing it.

You got guts dude I'll give you that.
Please stay safe and come home soon.
Moby

A little beheading never hurt nobody. Besides, if you can't take a joke you have no business living here. :p

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A little beheading never hurt nobody. Besides, if you can't take a joke you have no business living here. :p

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Be carefull, and don't do anything that you can loose your head over. Adn over there it isn't a joke.

New to the forum and have enjoyed it very much. Nice to see others with similar interests. Anyone into Ponyplay????? :D

Sidewound

Yes I am interested i ponygirl play, But I am missing one mager thing and that is a female slave to be my pony. though I am not interested in a sadle pony, more into show, and cart.

Welcome!
Ponygirls rule^^

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Ponygirls rule^^

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Thay don't rule. Thay submite. Masters, and Misstress rule. And oh how thay can submite.

Oi. I guess some of the blokes here are not familiar with American slang.

Let me rephrase. Ponygirls are the best.

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this one is from Pune, India, 23 sub, sissy,.

Thank you for taking the time ,Goddess.

A friend of mine suggested that I write about my experiences and the
beliefs that have evolved over a lifetime of discovery about my
sexuality. I was reluctant to do this because I look at what I am at
present as just another stop on a journey. Who and what I am now may
change in the future. I certainly have changed from who and what I
was in the past. I began my "alternative lifestyle" as someone who
was primarily a submissive, but who topped others as a way to in turn
be topped. I switched in order to be submissive. I gradually became
primarily a Dominant, who switches to enjoy the best of both worlds.

I know that some would say that a switch is not a true Dom. These are
the purists in this lifestyle. My experience has been that people are
all over the map with this, and there is no right or wrong, no way of
practicing D/s or BDSM that is any better than any other way. The
trick is to find someone with whom you are compatible. Since there
are rarely perfect matches in life, it becomes a process of give and
take, a situation where each person says, "I can adjust for your
needs, if you will adjust for mine." Even those who practice what we
refer to as "vanilla sex," have the same kinds of adjustments to make
with their partners. Communication and adjustment are the key things
all kinds of relationships.

Anyway, my friend suggested that I might have something to say about
alternative love and life. While I am not sure about this, the idea
of recalling some of my experiences has some appeal. I hope that the
reader will bear with me as I tell some stories about things that
have happened to me, while occasionally discussing some of my
opinions about what works best when interacting with others who are
trying to mesh their needs with yours. I hope my recall is accurate
and not too self-serving, but being human and not having a super
memory, I am sure there will be times when facts, names, faces and
times may not be entirely accurate. I also hope that my approach is
appropriately modest and entertaining. If not, I am sure you will
look elsewhere.

Looking back from my childhood I realize, I had "different"
tendencies as early as around age 9, when I became "excited" by
something I read about Indians capturing a pioneer, tying him to a
tree and torturing him. Later, at 14, I was fortunate to find a copy
of "The Kinsey Report" under the couch and spent the summer reading
it. Of course, a 14 year old boy is interested in everything about
sex, but the information about BDSM was particularly interesting and
arousing. I managed to keep seeking and finding things to read about
it at a time when there were not a lot of things being written. It
was also years before the Internet and computers and very difficult
to find others with the same preferences. What little written
material I could find was enough to keep me very interested and
experimenting on myself as I grew up. I used a variety of things with
which to tie myself up and wrap and stimulate my testicles and penis.

As an adult, and being somewhat submissive, I managed to talk a
number of women I dated into letting me tie them up and bring them to
climaxes orally or through intercourse. The motivation was to
eventually get them to return the favor, and a significant number
did. Most of the time, I had vanilla relationships, in which I looked
for every opportunity to work in the bondage aspect. Some
relationships were more successful than others. Early on, I spent two
years in the Army. The year I was in Korea allowed me to pay local
area women to put me in bondage and bring me to climaxes through oral
and manual means.

Over the years, I learned more about the lifestyle and realized that
while I enjoy switching, I prefer being on top. The computer enabled
me to find many others who shared my needs. We all have discovered
that there are many more of us out there than we imagined. It has
allowed many people to discover and experiment with that part of
their sexuality.

Some of my steady subs and I have switched on occasion, but I am the
dominant one in a relationship. Because I have been on the bottom, I
feel I understand what my partner needs and have a better ability to
take her there. I understand what it feels like to be in bondage,
spread-eagle, and to have one's legs stretched to their limits. I
know what it feels like to be flogged and to have nipple clamps
attached and later released. I know what electric stimulation feels
like and how it can add to an orgasm. I know the need to be
controlled, to feel helpless and owned. I also know that people are
all over the map with this, and have different preferences. I accept
that and work with it.

I have also discovered that many subs want to start out easy, but
really desire to have their limits pushed a bit each time they get
together with a Dom. I understand how hard it is to trust someone the
first time with your bound and helpless body... but what a rush it is
while doing it. I do respect all limits and always use safewords and
regularly check on my sub. I use safe words like "green"
for "go", "yellow" for "take it easy" or "slow down", and "red"
for "stop." I have had subs in situations of being in helpless
bondage and telling me "no, no," as the nipple clamps are applied. In
these cases, the word "no" usually was a part of the scene and not
meant to make me stop; however, I usually checked to make sure by
asking, "how are you doing." While the question can distract a sub
and take her out of the scene a bit, I would rather be safe than
sorry by making her use a safeword. As the experts say, "safe, sane
and consensual" all the way.

Well, as they say, enough about me. Perhaps I should share some
stories from my experiences to illustrate my beliefs about what makes
a Dom a good partner. I understand that others my find that they have
better ways of doing things. I can only write about what has worked
for me.

love,
dark0slave. [/IMG]

Well I'm new to this site, K rather I'm new to the forums. I've know of the site for a while now, but the forum section is knew to me. I found the forum section via a search for my master's name and found a posting of his previous sub who mentioned his name, which was rather cool.

As for myself, I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for about 10 years now, all of my adult life actually.

I have been fully collared and am owned by my Owner and Master (Mysteron).

I enjoy chatting with fellow subs and slaves, but I am not allowed to chat with other dominants and switches unless the first contact my master asking permission to talk with me.

well this looks like a great site, take care everyone.