I would definitely be interested. I think it's a great idea for slaves and submissives to get a feel for the liftestyle.
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I would definitely be interested. I think it's a great idea for slaves and submissives to get a feel for the liftestyle.
lol..it seems many people are interested, but nobody will take the innitiative to do it! Just a casual observation..
You make a good point fetish101. Personally, being relatively new to the forums and not having the wealth of experience that some other site members have, I don't know what people would want and what would be considered acceptable/achieveable or too boring.
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I would love to be a part of it as i know my master will would check and see if i have done my tasks correctly as well as it would take some of the presure off him for coming up with things for me to do.
TTFN Poodle xxx
So this challenge - it would need to be for all genders at least it seems. I guess what I'm thinking is - how many people can any one challenge appeal to? As you'll see in my profile I like anal play (and everyone has a derriere!) but its not everyones cup of tea, likewise if it involved clamps of various sorts and so on. Perhaps one of the many interested subs there seem to be could relate something their dom(me) had previously made them do, and challenge the other subs to do the same?
There are a lot of unowned subs and a lot of subless doms on this site, apparently, and this could be an opportunity for both to try their wings. My suggestion would be to add a seperate forum for doms that wish to post instruction, and subs could browse through and find whatever kink suits them, and post whatever response they're capable of, be it picture, sound, etc.
For those subs who are untrained and completely inexperienced, it could also ease them into the lifestyle--you more experienced doms, I'm sure you can think of some tasks for beginners. I like this idea, because for those of us who are still uncertain, it gives us the opportunity to experiment without the threat...well, not threat, but intimidation of a real world scenario.
Posting this in the forums would also provide the benefit of everyone else's personal experiences with specific tasks that just about anyone can try. Kinky, fun, informative, and safe. Wow.
I feel there's definitely enough interest here to give this a try. What I will do is figure out a quick set of guidelines (like, not requesting tasks that aren't completely safe or something like that) and begin a thread for the Subbie Task in either the My BDSM life or Sexual Fantasy area in a couple of days.
Once I get it done, I'll post an announcement to the site to let people know it's ready so interested parties can have a look at it.
Sound good?
Ok, sounds good. If there's enough responses I like Morrighan's idea of having its own forum. Thanks BDSM_Tourguide!
Yes, I like Morrighan's idea too.
Interesting idea, amazing concept. I look forward to seeing these ideas further developed, and the possibilities that could arise from them.
~jazzie
I like the idea, but I can see on or two problems, first I like to point out that I don't have anything against the other doms, but I can see that some one might ask a new sub to do something which might be to much for them or beyond they limits,
I think that some form of profile descript, which will allow the dom's to see that the limits and the no go areas are for each sub, before they ask them to do something.
I not shore if this has come up if so, sorry, but will all the subs who has register, will be advible to all Dom's to assigned a task too.
This project requires a good task manager program. The Dungeon section was setup for this subbie task, originally. The program is designed for online school / course / education. I think it is very suitable for the task project. It has all the elements we need: give instruction (textbook), hand out assignment, give test and score the progress, etc. Don't you think the subbie task is just like giving slaves / students a lesson and testing their progress?
I agree with Master Chris's concerns. So we do need a good guide line for masters/mistresses as proposed by Tourguide. We need responsible masters/mistresses to initiate this project.
But my comment was that a program such as Jinn described would be good for subs who already have a dom, but leaves the rest of us out in the cold. I understand Chris's reservations about the safety issue, but I don't see how allowing subs to browse assignments and select one that suits them would be dangerous. Experienced doms could post assignments and rate them beginner, intermediate, advanced--I'm sure you knowledgable folk could figure something out. Sure, there's always a possibility that an ambitious sub could choose something that's too hard for them, but the doms shouldn't be posting anything that's a danger to life, limb, and health in the first place.
That's just my opinion, and it sounds like the system's been pretty much decided upon anyway. And it could be I just missed the part on how it would work for subs who don't have a dom...if someone else caught it, could you explain it to me, please?
Morrighan
For my 'five penny worth' I think this is a very good idea.
Having had some experience of training women using the web to accept and examine their submissive feelings, I reckon that this is something that could bring positive benefits.
It will allow the sub to explore their own intimate emotions at a pace suitable and acceptable to them without the feeling that they must commit to someone before they get to know their limits etc. The idea of undertaking the Tasks and then submitting their reports will also enable the guides/trainers to assess their progress. It will also enable more experienced Doms/Dommes to guide the trainees as they travel down the road to developing and enhancing their submissive nature.
Very interested in assisting if asked.
Drayman:)
I'd like it if the task system allowed the subbies to compete, would be a way both for them to challenge themselves, and for them to be grateful for the task
For instance, what I'd do is assign each task a difficult, 1-10 or something, with agreed upon standards or a judge.
Then, a subbie would submit their performance, and be judged by the community, if they agree to judging, I'd allow them to opt out if the so desire.
Then we'd rate them, and the average rating * the difficulty would give them a score
After a certain number of "points" accrued, they'd get a special icon in their posts, but they'd also become inelligible to do the easier tasks...
what do you think?
I think that because all everybody is here is typed words on a screen..something like judging would be difficult, unless pictures were taken and then posted. Otherwise, you're judging the sub on their writing ability, not necessarily on whatever the task was.
I'd have to respectfully disagree. :oQuote:
Originally posted by fetish101
I think that because all everybody is here is typed words on a screen..something like judging would be difficult, unless pictures were taken and then posted. Otherwise, you're judging the sub on their writing ability, not necessarily on whatever the task was.
This would assume that all tasks given were physical or would have visable components to prove.
An additional factor I'd think would be that in D/s relationships, trust and honesty are inherent and permeated throughout it. To require visual proof negates the trust that should be present, and assumes dishonesty. While at the same time, I fail to understand of what benefit it would be for the submissive to entirely make up a written response to their task. If we were utilizing this system for its intention, it would be for learning and growth neither of which would be a reward for pretending.
~jazzie
Yes, I suppose you have to assume honesty. I suppose also that the people who would actually take the time to get involved in this would probably be for real.
When I posted that I guess I was thinking about the thousands of losers out there that would pose as a sub and write down their supposed experiences, but they're actually just some moron with a rampant imagination.
Quote "This would assume that all tasks given were physical or would have visable components to prove.
I agree with Jazzie, the training does not need to require physical tasks. I have found setting trainees mental and emotionally based instructions can be just as beneficial in their development as for example, requiring them to sit with clothes pegs on their nipples for a set period of time.
In addition, the trust and honesty element of the relationship, provided it is undertaken by both parties, enhances the training. A Dom/Domme can physically ensure that tasks are completed in a r/l situation, whilst the Dom/Domme in an on-line training regime relies on the honesty of the submissive, if the training is going to benefit her. She would thus be forfeiting the benefit of the training if she resorted to lies and deceit.
Drayman
Subbie Tasks could be, quite literally, anything they consent to.
A subbie task could be anything from having her "Look up the reference to Azrael and report, in no less than three pages, single spaced, who he was and what he did" to having her fit as many clothespins on her tits as she possibly can.
However, we're far more likely to get girls that would rather do the former and guys that would rather have the girls do the latter. Remember, this isn't about how perverted you can be; it should be about how creative and imaginative a dominant can think to make use of a submissive.
Use your imagination and get cracking. I'll have somehting up on this in a couple of days. I just need to figure out what format this wioll work best and how.
As one of the original founders of the "Subbie Task" idea, I am pleased to see that the concept continues to draw interest and comments. I have always thought that it's an idea of considerable appeal and possibilities.
I believe that what is necessary is for a Dominant to post an idea that a submissive can carry out...either in written form or supplemented with pictures. I currently have no submissive, and I would have preferred to assign a task to one who wore My collar if I were assigning an "ice-breaking" task.
Here is a possibility. I have always found the idea of gags to be erotically stimulating, but I know that submissives do not always agree with Me.
And, of course, there are many different forms of gags. There is the penis gag and the ball gag, as well as the cloth-and-stocking gag, the scarf gag, or just plain duct tape. Is there a submissive who would be willing to try all the types of gags which I have enumerated above (plus any that I may have overlooked) and then provide a written account of her reaction to each? I believe that, for the task to be valid, it should be a submissive who finds the idea of a gag attractive, but then again maybe a sub who does not particularly care for gags could provide an equally valuable response.
I would also suggest that the submissive doing this task provide snapshots of herself wearing the various kinds of gags to accompany her written reactions to each.
I will be interested to see if there are any takers for this idea, as I am sure that there are many submissives who are well able to express their thoughts and ideas on it.
Sincerely,
Paul :)
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I was working on it some more last night. Just have some patience and it'll get finished. I know it's taken 18 months or so, but another week or two won't kill anyone.
I really like this idea. If I can be of any help, Tourguide or Jinn please send me a PM.
Regards,
This sounds like a great idea. Not only will it help people, it will be certain to generate some interesting discussions.
Barton.
:whines and complains to anyone within earshot:
Not my typical behavior, I assure you. But.... hmmm... :nudges you Doms for attention:
~jazzie
I havent' had as much time to put into things lately, being a stay-at-home-dad, but I'm still trying to get it going. Hopefully, it won't take too much longer. I'll start posting updates as I get things worked out and finished.
BTW, Jazzie, I love yout new signature. I love that song for its words. It's got a really great message and I'm happy to see Alanis back and happy finally.
Sign up now!
The Subbie Task feature in the BDSM Library Dungeon is now open for sign-ups. Get registered, fill out your profile and read the rules to see how the new feature will work.
Subbie Task should be open for business on May 10, 2004 (barring natural disasters or acts of God).
According to the poll posted in this thread, there should be 37 of you from these forums signing up for the Subbie Task feature at BDSM Library Dungeon. So where are you all?
I've only got 31 sign-ups so far and only about six or seven names I can identify from the forums here.
I look forward to seeing some of you get signed up.
I would like to at least hear from:
kimberly (if she's still around)
Paul{k}
YNHumiliator
veru skjava (if she's still around)
Lady Amanda (if she's still around)
jeyline (if she's still around)
ladydragon (if she's still around)
kym
red~vixen
fetish101
Slave Poodle
Morrighan
Alex Bragi
drayman
lordsachiel
slvWriting
Barton
I'm not trying to single people out, but these are the people that are interested in the idea and, to my knowledge, have not yet signed up for the feature.
The feature officially opens on May 10, 2004. Get registered now.
I have been busy lately and haven't been keeping up with the boards as much. I'll be signing up though. :p
I have now completed the profile document and look forward to taking part in the venture. :D :D